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i want my hair to be long like miley cyrus.. how can i get my hair to grow faster?? and longer? please help me

Nothing can make hair grow faster.

Vitamins like Biotin can make hair healthier. Sometimes it seems like your hair is growing faster. I damaged my hair so much that I took those vitamins every day for about 2 months. I started off with chin length hair and hair almost past my shoulders. The healthier your hair is.. the faster it will grow.

So trim those split ends and try to avoid getting them. I wouldn't suggest combing your hair while it's wet.. even with a wide tooth comb. Let your hair air dry. Avoid blowdryers. Flatirons. Don't put too much product in your hair. Never use rubberbands in your hair.

You can try a new shampoo. I used Mane N Tail. It has proteins in it to make your hair a lot thicker/fuller and healthier. It made my hair look a lot longer and softer.

You could always get hair extensions! You could go to a salon but that's expensive. You could go to a beauty store or Sally's. They sell tracks of hair that you could either glue in or clip in yourself. Clipping them in is probably good. I think it's about $20 or $30 for each track. But if you do decide to do that, remember to get enough to go around your whole head. You should also try going in to a salon to see if they would give it layers or you could do it yourself. You could also try curling the extensions too if your hair is slightly wavy.

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how do you get these eyelashes like that
http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q16/kikisawhale/mememee/ghey069-1.jpg

I get a similar look by using
Cover girl's Fantastic Lash and Cover girl's Triple Mascara. Curl your eyelashes for a while too.

Me: http://i16.tinypic.com/4zn4r4z.png

That's like 6 hours later. So the mascara is good.

You could get the same look by buying any XXL mascara, something that will thicken and give you length. If you curl your eyelashes before and after you apply mascara, it will work.

Good products:

MAYBELLINE - XXL Volume & Length Mascara

Maybelline- Lash Stylist. [it's waterproof and stays on for a long time in my experience]

here's a picture of someone using it:
http://static.flickr.com/41/105934578_f48473e4b3_o.jpg

And line your top lid with a dark eyeliner.

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I got a hair cut recently and it turned out really bad. the front is like just above shoulder length and the back is like middle back length. it looks really bad. Any ideas on how to change my hair with out cutting it to short?????

I would just put your hair up and leave some of the hair in front down..

or get another hair cut.

I had that happen to me and I would always push the back hair in the front.

Maybe you should get some more layers by the sides and trim the back slightly so it's all even out.

Look at pictures for a shorter cut. i could even help you, if you're looking for something specific.

Do you have a picture of your hair cut? Maybe it fits you.

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I just got my wisdom teeth out
all four of them at the same time, my bottom two were impacted. and im in a LOT of pain at the moment.
is there anything that can help with the pain
Im already on vicoden but it isnt helping...

Yes ice cream can help. Sometimes it's too cold for your mouth and it could make it worse. Give it a try?

Did you ice your cheeks? Ice packs. A cold washcloth. Frozen peas or something.

I've been there and done that.

I took drowsy medicine and just slept through it when vicodin wasn't working. :/

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i was just wondering if anyone here knows where i can find pictures of dylan efron ( zac efron's little brother ) i've been looking everywhere!
myspace, google website , anything.. just as long as you know its definitely him.
thanks!

http://www.zefron.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=191&pos=0

eh, someone on that forum said it as him.

i can't find any other pictures though.

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omg does this woman ever smile? got any pics of this?

Yes. Just look at google images

There's a good one here

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victoria_Beckham

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when you had a best friend that became your boyfriend, is it possible to become boyfriend to best friend again? =/

Yes, it is possible.. but only if you two break up mutually

If someone has feelings for the other, it's going to make it a hard friendship. You'll want to kiss them and hug them. It may be awkward. You'll have to talk about it. If you're really close with them, they will probably value any kind of relationship with you.. Even if it's a friend one.

For me, I was with the guy for over a year and well it took some time for me to get close to him again. It worked out and now I have a new boyfriend.. The guy is still my best friend.

There's always going to be slight jealously problems.

A lot of times, people can't work it out because one doesn't want to lose the other. If you really want your best friend back, you have to work for it or even wait.

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im a brunette, and i was wondering what are some colors that will go along with tha brown color .

how much is getting your hair two-toned?

Usually a light brown or even a blonde will work. Anything else like black or red won't blend together well.

It really depends on the salon. Sometimes it's costs around $60-70.

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i asked this question before, and no i don't want the same answers like no you cant becuause i know theres a way. but how can you make your breasts larger? someone answered and said eating butter, but how much, and when i went to look at the answer it was gone. so whoever answered with the butter thing, can you tell me again in more detail? and doesn't not wearing a bra to bed make them sag when you get older, or does it really help? thanks

Gaining weight is the only thing, really. Without implants.
Honestly.. I have never heard of eating butter and it doesn't sound healthy.

You didn't put your age, but your boobs stop growing around your 20s.

Wear a bra to bed if you feel comfortable. But you actually need to have them "breathe" at some point, so night time is good. As long as you wear a bra when you're active in sports or running, they won't sag as much.

You could always wear padded bras. Those are pretty comfy but yeah, most girls that are rather thin won't have big boobs unless you gain weight. Then your boobs will gain fat.

Look up some exercises that will tone the chest muscles.

You probably still have some growing to do. I had like nothing in 8th grade. But my freshmen year I grew to a B cup to C cup in the middle of the year.

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I want to create a site where I can write blogs and add quotes. Similar to Xanga, but something different.

Any sites in mind?
Thanks!

Greatestjournal.com

Livejournal.com

blogger.com

mydeardiary.com

opendiary.com

deadjournal.com

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does fingering hurt?

cuz, my bf wants to be finger me.
but i've always been not exactly
scared, but like hesitant.

so is there any pain whatsoever?

As long as you tell him you haven't been fingered before and that you want to take it slow.. It should be okay. Talk to him about it because if you don't, he may think rough is what you want. Make sure he cuts his fingernails too. My bf didn't do that.. and well.. OWW?! Tell your bf to start with one finger. You're tight down there so a finger is going to stretch it out a bit. It may feel a bit uncomfortable the first few times but you'll be stretched out a little for you to enjoy it.

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okay my friend used to be all goth but he changed into ghetto gangster kind of style and i asked my friend"werent you goth before?" and he said"yeah but boring now" and he also talk with a slang like bruh and all do you think hes a poser?

No.

People go through stages to find themselves in life. A poser is being something they are not. You can't really label him yet. I mean, if he's being goth around close friends.. and being gangster around a big group of people.. then I'll think he's trying to be something else to fit in.

People will always change.

That's why you shouldn't always keep a certain image of them. Styles will always come and go. If you're surrounded around a certain thing, you may start to learn to like it. It also works with the way he talks now. He's surrounded around by slang, so you eventually start to pick it up.

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i wanna give a guy a blow job, but im scared to ask . i dont wanna look like a slut or something. is it fun? it kinda sounds like it.

Just wait for the right moment. Get to know the guy, because you need to trust him. You won't look like a slut but you know how guys talk? Just ask him when you're alone. You could always ask if he has ever gotten a blow job before.. That could spark a conversation about it and you could bring up that you want to give one.. that you never have before.

I think it's fun. :]
To know that I can pleasure my guy like that.

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okay i wanna masturabate so bad.
and i have been looking up the were to do it and stuff.

but i cant find it. i know you have to like stick your fingers up your vagina i think
but whenever i do that it hurts

help i need to know EXACTLY where it is and how to do it with out hurting

Explore basically.

You need to know about the female anatomy and know where you are touching exactly . So look at some pictures online, those diagrams. You may not look exactly like that, so that's why you need to take some time to explore with your hands and to know where everything is.

Since you haven't done it before, it's going to hurt. So you only need to use one finger for now. You need to be "wet" or "turned on" for this to work.. because if you're trying to stick fingers up there while you are dry.. it's going to hurt. It's going to take some time for you stretch out and to feel used to it. You may not even get any pleasure from this.. Everyone is different when it comes to this. Some girls do feel something while others need to stimulate themselves.

Usually, if you find your clitoris.. you'll be able to have fun while masturbating.

Continue to look up where to do it and stuff. that really helped me.

I would say more but I don't know if it's appropriate for this site :[

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where exactly are you supposed to shave your downstairs if your a female. iknow you can shave it all of, or trim and leave a little, but where exactly is the best areas to shave off the hair.

Yeah, do whatever you're comfortable with.


Most just shave their bikini line and trim the hair.

Or you can do it all.

You don't really need to shave everyday. Maybe 2-3 days.

I think you should only do that.. if you're going swimming or if you are letting a guy finger you or something.

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http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=homie.jpg
helloo.
im megan.
that picture up there is me.
:]
im getting random platinum blonde in my hair.
chunks.
streaks.
oh yess.
and.
i was wondering yalls opinion.
on one clip-in coontail.
by the right side of my face.
[black and platinum for the colors on it.]
:]
thanks in advance.

Go for it! :]

If you don't like it, you could always put it somewhere else or take it out.

I want to see when it's done :]!

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Are there any songs out there about eating disorders?

The only one that I know is
Maria Mena- Just a little bit

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Just-A-Little-Bit-lyrics-Maria-Mena/651E46F0467B974748256EB5000B20BA


"clearly, clearly i remember
pulling up my shirt
and staring blank ahead

clearly, clearly i remember
days of useless crying
and almost feeling dead

oh perhaps, perhaps if i was smaller
perhaps i could control myself
perhaps if i was...

just a little bit stronger
just a little bit wiser
just a little less needy
and maybe i'd get there

just a little bit pretty
just a little more aware
just a little bit thinner
and maybe i'd get there"

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I'm getting my wisdom teeth out next monday. I wasn't worried about it much until today because today was the day I scheduled it. I need to get them out before school starts, so this was the best appt to get. I'm not sure what it'll be like though. They said I have a 'bony impaction' or something like that, and the sheet I got says I have to wear short sleeves for an IV. I really have never had an IV before & I think they seem like they'd hurt a LOT. Basically, if you've had your wisdom teeth out, what was it like / did it hurt a lot?

Thank you so much in advance.

I never had an IV before until that surgery. It doesn't hurt as bad as you think. The needle is very tiny, just don't look at it or you'll be nervous.

Well, I was asleep most of the time. I wouldn't do laughing gas.. I woke up a bit dizzy and completely numb. So if you feel the same way, then you MUST cram in any solid foods you'll like.. because you'll have a week of liquid, soft foods.

Make sure to take your medicine because you'll need it. Of course it hurts and your cheeks will swell up. You can ice your cheeks. It's going to throb and it's going to hurt when you try to open your mouth just a little. So buy lots of soup. You need to eat as much as you can.
If you get the medicine, you'll probably get attached to it pretty quick. If you take it, then you're okay. It hurt a lot for me because I had to have 4 of my wisdom teeth taken out.

Experiences are different for everyone. But it's going to be sore.

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What is the best mascara you've ever used?

Maybelline Intense XXL
AND

Lash Stylist Waterproof Mascara

http://www.maybelline.com/Product/Eye/Mascara/lash-stylist-waterproof-mascara.htm


I love Lash stylist. It makes my eyelashes really dark and it's the best waterproof mascara I've ever used. I've gone swimming in it and it's still on. Meaning it's sort of a pain to take off if you don't have eye makeup remover :]

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okay so my cousin dyed my hair dark brown but like.. it turned out black. and in some spots its fading but some it wont. does anyone know how to get it out?

You can buy a hair stripper. It will strip out the color and be uneven, but the black will supposedly come out.. so you will be able to dye another color over it to cover it up. using that, really damages your hair so you'll have to get hair treatments that deep condition.

shampoo a lot. you could even leave some shampoo in your hair for about half an hour or so. hot water makes dyed hair "bleed" the color out/fade. you won't get good results after one try. black is hard to get out without bleaching.

you can try to go to a salon. probably make your hair healthier when they remove the color than doing it yourself.

a dish soap cap sometimes works. you put dish soap in your hair for 20 minutes or so and you buy one of those shower caps.. put it on. it takes away the color.. but you probably won't see the difference until a few tries.

you can wait so your hair doesn't get damaged. but yeah, "once you go black, you never go back"

i dyed my hair black about 4-5 months ago. still have some pieces in it.

whatever you do, you need to condition your hair a lot so it doesn't get fried.

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