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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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i have blue eyes and dark hair and i really want to bring out the blue eyes. i have so many eye shadows and stuff but i usually dont wear them. does anyone know any good colors or any make-up i should wear? thank you.

I'm the same as you and the person below me is wrong
NO BROWN WHATS SO EVER.
It just looks awful.

Use any blues that looks really good and sometimes why dont you use no eyeshadow and some really nice blue mascara - but dont put too much on -you'll look like a clown.

Silvers and Grey are great for us blue-eys.
I have a silver liquid eyeliner and it looks great - i even put it on my eyelids and that looks go too.


If you have blue eyes it goes like this

Colours we can use
-blue
-greys
-dark colour
-some purples

Colours we cant use
-green
-brown
-pink.

To make them really STAND OUT
blue eye gloss or creme looks really really good.
Mint colours also look quite nice.
A bit of masacara looks good too.
Never forger the corners of your eyes

I recommend barrym make up or miss sporty makup, they have online sites.But if you live in the usa I dont know because i live in the uk]http://www.barrym.co.uk/

Some people below me are truly wrong YOU CANNOT WEAR LIGHT,BRIGHT COLOURS like
pink
yellow
orange!No way.

Have you ever seen someone with blue eyes go down the road with orange eyeshadow?If yes then their weird ha!
http://www.miss-sporty.co.uk/

see what others recommend
http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061124150119AApiRvW

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I have been married for 8 years. My husband and I have grown distant over the past 2 years. I started sleeping with someone which I don't believe in, and still can't believe I did it. I fell in love with this other man and he is the father of my newborn. I still love my husband and do not want to hurt him, but I do not want to hurt the other man either. I believe in God and that he doesn't believe in divorce, and the roots of this are so deep now. I would be happier with the other man, but does that matter at this point?

The person below me is right follow YOUR heart.You may love your husband but you don't love him as much as you used to.Theres no point ending it with the man you slept with because you've made a family with him and it would just be selfish on the baby to end that relationship.I think it is time to have a talk with your husband and tell him that you're not happy and you feel it is not working, you also need to tell him about your other relationship and about the baby, you say you love your husband, so tell him the truth he deserves that dosnt he?
You have a new baby and a new love and you have this emotion thats new and you dont feel it with your husband.Theres life in your new relationship.You need to tell your husband gently about it and apologize.For him this may be unforgivable.But you can't go on living a lie and not taking a chance.If none of us took chances where would be in life?If you didnt take a chance with the other man - you'd never you loved him.Tell your husband the truth and the sooner you leave the better, then ask him a few months later that your ready for a divorce.I really hoped I helped.And also remember - your not doing this just for yourself but for that baby too, if i was that baby and I greew up , I'd be really upset if I found out that man wasnt my dad.Its a new life for you and the baby.

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http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v248/dancehottie887/DSCN0750.jpg

that is my picture. i asked a question yesterday about my hair. now i need to know about makeup. what would be some good makeup tips for me?

Ok,

STAY AWAY from pink eye shadow - it wont work on you plus it will look as if you have sore eyes or been crying

DO use different shades of blues - it will look great --trust me

Do use grey eyeshadows , liquid eyelines etc and silver ones - you'll look a million dollars/pounds ha!

Any musty dark colour will look good

Some greens dont look bad but you need to be careful.Black will just look horrible - you'll end up lookiing like you got punched.

Lilacs are really good.
A bit of tan bronzer wouldnt look bad - that'l give you a bit of a sexiness,confident look going on.

Dont put cream or white on as an actual colour use it as a base.Dark purples - dont use i unless your using a lighter colour.Use some eyeliner to show off your eyes.

For lips i suggest something very clear,something glossy but if they arent you're choice of lip makeup i suggest a really nice light listick and a tasty,smelly lipbalm.

Got get 'em!

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My Daughter is 11 and she tells me shes old anough to babysit but i dont know if she should. I started babysitting when i was 11 but i want to make sure its a good age. Please help!

Lets put it this way

-do you trust her
- has she done things wrong in the past
-is she good at school
- can she take care of herself
-is she reliable

This is something she wants.To prove to you she can do it whilst gaining independence, answer these questions above if your answer goes like this
yes
no
yes
yes
yes

then she'll be fine, if its not reconsider.

BUT, the thing is , she might feel reallt afraid alone - she might say oh no I wont be scared but when it comes to it you can be.Its a hugh responsobiltie and whos fault will it be if something goes wrong?She's only 11, and i think if she were that might bit older then it would be acceptable.
yes
yes

then she'll be fine, if its not reconsider.

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Some of you may know the website iconator.
It's just basicly AIM icons. I recently
became interested in making some. I tried to
read throught the tutorials but it didnt make
any sence to me. Can someone explain how to do it
where I would get the stuff to do it, I just want to have nice backgrounds with quotes and hearts and such. THANKS

I dont know how to do it EXACTLY myself but you can have a go here on mytheme.com you can make them online, it isnt what you were looking for but it is a start

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I just got a new dog, and I named him Theodoric, the- (like in theatre) ah- (like a scream) door- (like what you open) rick (just like it sounds). I don't mind calling him the full name in the slightest, but I want him to have a cute little nickname. Any ideas?

Thats a really good name!
How about

as a nickanme from theodoric
-theo
-doory pronounced door-E
-ric-ric
-ricky
-the-the like fi-fi but THe-The
-odo - pronounced ode-oh
-oddo - pronounced -odd-oh
-ori - pronounced - or-E
-OREO - yum I like those and its a good name
-heo - prnounced he-oh

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I love polar bears, but I can't ever find any cute aim icons or avatars. Can someone help? Please.

Ok so I've searched instead of the lazy people below me ha!And here are the results which are adorable!


Loads here
http://www.iconator.com/search.php?query=polar&stype=icons&icat=0&vcat=0&acat=0

tons here

http://www.franksicons.com/library/template/0145/1



couple here
http://www.iconhell.com/search.php?q=polar


A few various ones here

http://www.coolbuddy.com/icon/icons_aol02.htm

hope i helped

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Okay, so I want to paint my room because I've had bright green and I'm getting sick of it. I want to paint my room a lighter color and I guess more "mature" looking. At first I wanted to paint it purple and have a theme of purple black and white but now I'm thinking I should paint it a light brown color. Any opinions? I'll take any, and I won't rate you low if you say something I don't want. Thanks!

I think cream,buttermilk coulour and a lilac colour is absoloutly gorgous but if that dosnt float your boat i suggest just buttermilk and then you can get curtains and stuff in a different colour so you kind of have two colour in the room and if you only have white ot buttermilk you can change the accerosis of your room ie curtains ,whenever you want!How about getting blinds so you can spray pain the colour you want every few months or something!

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ok i have 2 questions.. you dont have to answer both.... what kinds of jewlery are in? & are scarves weird to wear with an outfit (not a coat and winter stuff)?

a SCARF adds a perfect touch and isn't weird.
There isnt a particular style of jewellery thats in.I think the jewellery that is in is like really light,petite , gentle jewlerry that you need to be really careful with, crystals,dalmonties,rhinestones are in so anything with them on is bound to be a winner

diamons,or rhinestones like this
http://www.delmontesmelsonjewelers.com/webstore/judithjackN1036.html

Want more of an idea?Go here

http://www.claires.com/

but also novelty things or famous things like
-mickey mouse,hello kitty

arent to bad to wear either.Keys and trinket things are in too.

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Okay, so I'd be wearing this dress http://img183.imageshack.us/img183/4412/pd6vl3.jpg to our prom(we have a cocktail party theme). I just wanna ask what cover-up can I wear with this dress cuz they say that the venue is cold. I don't wanna freeze, you know.... Like, should I wear a shawl, bolero(cropped jacket), or something.... please help me cuz prom's already next week!

get a shawl - it should match your dress,makeup, or shoes.But you should by a thin one which you can wrap around the arms and then round you neck - if you kind of understand, you wrap it round your neck and then wrap it waround your arms.But you dont have to , you can just put it round your neck and back as normal.I love the dress!

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im gona get either a tiny fat wrinkley dog or a tiny pug or a tiny chiwawa~i wana name it after a cartoon character~can you say the cartoon character and the show its from~any suggestions~thanks

srappy/shaggy/scooby - scooby dooby doo
evanna - londons dog - suite life of zack and cody
dudley - estebans chicken's name in suite life of zack and cody

santas little helper - the simpsons (their dog)
mickey/minni - mickey mouse
donkey - the donkey in shrek
shrek - shrek!
sebastain,flounder - the little mermaid
tigger - winnie the pooh
thumper - bambi
wendi - peter pan

Some are from cartoons and some are from films - hope i helped

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thought i ought to tell ya- on ur profile...where it says aim- it means aol instant messanger screen name, not what you want to be in life.


hows england?

I'm a bit stupid - oh well ha!!At least you know.

I take it you live prehaps america?

Englands rainy but my idol Mariah Carey came over to london this week so thats exciting!Oh and the news iis all about britney shaving her hair!

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We have a couple. The man crosses the river to work. When he is supposed to come back home, he doesn t show up. The woman worries and tries to cross the river to find her husband. A cannibal offers to get her across the river ONLY if she has sex with him.
Who has the biggest share of fault in this story?
Go downwards for instance
1)Cannibal (Biggest Fault)
2)Man (Medium Fault)
3)Woman (Less fault).
There are no other variables. You dont know how long was the husband was late, or if he could communicate and didn t etc.
I will tell you what it means on my feedback. You ll learn interesting stuff about yourself just by answering this question.


This is not like the usual dumb quizzes you find on the internet.

Well there are two

1)the women has the biggest fault because she should have more self respect- and besides, how do we know she wanted it?

2)the man has the mediun fault because even if he couldnt reach her in anyway he could if you love someone you'll quite your work meeting for example.

3the cannibal has the smallest fault because yes he was doing something wrong but he wasnt hurting or murdering or making people worry where they are

or

1 - the cannibal buggest fault because it is filthy and disgusting and someone needs them and they should help them in their time of need

2- the man has the medium because he could make her think all sorts of things and he could of done something to let her know - heck if he loved her he'd walk to the nearset pay phome or borrow one.

3 - the women has the less fault because she loves him and she'll do anything just to know if he is ok.

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I'm writing a play about gangster love /story

I would love to hear stories from gansgter and stuff or maybe self experience about gangster ,

I'm want to write this play to help people understand the gangster mind...

I have done a lot of research but I would love to know more .....

thankyou,

I know that there are a lot of gansta things around my house but its usually between two gangs
- one who who live around my area
-and another that live no where near where I do

In gansta and ghetto fights, it can contain a lot of fighting,guns and stabbing aka "shanking"

To brush up on some words - go to www.urbandictionary.com

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im gettin a tiny dog i need names.i like 'food names' or different names like 'turtle' for a dog i love that name for a dog or any 'unique names' or oppasite like giant for a tiny dog~so any names that are ~food~oppasite~unique~other animals~stuff like that

How about

Pickle
Bfg
Doog-gle
Onion - that rocks
Milo
Sundance
Skyler
Midnight
Yogurt
Eclipse
Maroon
Babushka - I love that!Pronounced bab-bush-kar
SooLah
Merci = pronounced mer-rooch-eey
Dabble
Rocky
Kinky
Burger
Cheese
Smikey
Elda
zeus
zukanna
Xbrangel = prnounced ex-brang-gel
Aboo
Nee-Nee
Ree-ree
Octa
Meminta
Daisy
Pap-Pa
Canderson
Pinkerbelle
Doganna
paprika - I LOVE IT!
Gorgonzola - the cheese!
hummy
jenkinz
Fenzie
Yak

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http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:o1qNPyIPT5ZA_M:http://blubanana.co.uk/shop

what kind of shoes are these???

and do you think they would look good with this dress??-
http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:0wo_7k-rywVqSM:http://img.slate.com/media/44000/44320/tn-3-Rouff-coctailDress.jpg

do you think they would look good together for like prom or somthing...i want to look different then anyone else...
Can anyone find me maybe a better dress to go with those shoes cuz i love the shoes?!?!?

The shoes and the dress do not go
To go with the shoes - polka dot high heels, you need a plain black dress

http://www.asos.com/Going-Out-Dresses/Cat/pgecategory.aspx?cid=2631&showall=true

But the shoes I dont really think are suitable for a prom the rest of you'd have to look really elegant.

If you' want to wear the dress you'd need black shoes or the EXACT shade of pink.

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you know on piczo you can have a back ground colour to your font? what's the html for that? I think it's like but i think that'll make it the back ground colour to the page

You dont need a html to make a background colour for the text , go to tools, then click on text
under what font you want it says
colour - for the actual text
and next to it it says background - for the background behind the text.

Hope I helped,
skyler-sadie.piczo.com - thats mine!

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I need to advertise my column, but how? I don't have alot o fmoney, so i don't want itto cost. Is there a free way?

you know - type in your name in google it works, I did it for mine!!But make an icon linking it yours or put it on a myspace thing.Or make a blog.If you have a piczo it'll worke easy!

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Last night my best guy friend stopped by around 11 ish or so. Well, I ended up kissing him, dispite the fact he has a girlfriend. I've liked him for so long, and I just had to take a chance because I didn't want to keep wondering what would happen if I hadn't done it.

Well, now I'm not sure what to do. He seemed to like it, I mean he kept asking to stay for a couple more hours, and he invited me to hang out later today. But I'm kind of curious as to what I might expect. He told me he liked it, even though I totally caught him off gaurd.

But where should I go from here?
Should I wait and see what happens?
Or should I try to make another move?

Dont make another move.
You need to ask him what he is feeling, and that kiss meant more to you than just a one off.You need to have a good conversation and ask him

-what he felt
-does he like you
- what you gonna do about your girlfriend.

Apologize for doing this, when you knew he has a girlfriend and take it from there.Also keep distant if he feels confused too.

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K ill make this short. My male friend (13) says he is going to have sex with his girlfriend on Friday night. I really really tried telling him all the consequences about AIDS and Pregnancy and how young he is etc. He wont listen to me! I really care for him, and im not shure how to tell him not to have sex so he would listen to me. If anyone can help, that would be great.

Like someone said, get him some condoms.Also if you are that worried tell his parents - or least tell him you will ~ it might be blackmail but its all to help a friends.Prehaps slip some leaflets into his lockers and grusome pictures to put him off it.

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