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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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My boyfriend and I want to start a salt water aquarium, but we don't know what kind of fish we should get. Any ideas? or any ideas on what other pets are good for us? (we're both 17 and we don't live together, but we want to get a pet that's just ours)
maybe getting the same fish?.. like you know, those fish that in a "schoo".. maybe get a couple of those. you dont want fish that dont like each other and will eat each other.. lol.. sorry, i tryed.. hope i helped
is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related?
no, i was in a relationship that the guy wanted sex. and he didnt get it, and we broke up b/c of it. now im in a perfect relationship, we were dating fro almost 6 months before we had sex. so no, not all guys are in it for that. and i guess just by dressing sexy can make a guy go crazy?. but yet that will make him think of you guys in bed. so im not sure about the second part.. sorry.. hope i helped
Sunday I am getting my hair cut 10 inches and donating it to locks of love. My natural hair is kind of frizzy and wavy. I usually wear it like that because I dont want to damage my hair. I usually straighten it on fridays and the weekends. When I get it cut should I wear it naturally or should I straigten it? I dont want to give frizzy hair to lock of love but I want the hair stylist to see how I usually wear it. So help please.
its best to have your hair dirty when you go. they wash your hair and everything(it will cost more)) but when they will do what they want with it. but i think it would be fine to straighten it before you go.. but they will probably wash it, since you are going to give it away..
Ok well me and my friend wants to watch a movie in the theater on friday the 13th but my dad wont' let me because it's a bad day and sometimes people die on that day (he told me).
Normally I don't go out so it wouldn't matter for the day but this is rare for a lifetime to go out with my friend!
My dad doesn't beleive in anythign either but he only beleives in friday the 13th..
Does anything bad happen to you on friday the 13th?
I just think he's scared since friday the 13th is a dark day i'm gonna get hit by a car or something.
well, my prom is friday, and if anything really did happen on friday the 13th then im sure my school wouldnt want to have their prom on that day. and you know those so called "goth" people that do crazy shit on those kinda days, just watch out for them. like on 6-6-06 everyone said something bad was going to happen. my birthday was on that day and i was fine.. lol.. only 2 days later i tore my acl haha.. but yea, my uncle's bday is on a friday 13th. so i really dont think nothing happens, unless you bring it on yourself, like going partying and all that.
Hi I have a very petite body and I just bought these beautiful really wide legged pants that fit nice and snug on my bum. Now my dilemma is what shirt should I pair with it, I dont think I should pair it with a wide top because of the pants, and alot of the the less wide topes arent dressy enough. Do you have any opinions?
how about a long shirt, like one that goes past the belt place. but not covering your butt. then have a big belt over it. then some high heels would really pull it all off!!
How far is a mile in blocks? Like 5 blocks? I don't really know how far things are but can you give me about roughly how many blocks I'd have to run for a mile on the street?
it really depends on the block i guess. if you live in a city like new york or whatever, where the blocks are a good size, im guessing at least 6-7. maybe 8. but if your blocks are small, then i guess your going have to just guess. im not good at that either, but i know it really depends on the size/lenght of the blocks
i really need advice. I have track for two hours everyday after school and my school is about 30 minutes away from where i live, and so i basically get home at 6. this week i have a HUGE science project due, a math quiz thursday, french quiz wednesday, english project sue[[that i barely started]], history test monday[[maybe tuesday]] and PLUS my birthday party is saturday! AND i give a history presenttion tomorrow!!! im real stressed and i KNOW i dnt have enough time to do ANY of this! in my track you can skip one day, well i ALREADY skipped today!!! and i feel bad skipping another day, but im stressing with all my homework and projects and tests and quizes, PLUS i havent taken a shower in TWO days because of it! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!
school comes before after school sports. tell your track coach that you have tons of homework this week, and need to miss another day or so. they will understand, b/c the law or rule or whatever is that school comes first. if you start to get bad grades, you cant run track.
how exactly is a makeout catergorized... like if i kissed with my boyfriend how long wwould it have to be for, and like how many kisses who you have to do and what not for it to be considered a makeout..and also im young but my boyfriend and i want to make out...so i dnt know how...how do yyou???answer both please!!!
well, how young are you?. haha. if your like 11-12 then maybe you shouldnt be kissing.. haha.. but okay. i think a make out is like your kissing for like atleast 10 mins. and kissing i mean, tongue in mouth. well okay, so you like massage his, with yours. youll probably suck at first, but the more you do it, the better. make sure you just dont just like leave your hands resting beside you, move them in his hair. but yea, if your 11-12, please dont even make out.. haha..that like young.. hope i helped
lately,my best friend and i arent as close as we used to be.we talk and everything but it just feels like something is different.i used to be able to tell her everything without thinking twice about it but now i do have to think twice because if i bring up say my b/f she will be like oh my god do you have to be always talk about him and i might just say his name.she has no b/f so that could be it but i cant talk to her like i used to about anything.i might ring her just to see how she was and it would be like what do want in a really mean voice.
i rang her today because i was really upset because my granny was rushed up to hospital and im very close to my granny.she sounded like she didnt care and just giving me the impression like is that all i rang her?why did i ring her?and if i acted that way to her on the phone she would get really pisst of with me.
i just feel like we cant talk anymore and i feel like we arent the best of friends we used to be.what should i do?i tried talking to her about it but she wouldnt listen.please give me some advice im really stressed out about the whole thing.xxaoifexxx
the boyfriend thing kinda had a help in me and my best friend not being friends. she might just feel unloved((?)) that you have a b/f and she doesnt. that just might be it, i dont know about you, but i talked about my boyfriend all the time and well i know she got sick of it, so i stop, so maybe try that?. and since you tryed talking to her, then try again, tell her how you feel, even if it seems like she doesnt care, that way she can still know, you know?. i hope you guys can become friends again. hope i helped
what do you when you like someone soooooooo much that its hard to talk to them and you tried asking him out(by the way I'm 14 female).I tried everything i even wrote him a note. So should i just have someone talk to him for me or try asking him out again I just dont know what to do!!!!!!.
dont get to the point where hes like sick of you asking him.. try once more, over the phone or computer, and talk to him about it. ask him what he feels about you and stuff like that.. hope i helped
hi, does anybody know any songs that are about a girl [ or just a person in general ] liking someone and not knowing if the person likes them back? or just a song about a person like another person?
just something in the general area of a girl liking a boy, haha.
Going Crazy-Natalie.. thats a good one.. its kinda more on the line of a break up..
have you ever-Brandy
stupid cupid-mandy moore
Avril lavigne.. she would have songs like that.. hope i helped
I'm 14 and weigh like 115-120 and idk i just feel fat. and idk why i feel fat. I dont eat supper of breakfast usually. just llunch at school so people dont think that i am starving myself. but i almost want to for how bad i feel. and what is something i can do to fix my butt. like one side is bigger than the other! kinda freaky! but if you can help me by telling me why i feel like this and a safe way to make me feel better about myself that would be just dandy! thanks
i think you might feel this way, b/c of the changes your body is having. it will probably pass. or maybe you have an eating disorder and need help. but lets not think that. its actually very bad to not eat, and can cause you to gain weight. your body will start to store the food you give it, cause it will start to know, it will not get fed, so it will keep the food you give it for as long as possible. and by your body storing it, it turns to fat.
but for yuor butt problem. well just do butt things.. like squeeze your butt together and let it go.. lol.. funny i know, but it works.
but if you keep having this feeling of fat, and im sure your not, then tell a teacher, one that your close with. and maybe they can help. or just go straight to your parents. hope i helped
Alright so me and my boyfreind's 1 year anniversary is next month and i haveeee no idea what to get him!?!?! i was thinking about an ipod but i found one at ioa one time and gave him that... but i dont know, i cant think of anything.. which is werid cuz im really creative...
please helppp..
a picture book w/pictures of you guys.. lol.. and put poems and love sayings and cute things in there. i dont know about you, but i still have the wrapping paper from my x*mas gift and stuff.. so maybe have a part about all the stuff he got for you, and if you have them like i do, put a little of that stuff in there..
or find a cute good picture of you two, have it inlarged, and put a poem on the side, and have a sunset backround, it may coast a bit, im not sure, but thats what my boyfriend did for me, and i thought it was super cute.. hope i helped, if you need more stuff. just ask, i'm pretty creative like that, so i can come up with more!!
Okay heres the deal. i can do a front handspring and a round off and a back bend. and on the trampoline i can also do in addition to that a front tuck and front flip. i cant do a back handspring but i can do a back bend. does anyone have any advice on how to do this without going to a class? p.s. i'm also going to get gymnastics mats and the trampoline has a net around it. i am 14
doing the back handspring on the trampoline is a bad idea. cause then youll get use to doing it with extra bounce, and when you do it on the ground, you wont go high enough and youll fall on your face. so have a friend that knows how to do one, and has been doing it for awhile, spot you. maybe have two friends?.. but make sure at elast one fot hem knows how to spot. you need to bulid up your arms. so try holding handstands for as long as possible on a wall..
the things you need to actually learn how to do a backhandspring right, is a correct back walk over.. to do that, you have one leg out front and go back, flip over. it helps build up your arms, and the better you get at that, the faster you can go over, and that will help with the speed for a back handspring. hope i helped! and please be safe..
how do they pierce your belly button..like wat steps do they take.
i agree with them all, if you wanna know what it feels like, i say its like getting stung by a bee. doesnt hurt, but you feel it. i have mine done twice, top and bottom, both time it felt the same. like a half hour to an hour later, is when itll start to actually hurt.
if it does get infected..
i suggest you buy some kind of cleaning cream, DONT NOT USE RUBBING ALCOHOL!!.. it makes your skin smaller.. i know, my top skin is very small..
good luck!
im really pale.
and i want to do a tanning bed.
i need some info. on it.
im 13 years old and my friend said you have to be 14 years old to do it. is that true?
and like....
how do i convince my parents to let me do it.
thankss!!!
in ohio i started going at 13.. tell your parents that you want color, my mom is the one that told me to go.. haha im a white girl..
make sure, since you never went, go in at first for only like 3 mins. and work it up. if you burn easy like i do, youll stay at 3 mins. for like a couple of times, it only safe. the self tanner works, but i cant use it, it makes me orange, but its probably just me, hope i helped
Hey what I want to know is how I can make my boyfriend horney. No I am not being a tease because he told me he loves when I do it but I don't know how I did. I don't want to ask him because I kind of want to suprise him. Also I can't really dress in "sexy clothing" cuz i dont have boobs and I don't talk dirty cuz its just not cool to me. But can someone give me some information on places where I can touch him or kiss him or something that will turn him on.
Thanks sooo much!
on the ears and behind them!.. my boyfriend goes crazy with that!!
17/f, and a Junior in high school.
This year for the junior prom, I'd really love to learn how to make a dress out of silver duct tape, just to have some fun with the whole experience. My date is a good male friend of mine, and we both think showing up in silver tape to prom would be amazing and a lot of fun.
So, my question is- is there any site or any guide I can follow on how exactly to make a dress like this? I mean I know the tape sticks to itself and not to your body, but I need to figure out how to get it to fit right and the like.
Also, if you have any suggestions as far as accessories go- things I can use for a corsage/buittoneire combo or something, I'd love to hear it. Any other suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks!
im not sure about any sites, but on MADE on MTV, some girl did that, maybe if you try to find the show she was on. and watch how she makes her dress, you can get some idea.. she made a necklace/chocker kinda thing out tape also.. hope i helped
I feel like I am loosing one of my best friends. We only see eachother in school... we are in two classes together and we hardly talk cause she is talking to her other friends. I feel like I don't know all of these things about her. Like i found out through a friend that she hooked up with someone last night for the first time. She didn't even tell me. I am really upset about this. What should I do?
i had the same thing happen to me..
like the SAME thing..
i talked to her about..
told her i felt left out. and it hurt.. cause i would sit with her at lunch, and not even be talked too. i know it sucks. i told her about it. she tryed to blam it on me, but it didnt work. i dont know if your friend is like that, but just dont let her blam it on you. me and my friend arent friends anymore.. i got sick of it all. im better of now, happier, honestly. i dont have to worry about her. it sucks, but just try talking to her, and if it doesnt work, well break things off... sorry, but its what you have to do. but if she understands, then wonderful!.. hope i helped
so my bf's birthday is in a few weeks and i want to do something really surprising and special for him. i want to have a surprise party for him, but its on a wed night so it can't take very long. something just like a dinner or something w/ his friends and stuff. however, i don't want to have to pay for ALL of them. i was thinking of going to a burger stand which has outside tables... and that way everyone would just kinda get their own burgers and stuff. what do you think? or i was thinking i could wake him up in the morning and take him to breakfast and stuff..maybe have people meet us at the breakfast place before school? it'd be exciting and maybe easier but not as extravagent as a dinner. what should i do? any other ideas?
i think the burger thing is a good idea, that you way you wont have to pay for them, buy them drinks or something tho.. good luck!