FlaWlessMonoLith's advice column

tonight i was at my boyfriends house and ive been with him since october.. 16/f.. just recently i fell in love with him and its an amazing relationship ..i was at his house tonight and he and i were messing around and i suddenly have never wanted to have sex so bad in my life.. im a virgin so im kind of opposed to it.. but i mean im in love with this guy and he means so much to me its just.. being a virgin i get so much respect and i love the respect i get from it.. im afraid if i lose it im gonna regret it somehow or another.. i dont know though.. i really dont know.. what should i do.. i mean i want to so bad because its just so .. there.. but i just.. dont know.. by the way hes a virgin to.. hes 18/m me-junior him-senior

i think you should have sex when you think the time is right and if you want to that bad then do it have sex with him.... you no you want to and you know he does too im not telling you to tho im saying do which you please

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Just a random question :)

You know those jelly bracelets? The thin kind that come in colors like black, red, pink, white, etc.? Well I've heard that they mean different stuff i.e. black= had sex. So I'm just wondering, what do the other colors mean?

Thanks :)

ok BLACK = SEX blue = blow job red = lap dance green = hand job orange = kiss and pink = hug there r more but these r the main ones i no some r sometimes dif too like red can = hand job and so on

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um this sounds kind of dumb... but are big heads a turn-off or like a bad quality that would turn a guy away from a girl... my heads pretty big and i hate it but theres nothing i can do.. its a big deal to me but is it a big deal to other people.. what do you think, any advice?

ok ill try and help on this but im not bi or gay or ne thing but i dont think so bc all dicks r differnt and i think that ne gu who loves u wouldnt care adn if he does then toss him

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I hate my sisters boyfriend and I want to break them up. Any ideas how to do it?

Oh and dont even try to tell me not to.. Im doing it with or without your advice!! Muahaha!

lol i love this saying ..i gots it from aaron..... OBLITERATE HIM!!!

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Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal?

no u have a vibrater up ur butt and everytime you fight a switch gets triggered and you start shakin either that or you just was born with vibrating organs

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my parents are divorced and i live a hard life....and what really frustrates me is when i see my dad and his gf making out... it makes me sick to the stomach!!!what will make me not feel this way????
♥ indeed2

"......target located"
"...lock on.........."
"...FIRE!!!!........."
"..target destroyed.."

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Okay one of my best guy friends is home for vacation. And I really like him like alot but he doesnt know (like no one told him). And I want to go to the movies with him tonight but his cell phone and computer arent working. So should I call his house (even though we hardly ever talk on the phone and if we do its on his cell phone) and if so what should I say?
ps. I would also like to invite his best friend who is home for vacatino also
PLEASE HELP I RATE REALLY HIGH!

say "hey would u and your best friend like to go to the movies today?"

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first off I am a thirteen year old female. ok so my crush asked me out a few weeks ago, and i was happy. (hes my first bf) We had been going out for 2 days when he gave me a note that went something like this: I really really really like you. I have since the first day I met you. I think that you are as hot as fire. Owww it burns!!! Love, Josh. Is there anyone out there who would be semi creeped out by that??? I mean its kind of flattering but really weird. Anyway he sprayed the note with his adidas musk cologne (again sweet buy scary) when I opened the note in spanish class the cologne gave 6 girls including myself an allergic reaction. We ended up with rashes all over our bodies. I'm not mad at him for it i just thought it was a little extreme. He folows me around everywhere too. I can't do ANYTHING by myself. Which was nice at first but is getting kind of old. Also he dates alot of older girls and they are giving me really dirty looks, like they're trying to kill me but they haven't figgured out how yet. When we had been going out for 5 days he asked me to the movies. HELLO were only 13 he doesn't have a car. And my parrents don't know that we're dating so they probably wouldn't be too keen on driving us. I like him and all, but I think that he is taking things way too fast, and I'm not ready yet. Should I break up with him? If yes what are some good break up lines that I can use without hurting him too much? Thanks soooo much!

you must not be ready if he is your first then you really dont know much guys are like that he wants to get to no you and i think your over reacting on the movie deal bc movies are fun and its not like he asked you to have sex or any thing so no you are not aloud to dump him give it a try longer but you can tell him to back off a lil on the stalking part

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I listen to a different kind of music and it's hard to find c.d.'s sometimes. I have downloaded a lot of songs by these bands, but I want the actual c.d.'s.
The bands are:

A Life Once Lost
Isis
Opera IV
Twilight Ophera
Ablaze My Sorrow
Das Ich
Unearth
Tapping the Vein
&
Behemoth.

I can't find any of those bands albums around here. My only other resort is to order over the internet, but I don't want to spend that much.

So, question being, does anybody know a website I can get these bands at for not that expensive?

dl winmx or lime wire and dl the songs i would perfer lime wire bc it is good and fast and all but its free and some times you can find the entire albums files thats what i do

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i like guys and stuff,and in real life i look at girls (im a girl) brest...and butt...and i make out with guys.am i bi?

no ur just checking them out only bc ur comparing urself to them probly

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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry

TIME TO SLAUGHTER!!! have fun with it

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aiGht, well i went to tha mall with marissa and carlaa and ive been good friends wiith marissa since miidle school and she goes to a other high school now so we were meetin with her two friends brian and scott so we met with them at the foodcourt and i was walkin over to there table and there was no more chairs left so we took one from a other table and i tooked at scott and he kind of moved over so i could sit next to him and he seemed really nice and stuff so we were walkin around and he kept makin eye contact with me and we were sorta talkin alot and when we were on the escalator the two boys were infront of us and so when we got to the top they stopped so we couldnt get off and we were like piling on them and to my luck scott was infront of me so i was like on him.. so we were leaving and brian said hed drive us home but we were stopping at wendys first so brian marissa and carla were getting out and scott was like melanie are you gunna stay in the car with me? so i was like yea so we were talkin kind of then marissa and them came back and they were like so what did u guys talk about and i was like nuthin much we madeout and stuff (kiddin around) and he was like yea we didd im out of breathe then marissa and carla were kinda of being annoying and like touching his arms and they were like aww nice guns and he was like dont stop me only melanie cann.. does he like me? what can i do when i see him nextt

no he only wants to get to no u bc he wants to cut off ur hair and glue it to the wall

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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

i think she should pack or get rid of her stuff and then just make her room more mature looking go thru alot of stuff thats wat i did

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well i'm completely sick of being single! I want a real relationship with a guy who cares about me!!!!! but i cant find one... its depressing! I'm pretty attractive and guys like me.. but they dont want a relationship! I found this guy I REALLLLLYYYY like but he just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship so I talked to him and he doesnt want a gf right now... thats understandable.. but he does like me... except lately he's been retarded!! Like his Text messages to me arent inviting me to hang out with him or anyhing.. he's just being rude! I dont know what to do.

fuck him...... and forget bout him

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ok i like this guy and i asked him out but he was like i like u alot but i rather jus be friends. but then like a week l8er he asked 1 of my friends where i was cause he needed to talk to me and it was a good thing, but i had left school, so he coundnt talk to me. what was he gonna say, it killing me and i cant wait till tuesday.
*comfused*

i talk to him and convinced him to say sumn to you and stuff but i dont think i should tell you hmmmm it was bad ok ill tell you wait on sorry

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* 14 SINGLE Female *
- Everytime I talk to one of my friends boyfriends, they always talk about how much they love my friends. I'm single, and I always get pissed when they talk about them. Do you think it's just because I'm jealous?

yes you are jealous get a bf

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If someone could please help me on this subject I would really apreciate it. I'm scared and I just need someone to give me some advice. Write back quicly I don't what else to do and thank you. Well I'm not sure where to start but here it goes. I have a boyfriend hes 15 and I'm 13. We love each other a lot. We've been togther for over 9 months. He always tells me how lucky he is to have me , how he can't sleep always thinking of me, hes even cried right in front of me because well I said something and it mad him cry, we can talk about anything, and he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. To everyone else in the world we probally seem like the greatest couple and we are. I'm completley in love with him. Do u think hes in love with me? Just wondering. But anyways he has a promblem. I love him and it scares me. I just want some advice. I want to help himb but I could never go to an adult for help because that would break his turst and I could never do that. My boyfriend cuts himself well he has about 3 times. The first time because his Father wouldn't let him call me and he said he couldn't take it. The second time he couldn't get me out of his head. The thrid well i'm pretty sure it was the same as the second reason. This scares me a lot and I feel resonsible. I would never break up with him because of this but i feel like this is my fault. He tells me its not and he recently promised that he will stop for me because he knows it scares me. I want to help but I don't know how. I love oh my gosh i love him more then anything. I'm so confussed and I need serious advice. He also just two nights ago admitied to takeing phills. I started to cry. What should I do? How can I help him without breaking his trust? Please give me some anwsers I don't know who else to turn to . Thanks you more then you'll ever know. Please help!

i think he loves u alot and he needs help

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What are some good aim sns that aren't already taken?? i am really bad at thinking up screen names. Does anyone have any suggestions??

hmm sns r fun to make up i usually make one out of song names or using stuff i like music is one of my specialties

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