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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]
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im not really sure if i am depressed so ill just tell you how i feel and you can tell me if you think im depressed.
how i feel and have been acting:
empty
alone
scared
havent been eating a lot lately
have been getting headaches and stomachaches
havent been hanging out with my friends lately
i like to sit in my room with the lights out
i have trouble sleeping lately
i dont really like to talk anymore
get annoyed at little things
a little bit dizzy sometimes
sad
dont like to talk on the phone anymore
dont really like going places
anxious over stupid things sometimes
please help thanks
one more thing i use to have thoughts bout suicide but now its like i dont care about anything and dont feel anything.
Yes it is depression. But you might be stressing out too causing depression. I would suggest you see a doctor as soon as possible.
i have a boyfriend and i love spending time with him and all, but lately it seems that we dont really have things to talk about. and there is this other guy who i have liked for awhile and i have been talking to him a lot lately and i always have a blast with him. i like them both a lot and have no idea what to do about it! i dont really know if there is anything i can really do about this but i need some input from ohter people!
If you like like the other guy then you obviously don't have many feelings for your boyfriend anymore. After awhile,some relationships get like that. If you do have feelings for the other guy then you shouldn't be with your boyfriend anymore. Just try to talk to your boyfriend about it and then maybe decide to be friends. You can then hang out with the other guy and get to know him and see if you have any feelings for the other guy. Hope I helped.
Lately, I've been getting pretty serious with my guy friend who just happens to be 18. The problem is, I'm 15.
He, however, is still in highschool and still has one more year to complete.
Is this consider child molestation or anything like that? Could he, or I, get in trouble?
Also, I turn 16 in about a week, when I'm 16 is that still illegal?
No I don't think you can get in trouble, but it might be illegal. I know people that had that problem too. And no it wont be consider child molestation lol. Don't worry about it, you'll be fine! Good luck tho. =]
My family is all going to go to Wisconsin next Thursday-Sunday. I do not want to go and neither does my mom. We would both go if my dad let us stay in a hotel, but he said that it is too much money. My grandfather (My grandfather is who we are going there to see.) keep his house at 95 degrees and I'm not joking. There aren't even enough beds in his house! He can't hear a word that I say and I'm have strep right now so, I'm not going to talk any louder than I normally do. I really do not want to go up to Wisconsin (Mom said that she's staying here) so, how do I convince my dad to not make me go?
I rate 5's for anyone who tries
I'm sorry that your dad is making you go to Wisconsin! Tell your dad that you don't want to go because you have strep (if that's what you ment). Tell him you don't feel comfortable being there because there isn't enough beds and you don't want to get your grandpa sick? I'm not sure how anyone can really help you. Just beg him that you really don't want to go.
Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
Your not too young to be in love. If you have alot of feelings toward him then maybe you are. But don't be too obssesive over him because it will scare him away. He`s probally your first love, if you are going out! We`ll i hope i helped. =]Good luck!
When do you consider your relationship a 'serious relationship?' How do you know when it is serious?
What do you do if you're being fingered but nothings happening/you don't orgasm?
When you get fingered, are you usually kissing/making out or just sitting there or something? How are you usually sitting/laying when he does? And him?
How long was it into your relationship/past relationships until you let him finger you?
And I still can't tell if he has a boner or not? Like when we are making out and he's on top of me he'll like put his dick right near my vagina, but we're clothed of course, and I feel something, but idk?
You consider a relationship serious when you have very strong feelings toward someone. If you dont orgasm when your being fingered then maybe the guy isn't doing it right, but some girls don't reach their first orgasm until later. It depends on the moment if you make out or not. Whatever way you feel comfortable than that's the way. I've never been that far with a guy yet, so I can't answer that question lol. He most likely has a boner if you can really feel it or it's just his thingy. It's really your decision if you think your ready to go further with him. I hope I helped.
So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused.
First, she isn't your friend! You should tell her that you heard she was talking about you and see how she responds. If she admits then tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore or just try to talk to her about it.
Last night me and my friends had a sleepover and my friend is like why don't you just tell him how you feel and i was like i can't, and i couldn't because i didn't want to risk our friendship. But then when i went to the bathroom he was online and they sent an im saying that i thought he was hot! he said we'll talk later and signed off! I don't know what to do because i don't just see him at school but i see him at family parties because his family is really good friends with mine! i really need help! i find it hard to even talk to him online so i haven't yet. I really need help fast!
First, I would tell him that you didn't IM him the other night it was your friends kidding around. I think your friends were imature for doing that. I would have been really mad at my friends. But just try to talk to him and i'm sure he'll understand. =]
well, ive noticed this sexy chick around school with beautiful hair and cute teeth, i think she likes me shes the hottest girl around..but she has a bf from another town.. what should i do bc i want to be with this sexy girlll?!!
umm try talkin to her.. or see if she has a myspace or aim.
okay so im talking to this guy and hes 24 which makes it bad enough im only 17 and well he hasnt told me he has a kid... i dont want ot bring it up either.. but other then that he lies with this girl that like 5people have told me is his gf she calls me and comes to my house and like stalks me and yells at me and i dont know what to do about that but he tells me shes an ex and he just wants to be with me. and he says shes just there because she has no place to live and he feels bad kicking her out on the streets? sounds like bull shit to me though.i dont even think i should be with him though because he hasnt even told me the truth about his life. i mean having a kid is a pretty big part of your life? so why wouldnt he be lieing about his ex?
seems like he still hasnt resolved things with his ex and not coming out and telling you about it. if shes harrasing you like you said she probally just jealous because hes with you now. talk to him about and if he still doesnt seem to tell the truth, then just leave him. this is a really hard question but i hope this helps.. if you still need more help you can write back and ill try to help.
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