im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
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What does whipped mean? In a slang sense?
Everyone tells my boyfriend that he's whipped.
I think I have an idea of what it is.. But I'm not controlling .. so is there other reasons? (link)
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whipped not a good thing look on Urbandictionary.com to get a good deffintion!
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15/f
okay soo KARL acts like he likes me.
I'm not positive if he does..
im kinda scared to like someone..or date anyone..
(p.s. he kinda told my friends he does..)
my last boyfriend claimed he loved me.
but it was only b/c i boobs, a butt, a cooter..
but he liked everyone.
should i let myself like him?
b/c im soo hesatant. i really want to like him
but what if it turns out like the last one.
plus..one reason im so unsure is b/c my really good friend dated him awhile back and it didnt work out soo..should i talk to him?
well i kinda already am.but you know what i mean! (link)
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listen all guys are the same for sure all they care about if they get nething out of the relationship but number one he can always have a differnt personality so go for it obviously u have the hotts for him and number 2 ask your good friend if it would be ok to date this guy you like its the rite thing to do. all guys are gonna like the boobs and butt and w.e a cooter is idont know you make that up? haha any way dont be afraid and never talk about previos boyfriends over guys hate that and if he talks about the last gurl he dated tell him you dont want to hear that and dont kiss him before you date him hell just ditch for another girl. actually never do that.
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15/f
ive been friends with this kid for a really long time and i had sex with him not to long with ago. and it was the whole 'friends with benefits' thing. now theres another girl and he says that he was tired of being single.. but we both know that if we ever did go out then we wouldnt be able to see each other like the last two times that happened. (he lives like 30 minutes away, by the way). but still i was right here the whole time. i wish he knew that i wanted him, but i didnt have the guts to say it and he said he wanted to move on if he cant have me.. i want to move on but then again it hurts because hes prob over there fucking that girl. pure jealousy. and i dont want to move on because ive been in love with him for two years. i want to know how to win him back, like show him that its me he should have. ideas? (link)
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the thing with being with friends like that its not supposed to have strings attached so no hard feelings when he drops you like a fly and gets another girl! you can tell him how your feeling but he mite just say that being so far away from you isnt going to work out. and sometimes its not. your young for love youll find more trust me this could be just lust because you had sex with him. your having mixed feelings. future reference dont do that kind of friends thing again it messes with your mind and if you dont know the bad effects to friends with bennifts then you shouldnt be doing it at all. it hurts and is frusterating and only makes you realize that guy is a pig and a user and you dont want that in a guy ever!!!
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ok im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend.
my friends say that im gorgeous.
and so do some guys.
im not sure if i agree with them.
but that may sound like i dont have confidence.
but i have alot... im really outgoing.
kinda popular.
and im seriously not tryingn to brag
i just want to know your opion.
but why havent i ever had a boyfriend.
almost everyguy i like never likes me back.
ne advise?
thanks so much
and dont be mean (link)
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you can be afraid to go out with someone or your just not ready for one ur only 14 you have all the time in the world to think about having a boyfriend my sister was 15 untill she got her first boyfriend tis perfectly normal and im sure ur gorgous be happy with just being single making a commintmont rite now is just to much for someone your age. its not the end of the world if you dont have one it just gives more drama and gossip to go around about you and not all the time its gooD!!!
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So today my boyfriend broke up with me through e-mailing since i was getting mad he wasnt replying back soon enough before we both went to school( I know, stupid on my part) and we started arguing and we have been for the past week or so. on and off. and then hes like " I'm done with your sh*t" and broke up with me. Im like extremly depressed and I really care about him so much and hes just really mad with how bitchy ive been lately. I asked him to forgive me and he said, you'll just go back to being bitchy again.
What do i do to convince him and give me a 2nd chance? (link)
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you cant really whats said is done maybe trying to be nicer to him would help you and he would rethink things! ask him if you guys can talk and you can tell him why you were all mad at him getting things out is the number one solution to things!
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16/f
i liked this guy named Kasey for a year and
we were good friends for awhile then we just stopped talking after he found himself a girlfriend.
he started doing bad stuff.
so ive liked him for awhile now and i finally decided to tell him.
i sent him a message on facebook and told him and i got no reply.
he told his friends and my best friend.
so what should i do b/c i really really liked him and its all over with now.
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hes a jerk its all akward now so there is nothing really you could do you could do is try talking to him but if hes just a jerk about it then just think there are better and hotter guys for me than him!
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Female 14
Hello.
I just entered high school and i really like this guy. He's asian but so am i. But i dont know how to make myself look cute at all. When i see asian guys i always see them with cute asian girls! And i cant do that! I mean i really really like him and i dont know how to talk to him because whenever i try to i always wak away mumble something or do somethign embarssing like fall or drop my stuff!!! I dont know what to do so im stuck. He's also a freashman but we have no classes together so its hard for me to see him only at lunch and after school i see him! But i really dont know how to get to know him! I'm too shy and dorky around him!!! Please i need help immedately! Please and thank you! (link)
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stop liking him now if you think he is the sweetest guy ever or hes different hes not b.c all guys are the same hell just get bored of you!
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14/f
Me and one of my best boy mates have recently got together, I mean very recently, only a few days ago.
And we're both really shy so it's not going anywhere. I mean, we don't really act like we're going out apart from the fact we generally walk around together and hug when we say goodbye.
If we were alone I'd be much more comfortable, but we havn't been alone since we started dating, and I feel really self-conscious in front of everyone else.
What should I do about it?
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well make a date with him either go to your house or his or go to the moveies or mini golfing is fun getting some ice cream w.e gets you two alone!
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If someone fingers you are you still a virgin? (link)
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some people may think so its how you think it should!
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Hi! I was just wondering how to get over this? Okay so I went over this guys house. He used to hate me right but when he saw me last week he said hey. He also kept flirting with me and stuff. Then he let me sleep in his arms. Until this girl he liked got on myspace. He started talking to her so I went into the other room and cried my eyes out. I went past where he was laying in the floor and he looked up like he knew he had hurt me or something. He looked like he cared. But he didn't cuddle with me until his future g/f got off. Then he talked to me about his school and our realtionship and how we used to be good friends. I hate this so much. I'm never going to get over it. I mean does he like me again or is he too much in love with all the other girls he likes. I don't know. He makes me want to starve myself and die. I just want to end it all. My life gets worse everytime I'm around him. But I like him. What do I do without involing talking to him? (link)
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if you dont love the guy then go to another there others you know dont sacrafice your life to one thats jsut a waste of time hes an ass leave him !
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I need hekp to try and get a boyfrined or at least to get a boy to like me. I always see questions that girls ask about tips on flirting or getting a boyfriend; I also try to use the advice, but it just never works! I'm generally very confident and talkative, but guys still don't like me. Does the fact that I talk a lot make me come off too strong? I just want to know, are there does anyone have any tips on how to be better with guys, aside from the general "be confident?" I'm in highschool, by the way. (link)
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umm maybe the guy doesnt like a real talker dont scare them off by starting to talk to them like you are their best friend a casual talk really and flirting there is no way to start flirting but taking his paper off the desk then laughing or something like that!
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I'm on my third week of birthcontrol
and my period started yesterday which isn't supposed to.
I was wondering if I should continue taking them or if I should stop and start again once its over because I don't want the period continue for a long time like it did the first time.
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with birth control its supposed to mess up your period! after time your period is less!
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i went out with this kid for 7 months and we broke up about 4 monhts ago. all of our friends are friends so its kinda awkward when we all hang out. now school just started and were in the same homeroom, lunch, and spanish. i still have feelings for him, but i dont think he has any for me. i at least want to be friends with him because i just miss talking to him and i think that we could be really good friends. The only thing is i don't know how to go about to this. Like, we talk alot on the computer but never in person. i want to go back out with him but i think i need to start off by just being friends and then getting more and more flirtier once were comftorable again...the problem is i dont know how to start talking to him.
HELPPPP
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online just say i miss talking to you. we should be friends and it gets easier from there in person!
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how do u start an essay about yourself (link)
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well if its about your life start with my life started a long time ago. what i did cuz i think we have the same problem here ! i said it all started when my mother and father gave me life.! its weird but its better than nothing!
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Okay so recently I have been thinking that I am BiPolar. Ive searched on google like all the signs and symtoms and I have some. But im not sure. My parents are in total denial..ive told them many times that i think im bipolar and they wont believe me. Im 16 female by the way. I want to see what you people think.
This is like really hard to explain for me..so i will try my best. I have racing thoughts..pretty much all the time..especailly when i want to fall asleep. My mood does change quickly..my parents even notice it but they think its nothing. When i feel like overwhelmed..like i feel like "im at the top of the world" i hate it!! Like i try and think of things that will make me feel at the bottom of the world. Its weird. I critize like everyone mostly..but just my family usually. Sometimes i cant even remember saying hurtful things to my parents..they just come out of my mouth. Sometime i just want to be alone all by my self instead of hanging out with people. I think of my self very highly like (i dont want to sound conceited or anything). Those are most of my signs that i think can relate to this disorder. So what do you all think?
Thanks for reading. (link)
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i think your just being a teenager thats what most people do. unless your happy one moment when your talking to someone and the next your really mad yelling at them. thats bipolar dont work your self up b.c you mite what you put in your mind can actually happen the mind is a powerful thing!
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I don't even know if that's what I should call it. But I'm 22 years old and I'm afraid of needles. I think it's because when I was younger I was always sick (prematurity, emphysema etc.) and I was always getting blood work, shots.
But I have a dentist appointment because I think I might have some bone loss going on and most likely teeth are going to be pulled. What can I do to calm myself down about having to get a shot? (link)
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well when they get the needle dont look at it and have someone come in with you and hold your hand !
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i just got a new puppy. an american eskimo. and shes 9 months old.
we have her outside a lot. but she never uses the bathroom outside. instead she pees and poops inside. which is not good, obviously.
help? :/ i dont wanna get rid of her. (link)
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its hard to train dogs what you have to do is when she does her lil business slap her noes not to hard and say NO! real loud!
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F/15
Okay. So heres the deal: I dated this guy for about 3 months. Even though that isnt very long, I really fell for him...hard. We've been apart for about 5 months now and I still can't get over him. He's a senior this year, and Im a sophmore, but I always see him in the halls. Everytime I see him I try to play it cool when he waves or says hi to me but inside im dying. I feel exactly like I did before I ever went out with him, only this time its not just a crush I have on him I love him. I really miss him but I dont think he misses me anymore since so much time has passed.
To make matters worse, I've been doing some really stupid things lately, one of which is getting high and coming to school. Last week I was high and remember parts of what had happened that day, but everything I dont remember, my best friend filled me in on. When I was crazy high, I remember going up to him and hanging off of him, telling him to dump his new girlfriend, or that I would even be open to the fact of him cheating on his girl with me and i told him that i loved and missed him. Im sure I did more than that, but I do remember sayin something along those lines.
Please..I need some kind of advice. I feel so pathetic for trying to hold on to someone for so long. (link)
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there is no real way to get over a guy it takes time. sure youll think about him but some otha hott guy will come along!
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15/f
ok my best friend, is gonna be a highschool drop out, i just know it. i can see it already. its only the second week of school, and she stayed home, because she didnt feel like coming. and then her mom does her math homework, because she doesnt get it, and i told her that she should go down to a lower math class, but her mom wont let her, and her mom hardly ever wakes her up in the moring. i mean she is so irresponsible. and its getting annoying. and like she always will be like, well dont you think itd be fun to skip class? or do drugs? like just a little.
what should i say to her? i dont want her to drop out of school (link)
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you cant stop your friend from doing that the best you can do is say that if you are going to be stupid just think how its going to affect you when your older.
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14/f
uhm i'm thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend. but i don't know what i should do. like when we talk on the phone and stuff and on aim everythings fine but then in person i feel really weird with him. normally it's the other way around. and like i like him and we dated twice before but sometimes i think i was happier single. but i don't know! oh and i'm also afraid it will ruin our friendship because before we were dating this time we were freinds and hung in school and if i dump him that'll probably change. part of me is saying just break up with him and the other parts like noo don;t do it!
i'm so confused. i'm just not into boys and going out with them as much as i used too. it's strange. it was so less complicated before. so any advice on what i should do? please don't say follow your heart or snything like that because right now it's confused. what would you do?
oh anddd like if i do decide to break up with him how should i do it? like what should i say?
thank you so much. =] (link)
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if you feel like you have to break up with him do it. its how you feel about it. and how to say it.... the old fashion "we need to talk"
say that and then i feel that we dont belong for eachother. I would feel better if we were friends. easy short and a lil not painful do it in person too. but not in front of ppl.!
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