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Q: To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away?
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If he treated you that badly... he is not worth your time. For the in love part.. you could be in love, but I doubt it. I think maybe you dont like him any more, but you miss what you guys had. And if not, you may still like him. That means you have to go talk to him. Tell him you still like him. Since he has a girlfriend he probably wont go out with you. But you can just ask him if he still has feelings for you too.
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Q: hey im 16/m and there is this girl i really really like... we have already had some really kick ass times as friends but i want her to be more than that... she likes me too but at the moment im grounded and i don't think i would make a very good bf... cept at like school... im and excellent lover if i do say so myself, but the opportunities would be the only thing that i wouldn't have... any advice helps... i'll rate or w/e if u want... thanx peeps!
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Well, just ask her out and tell her how your grounded, and tellher how you might not be a good bf at the moment but you really like her. Hopefully she'll like the fact that you really like her, and say yes! : )
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Q: My parents are ALWAYS fighting with my older sister. I've always been the "good" child so I don't normally get in fights with my parents. But the problem is that I hate it when they all fight it just REALLY breaks me down and sometimes I just need to talk to someone that understands!! And I don't really want to talk to my guidence counciler at school.I have this really close friend that I tell everything and she can TOTALLY relate to me but I think I need a little more!! What can I do???? Please help me!!! I need ALL the advice I can Get!!
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Okay. Heres the thing. You wont be able to change your siter or your parents attitude, so you wont be able to stop it. But you can learn to get used to it. And maybe.. try suggesting an idea for family fun. Like a day at the park, or to a museum, or something to have fun spending time with your parents and sister. And maybe it will have them forgetting their diferences for a the day. Which can last for longer than a day. : )
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Q: Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?
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Q: i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again?
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well, try talking to her. say its not fair that she's mad at you just because its your time to shine. tell her how you feel. tell her that if you could have her be right next to you in the spotlight, then you would. and tell her that if you were in her shoes then you would be excited for her. but also be understanding. maybe say how your sorry she didn't make the star role. good luck
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Q: So I like this guy and Im almost 100% he's digging me back. But I need some kind of magic line to let him know it's all systems go so he can ask me out. Im old fashioned and not willing to ask a boy out so it's kind of up to him. How do I get it across that Im ready to take this friendship and turn it into something more?
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well person... why don't you try flirting all you can! give him signals by talking to him whenever, touch his arm showing him you like him, write a note to him saying "i need someone to call when i forget to write down my homework, can i have your phone number," and call him that night or somehthing. If you see him at the mall or some place, say hi and start chatting, don't just smile at him. Wear your favorite clothes, that are a little hott, and make your face prettier by adding a touch of more consintration on your makeup. Just try to get his attention!!!
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Q: ok.. well.. heres my little situation! im about 5'6 and i weigh 106. yeah i don't like my thighs very much.. i mean they're small.. but big. yeah that makes sense right? haha i know it doesn't. anywaysss well im going to california in march and i want to maybe loose 2 or 3 pounds to weigh 104 or 103. i don't want to be anorexic about it or anything even though i act kind of anorexic sometimes. yeah i don't know if i should try lose a couple pounds or not.. i mean i know im skinny.. i guess but w/e. do you think i need too? and i dont eat that much already so what would a healthy (atleast somewhat) way to do this?
thanks.. srry its long-ish
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OK person. You are like underweight!!! you dont need to lose weight!! just be healthy. Instead of reaching for a cookie, grab an apple or something.
Sidenote- a yummy healthy treat is sliced apple with peanut butter on them!
and also workout. take a walk around the neighborhood. play some sports. maybe even go for a long shop!!it will work ur legs. also, guys dig a girl who works out.
but whatever you do, just have fun, and be healthy!
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Q: hey i need help really bad! i need help because i think i still have really strong feelings for my ex. i know he does to because he tries putting his arm around me and stuff but i tell him not to.. anyways the problem is we have been broken up for about 1 month and now i have a new boyfriend.i like him, but all the time i catch myself thinking about my ex... my new boyfriend is really great but he cant compare to the feelings that my ex gave/still gives me.. i dont want to mess up either.. can some one please help!
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Ok. I think that whoever you like more you should date. Really think it over carefully though. Follow your heart! If your ex gives you more butterflies in your heart than your new boyfriend, go out with him. But break up with your boyfriend first. But maybe its the other way around, you maybe like your boyfriend better than your ex, keep going out with your boyfriend and tell your ex straight off that you have a new boyfriend who you really like.
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Q: OK i had a boyfriend but he was a geek and i think i am pritty good looking but none of the guys i know think that i am . and i never get anything from the guys from school and i have blond hiar (long dirty blond) i have blie eyes and i am athletic and i love animals i have some and i just need some advise. how can i get guys to like me?
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ok heres the deal. be yourself! no guy is worth ur trouble if he doesn't accept you for who you are!! but maybe put your makeup on a little better, do your hair, and just try to look the best you can, with feeling comfortable.
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Q: Ok i won't use slang this time. or whatever they said i did. Ok anyway someone i know is being a real bleep and i don't want to go insane at them. So please help!!! Thanx
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alright no name just write your feelings down in a notebook or something. it helps me. or tell a very close friend about your troubles. and the most important tell them NICELY to be a better person or whatever. i really need to no more about the situation. like how are they being a bleep and what is your relation with this person?
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Q: Me and one of my VERY close friends always usually end up fighting over little things that don't matter. But it bugs me alot. One time we got so bad it seemed like being friends just wasn't a good idea. What's your advice?
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Don't worry. As long as you two are meant to be friends, you'll get over it. Some people just like to argue. But if you really want to avoid having a fight try being very agreeable, and dont have a mean voice, and tell ur friend that if she still wants to be your friend, she is going to have to do the same thing. Hope it works!
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Q: I need help
What do you do when people send you those snowball chain letter things on IM? Or reely any chain letter thing? HELP!!
THanx
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teehee. send a million kazillion bajiillion back at them of course!!!! or u could take it rational and tell them politely to stop. but i would to it the fun way.
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Q: Casey are u my friend or aren't u my friend
~ patty
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No Patty. U r not my friend... only special people get to be my friend. but i guess... ummm.... I'll let u be my friend
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I absolutely love giving advice on advicenators. When people ask for my advice in real life, its probably not as good as my responces on advicenators because advicenators gets me thinking. I love helping people and I try to give the best advice I can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: student Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 413 Last Update: September 7, 2008 Visitors: 22809
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