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Q: Well, I really don't know where to begin... the problem is, i am helplessly in love with this guy in Year 11 (I'm in Year 9). And whats the problem, you might ask? I have never said a single word to this guy. He is so totally HOT, and, when i look at him, i just want to do everything sexually with him. Another problem is that he is my brothers best friend, so he comes over like, every day. He sometimes smiles at me, and then i do stupid things, like drop the dishes, or trip over my own shoes or something. HELP!!!!!!!! It is getting to the point where i just want to jump on him like an animal or something! What should i do??
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Lol, you should talk to your brother and get his whole story. You should get to know him little bit about him before you talk to him. Maybe ask your brother to let you hang out with them! xO ali
wow guys thats sad.. year 9 means like 9th grade not "9 years old"
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Q: Well I have this best friend I have known since 1st grade. We were always together. Well as we got older we started not to talk. And now that I am in Jr. High I never even see her all that much. Well just not that long ago, I heard some news about her that really hurt my heart. She has been involved with drugs. And when I say drugs I mean the really bad stuff. The next day I pulled her aside and told her how much I was worried and that if she needed help I was willing to give it a try. But unexpected she took it the wrong way and started yelling and saying how I need to say out of her life and that noone can help her. And so I dont know what to do at this point! I really dont wanna see a best friend of mine ruin her life infront of me. What do I do???
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I know this might sounsd really mean but you need to either tell your parents or tell her parents. She obviously needs help. Or you could talk to one of her other friends and get exactly whats going on. Good luck nd i mean it! xO ali
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Q: ok so a tv show i saw a cook have chicken with chocolate sauce onthe plate, i thought would this be weird? How do u think this would taste? Would it be ok if i cooked it for my family one night? the other part of it is that it was a pile of chicken in the middle of the plate and the chocolate sauce was around it with roasted peppers on it, was the chocolate for the peppers or the chicken?
Thanx sooo much! MWAAAAHZ I rate high
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hm.. it could have been to give the peppers more of a flavor but thats just my opinion, maybe thats just the cook's opinion of creativity. Maybe he/she likes to add a random ingredient lol. Sure go ahead and make it for your family, but dont call it you own! tell them that you got the idea from TV xO ali
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Q: I'm 16 years old and I seriously need a job. I worked at Target over the summer and retail is...just definitley not my thing. Are there any jobs you can suggest where I can make money, but don't involve retail? Also, what are some good ways to make LOTS of money?
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Babysitting, cleaning, garage sale? lol xO ali
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Q: Is it stupid to ask a guidance conselor for time to talk to your friends if you are too embarassed to call them or you have no time? Just wondering...I dont want to look like an idiot tomorrow....
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There job is to help you. If you have a nice conselor, they'll say yes. xO ali
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Q: Valentines Day, is coming up! & I really want to get my boyfriend something special. On Valentines Day, we would've been dating for almost 3 months. He's really into baseball and LOVES New York Yankees, and likes Derek Jeter. His favorite band is Simple Plan. But I really want to get him something special, that is a really good price, not to expensive.. I was thinking about getting him a necklace of some sort, or maybe a ring, but do you think that seems "gay?" Or Maybe a big bear that says I LOVE YOU, or Your mine or something? Do guys even like bears?! I'm really confused. Any help would be greatly appreciated. THANKS.!!
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Lol I read in a magazine that boys dont like having stuffed animals because it looks awfully weird in their room. Go with like a poster or sumthin. Or a picture of the both of you in an " I love you" Picture frame. xO ali
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Q: okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
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Yes, bring it to the counselor AFTER you try tlaking to him. You said that you dont show him that you care about him a lot. So show it! Make him realize that someone does care about him and wants him to live. Maybe throw a party and invite all the people that love him! xO ali
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Q: My brothers friend is threatening to kill us and himself about something he can't prevent. He is upset because he thinks his friend told us his "secret" which is not true. We need major advice as soon as possible. He told us not to tell anyone or he would kill us and himself. WE NEED HELP! PLEASE!
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Tell your parents or even his! Or just make him understnad that you dont know what it is! xO ali
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Q: ok is it weird for girls to bite guys lips? cuz usually guys bite mine but iv never bitten theirs... and what about running my tongue across my bfs teeth when were making out? my firend told me thats good but i dont know... please help ill rate hi and if u guys have any other ideas please tell me!
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yea its fine, guys like it. And yea i guess you could run your tounge against his teeth. xO ali
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Q: This is gunna be really long, im sorry. but thanks in advance to anyone that helps! ok, so last night i was hanging out with my boyfriend of almost a month, and we were drinking but neither of us were even feeling a buzz. well one of his friends touched my stomach, and my boyfriend is extremely protective of me and got really pissed. he was trying to calm down and was shaking, he kept telling me he was gunna kill him, so i told him not to worry about it that his friend has no chance with me and i said 'your all i need'. right after i said this he got the sweetest lok on his face and said the 3 words i would of never thought would come from his mouth- "I love you". this caught me by complete surprise, i didn't say anything back, i just kissed him, well throughout the coarse of the night he told me he loved me 8 times. each time i said nothing. We've only been going out for almost a month (will be a month this friday) but have been really close and flirtly for 3 months. i finally gave in and said i love you too one of the times he said it. I do care for him soo much, just for me its so hard to believe in the word and meaning of 'love'. But yet i said it to him, and i think that was a mistake on my part. but i couldn't just not say something. But i want to talk to him about it and tell him i dont want him to say those words until he is sure of what hes saying and when he means it. but how am i supposed to talk to him about it?
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Saying I love you should not be said unless meant. Only say it if you mean it. If you aren't ready to tell him that you love him, tell him that you're not ready.
"i finally gave in and said i love you too "
gave in? makes it sounds like he was pressuring you into saying it. And from what you've said, he wasnt pressuring you. Just when you're ready, try telling him you love him before he says it, then he'll realy know that you love him. xO ali
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Q: How can you get rid of hickeys. and if you cant, how long does it usually take for them to go away?
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Like a foundation/cover up. It usually take any where from 5 days to a couple weeks. xO ali
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Q: My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat?
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If you ever want it "fixed" then yes. xO ali
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Q: I think about sex all the time.....but i know if it came down to doing it i wouldnt do it...I dont want to have sex but i think about it all tha time....im plannin on waitin until marriage...but wat do these thoughts mean?
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They mean that you're not ready. If you even have to think twice about doing it, you shouldn't. You could end up with regretting it. xO ali
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Q: ever since i was little, ive always wanted to go to florida. and so today, my bff(she knows ive always wnated to go there) calls me and tells me that her family is going to florida for spring break. then she said that she was going to invite my other friend kim, and not me. im soo mad!! y would she do that?? she didnt have to tell me that, and it really hurts, should i confront her? and how? thx everyone=)
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Maybe she told you because you would have eventually found out. Just dont show her that it bothers you or she might get mad. (Some girls just like to get attention like that) Love Always, Ali
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Q: Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?
Please Help
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Q: I'm 13/f from Florida. I have really curly hair and the humidity doesn't help. I hate my hair and it seems like I have NO self confidence because I can never do cute hairstyles like girls with straight hair. This really bugs me and makes it hard. Does anyone know of any cute hairstyles for curly hair that are easy to do and won't leave my hair frizzy and poofy?
I will rate high for those who answer this because I desperately need help!
xOx
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If you go to the hair dressers, they can straighten it for you. It will stay straight for a long time. xO ali
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Q:
Hey sorry but does anyone have...I dont really knwo how to explain it...but you know how people have buddy profiles and all? Well I had this "abou me" section in one of mine but it got erased and I got it from a friend who doesnt haev it anymore...and I was wondering if any of you haev an "about me" section where you fill in what you're name is...and your birthday and fave things are and what can you live with and cant live without. Im sorry this is really confusing but if any of you have what Im talking about then can you please send it to me because I really want to put it in my profile...
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I took a survey a while back. It was 550 questions. It took me a while to do but I was bored that day. IM me at lxl ali lxl x3(AIM) and ill send it to you
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Q: I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
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I think you should because he's not being totally honest with you if he likes another girl. xO ali
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Q: Ok i have been with my boyfriend five months this past saturday.And lately he has been making comments about his ex girlfriend from monticello.It seems he has been talking to her more lately and to tell you the truth i think something is going on cuz he ain't acting like his self.Frankly he hasn't been treatin me rite to begin with so what i need to no is if you people think he should stay or get goin!! Cuz i don't feel like playing games!!!!
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Talk to him about it. Confront him and tell him that you suspect something's going on. Then you'll get an answer. xO ali
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Q: i was j/w what 143 means... i used to kno but i forgot
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i think it means i love you
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44525
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