...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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ok i want truth ive writen a few poems and i want your feedback please
A Dad's Bad Day!!!
It was late saturday night,
when you turned on the light,
you sat by my bed,
and all I felt was dread,
I knew something had happened,
but wut I did not know what,
then you started to speak,
and then I knew,
I didnt want to believe I thought you lied,
but then you showed me where she layed,
on the ground in her home,
to what her dad had done,
She was so cold with pure love in her eyes,
I should of done more,
but she said "No its alright he didnt do it" as she stared at the sky,
this wasnt the first time she had marks to bare,
But she would say "Ooh that was Bear",
but how could a dog brusie her that bad,
The thought of this accident it seemed so sad,
As we stand above her body,
We now start looking for Mr. Nobody,
We found out he skipped town,
Now where do we look now?,
Its such a shame,
for a girl to pay,
for what her dad did because he had a bad day. (link)
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WOW!!! That was great! You made a great poem you should really think about having your work published!
-shay :-)
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thanx it is and have a great day
***happy**** (link)
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:-D Thank you! You too!
-shay :-)
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hey this isnt a question but i got a 160$ dress for 35$ great deal huh its so cute it is like a dark red at the top then it goes toa dark purple then to a black and it has black beads all ova it and the back part is an open back with these beads going straight across then it hangs down kinda hard to tell ya exactly
anyways its for the skol miltary ball and im goin wit my best friend kate
(no im not bi lez or anything) but i really wanna go wit nick or todd but ow ell
*******happy********
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WOW!!! Sounds like a nice dress!! Hope you have fun at the dance!!
-shay :-)
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Can you buy birth control pills over the counter or do I need a doctor's prescription before I can get it? (link)
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Hmmm. I think you should check with your doctor about that. Since Ive never been under birth control I strongly think you should. Even a parent or gaurdian would do.
-shay :-)
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Okay, I'm a sort of goody-goody. I don't do drugs, I don't have sex, I've never had a boyfriend, etc. etc. A lot of my friends don't believe that oral sex is something bad. i understand that it's something that a lot of people do, and I also understand that it could be much worse, but I really think it's gross, and I just wanted some people's opinions on it. Is it "naughty" to have oral sex?
*Just Wondering* (link)
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Depends. Are you old enough are you ready? Well I would say dont do it! My opinion is to wait. You must have some pretty naughty friends for them to be telling you that its "okay". Cause its not okay! You wanted my opinion and you got it!!
-shay :-)
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For the past 3 months I have had a sort of half-period. Absolutely nothing that I am used to. Before that, I just didn't get one at all for 2 months. Its very strange and somewhat concerning but I'd rather not go to the doctors if I have nothing to worry about. Help? (link)
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Okay the same thing happened to me. And I also did not go to the doctors. Enfortunetley that was when I just started so if you just barely started its normal. Though if you had it for what 5 or so years you should definetley your mom or see a doctor.
-shay :-)
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he talks, not directly to me. . and he syas dumb things and it just is hard to explain... u wouldnt understand ur not in my posiion (link)
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But yes I do understand I was in the same position as you are now! He likes you and cant think of a darn thing to say.
-shay :-)
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I entered in a chance to win a fender "something or other" But I doubt I'll win. . So I will be crossing my fingers, and looking for a bass at the same time, thanks! (link)
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Good for you! Hope you win!
-shay :-)
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How do you know when you are in love? I think I might be...but then again I don't think so, because if I really loved him, I could actually talk to him and not just stare at him until he looks at me, and then (at a perfect opportunity to talk to him.) quickly look away.
>>Toungue Tied & Confused (link)
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I dont think you are in love. Just an unusual crush thats all. From the information you gave me that is what I think. Love is a strong affection between two people. And an atraction and connection.
-shay :-)
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I got fired from my job about three years ago. It was really a great job and it was an exempt position too. I was using drugs at that time and it affected my performance and I was missing a lot of days worked. It was kind of like an eye opener for me when I got fired and I've been drug free since then. I had three little kids so I decided that it would be best if I stayed home with the kids during the day and I took a part time job at night. It's been this way for three years. Now that my youngest kid is also in school, I think that I am ready to work full time again. My dilema is I don't know what to say when asked on a job interview why I left my last full time job. I can't say I got fired because they wouldn't hire me. What do you think would the best response be? (link)
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I think you should tell them the truth. There is no reason to lie. Tell them "I had gotten fired in my last job for drugs, but now that I quit I shall do a better performance then the last". Or something like that. Hope you get the job!
-shay :-)
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My boyfriend calls himself a Christian but doesn't go to church. I'm not a religious fanatic or anything, actually I'm pretty liberal and my church is too, but he's still really reluctant to go to church with me. He seems to really dislike organized religion. I understand where he's coming from, but he won't even give my church a chance... we're really cool. I'd love it if he'd go to church with me, I think it'd be fun, and frankly it freaks me out that he's so afraid to try new things. What do you think? (link)
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I think you should start dating guys from your church. Its easier to do that. Though if you really like him tell him that you'll go to his church if he comes to your church. If he still doesnt want to go he'll strike me as an unworthy boyfriend.
-shay :-)
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Hey everyone, i'm so tired of being a prep and since being a punk is popular now, i think i'll go steal a chunk off of someone else's culture!
And can anyone tell me how to make my boobs look like Pamela Anderson's? Thanks so much, everyone! It means a lot to me! (link)
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lol! Pamela anderson! Why would you want to do that? Well try the clasic stuffing the bra. Or they sell these fake breasts at stores. And I dont think you should change yourself because everyone else is doing it. But if thats what you really want try some cool black belts and black pants to get the feeling of it.
-shay :-)
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my messeges keep being sent to the public, they were sent to someone else! (link)
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lol! Better luck next time!
-shay :-)
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i didnt mean 4 that in the public, it was sappsoed to be sent to someone else (link)
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All right no prob! thanx 4 lettin me know though!
-shay :-)
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ok i really like this guy in new york were my mom lives and i live w\ my dad in michagen but if i leave my dad i would feel sooooooooooo guilty and i wouldn't be able to help him. should i live with mom or dad? i know what your gonna say your gonna say that i shouldn't have just that reason for living with her and i don't i have more but this is my main prob. so plez don't say that! (link)
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Okay so what are your other reasons? They must be important for your parents to believe that you MUST live in NY. Does your mom live with anyone? If not it should be a 50/50 decision. I know I would feal guilty too if my parents were split and I'd leave one of them! So come up with something like you live in NY for the school year and Michigan for the summer. Or something like that. Even though I think its quite pathetic to leave to NY fo a guy! Just keep in touch with him by letters, email, phone. KKK
-shay :-)
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i just picked a random category because i dont have any ?'s that have to do with any of those. ANY WHO. I have friends down in portage michigan and i live an hour away. we talk over the internet and they are my cool people. and sometimes me and (ill call him j) j get in bed together and sing. songs like say my name and bootyliscious. thats pretty, cool. i love them much and i just wanted everyone to know (link)
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Thats good! And I think the category best for your "question" would be random weirdos! If that was any help. Well im glad you love your friends! Me too!!(In a weird friendly way)
-shay :-)
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Hello guys,
I'm in the habit of baking sugar cookies for most major holidays, and this Yuletide, I was given the suggestion that, for the benefit of all my geeky gamer friends, I make D&D shaped cookies. This instantly sparked my interest. I'm already thinking about elfcookies with sparkly tunics, unicorn cookies with white frosting, pretzel sticks with a doubleheaded axe... but my friend wants Orc cookies. Typical. How am i supposed to make an Orc with a gingerbread man shaped cutter? I can figure out how to make an orc shape and trace around each one, but here are my problems:
1.How can I make brown or dark frosting that isn't molasses (too sticky) and will stay put, or dry hard so I can stack the cookies without mooshing them? I usually use a milk and powdered sugar mix that dries hard, but how to dye it brown or black?
2. What sort of edible decorations can I use for armor? Chex? m&m's? I can't think of anything good!
Anyone have any good ideas? (link)
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2. Sprinkles maybe if you break the m&m's in to many peices and then sprinkle it on. NO chex. Go to the grocery store and look in that kind of isle for all that stuff and you'll get an idea.
-shay :-)
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I know if I dry my wool sweaters they're shrink, but I don't have time to lay these things out to dry... can I just blow dry them? Will that shrink them just like a dryer would? (link)
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If you are having such a hard time washing your wool dont buy it! DO NOT PUT THEM IN THE WASH EITHER!!! You must let the air from outside dry them. Hang it up and let it blow for maybe 5 hours or so.
-shay :-)
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I am 14 years of age, me and this boy started dating, we dated for a year and i loved him alot and i still do,he is now 16 and we have been broken up for about 5 months but we still talk and i still enjoy talking 2 him... do you think we will get back together? (link)
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No not yet its too soon. Try dating a guy your own age. Though you didnt tell me why you broke up. Remain friends and in the future you may have a place. If he mentions anything tell him your not ready yet, but maybe some other time.
-shay :-)
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Can I get sick from licking all the envelopes from my christmas cards to seal them? I know I could use a sponge and all that but that's just not as fun... I feel like licking them gives a more personal touch. Is all that glue going to get into my system and give me some horrible disease? (link)
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lol! No way! If they did the people from the envelope comany would have been sewed by now. And licking doesnt give a personal touch either. When people get their letters they dont look at how you sealed they look at the card! So try the sponge, but if you really do like to seal with your tounge just have a soda or juice handy!
-shay :-)
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