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ok soooooooooooooooooooo i have a little problem that i jus cna't seem to fix on my own alright so my best friend was going out with this guy who i've become like really good friends with *which is mucho weird but w/e* and so they broke up early this summer and now we've *guy and me* have gotten closer *well i think so* anywhoo so now EVERYONE AND THERE BROTHER think i like him WHICH i dont cuase i mean yea were friends but he went out with my best friend and its not like that would be ok either way BUT what makes matters worse is that my best friend seriously thinks he likes me and i'm like nooooooooooo were jus close....

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i have no idea what to do


pooheads

oh and if that didn't make sence sorry!


thanks

B

they're probably all jealous..or have nothinhg else to do but tp pick on ya 2..sayin u like each other when ya dont..it happens to me like 24/7

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ok, well i was on vacation for 9 days, i came back to find my hamster, decaying alive! It's so gross and nasty, i feel so bad for him, idk what to do! He has part of his skin missing, and fur, he can't walk or anything, i feel so bad. My parents won't let me take him to the vet, i think he has been alive for about 2 yrs or 1 1/2.....what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP :( HE IS MY BABY, I'LL DIE WITHOUT HIM!

it sounds like he is really sick. Try maybe call the vet and see what your vet says and if the they its not good...try to convince ur parents to take the hamster to the vet...also this may nots ound like something you would want to hear but hamsters dont live long like people, dogs and cats..sry

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i am extreamly sick today and i have no clue what's wrong with me. i called my doctor and she said it was just a cold but it's REALLY bad. my head is pounding, my whole back is KILLING me, my throat is so soar i can barely talk, i feel like i'm going to throw up, and i keep getting those cold sweats where you start to sweat really bad but you're still cold. what is wrong with me?? i'm so miserable!

eek...must be the flu bug..I got it last year like 3 times and I was out of school for like 1 or 2, sumtimes 3 days at a time. 2nd why are you on the computer when your sick?? go to sleep!!

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Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help!

its normal.. you've got a long ways to develope! so do the rest of us..

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

well
1- u may be to young
2- there might be a reason why youre parents wont like you geta 2nd hole
3- its gonna hurt like hell if you doit your self

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

Kohls??...they have some cute ones and all

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yesterday i had a fever of 101.5..i thought it was just side effects from a chicken pox vaccine that i got a week or two ago..the lady told me that was to be expected. however, i was supposed to get better in a day. well, today, my temperature is 101.7. i have to sing on sunday at another church (a solo)...i have been drinking fluids and resting and taking ibuprofen but nothing is helping. in fact, my throat is hurting more than yesterday.

how can i get better in a hurry?

you cant get better ina hurry..inless you sleep..and rest...try mayb going tothe doctor..
-hope I helped

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What are Livestrong bracelets...

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what do i do? my girlfriends's best friend hates me (or so i think)... (14/m) any advice is good, thank you

maybe she likes you..and she just tryin to forget about you and all..i dk thats a tuff one..sry-

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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her?

eehh!! LABELS!! it burns!! My mom is like a preppy kinda of mother..and I also have a really preppy like sister..and i'm always asked "why cant you be more like your sister?!"
1- i cant be perfect...
2- i dont want to act preppy and all
3- i dont like that much pink!

my mom doesnt even like half my friends..and she calls them "gothic" she doesnt relize I dont like pink oh so much..and right now half my clothes look punkish..and the other all pink and all..ehh!! its sucks..and its so damn hard to please her..when you dont want to be someone your not!..

you gotta sither down and explain that your not like her at all..and ur a total opp. from her.. -hope I helped

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umm if my boy friend likes me but then he dumped me for a gay...! why is that???

he is either gay or bi (bisexual)
if I need me to restate that for youthen leave one in my inbox and i'll try and restate that for ya =) ... -hope I helped

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ok my dad and stepmom are getting divorced. i dont live with them, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, and i dont know it's just a big problem. i'm afraid i'll never see my stepmom again once they get divorced, and i don't want that to happen. I got really close to her and i love her, she's almost like a sister to me. i know i cant' stop them from getting divorced, but how can i get through this and still be happy and have a good outlook on things? i'm normally an optomistic person, and i want to stay that way. i don't expect never to be sad, but what are some ways to deal with this? i went through a divorce a few years ago with my real parents, but i dont know how to get through it again. thanks in advance to everyone who helps. love ya!

wow..im sry to hear thats happening to ya for the 2nd time in your life..that must really suck..you may not be able to stop them from getting a divorce...but your dad also cant really stop you from still seeing your stepmom!..I mean..your dad still let you see your mom..right? I dont see why he cant stop you from letting you see your stepmom..I mean you stepmom is like your 2nd mother!!...and although it wasnt blood, she was once family to you too! - hope I helped

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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her?

I dk..how you would tell her.. that you would rather not talk about God without offending her..but I notice here and there..praying actually makes you feel better and all..and helps you belive in things that can be accomplish and all..- I know that wasnt that helpful..plz dont rate me inless you found that helpful which I dont really think you did sry..

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ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all. and then today i was talking to him about his girlfriend and i asked him if he thought they'd be together for awhile and hes just like "yeah a long time" and i was just like oh cuz that was not the answer i wanted to hear, but i didnt tell him that, and then i said something about him flirting with other girls {meaning me cuz he "flirtz" with me all the time}and hes like idont flirt with other people and i go yeah you do and i was like u can flirt with people and not realize it and hes like no i know when and who i flirt with and like im starting to think i have absoluetly no chance with him now.. i dont know..what do you think i should do? oh and this morning he said i should go to church with him sumtime!! PLZ HELP!!! im 14, female

ahhh!!! it sounds like this dude likes ya..but just doesnt want to ammitt it!! lol..I have a friend like that right now..he knows stuff that alotta ppl dont know about me..like my best best bestfriend I've known since 2nd grade doesnt even know..I actually fill like I can tell him stuff that I cant tell my other friends (who I mean the girls)...guys have the strangest ways of tell us girls that they like us..lol..but yeah..you can flirt with someone and not relize it!!! Try hanging out with him alot and all...like go to the movies and the mall etc.. (as friends though!!)...and.. I say give him like about a mouth and see what happens..sumthing may happen between the 2 of them and may break up, which means you may have the chance to be with him..(with you 2 being so close and all and hanging out alot may make him more interested in you!!) - hope I helped
-IM me and keep me posted and tell me what happens i'd like to hear it-

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My girlfriend really likes Maria Mena. I've never really heard her except in the car and it sounds very SLOWW and acoustic. She's doing a show about an hour away from us in a few weeks, and i was just wondering what im in for. What does she sound like? Anyone been to her show?

um..well I never really heard of her..try goin on yahoo or something to listen to music video's or something..- hope I helped

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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!

I'm just so uncomfortable ..

sry..try avoidin him..dont look, speak or be around him if he is in 10-20 feet away from you..or/ and have another male family member or someone tell him off or something.. - hope I helped

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Can Sex keep you in shape?

uh.....well your moving alot arent ya?..I'm only 14 and never done it before...and I dont plan to till im 20 something..

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well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))

yeah its normal..its only your 2nd time..by your 5th, 6th time it should be on a basic orginal schedule of 28 days..or a day or 2 before or after the 28 days..- hope I helped

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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense

out of all the hair gel, mousse, hair spary..I found.. White Rain Anti-Frizz hair gel..it works great.. =)

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

Cutting is when someone cuts themselves on purpose...most likely on their wrists, and usually people do this when they are really sad or mad or something also to let out their anger..Its very dangerous and lead to death..an adult needs to be told of what she is doing..in order to make her stop..trust me..I have a friend who was cuttin her self..and I didnt know till one day my friend and I were walking together to 9th period..and we saw her and a gym teacher walking to the guidence office..and we found out one of our friends told on her..but we still dont know who told her..and were gald someone did tell on her..now I have to deal with 2 friends..because one said she'd start if the other one started again..then another one said she start if the other one started...cuz of the 1st one started..my friend and I stated that we're one fucked generation because of all the cutting and shit.. :'(... - hope I helped
-hope your friend's sis is gonna be alrite-

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