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On Xanga especially.. people have those Icons they use in their blogs. I know some people make them.. but what are some sites where i can get them?
Wow, Xanga has a WHOLE BUNCH of users that make icons you can use :)
Go to http://www.xanga.com and at the top, click "Users" or "Blogrings", and type in "icons". A whole bunchhhh of users should come up. Just check em out; A lot of users have really good icons :)
hey ok is gonna sound really dumb especially to me cause music is my life...but what EXACTLY is r&b??? xoxo thanx no smart a answers
R&B stands for "Rhythm and Blues"
This website (Urban Dictionary) is a website that defines words, including slang, from many different opinions.
Here are "definitions" for R&B:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=r%26b
:)
i am over weighted and I want to lose weight but if i tell my mom or anyone I know they are going to make fun of me. What should I do
WELL, I doubt your own mother would make fun of you. That's just cruel. If you feel that you can't trust your mom or you don't feel comfortable telling her things, that's sad :(
Also, you don't necessarily HAVE to tell anyone. This can be totally private. Research some good exercises (or maybe you know some already) and come up with a good exercise plan that fits your needs. Don't over work yourself, though. Eat healthy food (And that also means in healthy proportions. Just because you're eating healthy, doesn't mean you can eat as much as you want!) :)
Hey .. does anyone know some good websites where i can just listen to music ? Not from xanga or anything .. most of them dont work anyway. But please if you can give me some sites thatd be awesome ! Thanks ..
http://www.myspace.com [click music & search a band]
http://www.purevolume.com
http://www.launch.com
:)
what does รง 3/4 mean only the 3/4 is small and i saw it on myspace but what does it mean
illl rate a 5
When someone tries to do the "& hearts ;" thing (but without spaces) and the code doesn't work, the "c3/4" thing comes out of it.
First off I would like to say sorry for posting this more than once, but I need advice again. I think I am a compulsive eater. I can't stop. All I think about while I am eating something, is what else I could be eating. I also do not exersize. I am too lazy and I have no motivation whatsoever. What should I do? Does anyone have any websites? Or tips?
I weigh 225. In the past month I have gained like 20. And that is not healthy. What should I do? I need serious help here. My doctor doesn't want to put me on a serious diet.
Sounds like me..I eat nonstop. But I think the reason I eat all the time, is that I'm bored. Boredom does affect your eating, because sometimes you'll eat, just for something to do. That's how it is for me sometimes. So my advice is to get active. I know you don't have the motivation to, but find something fun. Get some friends together and do exercises or just simply take a walk around the neighborhood every once in awhile. It's SOMETHING TO DO. Believe me, it will stop you from over-eating if you're actually doing something with your time. This way, you will be away from food, and won't have access to it. And you won't even be thinking about it if you are having fun. "Time flies when you're having fun", right? So if time flies, then you'll be eating normally, and there won't be time to over eat! ;)
Also, if you're doctor says that you shouldn't be on a serious diet, then you shouldn't. He/she knows what their talking about :)
I'm going away on a 10 day field trip with my school to Alabama ( I live in Georgia )I'm afraid of getting homesick. I used to get homesick all the time when I was little, then I just grew out of it. Now since I'm going to be away for a long time I don't know what I'm going to do. Any tips incase I get homesick?
I used to get homesick when I was little also! It was crazy, I'd get homesick at a simple sleepover =/ But anyway, bring something with you that reminds you of your home or your family, like a picture or something. If you ever feel homesick, just look at the picture and it might make you feel a little better. Also, bring your pillow with you. I know it sounds obvious, and a little weird (for being homesick), it helps. At night, if you feel homesick, just hug your pillow. It helps ;)
Another way of dealing with being homesick, is just surrounding yourself with good things. For example, your friends. Stick with your friends, and believe me, you can get through ANYTHING :)
Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape
When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?
easy 5's people!
Go Ask Alice is a really good book, and I think it pretty much applies to all the categories.
Chicken Soup books also apply to all the categories and are very interesting to read. There are a wholeeeee bunch of different type of topics in those books. Also, there are different types of Chicken Soup books. For example, there is a Chicken Soup for Teens On Love & Relationships. So basically that just focuses on your "C".
Also, any other real diaries (like Go Ask Alice) are REALLY good, and I highlyyy recommend them. They usually hit all the topics that you have mentioned (A through D). Here is a site that shows all of those diaries by anonymous teenagers. Just read the paragraph there, and it tells you the books and what they are about-
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/guides/guide-display/-/12IJ8QX6IYQHZ/102-4502304-1330547
-I love those books, and I think you will too =)
If you add someone to be your friend on myspace and they deny you, how do you find that out? Because i added someone who i'm pretty sure denied me but their still in the pending requests folder. However, i heard that you would not get notified if someone denied you. Does anyone know? thanks in advance.
Myspace won't tell you if someone denies you. BUT if the request is still in "pending requests" folder, than they have not added you yet, nor denied you. They haven't done either. So either they haven't got to it yet, they're lazy, or they just don't feel like accepting OR denying you. Heh =)
do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious
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PLEASE don't call yourself a nerd.
Orchestra is what you are interested in, just as one of the guys is into football. SAME THING, no matter what people think. =)
a girl in my grade named anne, whom i know (I am friendly with her, but not really friends) told a friend of mine (elle) about these pants, and then elle told me about them. i went to the store & i really like the pants. they are very distinct jeans with flowers all over them. i really want them, but anne has them already. would it be bad for me to get these jeans? anne isn't in any of my classes, and she's a nice girl, but i still don't know if it's okay (I AM NOT GOING TO ASK HER). i see her on occasion at the end of the day. these aren't just any pants, they are very cool with flowers down the leg & on the butt. do you think anne would get mad? do you think elle would be like "you bought those pants after i told you where they are from & anne already has them!" do you think anyone would be mad or do you think it's okay to buy the pants? THEY ARE SO COOL!
I don't think they would be mad. Do you know how many people have the same clothing as other people? A LOT. My opinion...NO BIG DEAL. You never see her anyway, right? That would be really mean and unnecessary if your 'friend' every said that. What kind of friend does that? BUY them. As you said, you're not buying them because your friend told you about them and you just want to copy Anne. You're buying them because "THEY ARE SO COOL!" =)
You are cute. I added you to my fave collumnists.
--caden--
Aw thanks =)
what r some good streches for a split becuase for cheerleading we nned to know how to do a split and I am almost dowm but I JUST CAN'T do it please help
I'm a gymnast. Yeah it's frustrating when you're almost there, but you still can't get it all the way down. I'm not sure if there are any specific stretches that will help you get a split, because a split is a stretch itself. My advice would be to keep practicing your split. Make sure your legs are as straight as you can get them, because that's how you're supposed to do a split. Another thing you could do is do a straddle-split. I don't know if you've ever done that before, but if you need me to explain what it is, just ask =)
Whats that one song called by death cab for cutie?? It goes like this: I want to live where soul meets body And let the sun rap its arms around me.
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It's called "Soul Meets Body".
Okay, see, I'm taking guitar lessons from this person, and he has a crush on me, but I really like guitar lessons and he's the only guy in town who will give lessons. Should I continue the lessons?
-An advice giver myself.
That's a tough one. Is he doing anything that is interfering with your lessons? Like, it would probably be okay if he just has a crush on you, and isn't showing it much. But if he is like trying to get with you or whatever while you're taking guitar lessons, then I would definately find another teacher. Also, if you don't feel comfortable around him, you can find another teacher! I'm sure there is SOMEONE out there who can give you lessons, just look around. If you really love guitar lessons, maybe you can have them with a teacher in a different town. If you really don't want to stay with this guy, look for a different teacher. Don't be held in a uncomfortable situation. =)
ok so my friend. we were eating dinner with her parents. they asked me a question about something for school. we had something for our parents to meet our new teachers. then she got GROUNDED because i said we had em (since she didn't tell em). well now i feel like crap since i got her grounded. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT UP TO HER? DID I EVEN DO ANYTHING WRONG!?!?!?!!
No you didn't do anything wrong. You simply didn't know that her parents didn't know. THAT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. You, being polite, answered truthfully to her parents' question. Really..it's HER fault for not telling her parents. Because if she had just told her parents in the first place, then she wouldn't have gotten grounded. Agree? Well yes..you didn't do anything wrong, and don't be too hard on yourself. A simple "sorry" would be just fine just to make up for it. I really don't think any other "making up" for it would be necessary since you didn't do anything wrong.
If you had to pick one over the other, would you pick diamond earrings or a pearl necklace?
earrings--http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=52U4&start_id=66&CategoryId=501&category=Diamonds&
&&&
necklace--
http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57I5&start_id=91&CategoryId=66&category=Jewelry&
I personally like the pearl necklace =)
The earrings are kind of..too shiny, and too dangly for me. Yeah, that's like the total opposite of what everyone would say. ;) I don't know, but I definately love the pearls =)
hey ok so i like to run a lot but since its getting colder, i can't run everyday like i like to do. i also do crunches everynight. but i'm getting this belly and i really wanna be able to get rid of it...how can i do that since i can't run??? **i do have a tredmill if running is the ONLY option...i'd really like some others to tho
thanx!!!
Here's a website with a lot of stomach/abdominal workouts. They will definately help:
http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/l/aa121200b.htm
Also, you said you like to run. Why not use the treadmill then if you like it? I think you should. Running is really good, and it's great that you like to do it. Most people don't.
ok this is a riddle that most of my friends dont get, i do know the awncer and ill give it to you o the feed back! easy 5!
What get's wetter,
The more it dries?
A towel becauase when your wet, you use it to dry yourself, hence the drying part in the riddle. And when you dry yourself, the water transfers to the towel, so therefore the towel is getting wetter.
How can you get someone deleted on myspace? This girl was harassing me, and then she got MY account deleted! I want to get her deleted so all is fair, how can I do it? Pleeeease help, i'll rate 5's!
That would be called hacking. Don't do it.
I know it sucks, but don't be childish about it. Obviously she was childish and knows how to hack. Just make a new one & go to her myspace and click "block user" so she can't contact you.
=)