I'm a simple girl, I don't need a lot to please me. I love giving advice and the greatest pleasure for me is knowing that I have helped people out. I am often misunderstood and judged to quickly because of my age. But I have been through enough in my lifetime to understand and identify with many of the people who come to me with problems. I am willing to do whatever I can in order to help you all out, so anything you need, just ask :) I answer all questions honestly... no matter how much the truth hurts.
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Age: 15
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i wanna lose weight i want a nice body! how can i get that im on a diet i work out but i still dnt lose much weight...:( y?
i need help plez people...:/ (link)
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eat smaller portions, drink less soda, cut out high fat snacks, and drink lots of water! You are actually supposed to drink half your weight in ounces of water. so if you are 100 lbs. then you should drink 50 ounces of water. this helps because the water prevents you from drinking soda or high sugary drinks.
then do cardio everyday for an hour [biking or running]
here is a website with some other simple exercises to do at home if you can't make it to the gym to use the machines.
http://www.hphdhelp.org/exercise.htm
... for some people, it takes longer to see results. Be PATIENT! and eventually you will start seeing drastic changes in your body.
Good luck :)
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this is honestly the worst day of my life. worst day. i feel crushed, and hurt and sad and i cant stop crying. everything is going wrong for me, everything. this whole entire year all i could look forward to was camp, camp, camp. [sleepaway] i met these girls last year btw. and camp is finally coming around and im sick to my stomache because of what just happened. i requested my two good friends in the OTHER bunk, and somehow the bunks this year got messed up and everyone seems to be blaming me. it wasnt my fauly at all. and all of these girls are ganging up on me toeghor and tearing me apart and no one from my bunk is backing me up. a few girls from the other bunk whom i requsted are backing me up but those girls in the other bunk who dont like me, i dont care about. its the girls in my own bunk that dont like me because of this which im scared about. they were all bitching about it and yelling at me and i just broke down and couldnt stop crying. this really could be the worst day of my life ive never been so hurt by so many people before. and the sad part is they dont care they did that to me. they dont care. at all. because a few minutes ago someone was like guys i think we could just switch our bunks when we get there thats wut im doing who cares. and now they are all happy. but nobody apologized to me. i feel crushed. and, how am i supposed to go back into that bunk now? no one likes me in there. AND the bunk i originally wanted to be in, obviously i wont be in. because a few them dont want me in it. i feel so..rejected. and unwanted. i dont know what to do, this was the biggest thing i couldnt wait for this, and now im dreading it, im going to be miserable. and theres no way to switch out of that bunk. im stuck in it now with them. i hate my life. AND my parents wont buy me an ipod, [mine broke] for camp because they dont have enough money. and my grandma who is rich wont buy me one either. even though she bought my dad a wii and guiatar hero. this life sucks i hate this. and the bed cover i ordered for camp is too big and i dont have a big enough down blanket to put in there. this fucking sucks. AND exams are next week and since all this drama is happening ive had no time to study. i am so stressed right now and ughhh i hate my life i cant stop crying help me help me help me please god help me (link)
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okay first things first... you need to calm down and breathe. and then face facts... some girls are bit**es. they will do anything to bring you down and hurt you. and your are letting them do this because you are crying over it. you CANNOT let them know that it is bothering you. my mom always says to me that i have to "take the high road" this means that you a=have to be the bigger person and ignore the mean poeple. it is a really hard thing to do and trust me it sucks but it is just something that you must do. hwo cares if they dont like you, they are probably just jealous and bored and want to get a rise out of you, which they did. just focus on how excited you were about camp.switch into the bunk with your two best friends, if the other people in that bunk complain about it, WHO CARES! they can just get over it. and the bed cover and down blanket are just trivial things... no big deal. and then the IPOD... well we all wish we could have nice things, but we cant. just be thankful that your parents had the money to even send you to camp... i dont really think it is going to be the edn of the world if you dont have an ipod. then finals, just do your best... try your hardest, and whatever happens, Happens! at camp just try to have fun and dont worry about other people.
Good luck :)
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well, lets just say my boyfriend's parents sent him away to another state to some correctional facility. they never told him or me that he was going. just one morning i couldnt reach him. his mom called me in the afternoon and came over and told me he was gone. i just felt like a million stabs to my heart. i couldnt eat or sleep for the whole week. the papers said he is coming back july 18th but his mom said he might not come back to the area where he lives now. yes he is the love of my life. we planned on getting married and having kids. i cant picture my life with anyone else. i just want some advice to how i should deal with this. i want to go find him but i dont know if i could even see him if i was gonna go find him. and i just want him to know that i wil be waiting for him till he gets bac to me and that i love him and i think about him every second of my life. i miss him so much. what should i do to calm down and to make sure he knows that i wil be here for him till the end. i cant go on without him!
-lisa
im 17 and a female (link)
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okay this seems really hard for you and what you really need to do right now is stay strong. I know this seems like the end of the world, but its not. Life will go on while he is away, and you ARE going to be okay... no matter how crappy everything is right now. If I were in this situation I would probably go talk to his parents. Tell them how much he means to you and how you really need him. Talk to them about how you cannot stand your life without him and you really need to be in touch with him just to let him know you are waiting for him and that you love him. hopefully she will give you address to write. if you ask them if you can go see him, they will most likely say no because they obviously sent him away for a reason. but what you have to understand is this was most likely VERY hard for them to do and they probably miss him quite a lot too, but they just felt like he needed help. So try to reason with his parents and tell them that it might make your boyfriend feel better to know that he is not alone and you would simply like to write him a letter. if they dont want to give you an address so you dont go break him out or whatever ask them if they will mail the letter for you. If they agree to this... in your letter just tell him that you love him, miss him, and are waiting for him. and ask him to call you as soon as he gets out of the facility.
If his parents dont agree to any type of communication between the two of you, maybe the facility doesnt allow it? then you just need to stay strong for him. spend time with friends and famile [people that love you] to help you through this very hard time. then when he gets out, he will most likely call you right away. i mean you are the love of his life, he isnt going to just not call. then you and him can figure out things from there on. you just need to stay strong and do whatever you can in order to get through this time. remember that he loves you, and it wasnt his choice to leave you..
Good luck with everything, and I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you and your boyfriend :)
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Okay so this guy i like is in the Army, hes in the program where you go to school, but still train and what not for the army the whole time. Hes gone for the summer and comes back in august to go back to school and stuff. Well i leave for boot camp for the Navy and i leave before he gets back. i wont see him til september (i get to come home for 2 weeks), so i was wondering should i get a card and give it to him before he leaves, just saying "have fun take care, i know you'll be back but i wont see you" type thing.. or should i give it to his brother to have him put it in his room so when he gets back it'll be there on his night table type thing, saying "hey you just missed me by a few days haha, hope you had a good time, see you when i get back take care miss you." type thing?
orrrr just forget the whole idea?
honestly. i like this guy, ALOT.. the day i met him we had so much in common, i'm a girlie girl type but i like to do the guy stuff. everyone we hang out with is always hitting on me, and personally i think it bothers him so he tends to be standoffish. i've spent the last week hanging out with him, and stayed over twice.. no sex just talked and enjoyed ourselves. hes told me hes interested in me, he has been but at first so many people were trying to force him to see me too (which i totally hate because they did the same thing to me, which made us not want to try getting to know each other at all..)that we just didnt really spend a lot of time together, and he wants to take things slow. (works for me honestly, no reason to rush) and we've both said whatever happens happens.
i dont know. hes a real honest guy, sometimes too honest haha, but we both constantly give that look to one another.. the we've got connection type look, heck i dont know how to explain it.. ah. seriously this stuff has been on my mind all week.. i'm stressed. truly i'm afraid he leaves, i leave, he comes back.. then i come back. and we dont even talk. and how embarrassing would it be to not even speak when i get back, and i had left that card on his night stand for him to read. HA.. i'd feel so dumbbb.. i think i'm just over reacting? yet i really cant help it.. i've tried to just stick to the whatever happens happens, but i guess i want good things to happen and come out of this lol.
okay any advice would be wonderful.
as you can see girls, and guys too please, i'm quite confused/concerned/worried/tripppinn haha.
thanks a million. (link)
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my opinion is that you do both! i think you should give him a card beofre he leaves, this way he knows that you care about him and he will be thinking about you whille he is gone. and then also leave one with his brother, this will remind him, that you are still thinking about him and can't wait to see him! taking it slow is a good idea, but if you dont leave the cards... you may regret it later on. and what is the worst that can happen, you guys dont talk taht much after you both get back. even then he will know that you care about him and wish him the best... there is nothing embarrasing about that. chances are though he will be so excited that you even though to leave a card!
I truly hope things work out for you! Good luck :)
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is blow job considered as cheating? doesnt that depend on a couple's thinking? it isnt the same for everyone...but i mean in general, would it be cheating? (link)
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like you said... cheating is different for everyone. but in my opinion, yes it is cheating because she had intimate relations with someone else. i consider even a kiss cheating, the person knowingly was intimate with another guy... so yes it is cheating.
Hope this helps :)
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If some girl was forced to give a guy a blowjob from her school, and she has a boyfriend, she obviously thinks he will break up with her but she was forced, does that considered as cheating? (link)
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cheating is different for everyone.. but in my opinion... yes it is. she had intimate relations with someone else. you said she was forced? was it like a dare or did someone threaten her if she didnt.? if it is the second... she needs to tell someone. and if it was just a dare, then she willingly did it... she wasnt really forced.
Hope this helps :)
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srry if its too long
14/f yeah ..
so i tried out for my high school cheerleading team and i made it. i trust my coach cuz i know her outside of cheerleading but idk if i should tell her about cutting.i dont want her to tell my parents and i dont want anyone talking about it on the team if you catch my drif with the cheerleader-cutter thing. the scars are kinda easy to see and i cant cover them with bracelets like usual soo what should i do?
HELP?! (link)
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tell her and your parents! you need help hun, and your parents [or some other trusted adult] are the only ones that can help you. the more you try to hide it, the worse the stuation is going to get. if you dont tell your coach and she finds out, she will (A) tell your parents (B) make you get help (C) cut you from the team. she can do all of the above. so come straight out and tell her.. and tell her that you are gong to get help... because you need too.
Good luck with everything.
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Okay so the other day I got a wicked bad sunburn on my forehead. I did remember to put sunscreen on, but I guess I must've missed that spot (oops!)...
So anyway, now it's starting to peel! It looks absolutely disgusting and its peeling especially along my hairline so now it looks like I have dandruff!
Is there any way to stop it from peeling so much? (link)
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just keep lotion on it ALLL the time! thats the only thing you can do, unfortunatly. like moisturizing lotion, try cetaphil it works really well
Good luck :)
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two weeks. well we barely get to see each other. but we tlk on aim like kinda all day. but everyday. but like for the past 3 days weve tried to hang out and he always has an excuse after everything is said and done like my parents wont let me now. they dont want to go becuz of the whether. aghh what should i do? (link)
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you should definatly talk to him and just be like it is really hard for me because we dont get to see eachtoher... and then he will eaither tell you the real reason why he cant hang out, or he will say that he will try harder. you both need to put forth the effort of seeing eachtoher, or things are never going to work.
Good luck :)
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15/f
I have a huge crush on this guy and he's so sweet and nice. I really think he likes me too but theres one problem. All of my friends think he's gay. I know he isn't i can just tell but if i went out or did anything with him they'd be all obnoxious calling him gay.
He is in touch with his feminine side but he is definitely not gay.
what do i do? (link)
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if you really like him... who cares what your friends think! Don't worry about what they say... they are either jealous or just stupid. so just ignore their rude remarks and eventaully they will go away. as soon as you let what people say influence your decisions people are going to start walking all over you... and that is not good.
So stand up for you and the guy... and date him anyways. once they see how much you both like eachother... they wil stop calling him gay!
Good luck :)
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i like this boy. he is 16// see i know he likes me bc my cuzin asked but he has a gf he told my cuzin that he likes me and wants to go out with me but then he said he is stuck with this other girl/. but the boy i like tells my friend he likes her so i dont know what to believe. the boy i like calls me and stuff but grrr i dont know. i was suppose to go to a powerhouse with him me and him. he asked me and now he is taking his gf . so0 did i make a bad choice not to go. i wanted to go but my dad wouldnt let me he doesnt trust me and by the way im 18. please help me bc i want to tell him i like him and he knows that i like him so what do i do...... write back asap and i will rate you. thank you all (link)
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well it seems to me that this guy is a player.. you may not want to hear it, but honestly: he has a girlfriend, he said he likes you, and he told your friend that he likes her too. it just doesnt seem right. I think that not going to Powerhouse was a wonderful idea, because jealous girlfriend are never good. and you have to think about it from her perspective, you wouldnt want him going with some other girl if he was your boyfriend. I think you need to sit down and have a talk with him. tell him that he needs to make a decision... because he DOES. he cant keep stringing along different girls... and you should definatly not settle for being one of many. You deserve SO much better than that. NO girl deserves to be one of many girls.... and once you figure that out, you'll realize that this guy is not worth it. and maybe he will decide that you are the only one for him [ and i wish desperatly that he would] but the truth is... he really does seem like a player. and it may be hard to see the good in knowing that now, but later on you're going to realize that you are better off without him. because players leave to heart break, and trust me... it sucks!
Good luck and I really hope everything works out for you! :)
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Hey ,
Alright well , i've been going to the gym and working on cardio and running on the ski machine and the running machine too , and i'm trying to get curves , but I don't think it's working.. How do you get curves in less then a year??
PLEASE HELP!
Thank you ,
Betty! (link)
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here is a website that you can try :)
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3353.html
Hope it helps you !
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how long do you have to wait after starting the pill until you don't have to use another form of contraceptive (like condoms) anymore? or i guess i'm asking how long until the pill is fully effective? (link)
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it depends on the type you are taking so read the booklet that comes with the pills. but you should use condoms anyways because the pill isnt 100 % effective... and it doesnt protect against STD's
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is there any way i can get cold readings or those mini skits they let you use, online? (for free?!)
also any monologues?
i'm really interested in acting, but i know to get better, i have to do it on my own. So if you know ANY websites where i can get tips, acting excersizes, skits and monologues, i'd be so greatfull! thank you :D ! (link)
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here are some websites to try:
monologs: http://www.redbirdstudio.com/AWOL/monologbooks.html
tips and exercises: http://theater.about.com/od/actorsinformation/ss/text1.htm
http://www.knowledgehound.com/topics/acting.htm
Hope these help you out :)
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I have since the 6th grade always felt so far away from everyone I am there talking yet seem to fail to connect with them and also whenever a girl seems to show intrest in me for no reason I act wierd as if I have to keep my distance from everyone someone please just give me any advice on how to be closer to people. (link)
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it seems like you have a slight problem with trust or maybe even paranoia. my best guess is that you are keeping your distance because you are afraid of geting hurt maybe? just try to find common ground with people. if you meet someone who likes to do something that you also like to do... roll with it and try to connect with them through the common interest. you just have to try your best to be yourself.. if this doestn work you might want to see someone such as a counselor. they can help you talk through your worries and fears, or if this is not the problem they will be able to help you find what the problem is.
I really hope this works for you! Good luck :)
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do i really love david? i dont no i ask this question because im confused yeah idsome things with him but i hardly no him met him on june 2nd yeah i got a boy friend im mixed up in this love affair i love two what do i do doing things with david may have changed my life and tha way i felt i thought a first he was just a nother guy but then the sweetest thoughts he told me made me realize some where inside he love me too but i dont no he say not yet so tell me do i love him cuz i love my boyfriend to death please help me (link)
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okay.. i'm a little bit confused. sorry! im getting that there are two guys, david and your boyfriend? okay hopefully that is right. David seems like the new guy? you probably dont love him if you dont really know him. love is an extremely intense emotion and it takes a long time to acheive this. you may like hiim a lot, but chances are if you just met him... its lust. and he has sweet things to say but does he really mean them. i wouldnt throw things away with your boyrfriend just yet.. i mean David may seem like a wonderful guy, but he may just be playing you. you have to really sit down and talk with him about whether or not you have a future together. i dont want to scare you or anything, but many guys are just sweet talkers and they dont really mean it. so you have to wait and see if he really means all the sweet things he says. and if he says that he truly does have feelings for you. you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself. you need to truly think about who makes you happier and safer. think about who will take care of you through all your hard times, and about who will make you laugh when all you want to do is cry. the person you are with should be the one that makes you feel ike the most beautiful girl in the room and who thinks you are truly wonderful. just think long and hard about who you want to be with. ask yourself all those questions... and i am sure you will come up with a clear answer. then just let the other guy down sweetly. just tell him nicely that he is going to make one girl very happy, but you are just not the right guy for you.
I really hope that I understood your question correctly. If i didn't or you need more advice. Feel free to inbox me and I will do my best!
Good luck :)
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I have moved once more. It is nothing but a pain though. I have moved quite far from my friends and I feel very lonely, and thanks to the school year ending, I have no friends here. I would walk around my neighborhood but I am afraid that I might get hurt since this is a new town and a new place. What should I do?
PS: My b-day is in like 4 days, I might still be able to hang with some friends then though. Key word: might. (link)
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I have moved around a lot, and i have actually learned to like it. You get a fresh new start and leave the old you behind. you can be any one you want to be, and no one would no the difference. a good way to meet people is to get a job.. and if you are not old enough for that, try going to places around your time where kids would be. Try the YMCA [or a local gym] you can also go to the park or something. Just make the most of it, and no matter what- dont sit in your house and wish you were somewhere else. this is going to do nothing but depress you. you have to look on the bright side of things, for all you know- this new town could be a great fit for you!
Good luck :)
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i'm having a lousy summer as usual. during school, i've been planning how this summer would be different and life channging, but nothing has happened in the past two weeks, i'm scared summer will jus fly by and everything will be the same. the past two weeks i jus been home, mostly by myself, and i barely get out. i jus eat, get on the computer, watch tv, and sleep. yeh, i sound like a big looser, and i guess you could say i am. i didn't choose my situation, and i don't have many friends, and no close friends, i didn't talk to alot of people due to depression. im 16/f, i can drive. ugh, what do i do, i'm not even motivated. i want to have fun, go to a beach, party, make some friends, hook up with a guy, you know w/e is fun. how do i do this, i have no connections with people, where do i go, what do i do? this summer has got to be fun.
i know this isn't asked very well, jus tell me what you're doing this summer and how you did it.
any help is appreciated :D (link)
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get a job :) i know it may seem dumb, but it will allow you to meet new people and you get some good cash! find a job that you would have fun with though... like for exanple if you love children you can get a job at a daycare or a amusement park or something. a good way to meet a lot of people is too work in the restaurant business because there are so many people who work there. Then you can connect with your coworkers and hang out with them. there is always good parties after work ends :)
Good luck, and I hope your summer gets better :)
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Hey! Well, for my summer vacation my family and I are going to Steamboat Springs Colorado. And we are also going to Colorado Springs. Does anyone know of any cute stores around there. Not really malls, but like cute little boutiques with clothes for teens? If so, is there anyway that you can give me an adress or website or something? Thanks! (link)
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try this website:
http://www.discoverourtown.com/CO/Steamboat%20Springs/Shopping-1312.html
hope this is what you're looking for :)
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If I have IO as my cable provider, what channel number is National Geographic? Also, is it available in HD? (link)
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its not available in HD but the channel is 162.
Good luck :)
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