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the love of my life is gone...
well, lets just say my boyfriend's parents sent him away to another state to some correctional facility. they never told him or me that he was going. just one morning i couldnt reach him. his mom called me in the afternoon and came over and told me he was gone. i just felt like a million stabs to my heart. i couldnt eat or sleep for the whole week. the papers said he is coming back july 18th but his mom said he might not come back to the area where he lives now. yes he is the love of my life. we planned on getting married and having kids. i cant picture my life with anyone else. i just want some advice to how i should deal with this. i want to go find him but i dont know if i could even see him if i was gonna go find him. and i just want him to know that i wil be waiting for him till he gets bac to me and that i love him and i think about him every second of my life. i miss him so much. what should i do to calm down and to make sure he knows that i wil be here for him till the end. i cant go on without him!
-lisa
im 17 and a female
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okay this seems really hard for you and what you really need to do right now is stay strong. I know this seems like the end of the world, but its not. Life will go on while he is away, and you ARE going to be okay... no matter how crappy everything is right now. If I were in this situation I would probably go talk to his parents. Tell them how much he means to you and how you really need him. Talk to them about how you cannot stand your life without him and you really need to be in touch with him just to let him know you are waiting for him and that you love him. hopefully she will give you address to write. if you ask them if you can go see him, they will most likely say no because they obviously sent him away for a reason. but what you have to understand is this was most likely VERY hard for them to do and they probably miss him quite a lot too, but they just felt like he needed help. So try to reason with his parents and tell them that it might make your boyfriend feel better to know that he is not alone and you would simply like to write him a letter. if they dont want to give you an address so you dont go break him out or whatever ask them if they will mail the letter for you. If they agree to this... in your letter just tell him that you love him, miss him, and are waiting for him. and ask him to call you as soon as he gets out of the facility.
If his parents dont agree to any type of communication between the two of you, maybe the facility doesnt allow it? then you just need to stay strong for him. spend time with friends and famile [people that love you] to help you through this very hard time. then when he gets out, he will most likely call you right away. i mean you are the love of his life, he isnt going to just not call. then you and him can figure out things from there on. you just need to stay strong and do whatever you can in order to get through this time. remember that he loves you, and it wasnt his choice to leave you..
Good luck with everything, and I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you and your boyfriend :)
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