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lousy summer
i'm having a lousy summer as usual. during school, i've been planning how this summer would be different and life channging, but nothing has happened in the past two weeks, i'm scared summer will jus fly by and everything will be the same. the past two weeks i jus been home, mostly by myself, and i barely get out. i jus eat, get on the computer, watch tv, and sleep. yeh, i sound like a big looser, and i guess you could say i am. i didn't choose my situation, and i don't have many friends, and no close friends, i didn't talk to alot of people due to depression. im 16/f, i can drive. ugh, what do i do, i'm not even motivated. i want to have fun, go to a beach, party, make some friends, hook up with a guy, you know w/e is fun. how do i do this, i have no connections with people, where do i go, what do i do? this summer has got to be fun.
i know this isn't asked very well, jus tell me what you're doing this summer and how you did it.
any help is appreciated :D
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Do you have a neighborhood pool? Go down to that. You'll definitely meet some new people there. And if you don't feel like swimming, just lay out or something.
You said you have SOME friends. So, call/text/IM/e-mail them and ask if they want to get a group together (they can bring their other friends or something) and go see a movie.
Is there a beach anywhere nearby that you could just get a friend and go down to? Do that. The two of you will definitely make some new friends there.
Don't worry about just calling a friend out of the blue and them thinking it's weird or whatever - chances are, they're probably just as bored as you are. ;)
Good luck!
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get a job :) i know it may seem dumb, but it will allow you to meet new people and you get some good cash! find a job that you would have fun with though... like for exanple if you love children you can get a job at a daycare or a amusement park or something. a good way to meet a lot of people is too work in the restaurant business because there are so many people who work there. Then you can connect with your coworkers and hang out with them. there is always good parties after work ends :)
Good luck, and I hope your summer gets better :)
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