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i have been friends with tisha all my life and suddenly she got mad at me. she got mad when kyara and i were over at her house and i was planning to spend the night. i later found out that kyara wasnt allowed to sleep over b/c tisha's parents wouldnt let her. i figured that i would go home and kyara could stay and spend the night. this turned into a big ordeal and tisha got mad at me for inviting kyara over. when i invited her over, i thought that she was allowed to spend the night b/c tisha didnt say anything when i told her that kyara was spening the night. so they were both mad at me. so i left without saying goodbye. kyara forgave me that night, but tisha is still mad at me. i have tryed saying sorry but she wont accept it. what else should i do?
well this whole thing sounds liek a huge misunderstanding and tisha shouldd forgive you. Just talk to her and see if thre is anything else up that tisha is not telling you...good luck and i hope you and tisha are stlil friends!
Okay. so my hair is really straight. and when i say straight i mean straight. There is no wave or curl to it whatsoever. My question is how can i make it curly. Do perms turn out okay? i dont want it tightly curled just like loose curls. Help!! Ill rate, i promise. =]
well you can use a curling iron to make curls and then loads of hairspray so it sticks...or use moose in wet hair, dry it, and then curl it either with a curling iron or medium sized curlers...perms damage your hair too much and are a pain once they start to grow o ut, but if you decide to go with the perm, make sure your hair stylist uses medium or large sized sets so there not grandma-ish...
Ok i want to makeout with my booyfriend before he moves away forever to a different country. Weve been together for 2 years its great it took awhile for a first kiss but not a true kiss just a peck on the lips. Now i want to makeout but dont think he even knows how and is like really shy i dont want to force him to do something he doesnt want to but i really want to makeout with him. What should i do?
just move in for the kiss! he'll go with it....it may be a lil iffy at first but it'll get better with time...
My dad doesn't let me straighten my hair. Like there's nothing in this world that will let him let me straighten it, but I straighten my hair! I'm going to camp soon so I safely snuck it into my bag. One problem how do I straighten it at home? I have to pack my suitcase a week early and mail it in which has my straightner. I can't borrow my friends straightner because they don't straighten their hair. I'm going on a plane... I can't bring it as carry on because if they inspect my bag my dad will see it and kill me!! I'm not checking any bags, so what do I do??
I'll rate 5s
well if you straighten it anyway, i dont see how can "wont let you".....but for the week, why dont you wear it curly or something..idk what your hair is like on the natural, but scrunch it if its wavy, and tame it with conditioner if its out of control.....try new styles you wouldnt normally do, like half up half down in a claw clip or something....headbands, ponytails...whatever...have fun with your hair!
ok well i want my hair lighter but my mom wont let me dye it so how can i get lighter hair without dying it? thankz i rate high
thers products out there that lighten your hair as yous sit in the sun....you can get them cheap at walmart or something and supposedly they work.
Okay, so my ex-boyfriend moved about 3 hours away from me about a year and a half ago. I just can't seem to let go I still have a lot of feelings for him, and according to him he still has feelings for me to. He is coming for a week in July and i'm not sure if I should see him or not, i'm trying to let go, and everytime he comes here i fall head over heals for him again and when he leaves im sad. It's sooo hard not to see him, because I want to soo bad. Do you think that I should see him or not? & are there any ways to get over someone you really care about?
i dont think you shoudl see him because its just going to re-kindle old feelings and ya'll might do something you regret and that will just complicate your situation even more. I say, remain friends with him, but nothing romantic. He lives 3 hours away and hes probably out trying to find another girl, while you should be out living your life and finding another man.
If the just friends things confuses yall, try not talking to eachother at all..its sad but it works to get over people...also go out wiht your friends at home, meeting new people and having fun. Find ways to keep your mind off of him and things should be okay over time...hope this helps and good luck!
At school today, we were discussing the French Revolution in History class. The teacher was talking about how back then 97 % of French people were Catholic and they stuck firmly to tradition. We then started contrasting that to these times.
Then out of the blue he asked how many people believed in a Christian God. Not one person put their hand up. I didn't at first because I was embarassed, but then I did. I was the only one.
Later I was thinking.. I'm not sure it was right for my teacher to ask this. Is there any sets of rules on this type of thing? Like are teachers not meant to discuss issues like religion, politics, etc? I'm usually pretty closed-up about this kind of thing.
It really bothers me when I think about it, because I don't see why it was necessary. I graduate high school in a few months and was thinking of saying something to him at the end of the year. So, can someone let me know their opinion on this? Was it wrong for him to ask this?
Thanks.
teachers can use religion strictly for educational purposes, like an english teacher can assign the Bible as a mandatory book to read simply because it is literature. Teacheres cross the line however if they start to PREACH it and say that this is right, and this is wrong. They are aloud to state you the facts and let you make your own opinions. School isnt supposed to be like church. What your teacher asked i dont think was crossing the line b/c he was simply asking for statistical reasons and to make a point. He wasnt singling you out to make fun of you, and if it felt that way, then maybe you are a little insecure with your beliefs.
If it still bothers you however, confront him by just mentioning that "blaa blaa blaa he was a good teacher, how eevr you did not like hwo he asked our opinion on religion in class that one time.."
i hope you understand what i am saying, and good luck!
i don't know what songs to put on my ipod! umm lets see i like rap and alternitive music. anything from fall out boy and panic! at the disco to lil jon and stuff. what are some REALLY good songs? not the ones that are over played like "grills" but ones that you guys really enjoy! if you give me 20 or more REALLY GOOD songs ill deff. give you a 5! thanks guys.
go to limewire search on limewire and just put in the genre of music you are looking for and hit search.. it gives you a really long list of songs and there always really good songs....also, if you listen to the radio and get songs off of there it helps too.....i hope i wasnt too vague and if you have anymore questions just ask!
Anyone have a myspace? Someone made a fake one about me and I want to know who the person is. How do I report them or how can i tell who they are?
Thanks
i rate 5s
flag them and report them to Tom. He pretty much fixes everything.
I've realised I have depression and I desperatley need to talk to someone.
I know who i can trust (its a teacher) and I'm so scared because Im not an open person, I cant talk about my feelings easily.
I've tried to go to the counsellor at college but I cant walk into the room.
Anyway, how can i talk to the teacher?
What do i say to begin the conversation?
if you guys talk to each other a lot, next time your teacher asks how you are tell em your not so great and get into the convo like that.. just casually, you kno?
i hope this helps
okay you know those things that are sent to your house and i guess there was an ad for proactive and it said it was only 19.99 +tax. okay well i have a couple of questions.. well its regularly 45.00+tax but why is it 19.99 now? like is it on sale or they just lowerd the price? and also one more question.. you know how when u buy it and it like signs you up into the program and will send you proactive for like every other month or something, what if i dont want it? what do i do?
the 20 dollor thing is because its striaght from the manufacturer and they wanttt you to buy it cause its so cheap. If you dont want it anymore after you subscribe, then call up the 800 number and unsubscribe!
well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.
people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual
and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared
because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things
WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person
Well it hurts and you bleed depending on your body. If you are sensitive to pain you probably are more likely to think it hurts, and it also depends on the guys size. I didnt bleed that much, and it was just a little, after the fact.
IF the guys scare you b.c there whores, then dont have sex with the whores, theyll just make you feel like crap. I know, cause the guys in my town are the same way. Find someone you truely trust and he'll accept you and you;l feel comfortable with him and you;ll know when its "right".
When you eventually do get to "do it" just go with the flow. I didnt know much of anything really before i lost my virginity but then i just went with the flow and it was okay, and now i'm "better" at it i guess you can say..You are just starting out so noone expects you to be a pro...."just go with the flow and thats all you need to know".......good luck!!
wuts the averge size for a penis...and does it matter?
5 inches is average, and to some girls it matters, but like everybody else said, if they really like you it shouldnt.
i wasn't exactly sure where to put this. i have a friend, who just happens to be a hermaphodite or however you spell/say that word. she/he is a boy and a girl. they have both parts. she just told a couple of her friends recently at camp, and it's fine with all of her friends, except the girl she likes. she doesn't believe that she's gay, because she told me she sees herself as more of a boy than a girl, or 80% 20% as she puts it. the girl that she likes has been avoiding her ever since my friend told her how she felt. now that i've explained that, my friend was asking me the other day what to do about it, and i didn't know what to tell her. so, i'm just asking, do you have any idea what she should do as in...coping with it i guess?
sorry it's so long, but if you still don't understand exactly what i'm asking, i'll find some way to talk to you about it.
if the girl your friend likes does not want to accept your friend than i think you should tell them to move on. There is non point in chasing after a lost cause, its just a waste of time. There are way more accepting people out there for your friend and he needs to realize that. Good luck!
Okay she has always been my best friend, but she can be soo immature and really embarressing and it drives me crazy. And i tell her that shes immature. Ive always felt wierd opening up to her or telling her you know "secrets". (like talking about boys our partying or the how far have you gone thing.) We are more like the hanging out watching the t.v. or with the whole group of friends thing. When we do hang out with other people together everybody loves her and shes like the center of the croud and it makes me super jelous. And every body tells her everything in there lives and ect. I just dont know what to do, i hate opening up to her and it seems like shes better friends with them when we both know we are best friends. Well any advice that would be great! But please no rude comments.
-16/f
maybe your not really "best friends" in the senes that you tell eachother everything. You too are just good friends that have fun together. Personally, i would not confide in her just because she might end up telling everybody else your business or that your some kind of jealous bitch. your 16, people talk, and you wont want that. Try hanging out with your friends without her there, be yourself and see how it goes.
Next year I will be trying out for my school's cheerleading team. I want to already know how to do a split before a try out for the team. I would like to some tips and pointers on how to do a split. Like what type of warm ups should I do before a split and what type of cool downs should I do after a spilt. If anyone had any helpful advice it be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
stretttchhhhh those leggssssss before and after. butterflys, froglegs, bar stretches[1 leg up on bar or high surface...countertop, what ever and you slide the one foot as far as you can keeping the ground foot sturdy and not moving
The song "I Write Sins Not Tragedies" by Panic! at the Disco came on the radio today and I noticed that they beeped out the word "God." Why is that? Is God not supposed to be on the radio?
Goddamn is a curse but damn isnt...whatever. its stupid. the whole word should be bleeped if you ask me..
When cooking, can baking powder be replaced with baking soda?
nevvverrrrrrrr.
one makes things rise a little, and idk what the other one does, but your dessert will suckkk if you do that.
Fourteen;Female
Okay there are these two boys they're best friends. Or atleast thats what Matt thinks but Jeff really hates Matt. Anyway I like Jeff all last summer he was sweet and alll this stuff and he liked me but nothing could happen becasue my best friend Maria liked him. So them I liked Matt who is SUPER HOTT funny cute nice but only sometimes. Other times he pissy and concided. Now its the end of the year. And my friend Sarah likes Jeff alot, but I think im starting to like him. Jeff always says he lves me and stuff and we always talk about Matt and how big of a dick he is and im so confused. So I want to know, if you were me what would you do?
no girl "owns" a guy watsoever. you should back o ff if the guy is in a relationship, but if some chick just likes him, who cares you're not a "bf stealer." talk to Sarah if you think it will bebetter for things....from what you tol d me, id go with Jeeff, but talk to him first. Matt sounds like a dirtbag and once you start goin with dirtbags, thats all your gonna want cause thats all youknow. gooddd luckkkk. your probably a freshman in high school right now...imagine... 4 more years of this drama...
okay well i want to give my boyfriend a BJ
but we have no way to get comdoms
and i would rather do it without one
and like we are both virgins. b.c we have known eachother since we were like 11 we are both 14
so with us both being virgins and not having no kinda sex with anyone just you know kissing each other
can i get a mouth infection giving him oral without a comdom?
personally, i dont give blowjobs. like one of the girls said "these lips were made for kissin.." try a hand job first, get comfortbale with your bf's junkk.
and yes you can get a STD but its less likely cause hes a virgin...always be careful and good luck with whatever you decide to do..or not do.