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a friend's problem
i wasn't exactly sure where to put this. i have a friend, who just happens to be a hermaphodite or however you spell/say that word. she/he is a boy and a girl. they have both parts. she just told a couple of her friends recently at camp, and it's fine with all of her friends, except the girl she likes. she doesn't believe that she's gay, because she told me she sees herself as more of a boy than a girl, or 80% 20% as she puts it. the girl that she likes has been avoiding her ever since my friend told her how she felt. now that i've explained that, my friend was asking me the other day what to do about it, and i didn't know what to tell her. so, i'm just asking, do you have any idea what she should do as in...coping with it i guess?
sorry it's so long, but if you still don't understand exactly what i'm asking, i'll find some way to talk to you about it.
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Your friends condition is a blessing. Not too many people can be that blessed by god. The problem is that other people may not be as exceptable. If this girl cannot accept your friends way of life then he doesn't need her. It is her loss, she may not see it that way, but one day she will. Live your life for you and not the people around you. Your happiness is what counts everybody elses happiness is just a plus.
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if the girl your friend likes does not want to accept your friend than i think you should tell them to move on. There is non point in chasing after a lost cause, its just a waste of time. There are way more accepting people out there for your friend and he needs to realize that. Good luck!
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I think she should just forget about that girl, I mean if she doesnt accept her for who she is, then she shouldnt be with her. Just be with your friend and tell her that are always more people out there :)
and if I answered this wrong, please feel free to IM me at kayyla M
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