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ok ... i think my boyfriend is going to break up with me soon. we got in a huge fight online and he said everything was okay, but we dont go to the same schools. he said that he would never find anyone better than me. and he was like threating killing himself because he thot i broke up with him online but i didnt and we clarified that LATER. i really dont kno wut to do cuz i would feel guilty breaking up w\ him, but we both promised each otha we wouldnt -- its really confusing. help pleaseee! thnx! (link)
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okayy hunni i dont think he's qonna break up w. you acutally its prob. the total opposite ... he sounds obssessed if not mostly in love w. you ! you should try spending more time with him .. more loving and quality time w. him! try to be more affectionate w. eachother! try to see eachother more often then jsut tlakin online! and if you still dont have feelings for him like realtionship feelings then break it off w. himm before he thinks you two will be together forever! before someone qets emotionally hurt! break it to him as easy as possible!!! tell him that this realtionship isnt workin and you sitll want to remain really good friends! hope i help qood luck!
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I feel numb. I can get out of bed, go to work, joke with people, do things I love, and still feel this way. I just can't seem to shake it off. I feel hollow inside, and I don't really know WHY.
Sometimes I only sleep 2-3 hours a night. Other nights I sleep 12-13 hours. I also do not eat properly anymore, even on my good days. Some days I'll just eat an apple for breakfast/lunch and about 1/3 of my dinner. I just don't feel hungry. But even when I am starving, I fix up a big meal and try to put the food in my mouth, but I have to stop because it makes me feel like vomiting. Believe me, I fix meals every day and try to eat snacks but most of it ends up in the trash or back in the fridge. I don't think I am fat, in fact, I think I am too skinny and wouldn't mind some curves on my body. I think maybe my mind is in such anguish that it wants the body to suffer too.
Please don't be like... just eat something!!! Just be happy!!! Believe me, I TRY. It's not as easy as some people think. I have been down the road of counselling (no help) and meds(made me act ADD) for depression before, but this feeling seems different to me. Just numbness, not really saddness/pain/hopelessness like the depression I felt in the past (about 3 years ago). (link)
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try seeing a doctor .. not a conselore jsut a normal doctor for a check up tell your dr. you dont need meds that make u ADD tell her your body feels weird and you cant eat normal ... i felt this way during this past summer i could eat and if i tried to eat somthin i would feel like throwin up .. after a while the feeling went away after a while so just see what happens in the next couple of days/weeks if you still hav this feeling you should go to a doctor. GOOD LUCK
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ok well theres this girl nicole n she think were just friends buh i love her n she doesnt kno i'm a lez buh o my gosh shes so fuckin sexi
wat du I du
Lmao I love you nicole u are the fuckin funniest! (link)
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okay well you aprroach this qirl "nicole" [wha an awesome name lmao] and tell her how u feel dont be scared to show your tru colorsss ! =] qood luck w, thaaaaa
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okay this may be really weird..but ever since i kissed my boyfriend last week..every1 is calling me a whore..and like i don't get why i really didn't do anything and now every1 is calling me a whore and a slut..its just really pissing me off..and i think i heard my bf call me a slut when i was standing in front of him at school during a fire drill... (link)
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okay well mayb theas more to it then that are you absolutely sureh its bcus you kissed him? mayb someone said somthing else ... mayb some1 tho they saw you kissin some1 tha wasnt your bf? even tho u didnt someone might have mistaken other wise .. talk to your bf ask him if he really thinks your a slut and why he is saying it about you? ask him if its a joke and if so its not funny, its hurtful to you ... ask your friends and other people why they are saying these hurtful things about you .. find out if it is somthing other then jsut kissing your bf! good-luck
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im really confused..i just keep getting this weird feeling that my boyfriend doesn't really like me as much as he says he does..like online and on the phone he talks to me a wicked lot and he tells me he loves me a wicked lot..but like when im with him at school and like outside and stuff he like neverr talks to me..and i think thats really sad because he's in my majors and in my homeroom ( for the second year in a row) and afterr school he leave to go on his bus before i go home..and he just waves bye and leaves..like he never hugs me or anything when he leaves..and like everytime i wanna do something, he says he wants to too..but like the day before we were gunna do something he makes up an excuse so we can't go..like his mom said no because he had to watch his little brother..and i was talking to this kid and he sent me this convo between him and my boyfriend..and it was like ohh dancing w. her was horrible and im going to break up with her soon...and when i was talkin to my boyfriend about it he was all \"ohh you kno i love you and im not guna break up with you \" but like now im just not really positive about that..like how can i believe that afterr what he said to his friend..and im just really confused now..and i just like feel like i can\'t break up with him..because i've liked him for overr a yearr..and thats anotherr thing thats confusing...because it seems like in our realationship..he can control everything because he thinks i'll never break up with hi..and i seriously don\'t think i could do it..because it would just be like ruining my life..well i think it would...please help me (link)
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sounds to me like your bf is sending alot of mixed signals and its really upsetting you .. well try talking to him telling him that you feel sort of neglected .. you bf like other people could be shy in public like not want to do things in front of people and he could be scared face to face tha if he says iloveu that in public you wont say it back & he'll feel embarrassed!! ask him if this is what he wants ask him if he wants to be wiht you and if he doesnt tell him you guys should end it before you get too emotionally involved ... let him kno you care for him and want to be with him buh not at the expense of you bein led on ... you can even bring up the conversation between him and that other kid ask him & tell him you really need to know what he feels and whats goin on ... GOOD LUCK
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im 13 female
Im turning Vegetarian for 3 reasons.
1. i really dont like eating meat
2. i am against experimentation on animals, so why eat them when im against what people do to them
3. no one thinks i can do it..
do you know anything that is meat less ( food ) that is good that i can make
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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i'm not a vergetarian but i do know people who are ... they eat ALOT of salads idk if you'll like it but even a few of my friends eat vegeburgers ... they eat alot of vegetables and fruits .. uhm and i think its really good you are gonna ahcieve somthing to proove to people that you can do it good luck!!!
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I have a '05 mustang GT and I wont let anyone drive it. I don't even let my best friend who I've known since we were 3 drive it. But, apparently, my bf thinks he should be an acceptation.
We were supposed to go to a concert last night. Well, he called me up and told me that we can't take his car because he didn't have any gas and we were running late. I told him that I didn't want to take my car because the concert was in a different city and I didn't know how to get there. He gets very irritated when he has to tell someone where to go when they are driving. So, me driving was not an option.
He then suggested that he drives my car. I said no. He asked why not and I told him what I always tell him, no one drives my car.
I said that I'd even pay for the gas and that I didn't care if we were a few min. late.
He didn't pay attention to that and got all upset because I wouldn't let him drive. We ended up in an argument and didn't go to the concert.
I have my reasons for not letting my friends drive my car. Most of which is because most of them are not responsible drivers. So I don't see why my bf feels that he should be an acceptation. I'm not going to let him drive it and I'm not going to apologize. Should I just wait until he comes around?
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okay if you really insist that noone drives your car then thats what you should stick with .. dont let anyone drive your car bcus i do understand you should be worried about your safety and if anything happens whyle someone else is driving thats not you its your car and it'll be you who's in trouble if anything bad happens .. your bf is acting stubborn .. he miqht not come around you can either give him time or tell him straight out i dont want anyone but me driving and thats it !
qood-luck
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Ok here goes :). I have feeling for my Ex boyfriend who broke up with me. He said he liked someone else. But he keeps on flirting with me i think anyway. Like everytime we see each other he smiles at me and stares and he will come and stand biside me when we have breaks in between classes and he walks me to my bus EVERYDAY. He even gets kinda mad when other guys are flirting with me. So Does he. I am kinda confused! Thanks! (link)
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well from my perspective of what you are telling me it does look like he still has feelings for you .. if you havent alreadii & even if you hav go up to talk to him one on one and tell him you do still hav feelings for him! let him know how you feel thats the most important thing to do .. dont keep it inside then ask him if he has any interest in you anymore, if he has any feelings for you more then a friend ... then ask him if theres any chance of you two ever being more then friends and if he likes you the way he acts then he does like you just let him no .. he miqht think you dont like him //qoodluck\\
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
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hii ... its okay if you feel obligated at certain times in your life .. like you wannt to have more oppertunities to open in your life starting w. this new school but at the same time you dont want to leave your friends behind. well first think of what would help you more in the future staying w. you friends? or opening up to more and better opportunities? your friends will understand if they are truely your friends and telling them you are going to a new school will tell you whether or not they are true friends by understanding and letting you go ... Of course you can still be good friends with your old ones and Of course you will make alot of new friends in your new school so dont be scared or feel obligated i would say go ffor it ! take this opportunity while its still available & qood luck ! =]
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I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". (link)
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okay i see your kind of confused on whether or not you are bisexual or not ... well okay i wont say "you just know" bcus thats kind of a lame excuse people use alot! okay try new things .. try beinq with a person of the same sex and then mayb try being w. someone of the opp. sex ! try diff. experiences ... & whoever you feel more comfortable being around weather its of the same sex of deff. sex then tha should kind of help you leab towards what you want .. it may be both u may like to be w. both the same & diff. sexes ... its okay as you grow and experience more relationships this will help .. just remember not to force yourself to like who you dont want to like .. never let anyone put you down if you are bisexual its your business and people will like you for who you are!
qood-luck =]
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I know what the symptoms of mono are, but for anybody that's had it does this sound like mono to you?
My boyfriend has been one to always stay up really late (like 5 sometimes lol), but he always sleeps in on weekends to catch up and stuff so it's not all that horrible. Lately he's been getting really tired at night. He goes to sleep at like 10 or 11 which is extremely early for him. I've never known him to go to sleep until after 1. He gets headaches all the time and he's had a really bad cough on and off since I've known him, but he says that's normal for him. He hasn't been coughing lately and his headaches haven't been happening as often. He's never really eaten that much so it's hard to tell if he's lost his appetite at all. Even though he's crazy tired at night he's wide awake during the day now. What could explain him being so tired at night all of a sudden? Could it be mono? He's really stubborn and would never get tested for it. If this sounds like mono at all to anyone let me know because I don't wanna get it! (link)
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he could possibly have mono.. buh my other suggestion is that he as been makin himself more and more tired everyday from stayin up late all the time .. you can never catch up on sleep you loose duing the night its just some fact tha doctors say if you loose sleep durin the night you cant catch up w. it during the day i kno bcus my aunts a nurse .. so mayb from him stayin up all the time sooo late he exhausted himself out. let him sleep .. buh you should still pressure him into gettin tested every once in a wyle just to be sureh and dont pressure him too much then he'll get mad and annoyed so just remind him how much you care for him & his health and if he cares for you then he should get tested
good luck
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ok i love to mastrabate and recently i started putting my finger up my butt. i decided to use lube today so it would go in easier and i used protrolium jelly. is this alright to use beacuse i am kind of sore but it could just be in my head (link)
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okay yeah uhm stickin stuff up your bum is never alright to do .. it damages w.e. it is in your bum whether u use any kind of lube its just really bad to put anything in your bum [finger included] and thats the reson why your bum is sore ! soo stop or you can be seriously hurt !
good luck w. that
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i have 2 best friends and we all hang out all the time but my two best friends have known eachother longer and they tend to leave me out ALL the time! Its annoying, it comes to the point where i dont want to hang out with both of them at the same time. When they arent together and im just hanging out with one of them its is soooo much fun! i have already talked to them about it so that wouldnt work...any suggestions? (link)
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well if you cant beat them? join them ! start by bringing up fun memories you all had together by saying OH REMEMEBER THE TIME ... & take it from there 3 is never a good number especially when someone gets left out .. so take advantage of this friendship as you can .. when your w. just on of the 2 friends have an awesome time so that way when you are w. them both u can say to each of them ohhh remeber tha weekend we ... it was so much fun !!! so that way you can share the memorable times too ! good luck w. tha
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what do you do when your best friends brother is cheating on you ? (link)
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then break up wiht him .. obviously he isnt readii to make a commitment to you yet .. cheating on a person is so immature ! just explain to your best friend what happened & tell her it wont affect your relationship w, your bestfriend because its not him/her cheatinq on u its her brother! good luck with tha !
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because of you I aint never strayed to far from the side walk, because of you I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt, because of you I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty, because of you, I am afraid (link)
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aw how nice ttul byeeee =]
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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.
My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?
Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?
Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.
Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something. (link)
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as for your qirl ?;s i'lll say this much its okay you have soo many questions & inputs on life! and as for you having high standards well one day a man that you will fall madly in love w. will in fact meet those standards. NOt to sound like one of those people in a movie .. buh there is a prince charminq for you some where out there and as of if you are meeting him be4 or after highschool well no1 can really tell right now you'll meet him when he comes along. and of course mostly all qirls do feel like they fall in love w. every quy they feel is speciall to them whether its a close friend,distantfriend, new friend, or an old friend they could poss. feel as if they are in love but most of the time its not love its just that qirls feel secure and comfort in knowin she has a quy who cares for her. you kno your in love when you qet thea ... like it doesnt matter weather the quy/qirl is hott or smart or sexii or beautiful [it kind of helps] but the onlii thing that matters in love is weather u like that persons personality and enjoys their company and loves spending time w. that person no matter what the circumstances are!And to me true love is caring about the person your claim to love NO MATTER WHAT weather they are poor or rich uqly or beautiful smart or dumn just pain and simple NMW happens to tha person you will always want to be with him/her!
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Ok I have a bunch of lil flies flying around my computer screen because my smart mother left the door opened for more than one min. and just blocking the screen so I cant see lol and everytime I kill one they keep multiplying . What do I do !
girl that flies are about to eat (link)
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make sureh the door stays shut! dont let anymore in keep tryin to kill them and get some help if there are too many .. theres not much u can do they will go away or die try to ignore them .. GOOD LUCK W. THAT =]
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I went out with a boy... let's call him Jake. So Jake really really liked me. like A LOT A LOT A LOT. When he admitted to me that he liked me i guess i just went with it and told him i liked him i dunno why but i didn't really like him so much. So after about a month and a half i told him i need a little bit of time off cuz there was just to much going on and that at the time i only liked him as a friend. Well less than a week later i told him i was ready to go out with him again. He was VERY happy... well a lot of my friend's were making fun of me and one of his best friends.. lets call him Matt had a REALLY REALLY big crush on me(still does) he's really short, fat and ugly though... not that i'm shallow.. but i just don't like him. Well about a week and a half later i broke up with Jake completely. He was really really depressed and i only broke up with him because my friends were making fun of me(as a joke) but mainly because his best friend Matt was telling me that i should break up with him and we weren't meant for each other. So about a year has passed since then and i've been wit about 3-4 other boys but broke up with all of them because i still liked Jake a little. Also over time i just really didn't like them. So Jake has been with like 2 other girls also and one of them broke up with him and the he broke up with. He said that the one that broke up with him he was going to break up with anyway because she was really slutty. So Jake and I are still really good friends and neither of us like each other. Well neither of us admit to each other that we like anyone. I like Jake a lot though... I don't know if Jake still likes me because i was his first love and he was mine and they say that you never get over your first love. But i still really like him a lot. I can't admit to Jake though that i like him because I don't know if he likes me back and there are a couple of other girls who i don't know that also like him. I'm scared of being dumped. When i was first going out with him a year ago he wasn't really popular but over this year he has had many more friends. Now i guess you can say he's more popular than before, he deffinetly has more self-esteem. I don't know if i should tell him or not, and if so... how?!?! and when!?! whenever i try to bring it up he goes off topic.. although i'm really bad at hinting towards it... i really need help! any1 with good answers i'll rate a 5!! thanks!!
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okay well u def. should tell "jake" you like him .. as for the timing and place .. it should be soon but as long as your some what readii it should be just you two not a big crowd and you should jsut tell him straight out .. hey "jake" i kno we been through alot of thinqs ups & downs and tell him your glad you guys remained friends.. tell him you still hav strong feelings for him tell him that he was your first true love then wen you think you got everything out of your system ask him if he still has any feelings for you tell him its okay if he doesnt bcus no1 can be forced into likinq someone so just make surhe u let it out in the open that you still have feelings for him and if you guys wanna give it another chance and you guys can work at it. As for his friend "matt" let him qo nothin serious can happen there even though you may not like whats on the outside you always may not like the person he is on the inside its obvious that you truly like "jake" so stick with your instinct
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well i like this guy at my school. Last year he used to be soooooooooooo annoying but this year i think he's really cute! but i cant tell if he likes me!!! plz help!
here's some signs that he might like me...........................
1. he always talks to me
2.he asked me to sit on his lap (being me i said no)
3. really nice to me
4. he usually goes out of his way just to talk to me ( like one time he was late for class because he was talking to me)
-sammy (link)
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to me these totally seem like signs that he likes you w.out a doubt! go for hav a friend or if your brave enough tell him yourself that you like him and see if he has any interest in you .. tell him you guys should qo out one night or tell him to give you a call! i'm sure he likes you thats what all those signs tell me .. GOOD-LUCK =]
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whats the best way to get a guy out of my head? i went out on a date with this one guy..i met him 2 weeks before this..we had a great time..when we met and talked for hours..then we talked on the phone..we went out on a date..and he afterwards..he was all talking about a second date..and that he would call me later etc..well he called me the next day..left a message on my house phone..knowing that i wouldn't be home..i have a cell phone..and told me he had a good time etc..and thanked me for the nite before..and that he would talk to me later..but i never heard from him again..i called him a week later..to see how he was..it went straight to voicemail..he never returned my phone call..i think that i saw him a few weeks later..and when i walked past him..he totally turned and looked at me...so if hes totally gonna turn and look at me..why couldn't he make a 2nd date..like he talked about etc..how can i just get him out of my head..i doubt hes thinking of me still...even if he did come on totally strong...like he was totally into me..until he had the date..thanks.. (link)
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okay well mayb seeing he got your voicemail he prob. though u ignored his call..mayb he was waiting for a call back and never got one so he felt kind of rejected thats why when you saw him he really didnt say anything mayb he's thinkinq the same thing you are right now .. give him a call or even a visit.. if that doesnt work then just move on let him go if its meant to be it'll def. happen!
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