Question Posted Saturday November 5 2005, 11:24 pm
whats the best way to get a guy out of my head? i went out on a date with this one guy..i met him 2 weeks before this..we had a great time..when we met and talked for hours..then we talked on the phone..we went out on a date..and he afterwards..he was all talking about a second date..and that he would call me later etc..well he called me the next day..left a message on my house phone..knowing that i wouldn't be home..i have a cell phone..and told me he had a good time etc..and thanked me for the nite before..and that he would talk to me later..but i never heard from him again..i called him a week later..to see how he was..it went straight to voicemail..he never returned my phone call..i think that i saw him a few weeks later..and when i walked past him..he totally turned and looked at me...so if hes totally gonna turn and look at me..why couldn't he make a 2nd date..like he talked about etc..how can i just get him out of my head..i doubt hes thinking of me still...even if he did come on totally strong...like he was totally into me..until he had the date..thanks..
xonikkixo answered Sunday November 6 2005, 1:06 am: okay well mayb seeing he got your voicemail he prob. though u ignored his call..mayb he was waiting for a call back and never got one so he felt kind of rejected thats why when you saw him he really didnt say anything mayb he's thinkinq the same thing you are right now .. give him a call or even a visit.. if that doesnt work then just move on let him go if its meant to be it'll def. happen! [ xonikkixo's advice column | Ask xonikkixo A Question ]
falconsfire answered Saturday November 5 2005, 11:38 pm: i reckon you may need to improve on your self confidence here, this is just one guy he's the one who's missed out. always remember you're the one doing the choosing and if he doesn't like what he sees then thats too bad, its his loss.
talk to people, anyone, random people on the street, the grocery man, the check out chick, waitress. anyone you happen to bump into. This will help raise your self confidence and help you realise that losing someone after only 1 date is not a big deal, and there will be many more dates to come ... [ falconsfire's advice column | Ask falconsfire A Question ]
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