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There's this guy that I've liked on and off.. for 2 yrs. I don't even know why I like him in the first place. He acts cool all the time but I know that deep inside he's all shit. He pretends to be very confident but actually he's not. I really don't know why I like him despite knowing all these. He gives me mixed signals, or maybe it's overthinking on my part.

These are the signs that shows he likes me
- he held my hand during rollerblading (erm, maybe it's because I don't know how to blade?)
- he playfully threw a dice into my pants when my back was turned
-he told me to go up to his room to change even though his toilet was just a few steps away.
- he smile whenever I go near him
-he avoids eye contact at times

These are the signs that shows he doesnt like me
-he doesn't call/msg/IM me at all
-he doesn't ask me how's life
-he doesn't tell me his personal things
-he doesn't really give a shit about my life

That's about it. So does he like me or not? I feel that he doesn't. So can someone help me to forget about him and move on?

Thanks
P.S : I don't mind long answers. In fact, I welcome long answers. =]

mk sorry - but i dont think he really likes you. i think that cause the things you said why he wouldnt like you are lik bigger and more important and matter more than the things that would make you think that he likes you. but i also read in Teen Vougue that um if a guy makes fun of you he deffinatley likes you and hes probably insecure - [about the additional info]
but if he tells you youre ugly then i dont really know what to say. if he doest really care about youre life and doesnt tell you personal things maybe he just likes you as a friend or maybe a little more than a freind but not like really liikes you. if he smiles when youre around him he probably likes that youre there. and if he avoids eye contacts maybe its cause he doesnt want to get into an akward convo. just see how he acts around you morre. just talk to him somore and see if he'll start to tell you some of the personal stuff about you. good luck ;] hope that helps. ♥ CAROLiNEE

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16/F

I used to be friends with this girl (ill call her T) Well T and I became best friends in like 8th grade and we were inseperable. We used to do everything together (movies, mall, sleepovers, parties) we could even finish eachothers sentences. When me and T hangout we have a really good time, but she has stabbed me in the back more then once. T was texting/calling my boyfriend when we were going out and then when we broke up she went out with him like 2 months later another time there was this guy i really liked and he liked me and she was jealous so she would tell him that i dont really like him and was telling him things to make him like her..he ended up going out with some other girl. She has also tried to get people who are my friends against me too and she loves to copy me like my clothes, hair, guys i like, etc.. Now were both in 11th grade and since school started we havent been talking about 5 or 6 months and truthfully i miss hanging out with her and being friends but i dont know how to even start up a conversation and tell her how i feel because i dont want her to think im crawling back or not want to be friends, i know she has not been a good friend in the past but idk what to do can anyone help?

i can see how you dont wanna lose a friend & all but shes been really mean to youu. "T" has backstabbed you aton. i dont like being friends with people like that but maybe its just me. anywayss ;; if you wanna be friends with her again than just start talking to her.. lik normally first just like whats up.. stuff lik that. dont start with the whole friendship thing. & also ;; did you guys just stop talking randomly? im confused. hope that helped. ♥CAROLiNEE

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So a few weeks ago I broke up with this guy, (he asked another girl while we were sill dating). I stil liked him when we broke up but I felt there was no other way to deal with it.
Well about a few weeks later one my friends (and his best friend) "blog" her comment said "what do you do when your best friend likes you and TWO of your friends like him?"
I was so sure that one of the friends was me so I rushed over to her and asked her who the other girl was. . . . . . . . .
She told me it was a long time ago but that my "best friend" was the other girl. I was so furious at my best friend. She didnt even tell me. But now my ex lieks her and I dont want them to go out. I still have a little bit of feeling for him. WHAT AM I SUPOSE TO DO??

i think youree lik kinda jealous that they lik eachother & its lik normal. i just dont see how you can still like him after he cheated on you. its lik woahhh thurrr. but just let them go out. but dont lose a friend over a stupid guy that cheated on youu. seriouuslyy. ;] ♥ sorryy that was probably bad advice and kinda harsh but.. its truee. ♥ caare

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actually.. remove the might.. i definitely just hacked my crushs email. for the second time.

can someone please help me understand WHY im doing this? cause i really dont understand.. i know for a fact he doesnt get emails, i already know all his contacts,, so i dont understand why i keep hacking him? like im an idiot!

last time i spent 2 weeks crying because of it.

and now i did it again!

wtf is wrong with me??

i think i get a rush from doing bad things.. why is that? and how do i get rid of it? i really dont want to anymore..

please help, thx.

i dont get wwhy you do thaat caause it sounds kindaa stupid... but yeaah thats just gay yourre being WAAAY to over protective. just talk to him and stuff. just cause yurre over protective doesnt mean you go into someones email and frikin hack it. somethings wrong with youuu.. over protective. back off or he'll dump youu. SORRRYY!! dont think that helped all that muuch but you being over protective is whaats wrong with youu. ♥ - care.

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are guys attracted by eyes? it seems that if i guy ever looks i me its directly in my eyes and staring...i was voted prettiest eyes in my schoool and the be honest it's the only feature of myself i like....what i was wondering is is guys attracted to eyes when they look for a girl?

(when i look for i boy....eyes is what i notice first...but what about guys?)

im not ssurre. im not a guy??! ♥ CAREE.

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i love yur advice

♥ thankkkkss =]

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i have a friend and shes 16 and shes 5 6 1/2 and she thinks that shes to tall for her age i was just wondering is that a tall height for her age or is it normal?

its tall but normal ♥

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What`s the best thing to use for pimples that actualy works? & that I don`t have to orde.

I use this saint ive's facial cream. it works reallyy goodd and it removes makeup, protects your face from pimples, and removes themm. its kind off like a lotiony type of thinng. but it doesnt make your face all greasy. its in liike a cream colored bottle ♥ good luck with thatt.!. xo care

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yoo give really good advice.

=)thhankkss. ♥ caroline nicole

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i want to be popular but i don't know how to become popular!!

umm deffinatlley don't use people [[ like by using people i mean going out w/ a guy because yu think it will make yu popular or being mean to someone because you think people will talk about you and that will make you popular ! do nooott doo that stuff ]] and just be yourself. if you're gonna be popular than just don't be fake to become popular. and what does "popular" mean to yoo? if it means liek always being called to do stuff than like find your close friends and invite them to stuff. or if yu think its that everybody loves whoevers popular than just be really nice. jest try to make more friends, and be open to new people!! ♥care

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hey care bear!!!! AHHH I LOVE YUUU!!!!!!!!! mauhhhh\\\kissskiissss. ♥ kristaaaa

MmMM kRisTa isS my faaavorrrite quarterback in this uuniverrse. :P hahha woo! i love youu giirrliie.!. letss see KWARGO WARGO && CARE SHARE PARE LAiRE HARE??? woo! haha love youuuu!!! ♥ :] caaaaaaare

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hey. me and my boyfriend love each other to deeathh. but i never have the time to hang out, so he thinks i dont like him. i call him a ton with my friends but i know thats not enough. HELP! thanks i'll rate.

okkay just talk to him a lot. be like we should hang out like on friday, but i can't any other days cause of basketball. that way he knows you're not ditching him for something else ;) and tell him yu love hiim. :)
&hearts care beaar

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haha it's me againn.
thanks for "coming back"..even though you never left! lol.
yay.

yourre welcome =] aaskkk quuiiestionnss!
♥ care

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you came back but then you left again
whats up with that?

COME BACK!!!

:]it just wasn't in my prooo.
♥ im back don't woorry. hah.
[♥] care [♥]

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hey care i dont know if you know who this is but o well:) umm i like this guys and i have asked him out once ,, but some times i feel like he flirts in his own kind of way and that maby he might like me ,, but he is my really good friend and when i first asked him out he said he just wanted to be friends ,, so i really like him but i dont know if he likes me ,, but what i really want to know is why he didnt want to go out w/ me before PLEASE try and help thx :)

heeeey! i thiink i know who this iss & ii ♥ yooou giirrl ! yeaah i know who you're talking abouut. he can be REALLY shhhy, and that doesnt let you know if he likes you orr not. ;) hes super confussingg. i think he said no before because he wasn't ready. maybe he'd rather have you as a friend. and trruuust me they'll be better guys for youu. maybe he just doesnt really want a girlfriend right now. he wants to be able to like anyboddy. i can talk to him for youuu and like see what he says. juuust like wait and see if he likes you the way you like him :) ♥ youu girrl - always here for youu.. you can tell me anythiing i swearrr. ♥ -- care

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how do i become a columnist and get people to ask me questions??
thx!

wow its really eassy! go to www.advicenators.com and you'll see this thing that says register. click iit and make a name! then like to get people to ask you ?'s put it in your aim profile or like answer a random ?. ♥ caroline nicole

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aww care yur amazinggg. i love youuuuuuu with all my ♥! AMAZiNG ADViiCE.

--kacey acey ♥

iii effing ♥ kacey acey more than y. o. u. HECK YES AMAZiNG ADViCE!! [♥] [caaare] [♥]

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i love you
youre so damn hott

=]tAkEn. ♥ carre

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Okay, well I'm 13/f turning 14 in july

This question is regarding my birthday party...my parents are allowing me a sleepover and i'm going to bring a few friends to an amusement park for the day. The problem is, the park admission is $20 per person and obviously that would be a large amount of money for my 4-5 friends, then my family, and me. I want my friends to pay for it, but what is a polite way to put it on the invitations? I was thinking a good way to go might be to write on there "instead of a gift, admission to the park is $20." or something of that sort. What do you guys think? Thx very much =] And yeah my bday is a month from yesterday (6/14) so I don't need the answers urgent... (like, tomorrow.) I dunno if that matters on here or what, but ok I'll stop talking now haha.

my biirthhdays the 13th! woo okay um i'd just say on the card like we're going to whateverr amusement park, so instead of gifts -- bring money ! ((like you said)) i think that would worrk. ♥ -- care

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i kno this may seem stupid....but i need to get some nail polish off as quickly as possib le but i dont have nail polish remover....do you kno any ways to get it off without that doesnt take a lot of time?

umm maybe try to scrub it off with water. or like go get some nail polish remover cause that would be really quiickk. try to like scratch or scrub it off.
♥ care

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