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hey my name is samantha =]and im from randolph, MA...
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I have no butt. Plain and simple. HAH. What things can I do to like, make my butt bigger? Like, exercises or something. It's really annoying, and doesn't go with my body. It makes me look weird. Please help! (link)
okay, well you can do squats for excercises, and then you can look up on google things that you can eat to help it get bigger...


im 16/f. my boyfriend is 18/f. they are taking his best friend out to the strip club for his 18th birthday. should i or should i not care? because i don't know how i feel about it right now. (link)
okay, well from experience, if i were you i wouldn't care too much that he's going to a strip club. well, as long as he's not cheating then you shouldnt care i mean at strip clubs you cant touch the girls or anyhting so its really nothing to worry about. And if its for your boyfriends friend you really shouldnt worry about it. i hope i helped.


what is a cunt?? (link)
okay, well this word means pussy.. or vagina etc...


EVERYTIME i like a guy, flirt with a guy, a guy flirts with me, i get a chance with someone......

MY bestfriend goes after him. EVERYTIME!

she's a lot more "easy" & "pushy" with guys than i am and she'll do things like hook up with the guy i have a crush on at a party when i'm not there.

I HAVE confronted her about it and we fought for about a month....i found new friends.....BUT she's my favorite person to be around! i ALWAYS have a blast with her and we both laugh at everything. The problem is she's NOT loyal. i told her that. and she apologized...i gave her a second chance....We made up and she promised she would work on it. A year has gone by and NOTHING has gone wrong!

except for now....for about a month we have liked the same guy. the ONE weekend i go out of town....she hooks up with him!

she calls me and tells me omg he's so cute. we're so cute together.....but the thing is....................i "can't" get mad because......no one had a "label" on him! for the past week they've been texting and hanging out and AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH it makes me SO ANGRY!

if they ever break up.....i can't "go after him" because it's my bestfriends ex!


SHE RUINED IT FOR ME......

i keep saying.....whocares just find another guy....but it's HARD when you've been liking one and flirting with one for a month to just to move on while you watch your FRIEND WITH HIM!

I LIKE HIM AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

and when i want to go out to lunch...i always call her and we go and laugh and have a blast......BUT I CAN'T BECAUSE
1)I'M SO PISSED AT HER
2)SHE'S ALWAYS WITH HIM NOW

so i go hangout with other friends....but they aren't the same


i'm STUCK (link)
okay, well for one shes not a true friend if she knew that you liked him and was tlaking to him so pretty much just dont fight with her but try not talking to her and maybe she will realize that you are really pissed at her for doing that to you.Because real friends dont do things like that. well, i dope that i helped and i hope you feel better. Try not to let it bother you, or at least not let it show as much. because trust me, i understand. it will help.


I'm 13 and i habe b36 boobs.I'm 120lbs and everything and i don't have my period. I don't want it- but I just wanna know when i'm going to get it. My mom died when I was younger so i can't ask her (duh haha), and my aunt can't remember. Is there like a website or something where you can plug in information and like get back a certain date?

thankss (link)
well theres not a certain date.. you just get it some day. i didnt get mine till i was 15 so dont worry about it.. but, be careful and be aware (like carry some extra pads or tampons with you just in case).. i hope that i helped, but if you wanted a web site.. google has EVERYTHING on it so you can try to search it but i never have so i dont know if anyhting will show up.


What does the phrase, "I wear my heart on my sleeve." mean?
Thanks :) (link)
it measn that you are to open with your heart, yo let people into your heart too easy. It pretty much means that you fall in love to easy.. either with the opposite sex or with people in general.


my name is Rachel strickland and iam 17 years old and iam a speciaed student and i want to have sex with my boyfriend who's in regulared and is 18 could jesse get into trouble with the police for have sex with someone who has a disability like add attention defficence disorder while they are still in school? (link)
the only reason that he would get into trouble with the cops is because you are under the age of 18. but, if it is consentual, and you dont go running to the cops screaming rape, then he wont get into any trouble for aheving sex with you. hope i helped.


male
16 years old

ok well i have the history of being dumped for being "clingly" . and well im with a girl i really like right now and i dont want my "clingyness" to get in the way of this so could someone please clarifi (spelling) what exactly being clingy is and what i can do to not be clingy. like me and my gf go to the same skewl but not at the same time like i go to a after skewl credit make up thingy so we dont see eachother to much which dosent let me be to clingy but yea also what can i do to not be clingy if ya know what i mean ? (link)
well clingy to me means that you ask her were she is all the time, you dont like her to go out with the girls without you, you dont like her hanging out with other guys, your jealous, things like that. and things that you can do not to be clingy, is to learn how to trust your girlfriend, if you like her a lot like you say you do, then let her know that by trusting her. dont call her like everyfive minutes, and dont be on her case. im not saying not te call her i mean 2-3 times a day tops. and when yo guys are hanging out ask if she wants to hang out with other people too. Oh and before i go, dont take up too much of her time because the main reason that girls break up with their boyfriends is because their friends say that they never get to see her anymore ebcause shes always with her boyfriend. well, i hope i helped.


ok so theres this boy i like...and well i really do like him .but he likes my best friend.. todaii i askd him if he still likes her and he said that he didnt like her the whole lot he did. that he likes her a lil. well we made out todaii and well i think i wanna loose it to him...we r both virgins so thats one good thing about it but i dont want to do it knowing he likes her ..even if he saiis he dont what do you think or what would you do? (link)
okay, well if he made out with you, then obviously he like you, but just ask him if he has any sort of feelings for her,a dn if he doesnt then you are good. but, if you guys are not going out, i wouldn't have sex just yet. It is a lot better to have sex with someone that you are going out with and you ove rather than just loosing it because you think that you love someone and they love you. well, all i have to say is to wait until you KNOW you are ready because if you have sex before you are then you wont be happy with yourself.beleive me, i lost my virginity to someone who i thought that i loved but i didnt and i wasnt going out with him and then after that i didnt really talk to him because all he wanted was sex. So, please just dont make the same mistake i did. and if you do decide to have sex, then at least make it somewhere comfortable, like one of your beds.


14/F (freshman)

hi!
okay, so there's this guy who's in my peer group (some kids in my study hall get together w/ seniors and just have fun) and i can't tell if he likes me/keeps "hitting on me" or is just super friendly. So, at first i thought he was just nice. He would give me his spare change so i could buy some food in the cafeteria, then he gave me some gum, then he bought me a pack of gum. (its not cheap where i live, its like, 2 bucks for 20 pieces.) Then, he made me my favorite food...rice! Then, the next time we met, he was talkin to one of the senior leaders, and was joking around and told him i was his girlfriend. I don't know if he was being serious, just kidding around, or with the gift part, trying to get attention from me...?

I don't have a crush on him, but we are friends. my question is...does he want to be more than friends??

I see him tomorrow, so quick advice would be nice!! (link)
well, to me it sounds like he like you.. more than friends, you know? but, it seems like that from what you are tellin me. so, i think that you should just ask him one day. Tell hima little white lie if you dont want it to be too awkward, just say that someone told you that he liked you.. or that someone said that it looked or seemed like he liked you and then if he says no, it doesnt look like you wanted him to like you. you know?. but give it a try. good luck.


Okay, so about how much should you spend on your friend's 16thbirthday? She's a girl and I've known her since the beginning of this year. we're good friends but not the closest ones. So about how much should I spend on her birthday gift? I'm 14/f by the way. thanks a bunch! (link)
well the most ive spent on a friends 16th birthday for one of my friends that i talk to and am close with, but not that close is about $40 so i wouldnt spend any more than that.


Is it possible to do nursing when you are a junior? (under 18). Or any thing similar.

Thank you (link)
yea its possible if you go to a vocational school or if you dont go to school you can take a LPN course. or if you do go to school but its not a vocational one, then you could go to an LPN night course. There should be some information about them online, just go to google.com and search it. hope i helped.


16
male
ok well i have a gf i really really like and this christmas i want to get her something she will never forget money is not really an issue at least if were not talking hundreds of dollars.and well i really want to get her something that will be nothing like she has ever got. she has asked for a bunch of diff prefumes and lotions and stuff but yea ne ideas of what i could do ?

o and on christmas im gonna finnaly tell her that i lover her cuz im not one of those guys that says it the second day after we start going out i wait till i mean it but yea im gonna tell her on christmas im gonna wait for the right moment then wisper it into her ear(this is way of topic but i want to know what ppl think of that good idea or not) (link)
okay, well for one that is really cute that you want to tell your girlfriend you love her. But, dont just whisper it in her ear, i mean thats cute and all but when someone tells a girl that they love her they want it to be romantic. you know? well, i think that when you tell her that you love her you should have her alone and you should have either 1, 6, or 12 roses for her.. no odd numbers,a nd then you should give her her christmas present there, while no one is around, and then you should tell her that you love her. so you guys can be alone and it will be romantic. but for this christmas present i think that you should either get her some kind o jewelry (with a heart on it), and a teddy bear or some sort of stuffed animal. If not that, then i think that you sould take her out to dinner and then you can give her something little like the perfume or lotion shes been asking for,a dn you can tell her you love her there too. well, i hope that i helped with my ideas. good luck.


Here's my situation..I went out with my ex for almost year (we even went to college together freshman year) but things didnt go as well as I planned and I broke up with him bc I wanted to "experience" college. I dated another guy, which was a disaster, and he dated another girl. The whole time I was in a relationship with another guy, my ex would constantly call me and write me letters about how much he stilled loved me and how I was the best thing that ever happened to him, but I just kinda ignored them bc I was "head over heels" for the new guy..Well the new guy and I broke up bc he cheated on me and a few months later my ex and I started talking and hanging out again and Im starting to have strong feelings for him again, so now I am stuck. Now he doesnt act as interested as he used to be and I told him how I feel about him and how we should try again but he keeps changing the subject. The thing is, he still claims hes in love with me and tells me that everyday and we hang out all the time so I dont know what his deal is..I feel like if I keep bugging him about it, he's gonna think im really annoying. And it seems like I am always the initiator...is he just giving me a taste of my own medicine (the fact that I acted that way when he tried getting back together) or is it somethng else? Has anyone been through the same situation?? (link)
well, since you did go out for over a year, i think he would know you by now.. and so all you have do is tell him that you want to just hang out with you and him one day and then sit him down and tell him that you want to get this straightened out, and this will be the last time you talk about it. Then, you tell him how you feel about him and you just want to know if he still feels the same way that he did, and if he does then ask if you guys can try to make things work again, and if not, then you can know that he doesnt feel the same way and you can move on. this is the besst way i know how to deal with your situation. i hope it works.


Ok well i've had my period for about 5 or 6 months now. It's always been irregular. Is it normal to skip a month after youve had it for 6 months? Im still a virgin too so i can't be pregnant. (link)
no its not really normal to skip a month but tell your family that you cant keep track of it because its so irregular and that you want to go onto birth control. it helps to regulate your period so you wont be so confused and you wont skip a month.


My face doesnt break out to bad, maybe a few zits here and there but I have a bad complexion.
Ive been using Lancome powder and foundation, but as I wear that, i get more and more zits and pimples but the powder and foundation covers it up.
But then if im ever NOT wearing the makeup then my face looks really bad.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to continue to wear the makeup but not get breakouts?
thanx a whole lot (link)
hey i dont know if you have tried this yet or not but proactive works really well, and you can wear as much make-up as you wont and you wont break out. trust me, i use it myself =]


16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
okay well first off i want to know why no one meets your standards? and if this is part of your problem maybe you shouldnt have such high standards. But i dont know thats just my opinion. But, anyways dont look at life in that prospective, you need to worry about you and how your future is gonna be. If you dont like your friends or if you dont like that other people are happy, then make yourself happy by doing your school work and trying to do good for yourself. not for anyone else. and im sure that you do have problems understanding girls, a lot of guys do, dont even worry abotu it. the right girl will come to you. but dont say that you wont be alive in the next couple of years because thats not good, and its not good to think that way. Trust me, i had a fight with ALL of my friends and now i dont talk to any of them, but i moved on and ignored them, and did my school work, now im on the honor roll and im happy, and plus i have new friends now, and so will you.. i hope i helped but if you need any other help just let me know. good luck. dont do anything to hurt yourself. please=]


Firstly sorry about the subject i didnt know where to put it.

My hair gets greasy so so so fast! I wash it in the morning and by the evening its greasy
I have to wash it everyday and its really annoying me.

What can i do so that i only have to wash it every 2 days or something?

any products i can use? (link)
okay well first off, have you tried to blow dry it right when you get out of the shower? and if not, try that because when you blow dry your hair it helps. If that doesnt work try going out to buy some products for it.. like bed head makes a lot of good products that work, and so does Garnier.. good luck.


how do you make words bold and italics underlined, &+ your words centered on myspace ?! (link)
well to make words bold you would have to put before what you want to be bold and when you want the bold to end.. and for italics yo would put before and after... and then for underlined you would put and you would put after it.. and the sam for centered.. you would put before and after...

Examples:
BOLD-
i LOVE my friends...(love would be bold)

ITALICS-
i LOVE my friends...(love would be italics)

UNDERLINED-
i LOVE my friends...(love would be underlined)

CENTER-
i love my friends...the whole thing would be centered..

and you can use more than one code per section...

good luck =]


anyone know any songs that say '' boy im over you'' not like literally. But you know. THANX! (link)
some songs that say this are:
JoJo-"Too little too late"
Beyonce-"Irreplaceable"
JoJo-"Leave (Get Out)"
-"Hate Yourself"
.. thats all that i can think of but hope i helped..




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