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Thats me at hmcoming.. i know i look funny but i like the pic anyways !

My name is lor.. short for laura ! here`s a little bit about me !
Age * 14
Hair * blonde
Eyes * brown
Height* 5`6-5`7
Location* El Do, California !
Hobbies * soccer, shopping, wake boarding, hanging out with friends
Ask me anything i`ll help the best i can ! i`ve been in a lot of relationships so i know whats going on ! eating disorders, friends, anything i`ll help ya !


x0x0 * l0r
Website: Pics ! *
E-mail: sexCshiesTsocceR@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: ~*~ElDo~*~
Age: 14
AIM: l0r xx 31
Member Since: July 5, 2004
Answers: 35
Last Update: July 14, 2004
Visitors: 2064


you know how u gave me advise on my "eating disorder" well i looked at your page, and and I know you. you go to my school!! how ironic is that.

signed,
a cry for help (link)
you know me ?! who are you ? thats crazy weird...


Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!

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A cry for help (link)
i`m not a doctor or anything but my sister (who is also my best friend) is bullemic... and i think you do have an eating disorder. your weight is something you should not worry about... nobody cares what you look like and if they do they don`t deserve to know you... you are beautiful because of whats on the inside.. not on the outside ! and if you are a model then you know people think you`re beautiful ! but look.. your friends are noticing it, and you yourself are noticing it. thats the first step.. if you can`t eat on your own you need to get help.. thousands of girls have eating disorders and 1 of every 5 die... i`m not trying to scare you but it scares me hearing my sister throwing up in the bathroom.. and i don`t want anybody else to have to do what she does... talk to somebody.. anybody whatever you need to do !


hi..i got a bf but he got another gurl friend what should i do? i wana break up with him and hope he could accept it easily.what should i say to him? even i wana break up,but i still wana be friend with him forever (link)
if he has two girlfriends and you`re one of them then i`m sorry but dump him !! you deserve so much better than that and he WILL understand because he knows what hes doing... but if you wanna be friends still then tell him ! there`s nothing wrong with that !



yea well i never kissed a boy yet .. but i wanna no how to im like 12 ? i have no clu like how u do it wif ya tougue or what ?! please help (link)
well when you first kiss... like that moment just chill and relax don`t worry about the tongue.. if you want you can open your mouth a little bit... and if he sticks his tongue in your mouth you can just like "massagE" his tongue with yours... go slow, don`t use too much tongue, and relax..! its easy once you get the hang of it ! i`m sure you`ll do great ! if you need you can get tips about kissing in magazines and stuff too ! =] good luck sweetie !


ok surfer hair is in style for the boys.. but wut kinda hair is in for the girls? answer asap! thanks (link)
i think longer hair is.. like shoulder length or more.. blonde and highlights are in because its summer ! layers and flipping it out are what i see most


im gettin braces in like 2 days, and i was wondering
does it hurt when they put them on?
or does it hurt more a fefw days later?
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braces don`t hurt that bad when they are putting them on.. it is just awkward and tight. your mouth will be really really sore for the first few days maybe a week or 2 so its hard to bite or chew... but you can drink smoothies and milkshakes and eat a bunch of ice cream ! and its all worth it when you get them off and you have a beautiful smile ! =D


I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
well i think if you really like him you can try to have a long distance relationship. you can always talk on the phone or e-mail eachother or even write letters ! if you like him stay with him ! the distance will work itself out and if you feel like its too much to handle then don`t worry about it... he will understand


Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
if you are comfortable with him cheating on you with his ex.. then tell him you still want to be with him and try to make things work... but if it happend this one time after 16 months its likely to happen again.. so i think you have to follow your heart on this one and your feelings for him


ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
definately don`t end things before they start... because then you will regret what you could have had ! and i think if your feelings for him are genuwine then the happiness you have now will make up for the hurt you have later.. if there is a hurt =) so don`t hold back from loving someone too much... because then all you will do is hurt yourself


Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?

Signed,
Sad and confused!

15/Female (link)
you should definately talk to him !! if you have feelings that strong for him then i`m sure you will regret not talkign to him ! but don`t come on too fast or he might get freaked out... so just take it slow and let everythign work for the better !


i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.


thxx (link)
don`t go looking for a boyfriend...and you will find one ! love happens when you least expect it ; )


Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
9th grade went by so fast for me !!! it was such an awesome year... i mean c`mon.. your first year of high school ! just don`t be nervous and live it up !!

P.S. upper classman aren`t scary at all !! they are really nice and helpful if you need anything !


Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
ellie is probably just jealous that you are hanging out with HER brother and HER neighbor.. and after 4 years it`s probably hard for her to want to share you.. especially with her family. and best friends fight over the littlest things, but its only because you guys really care about your guys friendship. you should talk to her about how you are feeling and tell her you don`t think some of the things you guys fight about are worth fighting over. And just be polite to her family just to make her feel better =]


What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
then of course it would hurt and i`d be sad... but i`m not gonna let a guy control me and take over me so i would just keep my head up and look for the next guy. its important to know that a boy isn`t the only way you can be happy and have confidence in yourself, and if he doesn`t like you back, its not your fault and there is absolutely nothign wrong with you.. just be his friend and let things work themselves out.


hey...this may be somewhat of an awkward question but I just started shaving"down there" after receiving advice to go ahead and do so since I am starting swim season this summer. The only problem is that for some reason it's hard to shave it and when I do it really hurts. Any tips or helpful hints? Thanks (link)
i remember when i started shaving "down there"... i thought it hurt and was difficult and i got razor burn allll the time. but use a lot of shaving cream and i find it easier and it hurts less when i shave the same direction the hair grows instead of against it. its not hard once you get the hang of it ! =)

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