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i enjoy giving advice, because i like the feeling of helping people. i'd like to be responsible for maybe helping someone get a little bit of weight off of their shoulders. i can relate to a lot of questions that people have. i try to give the best advice that i have, but i may not be able to help. all i can do is try.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything?
Fingering is masturbating.
Only, he'd be fingering you. You wouldn't be.
I have no clue whether it'd hurt or your "cherry would pop".
If you don't want him to do it, don't let him.
OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!
I'd say, tell your dad that stuff isn't true-- if it isn't. Then, he might change his mind. If he doesn't-- do whatever you want.
Ok..ive liked this guy for awhile now and he finally asked me out. But the thing is he goes to a different school and i barely see him. We dont really talk much either in person that is. So i turned him down. And plus ive been goin thru alot of stuff lately w/ my family. is that bad that i turned him down..my friends think it is..
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No way, Obviously you turned him down for a reason. You should've explained it was nothing personal though. You've just been going through alot, and you'd like to get to know him better.
I think you made a good decision.
what is the best thing to put on cuts and sratches to make the marks go away? thanx
Neosporin. Or whatever. Then a band-aid?
Are you really that stupid? Lmao.
I'm being evil.
okay my friend is going to ask this girl out but he wants to know if she even knows who he is and hes askin me how he would know...but i like him n i've liked him for like 3 years and i dont want to tell him stuff like if she pushes u or trips u cuz i do that stuff to him..can anyone help us out? tnxs
o_o If you like the girl, then tell your friend that you like her, and you don't want to see if she likes him, because you really like her. If he doesn't respect that-- uh-oh.
Just tell him.
I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.
Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.
I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :(
I have a friend just like that. Only, she's gotten alot worse since it started. She does anything to make you believe she's right, and she comes up with insane things to argue {or debate} about. It really gets on my nerves, and like you-- I tell my friend she gets annoying, and she gets really mad.
There's not much you can do but tell her that it's annoying, if she's still doing it, ask her what her problem is and WHY she does it.
She's probably jealous of things you have going on, and maybe she needs a little sunshine in her own life. Who knows?
ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).
originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..
i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do?
Why would it hurt him that you had been with Danny if you didn't cheat on him. You were with Danny before Peter, so if anyone is hurting shouldn't it be Danny? That's effed, and it's not your fault.
Ask Peter why it makes him feel bad. Because you were with Danny before anything ever happened with Peter. Then go from there. x_x
Good luck.
hey my best friend likes this kid who soposably likes her. ((yesterday {july 1,2004} me {sarah} and my friend {tara} and 2 guy friends {kyle, david} went to a carnival. now tara likes kyle but david likes tara. sarah thinks that kyle likes her but someone thinks that david likes sarah. when sarah talked to tara about this, tara gets all conceeded when sarah says that she thinks that david likes her and sarah was all like no they both like me. and sarah was like w/e. after sarah left the carnival soposidly. kyle asked her out like 3 times and the last time she said yes. now sarah is really good friends with kyle and she went out with him befor and he broke up with her like 3 days ago but he only did because he diudnt want to ruin there friendship. but see tara and kyle dont even have a friendship but out of all the girls he went out with (3)he broke up with them like 2 to 3 days later because he doesn't like having grl friends. (he told me, i am his best friend) but see sarah kinda still likes kyle and kyle still kinda like sarah more than a friend but they are not going to go out b/c sarah has a man but tara always thinks that she is so OMG when ever she gets a boyfriend (because kyle asked her out) and now david id mad because kyle new that david liked kristen and he doesn't even care soposidly.) how do i keep my friend from thinking she is so "OMG I AM SO COOL"when ever she gets a boyfriend and how do i get her from being so conceeded about boys and her self. (also she thinks she has these big DD boobs and it is from padding)
*Conceited. Wow. Spelling errors. Sorry, sorry. I always point that out.
Your friend sounds like a conceited bitch. If she thinks she's that great, and she wants all these guys, and she thinks she's better than other people, I'd bring her down some. Her ego needs to be brought down, maybe by you.
The padding. I'd shove it in her face. I'm mean like that, and I wouldn't want to save a friendship that was like that--.
You might, so if you do, ignore her, and if you're really, truly fed up with her, let her know she isn't Queen Shit on a silver platter, she's just a warmed up turd on a paper plate.
She sounds like she deserves to be punched in the face. I wish I could do it for ya.
my best friend n i met eachother in 6th grade but we werent friends until 7th n for a year we had a lot of fun!! we did everything together and then she got into a fight w. another friend of mine towards the middle of 7th grade n we didnt talk to that friend for about 4 months n then i started talkin to her just hi n bye n then 8th grade started n me n that girl became more friends we went to her brothers football game together like once though n my best friend stopped talkin to me because of that yeah pretty stupid huh but now she wont talk to me its been like 1 week n 2 days n i just cant take it ne more cuz she wont talk.. wut should i do plz help me !! tnxs
If you learned to spell your friend might like you more. LMAO. No.
What you have to do is slap your friend,{but not really, just talk to her} and tell her that you think she's getting mad at you for bad reasons. Explain to her that you still want to be her friend, but if she keeps arguing with you like this, and won't talk-- you're not going to waste your time trying to speak to her. If she doesn't care, oh well.
do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek?
Not unless you're a psychotic sex-controlled freak. Lmao.
Just kidding.
I've just moved in to Univeristy, and my room is really bad. There is only one shower between 18 people, the kitchen is tiny, and there's so little natural light in my room that you can't read without artificial light. I've picked up a form to apply for a change of room, but I don't know whether I should go through with it, as moving would mean I'd move to a new corridor where people have probably already formed friendship groups and cliques, whereas here I already know people. Do you think it's worth the hassle of switching? I have seen other rooms around my campus and they are, without exception better than the one I have, so there's no real risk, it's just a case of it being worth the hassle of having to move all of my stuff after having moved it in just a few weeks ago.
Go ahead with it. Move.
Obviously where you are sucks.
Some cliques are really exclusive, but some might not be, and there may even be someone that doesn't have a really good friend where you're hoping to head to. Just try it. You'll eventually make some friends.
Good luck.
I have this friend who likes to know just everything about my life, and always talks about me behind my back to my really good guy friend. Shes acuused me of liking every guy she has, but its honestly the opposite way around. She really is a backstabber and my guy friend says that i should confront her of what shes doing because shes ruining my chances of going out with anyone because she starts to like them and then i feel bad and want her to have him. I really dont mind if she talks about me because shes only hurting herself, but now im starting to wonder if it will get worse and i should do somthing about it?? please help!
Of course it's going to get worse! Your friend is right. Confront her about it. Let her know you know what she's doing. Stop feeling bad for her. She brings things on herself. If she really is your friend, she'll stop talking shiznit about you behind your back, and she'll start being your real friend.
This may not be the best thing to do, but if she doesn't stop, do the same to her. Give her some of her own damned medicine. Hopefully everything works out, so you won't have to. ;)
hey wuts up people my friend like this grl in my high school. He saiz shes nice and stuff like that but i never see him hanging out with her and i happen to be friends with her and she barely knows who he is. I think he just likes her because she is like the leader of the cheerleading squad or wutever its called. Someone give me a way to tell this kid hes retarded and he only like sher cuz shes a cheerlead in a *nice* way
First, find out if he really only likes her because of that. Plain out ASK him. If he denies it, just tell him, 'You should try and get to know her more, you know. If you don't really know her, how can you like her?' If he does only like her for that reason, tell him to get a life and stop being shallow.
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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior...
can anyone help me? i rate high tnxs
That's amost illegal. Dating someone that's 16, when you're not. At least for sex.
First advice I'd give you- and I'm sure you hear it all of the time. Weed is bad. Smoking is bad. I'm not your mother, I know. But you're not helping yourself or him.
Another thing to think about-- if he does only keep you for three days, is that 6-year friendship going to be ruined? Why not just be friends with him? What's the difference of him being your friend, and your boyfriend?
hey guys. i work out basically every single day. i curl with a 2 hand curl bar and i carl 1 hands and i bench and do push ups and stuff like that. I also take protein in shakes because my friend recomended them, but i have no clue how much to take. i read online that u should take more than 1 gram of protein per pound of bodyweight. is this true?? if i take thew much protein per day, i will be spending hundreds of dollars in the nutrition store. please help me, and i'll rate you.
Ask your doctor how much to take. Too much protein isn't good for you. If you don't NEED it- all your doing is wasting your money, because you pee it out. Literally.
Everytime i leave my 1 year old puppy alone, like when i take my brother to work in the mornings, and there is nobody up to watch him, he always gets into things. Like this morning, he chewed my clock, and my medicine *was way out of reach* was in the floor chewed on. Thankfully he didnt get any of it though. My question is, 1. how can i stop him from chewing on things that he is not suppost to, and 2. is there other way other than locking him up in his carrier?
My dog just passed-- she's my best friend, and she had the same problem for awhile.
Your puppy is a puppy now, but if he does this, there's a good chance he'll do it when he's older. You might want to find out if he has some kind of seperation anxiety (like my dog), where he gets lonely and chews things, or if he's just a rowdy pup. If he's got seperation anxiety try turning on some music while you leave. Maybe try taking your pup with you.
Other than that, I'm not sure what to tell you.
here i am asking for advice because i know not what to do. ok here's my problem..i've been with my gf for about 2 months now and its been the best thing thats ever happened to me..but itsy hard being with her because she had broken my heart twice in the past. dont ask me why i got with her kuz i'll just tell you i did it because i loved her from the second i met her and you could say i was just a love sick puppy..but real love is something i've searched for for most of my life..ever since i knew about the idea..but this is what happened..my gf (lets call her naomi) got with my best friend sid about a year or so ago i cant exactly say how i felt without going into detail but to sum it all up..it was the worst time of my life..well anywayz..after that happened i just completly lost hope of her actually feeling love for me i thought it was impossible for her ever to feel for me the way i did for her..i love her and all...but i cant stop thinking about what happened before...when she did that it was like my world ended..theirs was so much pain i started cutting myself i was cold to everyone i isolated myself from everyone it was like i made my own little hell..but now that i've gotten the girl of my dreams its like i cant stop thinking about what happened before. and whenever she would ask me whats wrong and i'd lie..she'd ask whats really wrong and i'd tell her exactly how i felt..witch is horribly crushing on her. i dont know what to do, its like impossible for me to let go, i hate making her feel sad and i hate making her feel guilty...but whats wrong with me?
Does she really love me?
Please Help me
This isn't something you want to hear, but-
If she hurt you that much in the past, get rid of her. You can't stop thinking about what's happened, so it obviously hurt you so much. In some cases it's better to forgive and forget, but if she hurt you mentally THAT much, you shouldn't have to deal with that. I realize you feel bad about making her feel bad, but what you have to focus on now is-- what's best for YOU?
I know someone in same sort of situation, he thinks that they're completely in love, but they aren't. Luckily-- *knock on wood* he hasn't done anything stupid, because they've been back together, for awhile. I know she's cheating, I just have no proof, that's just the way she is.
Go to a party, hang out with some girls you know-- get over her, and find someone that won't hurt you. You'll eventually get over her-- before she hurts you more.