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Hey, im not going to sit here and say ive been through everything and i dont know everything and ye im only young so some of my answers could be a bit naive. Well im !5 im from England, Leeds (sunniest place on earth =]) I have an amazing set of friends that keep me alive and just love them!
ill try and do my best to give the best advice i can, as i said i dont know everything so they might be a bit limited but i hope it helps you.
Some thigns i have no idea about so i wont answer them kind of questions i wont give an answer that i feel doesnt asnwer the question well enough.
well thats it really
kim
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advice
This is gonna be long, sorry!!!
Theres this guy. Let's call him Jim. He's been one of my best friends since i was about 3. It's because his dad used to work with my mom. his parents are from england and have heavy british accents. however, Jim doesnt. I used to sleep over at his house, i almost used to live there. his sister, (lets call her Polly) now lives in London. Jim goes to London to visit his grandparents every summer. Oh, did I mention that i am in looove with anything british? I want to go to London so badly and a british accent is one of the hottest things i have ever heard. Jim is kind of short and i am really super tall. idc about that though... anyways, i dont see him a lot anymore because we go to different schools. Also his dad doesnt work with my mom any more. i think i have a crush on him... i only see him every tuesday when i go to church school. i want to look really good when i go, and i get all nervous when i get around him. but somehow i still think of him as my best buddy jim. im not sure if it actually is a crush. actually it seems that he has a crush on me! i was talking to him and my other friend Darren one tuesday and Jim commented that my voice was hoarse (i had a throatache that day). and Darren was teasing Jim saying, "Yeah, Jim, i bet you dream about her voice!" Jim was blushing and telling Darren to shut up. I was laughing and blushing a little too. So im not sure if i see him as a potential boyfriend or just a friend.... thanks for reading all of that and thanks for your answers in advance!!!
It does sound a bit like you have a crush
and probably he has one too (i dont know for sure tho cos i dont know him but from what you said)
And i dont think that you just like him for him being british as he doesnt have the accent
but i think if you were thinking of him as just a friend then you wouldnt be thinking that you liked him
hope it helps xx
(and hope if you do like him somthing happens)
I just bought these thermal leggings from JCrew. They're cream colored, and have that print with a pink flower and a stem. It's like a really simple print.
Anyway, I'd wear them under a denim skirt. Anyone have any idea of what kind of top would look good?
Id probably say some type of plain tshirt probably in cream, pink or black
hope they match
lol kim xx
how can i create my own website ?
like whats the easiest way !!!!
thanx in advance
piczo is reali good for makin a website
www.piczo.com
its reali easy
i dont reali know of any others but hope that one is of help =]
xx kim xx
Any ideas on how do I put up my hair so i can decrease my acne from the oils of my hair? It's so hard to keep it up because first of all, It'll put a dent on my hair and my hair will forever have a dent in it and second of all, it's hard to put up your hair when you have serious amounts of acne
If you want to keep ur hair away from your face and dont want to tie it up so it isnt in your face you dont just have to tie it up in a ponytail. there things you can do lyk: french plaits, normal plaits, pigtails, just tying up the top half of your hair, using headbands etc etc...
hope this helps
lv kim xxx
what happens when you dont teach a toddler in sims2 how to walk, talk, etc. does this mean that they'll be like... retarded? or will the social workers come. Thanks!
nothing happens they just wont have a very high aspiration thing unless they want other things they wont be affected
hope this helps xxxx
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and i think he is getting sick of me. he is very controlling and he isnt the greatest .. i have had more than one occasion where someone has told me he has cheated on me. i believe him when he says its not true. he doesnt like that i have guy friends so i dont have any but he has tons of friends who are girls and it doesnt even phase him that it upsets me. he has lots of girls numbers including one of the girls who told me they hookedup. another girl who was trying to get with him calls alot. he says he loves me but he treats me like shit. im a good girlfriend i do everything for him i love him. but still even if he messes up i get yelled at if i confront him .. everything is my fault even if i catch him lying he gets mad if i was snooping and says i need to give him his privacy and that i have no right to check his stuff. he says i need to trust him more but how can i when he has hurt me so much in the past and how am i supposed to trust him if i catch him lying all the time. he calls me names like slut when he gets mad and he calls me crazy. and he apologizes when we stop fighting and he doesnt seem to understand its not right. ive forgiven him many many times and he just doesnt seem to take me seriously. he doesnt think i will dump him he thinks hes irraplacable (lol) but hes not. he treats me like just some chick .. im not some chick after a year and a half. he should be treating me like a princess not like a maid. please help
it doesnt sound like he values you enough
you obviously like him and care for him but that still doesnt mean he can treat you this way, you should talk to him about it and if he doent change then you know its not right and he obviously doesnt deserve you if he cant treat you right.
hope this helps even though it might feel bad to break up with him if he doesnt change but its obviously not making you very happy being with him
Okay so my hair is extremely frizzy & puffy. & What makes it worse I have dandrift (SP) I wash my hair 3 times a week I use to only 2 but now i moved it to 3. But the problem is my hair gets to greasy. & I think its the dandrift thats doing it. & I also straighten my hair. So whats the problem? I usually use shampoo & condtioner that help my frizz & dry hair. Is it the dandrift that makes my hair so greasy feeling ? What can I do ? It feels fine the 1st day, then after the next day it feels all gross. What can I can do ? Would I be able to use a shampoo for frizzy/dry/puffy hair, then use a conditioner for dandrift? Would that help? Thanks for the help in advance
you can get some reali good antidandrif shampoos no id probably reccomend using one of thoose.
washing your hair everyother day would probably help to make it less greasy.
using a conditioner that is made for frizzy hair will probably also help i dont know it dependz on ur hair.
hope this helps
well Theres This Guy we went out like in term 1 or 2 in this year and i liked him then stoped then i saw him again nd we talked and im not sure if i like him but his the player type he gets a girl and dumps her in a month so i know i shouldnt tell him cause he wont care but if i do end up liking him what should i do ??
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well if you can already see the fact that he might break up with you after a month doesnt tht tell you he might not b right for you?
i know that probably sounds quite harsh but its guys lyk tht that generally hurt you. but if you think youre gunna end up liking up then jus try and stay away from him probably best way to avoid getting hurt. not a lot else i can say reali but good luck n i hope it all goes ok dont know how much this helps
ok listen i have a real question and i might sound strange but i am fourteen and i got my first period a month and 13 days ago and still no second period. why? is there something wrong with me? and should i tell my mom? help! (sorry bout the long question by the way)
Hey, and the your first few periods are generally irregular so dont worry about it.
And theres nothin wrong with you so dont be worries
hope this helps
kim
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hey, I'm 14 my name is jackie.. and I need help..
I'm not sure who to like. On one hand there is this one guy (tony)who is 16, and I've known him for a few weeks. He's shy but his friends say he likes me and wants to take me to homecomming. He is really cute but sometimes he can be a little rude to everyone.. Also we hung out last weekend and we kidna flirted but didnt really pay attention to me
and on the other hand tony's friends little brother (14 years old) named ryan is so hott! he has the most amazing eyes and he is really sweet. he let me use his sweatshirt when i was cold, and he talked to me when noone else was. he said i should comeover his house again. he knows how to treat a girl.
I'm really confused on which to like? please help
Get to know them both and if it seems like tony is lwhat youve heard his like then you know to stay clear.
though ryan sounds like a sweet guy id get to know him better before deciding what to do.
good luck
kim
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I don't usually get zits (just one or two during my time of the month) so I usually don't waste my money on expensive products. I usually just scrub my face with a bar of soap when I'm in the shower. It seems like it works pretty well but I heard it isn't healthy for my skin. Is this true? If it is, do you have any product reccomendations?
Another skin problem I have is dry or flaky skin. It normally isn't a problem for me, but in the past few days it has been. This morning, I used my sister's face wash with exfoliating beads. And another thing I did was put on oil-free moisturizer before my makeup. However, by the end of the school day you could see the flaky skin. It looks so gross. Could I have excema(sp?)? Do you have any product reccomendations?
you can put some omeny into a face wash but if youre washing the dirt away its ok if your skin is dry use a moisturiser because it wil keep your skin hydrated and stop it feeling dry.
hope this helps
kim
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i was messing around with my computer and by accident i deleted my limewire thing!! its not in recycle bin because i permenately deleted it!!.. is there any way i can get it back without redownloading it?? im not sure if i saved my songs soo will i have to download them all over again? do the songs get saved when you download them or do you have to do it yourself?? AHH IM SO ANGRY.
any songs you download will be automatically saved 2 your comp so you wnt have lost them n i dunno if you cn get it bk sorri
hope this helps
kim
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K this is a serious question but my periods ALWAYS beeen messed up but like 2 monthes ago i slept with this guy and he asked me if i was on birth controll and i said no .. and he didnt wear a condom .. but he pulled out in time .. and he said he even did .. but i havnt yet got my period and im a little freaked out weather im pregnant or not .. and I dont have money to buy a pregnancy test ? .. do you think im pregnant just from those sings and is it possible that i could be pregnant if he pulled out but he still wasnt wearing a condom ??? please help me ASAP????
Its always possible to get pregnant but please get checkout for STD's aswell as if youre pregnant because theyre just as worryin as if you are pregnant
good luck
kim
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I found out that my bf was libra and i'm vigro. I read this one thing that said what was happening to me word for word. He was playing me, and my friend, and my friends step-sister. We're all about the same age and we all LOVE him so much. Truth is i gained courage to ask him out. So he walked to my house (he lives two steets away) to tell me he would go out with me. It was so cute he walked all the way to my house just to say yes! Anyway my friends we're happy for me but mad cuz they knew he liked more than one girl. I didn't seem to care because, I liked him way to much. So I just ignored it. Now he likes my friend, and her stepsister, and ME! Should I leave him or deal with him liking them too?
I don't think i could deal with leaving him cuz i like him way to much, but i dont know.
theres a line between liking someone and doing thing with them if he crosses it in any way get rid of him you odnt needs guys like tht in your life but if you know hes stayed with u n onli you then you have to at least give him chance
kim
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I have a friend who likes this girl as more than a friend. And she knows it, but she just would rather prefer being friends.Now he is deciding to totally ignore her. Why can't guys just be friends even if they have feeling. I mean if he really liked her he would want her to be happy right?
Theres one simple answer to this
HES A GUY!!
if they dont get everything they want then they pretty much ignore you unless youre going to confront him about it theres really nothing you can do
thts the problem wit guys lol :(
kim
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Hey I was just wondering, is tennis considered a team sport? I need to do a project on a team sport, and I cant think of anything else, We arent aloud to do sports that weve done projects on in the past such as hocky, soccer, lacrosse, basketball, volleyball or any of the other easy team sports, and we have to find a team sport, not an indiviual one, thats why I was wondering if tennis is considered a team sport! thanks soooo much for any help you can give!
singles tennis is a single sport but if you play doubles then its classed as being part of a team.
Its also a team sport if you all play seperate but the score from everyone is added up
hope this helps
kim
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what should i wear and how should i do my hair tomorrow for my boyfriend to at least take a second look, and maybe comment about how i look ? show i wear my hair up or down, curly, straight, wavy?long sleeved/short sleeved/tank top +sweatshirt/polo/v-cut? HELLP.
well think about you normally have your hair?
and do the opposite!
if its straight go curly
if yu have it up wear it down
it you have it curly wear it straight
and again with the clothes wear something different to your everyday!!
that should help
and if not theres always dropping hints lol
good luck
kim
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I don't know what I did, or why she reacted this way.. Like an hour ago, my mom stormed out of the house, crying.. freaking out..
I can understand why she had a breakdown, but I don't know why she said what she did, and acted that way. My grandfather, her dad, passed away just about a week and a half ago. Because of this, it has put her behind in school, to become a nurse. There are other factors, but those two seem to be most stressful at this point.
The trigger was my father not filling up the dog's water dish. (Let me say that they have been married for over 20 years, and out of my 17 years of being alive, I have never seen them hug.) I was in my room and heard her screaming bloody murder. I went out in the other room to see her crying, screaming, and nearly tripping on herself. My brother and my father were just standing there as she was on her rant. Basically she said she doesn't want us in her life, and grabbed the keys to her car, and she's been gone ever since.
I guess my question is, what do I do?
To be honest, I'm scared. She has her attitude, but she has always managed to keep her cool.. This is the first time she's acted this way..
And advice would be greatly appriciated and loved.
You said shes always managed to keep her cool? maybe its keeping it inside of her thats led to her acting this way.
People dealw ith loss in many ways and greif can make people the opposite of who they are. Many people find it hard to cope with it and feel like they have to get away from their lives to cope. ( which sounds to me like your mum is trying to exscape theese prolems)
You obviously have every right to be worried she is your mum and you obviously care about her, have you checked round her friends or any other amily for her? if you knwo shes safe leave her for a bit and let her figure out what she is going o do because making her come back could make things worse.
Youre asking what to do? well to be honest be there and try and make things as easy as you can. Try to get rid of some of the other little things that may be stressing her. Housework and keeping things tidy are often little things but not things that you think could be a problem.
Just try to let her come to terms with what has happened in her own time and let her do what she needs to do. The only thing id try to do most of all was to just know that she was safe
good luck i hope it all works out for you
kim
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theres this guy, and we are friends. we dont hang out but we talk online on the phone so we arnt the closest friends but he says he loves me and i love him back. he wants to hang out with me but im afraid if we hang out he might think im ugly and he might never talk to me again. =( but i really think we should go out. we dont go to the same school and we only know eachother because one of my friends who i dont see often hooked us up. we arnt going out yet and about 10 people say we should go out so i dont know should i go out with him or not im afraid his friends might not like me or something. hes also 2 years older then me so is 2 years a big difference? i dont know what to do because im really not the prettiest so im afraid he wont like me if he sees me.. should i stay friends, go out with him, stop talking to him.. or what?
this guy obviously likes you for your personality and if he changes his mind about you just because of the way you look then you dont want tht type of guy in your life anyway! And if he nevwer talks to you again its his loss but youll be surprised i bet your a lot prettier than you think! and age is just age if it doesnt work then you tried but its beter than wondering what wouldve happened if you said yes
kim
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My girlfriend of 10 months recently broke up with me because of the way I treated her. She is already messing around with someone else. We were madly in love. How do I get her back?
If youre miserable without do you think that trying to get back at her is going to help? If she dumpded you for the way you were treating her dont you think that youre kind of proving her right if you do something to try and upset her?? if shes messing about with a guy maybe its because she not over you? IF youre miserable without her ask her for another chance the worst she can do is say no!
good luck
kim
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