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Ok, so a couple of days ago, my mom and i went walking at a local track. I jogged one lap, walked two, and jogged another. I went 4 times around it. My legs have been hurting since then. (It was 3 days ago, to be exact.) Is this natural? I mean, I know i'm out of shape, but should my calves feel like they are really cramped up??
Yup. Its just because your legs arent used to exerise like that, so there going to hurt. I hadnt ran in a long time and i started running and the day after my legs KILLED and hurt for several days after. Its really normal. Your muscles just arent used to it.
I was crying a lot last night so when I woke up my eyes are amazingly puffy, they're like halfway closed and it feels awful and it looks creepy. It looks like they're sideways.
how do i get rid of it?
There probably swollen , so you can either put ices on them and make them swelling go down or a warm cloth. That should do it. If that doesnt work than see a doctor. Dont worry they should go down
my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, but i know he talks to other girls online. recently, i went on his myspace, he said i could, and read some of his messages. one from his ex that bothered me said
"hey. i wanted to continue our conversation. what where you saying when you said you still like me but like her more?"
another one was from a girl that i have no clue in heaven she is and it was this long love letter saying how she could never get over him and "that night back in october was amazing." we were going out i october.
what should i think? the thing is, his ex lives across the country from us, but i'm still worried. and the other girl lives in our city. what should i think or do about this?
I think you should just confront him about it. The first message seems kind of sketchy like its out of the blue and the second one could just be some crazy ex who makes up things. But you never know until you confront him about it. You've been going out for a year right? Than you'll know when hes lying to you and when hes being honest. The best thing to do is just tell him. He cant be mad at you because he said you could check his myspace.
I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
Thanks so much to you all.
I really think you should NOT get an abortion. An abortion is basically like murder. Not matter how it happened. Im sorry that you've been put in this postion but please dont do it. IT can also harm your body in the long run. If you dont think you can handle a baby right now , than adoption is the best answer. There are so many parents out there that are cant have children and are looking to adopt.Please dont have an abortion. its so wrong in so many ways.
during the summertime im always just sitting at home or laying out in the sun. i only usually shower once a week during the summer. is this bad? i dont do this during the school year obviously but i just dont see the point of showering a lot if im not even going anywhere
Yeah but even if you're not going anywhere doesnt mean you shouldnt take care of your personel hygenie. I mean doesnt your hair get wicked greasy and everything? I dont know what happens when you dont shower everyday but when i dont . its a huge mess. I would assume that everyone else is basically the same way. I think showering at least every other day is neccerasy.
Just like an hour ago, I masturbated by using the bath faucet to let the water fall onto my clit. Like ten minutes later after i'd gotten up, I coughed because I have a cold, and water came out of my vagina. I thought it was kind of odd. I coughed again, and more came out. I decided to look what was wrong. I coughed, and the water was coming out of my 'pee hole', but it wasn't pee, just water from the faucet. I keep coughing to try and get the water out, but it's really freaking me out because I don't think there should be water in there. Is this okay?
What should I do? Help?
Yeah i think its pretty much normal , because when you cough its like moving your body and moving your muscles down there for the water to come out. its just getting it out.
when a guy says "haha, your retarded" (when hes flirting) what are u suppose to say back? like: yeah, but you so are you :D"?
Theres nothing really specfic to say back to that. just however it really makes you feel. Like when i guy sames that to me i frown and i go no im not. but thats just me and everyguy who flirts with me knows my personalty. it all depends on who you are.
me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years well in 3 days it will be two years. And i dont have alot of money right now so i decided i was going to make him a scrap book. I was looking for good love quotes maybe about being together for so long or whatever just different quotes or poems to go with the pictures. i have pictures from prom and like amusement parks and stuff thanks it would help alot!
http://www.holliesquotes.com/
thats a wicked good websitee!!! you'll find like everything you need :]
i recently had a sleep over and i asked my friend b4 bed if she was gunna take her bra off and she said no, she wears it to bed, and its bad not too. then my other friend said you shouldnt wear one to bed cuz its bad for you or something. should you? will it change anything if you dont?
thanks xx
Wearing a bra to bed is actually bad for you , because you arent giving them any air to breath so there like being suffocated and they cant breath. andd its uncomfortable i think.
Hi. Your mom's a nurse, that's what you said for an answer. So, i was wondering if you could ask her something, and tell me then answer. If you could, that'd be awesome!
During a physical, when they give you a blood test, where do they normally give it? If it's near the wrist....do they poke the needle into the veins..and if they do poke the needle into the veins wouldn't the veins burst?? And wouldn't it hurt?
--> Can a blood test be done anywhere else besides the wrist during a physical? Like...on the shoulder where shots are normally given?
---> Do blood tests hurt? I had 5 vaccines a couple weeks ago since i am going on vacation..and they didn't hurt that much. People say blood tests hurt LESS than vaccines..Is that true? Because the vaccines barely hurt...and if it hurts less..than they would BARELY hurt.
Please ask your mom. Thanks soo much . I will rate 5 if you answer all. And..make sure she answers ALL. Thanks soo much
hey
So this is what my mom said
When they take a blood test they usually do it on the inside of your elbow (is that what you mean by wrist?). What they do to take your blood is tie a rubber band around your upper arm to cut off circulation and find good viens. Your veins dont pop because they just don't. Im not like making that up or anything, my mom just said they just dont. The needle is like inserted into your vain to take blood out. The only other way to take blood is to get your finger pricked, but its bettter to get your arm,because when you get your finger pricked, its just little samples of blood. So depending on how much blood they need , is what they'll do. and it hurts less.
All nurses say blood tests dont hurt.and to be honest, they really dont. As long as you have a good nurse that doesnt just shove the needle in there. My mom always does mine because everyone say shes really good. It doesnt hurt at all ,just when the needle goes in , and its like noting at all. And im a huge baby with pain.
i hope i answered everything you were looking for . If you have any other questionss please ask!! thankss ! :]
Yes and blood tests do hurt less than vacines, because where they take blood is a common spot , but where they do vacins on the shoulder is senstive adn there inserting medicine . you know ? and if the vaccines barely hurt for you, it means you can tolerate pain, so taking blood is like nothing, for you!
my birthday is coming up and i want to have a birthday party with like 5 or 6 friends. can you give me some ideas of what to do?? im going to be 15 so i need some cool ideas that would interest my friends and I.
For my birthday my friends and I dressed up and went into boston for dinner! Im 15 too. My older sister took us. it was really fun. I dont know where you live, but you could like dress up and go out to dinner or just get tons of movies, snacks and stay up all night. it depends on what you consider fun.
Are you supposed to wear a bra to sleep or not?
I don't think so because it's uncomfortable to sleep in them and I read somewhere that your boobs needs to be bra free for a sertain number of hours on the internet long time ago.
My friend said that though if you don't wear a bra your boobs will get saggy.
bra or no bra?
My moms a nurse and sleeping wearing a bra to bed can cause problems because, your not giving them anytime to breath. There like suffocated all day and so at night you just need to give them air, to like grow, and be healthy. I say no braa!
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.
i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.
what should i do?>
i dont think you should let him get away with cheating. because guys just think they can do whatever they wantt. you should defiantly break up with him becasue you shouldnt have to tolerate that kind of pain!
Tomorrow I am going on a school field trip with the whole middle school. It is a fun place with pools, lake, fields, rock walls, et cetera. But I think I am getting my period so I don't know what to do. I'm not going swimming [I didn't want to.]Ireally sucks. I'm bringing pads. Is there anything else I can do? I am not a tampon person. Also, on Thursday we are going to a theme park, should I be okay on a log flume, rapid ride, and other water rides?
Thanks in advance!
Personelly i went swimming (in a pool) with a pad on and i was fine. I wore a pad on my bathing suit bottoms and than shorts ( cause i dont like my upper legs much anyways ) . You dont bleed in the water anyways so you should be fine. Notice how in the shower you dont like bleed like you usually would ? I know your not a tampon person but its soo much easier! I cant use them , because im not heavy enough to get one up there (sorry to be gross) but really there great (so ive heard ). good luck!
i have 8th grade graduation coming up! my dress shows back alot... omg and im so nervous becuase i have backne.. its like pimples on your back.
what can i do to get it off?
i had that problem last year too! what i did was i went tanning because tanning dries them up. You could also try like a acne wash for your back , it should work. Some people recommended some good goods, like neutrongena and all that are really good. just wash in the shower. good luck!
ok im getting my hair chemially straightened. does it really work? is it bad for your hair? what are the pros and cons?
thanks in advance
It works but it is soo unbelieveably bad for your hairr! i suggest you dont do it! It damages your hair so much and when your hair starts to grow uut, the top of your hair is like all frizzy and bumpy and it looks so gross! I had a friend who got her hair chemically straightned and now her hair is really gross! i dont think there are really any pros expect its easier than straightening but than it just goes gross!
ok well my friend says she has cravings to hump stuff but she hates humping stuffed animals and stuff. so she said she tryed humping her dog naked and she said it felted awesome. she went all in to detail saying how (her dog is a boy) how her dogs balls fell so good up against her pussy and all this stuff and i mean she says she loves lickin his balls and all this stuff and i mean HES A DOG!!! so i mean i dunno. she says she makes out with her dog (frenchin it and everything) and she says that she licks his balls and humpes him naked, and she says she likes it. is that normal???
No , thats just plain wierddd! and gross! you're right ew its a dog. Tell her its wrong and tell her to like a guy or something !
Alright guys, i have a church girls camp in 2 weeks. I know we have to come up with a name and a yell for our cabins. its a Princess Theme, specifically "you're a daughter of a heavanly King".
i need help, i can tthink of annyythinnggg!!
ANYTHING will help.
thank you guys sooo much!!
God's princesses (GP's)
thats all i can think of sorry
ok today 9 of my freinds got jumped so on tuesday theres goin to be a rumble should i go in and fight were gangsters
"thews" answer made me laugh. which is true.
I dont you should because fighting is dirty. It depends if your a male or female. If your a female, i think fighting is trashyy. But thats just me. I guess im just classy. But really fighting is lame. But if your gansters, um maybe thats what you do? idk , i wouldnt thouhgh
Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me?
You need professional help. Tell your parents that you've been feeling down lately and cutting for a while, and that you want to stop. it looks like you want to. Good descion:] . If you dont want to talk to your parents , tell a guidance counselor. But you need SOMEONE to talk to