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isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help!

If you feel you can't do it correctly then go to a store such as Victoria's Secret, JC Penny and any other department store and they will measure you for free. But if you want to do it your self take a tapr measure and measure underneath then add 6 inchs to that number, which is your band size example 32, 34, 36. Then measure the fullest part of your chest and how ever many inchs different is your cup size. For example if the 2nd number is 2 inchs bigger than your band size your a B, 1 inch is A, 3 inch C, and so on drop some in my inbox if your confused

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When you look at the view feedback, what does the number mean?

Its what the person rated you. The range is 1-5, 5 being the best and 1 being the worst

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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

take an ice cube and put it over it for a few secs about 3 times a day. Take a fork and starting in the center drag it outward, it spreads out the blood. Or get a fake tattoo and put it over the hickey. It should be gone withing 3-5 days and of course there is always turtlenecks and cover-up

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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.

no you cannot bc your digestive system and reproductive organs are not attached at all

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What are some good, quick, easy ways to gain self confidence and self esteem? And to be able to be more outgoing?

there really isn't any quick ways. It takes time but first try and get around postive people, try being yourself and eventully you'll start feeling better towards your self

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okay so heres the thing.....i am really depressed, and i know it and so i cut myself....but not my wrists or anything just my legs and my ankles.......and i think about death alot, but not ohters just myself....what do you think i shuld do

try talking to someone it doesn't have to be a professional, but just a friend or someone you trust. Something big probably just happended in your life and you just need a little more help with it than others. But trust me you will feel better

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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

I don't see why you would want to wear nail polish but if that's what you what no one should stop you. I know guys who let me paint their nails I think its a little odd but who cares

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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?

usually a girl finishes growing at 16-17 but some stop as late as 19-20

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hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??

Durlex is the best brand out there not Trojen's. A condom lasts for 15 mins, so every 15 mins you have to change it. If you really want to be careful try birth control

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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to

Just tell your parents that you feel that you are ready to have sex with your boyfriend and see what happens. If you are mature and come to them first they will probably be more understanding. But if you just cannot tell your parents there are always clinic's or tell your mom that your period has been really heavy or you have really bad cramps so she will bring you to the gyno and ask for them there. Your dr cannot mention it to her.

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14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.

They will hurt at first like the first night don't expect to able to eat anything at all besides maybe a smoothie. Don't chew gum it will get stuck and its annoying to get out. Usually you don't get to pick what color bands you want. I had clear ones around the brackets and for the elastics for my overbite it was whatever they gave me.

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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

I don't see anything wrong with it at all

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Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross

first you can't have a boyfriend just to have one because your using him. When the right guy comes you'll know and you can't force someone to go out with you.

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Hey I was wondering if anybody knew of any good quote sites besides firehotquotes.com and wittyprofiles.com Thanks!

http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xblu3eydbabix

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sry i didnt know what to put this under? but plz dont delete this question i need help!!! okay..when im on my period and i have a tampon in it always like "leaks" and i have spots of blood on my panties..and whenever i take it out theirs like part of the cotton that doesnt even have blood on it..it looks like it all just like slid to one side and came out..please help how can i stop this?????

you probably inserted the tampon wrong that's it. Remember it leans back so when you insert the tampons put it in at a angle so it facing backwards

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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.

Yes there is a small chance you'll get her pregant, because pre-cum has sperm in it. Its really not that hard to get a condom tho, just go to like CVS or even a clinic.

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well i like this guy but im not sure he likes me.....we always flurt and stuff on the internet but whit comes face to face not much happends. what should i do??
i mean i c him everyday in school more than 4 times adn its killing me bc i dunno what to do . do u think he likes me......
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c he is a huge perv and is really in the sex state of mind but he told me that im like doable ahh im confused!~!! what do i do??

*me*

He could either be shy or he's using you, and that's why he doesn't talk to you face to face. Try to get a friend to talk to him for you, ask them to ask like if he likes you and why he doesn't ask you out because you really like him. If he really does like you then he won't pressure you to have sex.

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I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-

Tampons are much less messy than pads and if you do it correctly tampons do not hurt at all

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What is "emo"? I've heard so many people talk about it. Thanks!

"emo" means to be very emotional about things. The littlest things can get a emo person very upset

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