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Hey welcome to my site!my name is liza marie Rotten. i like listening to music going out and being a huge vaga anyways home sux ass since my dad allways wants to beat me up and i love love shopping hanging with spex my partner in crime!here i could help anyone thats having hard times with anything! im here for everyone that needs help! i give very good advice to anyone except myself lol so ask away!i also give ana/mia advice so just ask......and offcourse i LOVE being with my b/f (future husband/ *ramiro*

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I really want a boyfriend, i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfrined... I mean i know i won't liek die if i don't have one lol, but if anyone has any tips please help!

look sweety dont be desperate because you will end up finding the wrong guy work of other things and wait someone will come to you if you wait and just relac because if you keep on being desperate you will fall for the wrong person but if you have a crush on someone and they seem to like you too go for it but dont just date anyone!

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ok last week i had a test coming up in math but i thought it was a quiz so i didn't study very much 9cause i got all the homework questions right) but during the test i didn't understand a lot of questions. i got my test back today and i got 25 out of 40! my parents are really spaztic and i know they will get really mad at me. i know u will say not to tell them but my homework is to get it signed by a parent! i dont know how i should tell them! please help me! i rate really well!

tell them that the teacher told you to study for the wrong thing! or ummmm sign it yourself!

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13/f

Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp

hmmmm get your mouth close to his and have him put his hands on your face covering both of your lips!!!!
hope it works!

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i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do??

i know how you are feeling...i could tell how every one feels so...LISTEN TO ME!!! call him (dont seem desperate) and tell him that you needed time to figure out if you were ready for a b/f and you thought you werent ready but after you left him you found out you were completely wrong and tell him how you feel about him and tell him to give you guys another chance if he doesnt well he probably wasnt the one for you!but i wish you lots of luck sweety!
goooood luck!

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The girl who hooked me up with my boyfriend now is obsessed with him. She flirts with him, she hugs him, and she talks to him on the phone. I can tell he doesn't like it that much, but I just don't want to lose him because of my so-called "friend". What should I do so I won't lose my boyfriend?

HONEY THAT IS BIG HUGE FU***** B/S! THAT GIRL IS A BITCH! TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT IT AND TELL HIM THAT YOU DONT LIKE IT WHEN HE LETS HIMSELF GET HUGGED AND THAT YOU KNOW SHES ON TO HIM ASK HIM IF HE WILL LET HER TAKE OVER HIM ANDIF HE SEEMS LIKE HE WILL GO OUT WITH THAT WHORE FORGET HIM BUT IF NOT TALK TO HIM!TALK TO HER AND GIVE HER SERIOUS MEAN TALK AND DONT TALK TO HER EVER AGAIN SHES NOT A FRIEND! TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABY!
GOOD LUCK!

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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?

thanks

AAWWWWW sweetie! i know how you feel! dont do anything that will have a chance of you getting hurt! take it slow and enjoy it! start with a hi then sitting next to him then flirt and keep on going! enjoy it and get to know him really! dont ask him out until you feel he does like you or he knows you well! dont be act desperate or shy! be confident!
good luck!
liza

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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO!

Oh! sweety i hate that! you know if he likes you and you like him its not a problem. i know parents could be so messed up sometimes brainwashing their children and ruling their life. keep on the low for a while then if u guys last long well they have to accept it dont change at all sweety! be you! good luck with your prince charming!
tons of luck!
liza

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ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not?

honey, never do anything you dotn feel comfortable doing! if he doesnt respect you and your decisions find someone who will!
here for you!
liza

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my friend richard is really cute but has a girlfriend well we went to a kickback and he got me drunk aswell as his self well when he was drunk he tried to take advantage of me he didnt get to but he did finger me and stuff lets just say we did 3rd base he doesnt remember what happened and my friend told me he keeps asking me if i remember what should i tell him? should i be mad? should i 4 get it?

No!!!!!!!! you shouldnt it forget it! first of all you should go to the police!!!!!! tell your mom! well unless it didnt make you feel bad or anything well then whatever.but if it didnt you shouldnt jsut stay like this! he didnt have any right to do that to you especially sicne he has a girlfriend i hope he gets slap! well just take care of yourself next time!!!!!!! and good luck!

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my b/f always hangs out with his frinds and not me when hes the one sayin lets do somethinn!..when i call him hes like well call me when u know what your doin then we neva get to see eachother that night or w/e.. when he knows i get mad hes always like im sorry i love you but then he does it again...i still reallyyy like him alot and i think if i dump him ill regret it but idno what to do

Hmmmmmmmmm well honey look for him! let him know that you are serious with him and as his girlfriend you have the right to have him be with you more than his friends.when he tells you "lets do something" tell him ok lets go eat pizza or whatever! but let him know u are serious! if he wont invite you out well if u like him alot invite him out! then he will have to learn to ask you to hang out with him!!!!!!!
wish u tons of luck!
Ms.rOtTeN

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one of my best friends keeps on ignoring me and hanging out with somoene else not that its a problem or anything, but whenever she hangs out with the girl she acts all b****y to me, am i just jelous of her or has she changed, and if she has changed would there be anyway she wont be as b****y to me if i talk to her

nope sweetie you are not jelouse teh thing is your friend is a BIG HUGE you know what.shes not a real friend let me tell you why.......a real firend will like you and treat you nicely no matter what its obvious she thinks shes so cool cuz shes hanging out with the other girl and thinks shes a pop star lol look sweetie you dont need people like that around you and dont waste your lungs trying to talk to her seriously find other girls that wont be like that later on those girls will mistreat her and she will remmeber what a nice person you were to her.
wish you tons and tons of luck!,
Ms.rOtTeN

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my b/f's mom is saying that shes leaving her boyfriend(they've been living together for 4 years) and shes going to either cali or arazona and he has the choice of going with her or finding somewhere in new york to stay. im trying to convince my family to let him stay here. i might get them to say yes but i need some more things to tell them. i mean me n my b/f have been goin out for over a year and we both want to marry eachother, think im crazy if you want but hes the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. i dont know what to do. i dont want him to move. he knows that if i ever lost him then i would kill myself. he could live with his dad but his dad is a total jackass to him. my family doesnt really like him either. they say we dont have room but if we tryed then i know it could work. i really dont want him to go...what can i do?

lol honey u are not crazy i also have teh love of my life with me and i want to marry him too and like u i also know for sure hes the one.its going to be hard to convince your parents but try and tell them how u feel since parents are fucked up as hell and think they know you more than u know yourself chances are that they may say no if so try to get a job (and him too )and move out with him, but until then he should sacrifice for you and stay with his jackass dad. do anything to stay with him my dear! love is wonderfull u only get someone like him once!!!! many people dont get one at all!
tons and tons of luck!!!!!!!!
MS.ROTTEN

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my bestfriend wants to go out with my x-boyfriend when i asked her not 2 hang out with him in the first place because i don't like it. i pretend to be ok with it but thats only to avoid a fight. should i be ok with it and move on or am i being over reactive?

I could totally understand why u wouldnt like that! ok the whole cliche of "well he is her ex and they arent together anymore" is just wrong. as your best friend she should have respect for you and your feelings.you shouldnt keep your feelings bottled up inside of you. tell her how u feel. im sure if she was you she wouldnt like that.
wish you tons and tons of luck!!:)
your advicer,
Liza

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i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do?

LOOk darling, 3 months is nothing i have been struggling with that for 7 years.i know u could stop. if u truly love him u will be able to change if it was more than 1 year i'll understand.im sure he loves you.its great to have someone who loves u and makes u feel cared for do it for him because im sure he wouldnt be able to go on with someone thats worrying him alot.
wish u tons and tons of luck!
LIZA MARIE

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Things have been going great with my boyfriend. But I can tell my best friend is jealous. I guess I dont blame her but still, I'd like to be able to talk to her about it without feeling guilty like I'm bragging. I've tried to talk to her about like our first kiss or stuff like that but she either gets all quiet or says bad things about him.. like he's a player or something like that (which he isnt, we both really like eachother but thats besides the point). I just really want to be able to share it with her and not feel bad about it. Should I still talk to her about it or just talk to my other friends? Thanx so much.. I rate high!

sweety, shes jelouse up the ass! shes obviously not a very good friend cuz if she was she would be happy for you try talking to other girls the best ones u could talk to are the ones who also have a b/f.
wish u the best of luck,
lOvElY mS.RoTtEn

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lately i've become addicted to tickling my pancreas..... what can i do???

nothing stick to it! try tickling it with a feather hey why not even stinky underwear! experiment!
yours truly,
liza

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I used to weigh 130 pounds(horribly fat I know) size 5-7 but then I got rid of it and went down to 108-110 size 1-3 and even 5 at times. Now I'm around 115. It's all from basically binge eating. I can't control myself. It's making me really depressed. I need to get back in control before I gain any more weight. My life is getting messed up again and I just dont know what to do. I need some help to get back on track.

-chelle-

Dear chelle,
i know it must be hard and at times u just loose control. this is going to be hard but it works u have to HAVE TO cotnrol yourself dont eat for like a whole day or eat very very few and after that u will get used to it.if not binge on carrots for a whole day and exercise, exercise inspires me to work haarder to my weightloss goals.get a journal and plan what u will eat and carry the journal with u and if u cant cotnrol yourself and get fattning food stop and think "do i really want to be a fat ass?" and drink lots of cold water it fills u up.
wish u lots of luck and ana hugs to you chelle,
Liza

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ITS BEEN REALLY HARD FOR ME TO PURGE WHEN I EAT CERTAIN THINGS WHAT CAN I DO FOR THEM TO COME OUT?? PLZ HELP ME I'LL APPRECIATE IT

yes its hard when u eat heavy things. what u should do is try drinking alot of water to soften it or chew your food really slow that helps alot.also u seem liek a nice person if u are barely getting into the "mia business" i advice u to let go if it if u are still fresh i've been suffering for years but if not i understand u.
good luck,
lIZA

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Hi! my best friend got mad at me because i kissed her boyfriend waht should i do? help me!

well sweetie u sure screwed up! well think about why did u do that...do u like him? were u mad at her? if she really means alot to u try talking to her and be honest why u did that.
good luck,
lovely Ms.rOtTeN

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