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Hi I'm anon-girl i have chosen to remain anonymous so i can answer every question if i can relate or not. Ex: Q- My parents are getting divorced and stuff and I am so sad now I dont know wat to do! I could say oh I'm the same way without my friends knowing that, that has happened becuz I am not supposed to tell anyone. I am really good at giving advice so anyone can ask me about anything i basically know it all.
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i just got my hair cut like an hour ago its a little bit below my shoulders and its angled so the front is at my chin it used to be a litte bit under my breasts i used to be known for wearing my hair in a high pony tail or a low ponytail my new hair looks cute and all but now i know i cant fit is in a high ponytail and i tried getting it into a low one and it doesnt even work if i put my fingers on the side of my eyes all the stuff in front of that is out of the low ponytail does anyone have any ideas on how i could keep it in my ponytail without putting a load of hairspray or gel? PLEASE HELP!!! i will rate high

Uhm...well I don't know what to tell you because its not like we can tell you to grow your hair and it will magically happen. But to make it grow faster, there is this stuff called gelatin and it makes your hair grow faster also your fingernails. Don't think I'm lying, its true just try it. I think you can get it at like a store like walgreens, cvs, or eckerds.
Hope I helped!
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My friend and I used to be really close and we told each other everything. Recently she changed her personality, her type of music, her interest in types of clothes. She also has began slagging people she doesn't even know. She says she hates people who judge and stereotype but she does it 24/7. She slags of all my mates, which hurts my feelings(yes I know that sounds gay.) She now has new friends "Skater mates" (sorry for stereotyping)which I don't mind but I don't slag them of if they piss me of like her. I feel really out of place when I'm with her and her new friends. Somethings I wonder if this drifting apart is due to me being a guy(16) anf her being a girl (14.) Maybe that one of my excuses. Any gental tips that I could say to her to make her stop slagging and to realise that her changes have effected me. That sounds shallow sorry!

Wow..how many slags can you put in that paragraph? Jeez..I dont even know what that means but w/e. I dont think it has anything with you being a guy, I think she just wants to feel more independent, she wants to be set apart from "everyone else", or she just wasnt having fun with her old wayz and friends. You should try talking to her and tell her that you don't appreciate her judging your friends and that you don't do that to her friends. Maybe then she will try to understand how you feel.
Sry I couldn't help more.
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Hey you guyz does any one know if the ab lounge works. If so likie if it works good or not.

Yeah it does it works one you abs really good its like crunches but way more fun then that. It also works alot better then crunches.

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PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS ONE. There is this guy and he is 17 and im a girl and im 14. Well we both like each other alot or at least i think so. well anyway there are these two other girls and they like him and he says he cant stand them but then i catch him flirting with them sometimes. and also we makeout and stuff and i dont know if he is just useing me and then goes and makesout with these other girls.what do u think i should do and be specific. and do u think the age difference between us matters?

Well the age difference won't matter if you think about it in the future like when he is 23 you will be 20. Most relationships are like that. But anyways if there are other girls he flirts with this may be an iffy situation...but if you really think, even know he said he couldn't stand them, that he would cheat on you with one of them, then maybe you should move on. Like if he's known to be a player. But if you've seen him before hand in relationships with girls for a decent amount of time I think you should stick with him. But if he ever tries to pressure you into having sex with him then he is just using you, don't fall for that you will regret it.
well I hope you solve your problem!
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I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions?

Well...to tell you the truth long distance relationships (if it plans to stay that way) would be really difficult to handle. I wouldn't try getting married unless he comes back for good. Because if he's away all the time you would probably end up getting divorced in about a year. With the work and school thing(if you still plan to stay in the relationship)try takin one day off of work and school you could plan to fly out there and surprise him and then spend the day together but leave just in time to get back home the next day.
I wish the best for you!
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does bronze tanning lotion stuff really work? i mean does it really make you look tan or does it turn your orange? and how many times do you have to put it on before you look tan?

Uhm...well I've heard from people that i know that most self tanning lotions are see thru and u can't see the tan until it drys which would really suck if you didn't get in all the right places..So i would suggest going to a mystic tan place to get a really good tan.
Hope I helped!
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!

Well, you could try talkin to her about it. Tell her that you know its fine to have other friends, but that you are feeling a little left out. Or maybe you can try to talk to her new friend too, odds are that since you and your bff have matching personalities that this girl will have a similar personality too. Like set up a time and place you can hang out like go out to eat,mall, or to the movies.
I hope things work out with yall!
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theres this boy we arent dating or anything but we used too. well lately ive been hearing that he wants to date me again and he has been flirting with me. and also he has been asking me to have sex with him im a virgin and im not really ready for sex or anything wat should i do.

Don't give into him, he just wants to pressure you into having sex with him and then break up with you and never talk to you again. Would you really want to lose your virginity like that? I wouldn't. Don't do anything that your not ready to do.
I hope you will make the right decision.
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my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way?

You shouldn't tell people about what's happened to her. Let her tell people on her own, its the only way.If you do it would probably just turn into a huge mess and then it would go around school and she would get really mad at you. I know you really want to help, but all you can do right now is to be supportive of her and help her in anyway you can.
I hope I helped!
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i used to be friends w/ this one girl but then she started going out w/ my brother and totally changed. now she complety ignores me and acts like a total b*tch to me. i tried being nice to her but i cant do it anymore. she comes over everyday and she is a total snob. also, everyone in my family is on HER side. they are always telling me how i need to be nicer to her even though shes the one thats being so mean to me. and ever since my brother started going out w/ her, he hasnt really had time to hang w/ me and instead he's always telling me that i need to be more nicer to his g/f even though i really tried to be, it just didnt work. someone please help me.

Wow...she sounds like a b*tch to me.Well you could just kill with kindness, like when she says something mean to you be like o thanks! your so nice! and soon enough she wont get the reaction that she wants out of you.
hope you get thru this!
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