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this is for girls right. how do you masturbate? i mean i know its different for everyone but when i get in the mood and try i dont come or feel any pleasure. any tips?
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you can use fingers, vibrators, or "household" items. All you do is stick it up ur vagina (lol) like were you put a tampon and feel around n go in and out also you can feel up bath water..er thats wat i heard

hope i helped


what are some ways do you guys think could help me with this broken heart problem :(

signed : if only i knew (link)
be happy...youve learned from this and now ur a stronger person..have fun being single and find other guys that will treat you right!


I just gave my boyfriend head. We didn't use a condom.. He didnt cum or anything, can I still get an STD? (link)
Yes..always use a condom to help the percentage of possiblitY of getting an std drop! Go to the doctors if your worried! xOx ♥ dancer chYck xOx ♥


ok...here's the deal. im an ok it girl. i wear a size 4. but i would like to have abs...ones that actually show. i would also like to tone up my thighs. any suggestions?...please! will rate high...

xoxo
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to tell you the truth..which your suppose to do on here..from alla the guys ive asked they dont like girls with muscles..its just wrong i dont know why..i want abs to but guys like "thick" girls because they have something to hold onto (lovehandle) i hope i helped n decide whichever you rather have! xOx!


Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw. (link)
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What is the purpose of life? like why are we even here? (link)
i dont know.,..i know it sucks but hey you only get one life..live it to its fullest..if you need to talk about anything let me know! :) ♥ daNCerChYCk xOX!


im not over weight but i have extra fat i really want to get rid of i mean im 13 year old girl who weights about 105 lbs and is 5 feet 1 iche but i really want to get rid of my extra fat around my stomach and "love handels" (link)
atkins diet..low carb...exercise...really helps! let me know if you need more info!
xOx ♥


Ok, I want to try tampons and me period should come in the next couple days, but my mom doesnt use them either... so, I have a few questions:

1. How do I tell me mom that i want to use tampons?

2. What is the best brand out there and the most comfortable?

3. Even though its the first time, should I still use the lowest Absorbancy, because me period is really heavy?!

4. When did you start using them and do you ifnd them more comfortable than pads?

5. Does it hurt when you use them the first time? Ive gotten fingered before so would that make a difference? (link)
1. tell her about when you go swimming and all your friends use them and you dont want to wear a pad all the time that sometime you can see that your wearing

2. IO like playtex gentle glide..also tampax pearl is real comfortable

3. It doesnt matter what kind you use the first time...but the biggest absorbancy hurts more than the lowest so if you want to take it slow then start witht he lowest absorbancy

4.YES! so much comfortable i hate pads they feel like diapers or something and you can her them when you walk

5..didnt hurt me.!

hOpe i hElPed ♥


ok so, i am only 13 years old. and i think i might be in love! my boyfriend is only 13 too. and i heard that he is like...an intch close to loving me! so now im scared bc i have never been in love before and i really dont want to get hurt. so do i break up with him before i get hurt or do i go with it and get hurt! i really need some help and ill rate high to anyone that gives some good advice. (link)
I'm the same way. Im 13 and my boyfriend is 14 but play with your thoughts if he hurts you you just keep telling yourself that you werent really in love but if you really think your in love talk to him about your feelings and let him know not to hurt you because you feel different about him then any other guy ever. Im sure that will boost his ego! hoPe i HELped..lemme know if you need anything else! eMilee


Ok, me and what is now my ex both wanted out the relationship cause he liked someone else and I didn't really like him as more than a friend. But I still wants to be friends and he like won't even talk to me. He has another girlfriend now and he's like trying to make me jelous when I'm around (even though I'm not). At this festival thing he was walking past and sorta like pussed her into me? What can I do to like try to become friends again!! I rate! (link)
well if hes trying to make you jealous..he probably still likes you. But call him or talk to one of his friends and just express your feelings. Let him know you still care! Hope I helped.! Drop a message in my inbox if you have anymore questions muAh! emily


ok well here is the deal im 13/f and i really want the top of my ear pirced and i offered my mom to tell her id pay for it but she is still saying no anyone got any ideas like what i could tell her to convince to let me get one please help any info about this just help
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hEy i got that pierced when i was 11 and it hurts like crazy and really its not that cute and im forreal it hurt so bad! i hate it now..lOl..sorry but if u still wnat it say youll do some extra chores or something! hope i helped!


Me & my guy friend had a fight like 2 weeks ago, then last week I called him to apologize (it was nothing big i swear...just stupid) and i don't think he was happy to hear from me. He went to out of town for a few days and just got back today and now he's leaving again tomorrow for a week and a 1/2. I havent talked to him since I've called him. He told my friend that he's not mad but he just doesn't wanna talk to me bc he's afraid then I might start to like him. I sent him a text asking him if he was still mad and he never texted me back. I need to know if I should try calling him again TONIGHT before he leaves again bc I really miss him sooo much and I don't want our friendship to be over because of this bc we've been friends for 6 yrs & have been thru soooo frikin much together! HELP PLEASE!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO???? And if I call him, what should I say to get him to listen to me? Thanks! (link)
Call him and tell him your sorry for watever you did..if he really loves you n is ur friend he will understand. But if u feel like you should give this more time to blow over wait till he comes back then maybe he would have cooled down by then! let me knoe wat happens with watever you choose!


why do girls use dildos? why do some use big and why do some use small. what do dildos do? i rate high so plz help! (link)
sOme girls use dildos in replace of a penis..this gives them the sexual pleasure theyre aking for. Size deoends on the girl..hopE i hElped lEt me KnoE iF u hAVe n E mORe questions!


ok so you kno the skin or "fat" that is usually called love handles? well how do you get rid of it.. are there exercises u can do? Its summer and it would be nice to not be self conscience about my body. I know i shouldn't be but i just want to know if anyone has anythign that would help thanks a bunch =D

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I had the same problem as you.! The love handles are so hard to get rid of! But anyways try the atkins diet and exercise A LOT like go to the gym or run a mile or 2! This helped me! But then again my boyfriend loved my love handles because if ur an extra skinny girl you dont have anything the guy can grab onto..ya know what im sayin? so its really your choice on what you want to do! Hope i helped...let me know if you need anything else!

xOx-eMiLEe


ok, my boyfriend is shy enough not to be able to kiss me. we've been going out for a while now and theres only been 1 hug. and 0 kisses. Since i kno he loves me and i kno he's too shy to kiss me, i decided to make the move (cheek tho) i was planning on saying "_____ come here, i need to tell you a secret" and when he leans over to hear, i kiss his cheek...but is there any better wayto kiss him? Thanks. bub byezz (link)
wen the moments right..love him in the eyes and it will be the right time..thats when you should kiss him..hope i helped if u need more advice let me kno!


I'm 13/f && I'll admit it, I have a big nose. I know I'm too young for plastic surgery but I'm really self consious of it so is there any way I could minimize it? Like is there a way I could do my makeup to make it less noticeable?

xO* GiiRL iiN NEED (link)
i have a huge crooked nose! lol wat i do is make other things on my face stand out like my eyes er my mouth so it will draw attention away from my nose! hope i helped if u need any more advice let me kno~


Thank you fo the advise from the last question I forgot to ask you something else. Do you advise me to try to contact him after not responded to me in a year and I tryed so much to talk to him?? I really think I have feeling for him still or it just being alone now??? He relly had nothing to offer me, He had no money and he kept promising me we were going to get married so many times but never set a date??? His family was very jealous of me??? which I still think is crazy!!! and I know they had alot to do with him ending our relationship. and he will nver be happy, I was the best thing and he will never find that again either!! I speak to a woman at his job and all she says is that he's was dating someone in January for 2 weeks, My friend told of course she is going to tell you that so I think he is moved on. I don't believe he has forgotten about me either, but I very hurt by the way he ended this relationship and also he go very close to my son and it hurt him also and he also tryed to contact to say hello and talk to him and he never returned his call. Do you think I deserve a much better person, I 'm angry, hurt and sad!!! I think if I got t he chance to tell him to hios face how I feel I would be able to put thi to rest!! I'm so scared of being alone, I want to meet someone, im not into the bar seen either!! What would you advise me to do?? (link)
well hmm this is hard! he cant even call you or talk to you then fuck him he isnt worth your time. i believe that since hes left its given you the oppurtunity to find new people and lead a better life..its gods gift. and i knoe this guy is really important in your life but life isnt perfect and dopesnt go the way you want it so screw him and move on.! if you need me n e time day or night let me knoe! thanks!

hope i helped!


My Fiancee ended our 3 1/2 year relationship a year ago. I just can't seem to stop thinking about him???? Especially on the weekends??? I wonder if he thinks about me??? When he ended the relationship, he told me he will always love me but we need to move on. I really don't go out!! I was alot to blame with the ending of my relationship, I have tryed to call him leave messeges, write him letters etc. and I haven't heard from him in a year!! Can you give me sme advice how to move on and im thinking I will never meet anyone again, I'm scared to be alone for the rest of my life. (link)
Well god has a plan for everyone..life can sumtimes suck but every bad thing leads to a good thing. HAng out with some of your buddies n party..live life to its fullest and im sure someone would be happy to have you

hope i helped let me kno if u have n e more ?s!


hey people..lol..how do you let a guy know that you like him and that you want to go out with him..without saying "i like you"???

DeeMocha (link)
well flirting would be the best answer give him some hints but if u really like him u should just come out n say it! hOpe i hElpED!


I'm graduating high school in 2 weeks. My friends and I are planning a summer trip together. We are debating on weather to go to the Bahamas or touring around Eurpoe. Which would y'all do? (link)
ive been to the bahamas and its so much fun! but so different from america! but.. bahamas is so expensive and u have to drive on the opposite side of the road! ive never been to europe so i really couldnt give u an insight on that! go with bahamas!

hope i helped!..




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