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hey my name is courtney i'm 14 year old sophmore at CA! i run cross country (this will be my second year) and i'm planning on doing cheerleading and running track! i'm taken [x]may 21, 2005[o] by my beyond amazing boyfriend tom! i love you soooo much! *more* ;) my best friend is chelsea . . we've been friends for over 3 years! i love to give advice so feel free to ask anything and i'll try my hardest to help you! xOcourtney*

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My boyfriend fingered me a couple days ago and now, 5 days after my period has ended I am bleeding very slightly (I can only notice when I wipe) and when I pee it stings a little. What does this mean?

it means that you popped your cherry, your hymen split! this probably happened when your boyfriend was fingering you! if you don't know what i mean just drop one in my inbox! hope i helped*

i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

make him a grilled cheese with chocolate milk! grilled cheese's are really simple to make! spray the pan with pam, butter, or something like that, put the pan on the burner and set it on medium, butter 2 slices of bread, put 1 or 2 pieces of cheese in between the slices of bread, then put it on the pan and keep a close eye on it until it is golden-brown! hope i helped*

I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?

i personally don't think you're too young! my mom told me (back when i was 13) that i could get it done if i paid for it! maybe you could suggest that to your mom! just be like mom how about this you let me get my belly button pierced and i'll pay for it! hope i helped*

is there any way to find out who's buddy lists your on on aim?

no but you can find out who looks at your profile! if you wanna know the name of the program where you can find out who looks at your pro just drop one in my inbox! hope i helped*

Well, I recently purchased Certain Dri, I read on the back that you're only supposed to apply it before you go to bed, but what do you do the next morning? Do you wear another type of deoderant, or do you just dab baby powder, or what?

Thank you.

you just wear your normal deodorant! hope i helped*

i have a hard time falling asleep is there anything i can do or buy?

tylenol pm works really well! you could also try benadryll! but don't use them all the time because you could end up being dependant on it and that's not good! only use it if you really need it! hope i helped*

my best guy friend and i have been friends for 10 years. recently we went kayaking together to a private beach thing. he was being really flirty and being extra nice to me, showing off and was acting all weird. he's never acted like this before. my other best friend thinks he likes me, but I'm not sure. If anyone could has an opinion on this it's definitely appreciated. Thanks

it deffinatly sounds like he likes you! that's how a lot of guys are towards girls they like! hope i helped*

does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting?

don't worry! it isn't as bad as everyone says! it's actually a lot better than middle school! i was really nervous at first but then i realized it was over nothing! but if you want to talk about it and get some reassurance feel free to im me anytime (even if i'm away, i'll come back)! hope i helped*

hi i liked your advice send me something im expert101 13 yrs (n.r)

hey, thanks! i'll add you*

what is this song it is a rock song and i noe girls sing ti and it goes, "why cant i breath when ever i think about you, y cant i speak whenever i talk about you..." can someone plz tell me hwo sings it and what it is called.. thanks

why can't i by liz phair

Okay so I'm 14 (girl btw) ...5'0 and I'm about 85 pounds. I obviously have a high metabolism and I have to gain 95ish pounds before xmas or... I'm going to the hospital because my mom thinks I have an eating disorder (i dont) How do I gain weight and actually "keep it up" ?

*eat 3 meals a day, eat until you are full, drink lots of water, eat healthy, and have snacks if you get hungary in between meals! ik it sounds like a diet but just trust me!
*work out by lifting and running wich will help you gain muscle! muscle weighs more than fat! by eat healthy and working out you will gain healthy muscle weight instead of unhealthy fat weight! gaining muscle means gaining weight and it will thicken you up a little bit!!
*to keep it up just keep working out and exercising!

hope i helped*

i'm just asking. ok, i'm new here. browsing thru some of the questions, i couldn't help noticing that some of the questions were made by 13-to-17-years-old people. is this a webpage for teenagers or just for everyone?need a little help here..

this site is for everyone it just happens to be that the majority of people on this site are teenagers! hope i helped*

there is this guy that i like and i am 13 and he is 16 and wen he told his friends that we madout they made fun of him for making out with me because im only 13 and i like him a LOT and i think he likes me bu his friends are in the way wat do i do?? o and by the way i forgot to add his friends are my friends too but they still tease us both...

just ignore them . . if you guys both really like each other it shouldn't matter what other people say! next time they make fun of you just ignore it and act like it doesn't bother you even if it does! eventually they'll just give up and be like w/e this is pointless if it doesn't get to them! hope i helped*

my cell phone plan is verizon and I know I have free nights and weekends. free nights starts at 9pm, but what time does it end? I'm only allowed to talk on my phone when it's free nights and weekends. Last night my boyfriend called my cell phone at 4:15am, and the day before he called me around 3am. Will I get charged for this? what time does free nights end?

i'm pretty sure it's 7am the free night ends! actually it ends at 6:59am but i rounded it off! i have verizon too and that's the time my mom told me! just so you know free nights actually starts at 9:01 so if you start at 9 and talk til 10 you will be charged if they aren't verizon! hope i helped*

when you have your period and you were sitting down and then you get up is it normal that i always feel a lot of blood coming out for a few minutes?

yes! hope i helped*

how do i Lose Weight Safely? dont be mean about it! i am 150 pounds and i am only 14.

help

*eat 6 healthy meals a day! small proportions, preferably 1-2 cups!
*drink lots of water! no soft drinks!
*don't eat a lot of salt bc that makes you retain water wich means water weight!
*if you do get hungary have a little snack like fruit or veggies!
*run,do crunches, swim, or any other excercises everyday!

hope i helped! if you are confused about any of this just drop one in my inbox*

Well I was just wondering what the colors of these jelly bracelets meen.

*Black: sexual intercourse
*Blue: blow job (alternate meaning: lap dance)
*Green: cunnilingus (alternate meaning: outdoor sex, hug)
*Clear: whatever you want (alternate meaning: hug)
*Orange: kiss
*Yellow: hug (alternate meaning: analingus)
*Red: lap dance (alternate meaning: French kiss, oral sex)
*Purple: anal sex (alternate meaning: holding hands, doggy style)
*Silver: fisting
*White: flash your tits (alternate meaning: gay kiss, French kiss)
*Pink: flashing
*Gold glitter: make out
*Brown: toss my salad, i.e., analingus
*Glow in the dark: using sex toys, e.g. vibrators, dildos, etc.

I know you don't want to listen to me whine but really, I have noone to talk to. My boyfriend just dumped me in the rudest way. He made up this horrible excuse that his parents were mad at him and he wasn't allowed to have a girlfriend. He never even told me he was breaking up. Right after that, he put his away message up that said "Oh the phone with the hottest girl ever-Shea!" (Shea is a slut and really easy by the way) Then I imed him to tell him how much he hurt me. And he said, "Yeah whatever, like you would know what pain was. Who cares about you."

I can't stop crying. Is there something wrong with me? He blocked me so anyone who wants his screenname, its: pyroboy9977.

I can't believe this. :(

that's horrible! he's a jerk . . he doesn't deserve you anyways! you could do soo much better! most guys are dogs and will do anything to get "stuff" from girls! *no guy deserves your tears and when you find the one that does he won't make you cry* my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a very rude way and at a time where many family members have died! if you ever want to talk my sn is

xoxox courtney

best wishes*

I shave down there and when it starts growing back...and I try to shave it hurts sooo bad and bleeds. Does anyone know any tricks or anything that will work? I've tried nair and it dosn't work. Thanks soo much for your help!

have you ever tried waxing it? that might be better for you then shaving! another thing you could do is svace but make sure to use really warm water to open your pores and a mosturizing shave gel/soap! hope i helped! by the way is this the cheese? lol you spelled doesn't just like my bff and i was just wondering if you were her*

my boyfriend drinks alot.. tonight he told me he needs a beer cause he hasnt drank in a few nights. i dont drink alot at all so i dont go out n party with him wenever he does. since im not there i worry about him n other girls.. i dont know if he thinks its okay to do body shots or somethin..i dont kno if i should be mad if he does or jus let it go? to make it worse, hes goin to college this year and im only a junior. should i be mad if he takes body shots off of girls or is that taking jealousy too far?

no, that is not taking jealousy too far! most girls would be very upset if their boyfriends did that, i know i would! talk to him about it! ask him if he would ever do body shots off of other girls and then tell him that you don't want him doing that! i kind of portray that kind of stuff as cheating, but i don't know where you stand on that subject! hope i helped*

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