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Hey my name is Soraya but if yu mix it up,, itsz Soraa . My birthday isz September 14,, 1991,, do the math,, that meansz i''m fourteen !! I''m heree to give advice.. so if yur gunna ask me a :Q: then make it easy fo me to read/-answer. Don't make it sound all weird- aka: the lettering- cuz i won't read it.

My aim isz :: x0o Bluuee x3 ::- && my,, myspace link is [ myspace.com/brownsuga_oOx ]- So if yu would rather want to talk in person then there you go.. Oyeha. EmaiL [{ x0o-bluuee-x3@hotmail.com }]... Well thatsz all you needa no bout me,, so.

BlesSes

- Soraa.

advice

hey hey hey soraya wussup this lil advice thing is pretty cool im reading all these question that these ppl are asking u. uor like a mini dr phil lol well i dont really have a question so yea ttyl peace.

HA. i'm a chick Dr, phil........

lol

ttyl

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Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean?

yeah, there's something called tss ( toxic shock syndrom ) and it's like a shock that's happens inside of you.......

and it hurts really bad. because your dry.

i hope i helped.....

-sora

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Ok, im 14 years old and im a boy.. i still havent gone threw puberty. All the other boys in my class have. Well most of them. Can anyone tell me how what when boys go threw puberty?

Boys usually go threw pupury in there early teens 13-15.

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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!

If your really heavey all the time..

Then buy more paded one's cuz they suck up the blood ..

Or by bigger ones.

Hope i helped.

blessEs.

*soraa.

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

Ok, hun .. Boys think with there penis. And if.. all he wants is SEX then he is prob gunna break up with you.. Depends on the guy.

Tell him..

Because he doesn't realize that we can get pregnent with or w.o a condom.

If your not ready don't do it and if he doesn't understand.. I would just break up with him..

A tru bf would understand.

*soraa.

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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?

Well.. since there's nothing else to wear. then just wear a pad. a really big pad so you don't have to change it so much.

And if you really don't want to wear a pad. Just try to deal with a tampon.

Hope my advice is tru.

blessEs.

*Soraa.

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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

Yeah. It's normal.

I mean. You would think a lesbian or a bisexual would be around there 20's but it's totally normal to me.

blessEs.

*soraa.

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Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks

> Nutrigina Oil Free Acne Wash !!

> Nutrigina Clear Pore Wash- you can use it as a cleasner or a mask. !!

> And Nutrigina Healthy Skin, Face lotion !!

> Astara Blue Flame Purification Mask

> PhytoMe Acne Gel

> Neutrogena Cooling Gel Mask



http://www.acne.org/rate.php

go there. that might help.

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if I TAKE MY TIME WITH MY EX DO U THINK WE COULD GET BACK TOEGHTHER?

Ok.. well it depends.

Who broke up with who??

If he broke up with you because he didn't like you or liked another. Then I don't know. Hopefully

But if you broke up with him. When he STILL had feelings for you then you guys could. Try to make him happy again.

Tell him that you love him if you really do && if you really wanna get together with him.

blessEs.

*Soraa.

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what is the "Cowgirl" position in sex........

Um that is when a guy is laying on his back and the girl is on top of him, grinding on him.

lol.

ttyl sweety.

blessEs.

*Soraa.

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Hi i am Britney an im 14 i was wondering if my boyfriend fingered me and he had cum on his finger can i get pregnet from that?

Yes you can get pregnate.

If that did happen i'm really sorrie.

blessEs.

*Soraa.

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Im 13 and im 200 pounds basicly and everyone hates me even my mom..Because im so overweight..my dad left my mom to go have sex wit another woman cuz theey wanted a "fit" daughter!!!!SO.....then like my mom had sex with another guy she waaas dating..and she took the pregnency test and shes havin triplets!!!!and she said shes givin me up..Cause im overweight..so im at my Grandmas house 4 now on.......so 2 make me happy my mom gave me 2 babys so..i was there NEW MOM!!! I feel like noone cares about me!!!Can you give me some things to say 2 my mom..about just dumping her children on me!!!

Omgsh. I'm so sorrie hun.
You seem like your life isn't going the way that you want it to go.

YOu need to tell your mom that you don't wanna take care of her responceabilities.

Your not the mom. She is. But be nice about it. Don't get mad then make her mad.

Take care.

blessEs.

*Soraa.

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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.

He could have popped your cherry.. idk.

But i don't think you have std.

&& don't even think about commiting suicide.

That is the worst to even think about so don't say that.

blessEs. - Pls. don't say that. I care.

*Soraa.

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about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation.

Yes a month is enough..

But those are the "symtomes" of becoming pregnate.

When my mom was pregnate with my sister she had
those same pains. That's why she was so cranky
all the time.

Except i've never heard that your boobs get really soft. But okay.

God Bless

blessEs

*Soraa.

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Hey Everyone!! Well I've liked this guy 4 a really long time and decided it was o.k to have oral sex w. him. When we were done he cummed on me but not in me and than instantly wiped it off w. a napkin. I'm wondering if there's ne way possible tht some1 can get pregnant from oral sex?? I'm 5 days late on my period and its starting to freak me out a little bit. Suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Tnnx(please help im desperate!!)

No, you can't get pregnate from oral sex. - Lol

The only way you can get pregnate is if you guys are having sex. And you might know this but we have eggs in side of "us" females near the vigina area and the guys's sperm will reach to it and that will create a baby.

And you don't have Eggs in your mouth.

^ hopefull you don't think that i think your stupid for tell you all this obviouse info. ^

Lol

blessEs.

- Soraa.

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is it gang rape if more than one person or guy renders you unconscious and has sex with you against your will?>

Yes gang rape is if more than one guy rapes you unconscious. And it's also called a train.

really scary.

BECAREFUL !!

IF ANY DUDE(S) TRY TO DO THAT BET THIER ASSES !!

BlessEs.

- Soraa.

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is it gang rape if more than one person or guy renders you unconscious and has sex with you against your will?>

Yes gang rape is if more than one guy rapes you unconscious. And it's also called a train.

really scary.

BECAREFUL !!

IF ANY DUDE(S) TRY TO DO THAT BET THIER ASSES !!

BlessEs.

- Soraa.

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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is?

Hey sweety, don't worry about anything ok.
That clear stuff is called Discharge. It's very very normal.

Every girl goes throught that. But, if yours is a bit to much goopy and thick then you need to tell you mom.- I mean if it's like very "full." but other words. It's ok.

&& something to tell you. That question was under the right catagory.- lol

BlessEs.

- Soraa.

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i am MADLY in love with my best guy friend. we're like brother and sister and i LOVE him. i dream about him, think about him.. i can't help myself, i've never had a guy be so nice to me. but there's nothing i can do about it because he's madly in love with my best friend and i've decided not to do anything about it. how do i get out of this hole i fell in? i LOVE him. i don't know what to do.. please someone tell me if this is ever going to go away :(

Yes, it's going to go away. But there's a catch. You gotta stop thinking about him. Move on to another guy that doesn't like n e body else that you think is cute.

Talk to him

&& Think about him and you'll forget about this other guy.

BlessEsz

*Soraa.

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hey everyone. first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, and i mean every day i would think about her. every time i think about her i get nervous but happy. like, i dont no, i cant explain it. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about ANYONE either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian?

Wow. you would really take a bullet for her. Thatsz really deep.

But I think it's crush && your falling for her.
And not to be rude. But maybe your Lesbian.- Unless you think about guys this way too.

Good luck sweety*

*Soraa.

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