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okay so I've had sex 3 times with 2 different guys. both times with both guys his penis kept coming out. is that something that I'm doing wrong or does it just happen? (link)
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Don't worry, it's normal and happens to EVERYONE, believe me. It can be awkward at points, but just laugh and get over it then slip that monster back into its den.
There's many reasons this can happen:
-They lost their erection
-There is not much friction (too wet)
-His penis isn't very large
-Not good position
Try positions with deep constant penetration, such as your legs over his shoulders. It should help his penis from slipping out of you so often.
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I have been waiting about 5 weeks to get my period, and i finally got it, but my blood is brown and very light, is this my period? and is this normal? (link)
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This happens to me ALLL the time, don't worry about it.
Have you been sick recently? If so, that's probably why. Irregulation is often related to malnutrition or significant changes in everyday activities. It had a lot to do with your iron intake as well.
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i always wanna have sex but im a virgin so i dont know how it feels what should i do? what is wrong with me? (link)
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There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. Don't worry about it. Curiosity about the unknown is PERFECTLY NORMAL. Infact, it is much better than fear of the unknown.
Sex, however, should not be done just to *find out what it feels like*. Once you find the right person and it you know...it feels right. It's something you'll want to enjoy the rest of your life, don't ruin it by pressuring your first time before you're ready.
The first few times you do it probably won't be that pleasurable, or thrilling, but believe me, it gets a LOT better.
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Sometimes when my boyfriend and i are just sitting around he will go up my shirt some like around my back. How do i get him to go where i want him to? (link)
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Early on in the relationship, guys are usually scared to mess things up for them and their new girl. He's probably insanely happy that he's finally got you, and is scared to make a wrong move by being too forward. He doesn't know what you want.
Next time he goes up your shirt, put his hands exactly where you want them to be, and give him a sexy smile.
Chances are, he'll be super turned on by your sexkitten side and gladly oblige to your requests.
Good luck;)
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if you finger yourself and you find blood
what does this mean?
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Either you broke your own hymen or you started your period.
You could have also scratched yourself accidently if you have long nails.
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For females:
Are you supposed to shave your bikini area?
I can't afford a bikini wax but when I shave I get stubble and all that. Plus,when you shave yourself you can't really get DOWN UNDER. Do you even have to shave at all? Help!!!
For Males:
Is a hairy or clean shaven vagina more attractive? (link)
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You can buy your own wax and do it yourself, it's cheaper.
The pain may take time to get used to, but after a while you'll be accustomed to it.
Shaving usually works too, you just have to keep it up.
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So, my boyfriend wants to finger me but i'm afraid.. I mean I want to!.. but i'm scared it's going to hurt, i've never been fingered before, or fingered myself or wear tampons... is this going to hurt????!
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As long as you're wet it probably won't hurt all that much. If it does, don't be scared to let him know.
If he hasn't done it before, don't be afraid to ajust the angle, sometimes the area of penetration can be hard to get to.
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16/f.. don't really wanna hear about how i'm too young to be having sex..
so i know that people say that you know when you orgasm but i've actually been told by guys that i cum when they go down on me. so is it possible that i just like don't feel orgasms? (link)
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Girls are different than guys. Guys produce a substance after they've orgasmed, girls produce when they are both horny and have orgasmed. It is impossible to tell whether a girl has orgasmed or not without her telling you so. That's why a lot of girls fake orgasms.
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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help. (link)
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It's perfectly healthy.
As long as you keep going out and carrying on with your regular activities.
Don't live in your bedroom pleasuring yourself all day long. Get outside sometimes.
If you're a guy, loosen the grip a little, it will help out your future sex life.
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My boyfriend has a small penis.. it's not important to me I still love him but I was wondering what are the best positions to have sex with a guy that has a small penis... from the back hasnt had the best sucess.. i dont really want to be on top all the time i feel kind of self conscious lol. (link)
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Try missionary style with your legs in his arms, or on his shoulders. This will allow deep penetration, making use of the size he does have to pleasure you both more.
DO NOT try girl on top. Small penises tend to slip out a lot in this position. It's embarassing, trust me.
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when people say something like how long a guy lasted what does that meen?
and also what does it meen when a girl tells you that they couldnt have sex because he couldnt get hard , cause my friend was telling me oh yeah we tried having sex but he couldnt get hard so we didnt (link)
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When a guy gets horny(wants to have sex), his penis becomes erect. This means the blood flow in it is increased, making the penis hard and standing up instead of flopping around. It will also grow several inches from when it was not erect.
When a guy has a orgasm(tickling, amazing feeling after sexual stimulationg) he will ejaculate a salty, egggwhite-like substance called seimen. This is where the sperm is located.
After his ejaculation, his penis will lose his erection within seconds. And it will be very difficult to keep having sex.
Women enjoy men that take long to orgasm, because their penis will stay hard longer, which means they will have sex for a longer time. Usually it takes females longer to orgasm than it takes males, so long sex is good for them.
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i got fingered by my loving boyfriend and we both had total consent but i feel guilty and so does he a slight bit, but we both loved it. what do i do to feel better and im feel more guilty than he does.
but what can he do also ? (link)
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You could be feelign guilty about several different things.
1. Are either of you involved with another person?
2. Is this the first time either or you have gottent his far, sexually?
3. Is he the only one doing the pleasuring?
The list can go on and on. If you're feeling guilty, something must be wrong. You and your boyfriend should probably talk about it and see where the problem is.
From the sounds of it, you two shouldn't be feeling guilty at all. You're both growing up, and this can be a big step for you two. Take the time the ajust to things before you so any farther.
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i had my period this month but is was brown then a little red then it went back to brown but its been like that for four days and i dont have any idea what that means what does it mean what do i need to do (link)
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Don't worry, worst comes to worst it can be a very rare virus.
It is probably related to your diet and amount of iron intake. It's normal.
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i have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for about two months.
i went down on him once towards the beginning and his entire crotch area had a rather unpleasant smell.
sort of like a doughy smell, or something that reminds you of food.
it wasn't pleasant.
i want to give him head again, and i would normally enjoy it, but not with the odor. it makes me sick.
can you think of anything that might cause it to smell like that?
he has normal healthy hygiene habits,
but i've never known a GUY to have a smell.
girls, yes, but not a guy.
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Is he uncircumsized? If he is, it is much easier for it to become unclean under his foreskin if he doesn't clean it regularly in the shower.
Many uncirumsized guys avoid pulling back the foreskin to clean if they don't do it often, because it can be very sensitive.
The odor can also be from sweat. If it is really bothering you, suggest a fun and sexy shower together. This was you can pleasure him, minus the smell, and it make also be a lot more fun.
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When you are giving a handjob to someone while they are fingering you, does that have a name? Thanks. (link)
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It's called mutual masturbation.
If you and your partner are ready, go for the 69 position, it's much better;)
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Okay, I'm 14 and i havn't started my period yet. But today when I went to the bathroom, I had like a "brown-ish" mark on my underwear....? Does that mean I have started my period?
O and please hurry I really need to know! I am planning to go to the beach and i need to know how to tell my mom also because we are not very close at all........so if you could please answer both of those questions it would help me ALOT!
Thank you soooo much! (link)
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Congratulations, this is your first step into becoming a woman.
Your mom's been through it all, chances are she'll be thrilled to hear the news. Your period probably won't be that heavy considering it's your first one, so you may very well be able to do swimming without any protection at all.
If you are not sexually active, or masturbate with penetration frequently, you may find it difficult to insert a tampon. Don't worry about it, as soon as your blood flow has gotten higher, it will be easier to make its way through.
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okay so lets say im giving a guy a blow job and his cum gets in my mouth. then ill either swallow it or spit it out, either way i might still have a little in my mouth and not know it. then i go back to kissing the guy and he later eats me out. could i possibly get pregnant? (link)
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It is very unlikely, but if you are worried, get a pregnancy test. You can buy them for as little as 7 dollars.
Then, I'd suggest going on birth control. Everyone who is sexually active and does not want to end up pregnant should be on it. You don't even need your parents' consent, go to a pharmacy, even now, a school nurse can prescribe you.
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this may be a dumb Q but... When a girl does it for the first time she bleeds. right? but when, right after, later, how does that work...if Ima do it...should i bring a pad???
sorry if its a dumb q. (link)
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I'd suggest just a simple panty-liner. But if bringing a pad makes you feel more secure, do that.
However, many girls don't even bleed the first time having sex. I know a girl that didn't bleed the first time, the second, or even third, but the seventh time. Some don't even ever bleed at all. I've never bled.
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how long do you have to wait until you can take a pregnancy test after you have sex? (link)
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Wait atleast a week as soon as you realized your period is late. The longer you wait, the more accurate the result will be.
Also, DO NOT take a test in the morning during your first urination of the day. There is a high chance of it being inaccurate. Mid-day is best.
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There are bumps on my vag, usually about 5 or 6 at a time (not all clustered like cellulite). Some of them look like pimples that match my skin color, and there's usually one or two that have the texture and size of a mosquito bite. There's also this one bump that looks kind of like a scar. It's about an eigth of an inch long , is several shades darker than my skin color, and is surrounded by a VERY VERY thin yellow-whitish line. and these bumps sometimes itch.
additional info:
-i am a virgin, so no STIs..
-i masturbate on average four-five times a week, depends on where i am in my cycle
-14/f
what is it, and should i be worried?
Ive been told from a friend to get it checked out but im scared and dont want someone looking at me. (link)
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Do you shave or wax your pubic hairs?
If so, they could be ingrown hairs, they're very normal and they will go away.
Just to be safe, you should check with a doctor.
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