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I'll answer any question for you the best I can, and by what I think is right. Feel free to ask me anything =)
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Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.
sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.
then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/
anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.
we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.
what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.
ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?
To be brutally honest, most older guys are typically only be interested in younger girls for sex (or at least some type of sexual activities).
Every guy wants to be your first; they want to be able to say: "Yeah buddy I took her virginity".
I know not all guys are like this, but quite honestly, a lot of them are. Even guys your own age.
Hell, I actually know a guy (I stay as far away from him as possible) who for over a year now has been trying to get me to have sex with him. He tried doing the same to my friend. Well, we have a mutual friend, who once she did, he ditched.
And he actually keeps track, he's 19 and he's chucked 87 girls. It's pretty disguisting.
I honestly really think he'll just want a bootycall, but hey, maybe I'm wrong. I don't know this guy, but from the sounds of it, chances are I'm not.
Whatever happens, don't have sex with him again. He used you & hurt you, and you should find someone who deserves you, and won't do that.
Good luck & message me if you need anything else :)
hey i dont know if this can be answered on here, but i have given my guy hand jobs and stuff, and he says theyre really good. i wanted to know some new ideas and different techniques to try, that make work/feel better. also if anybody has any realy good ideas to turn a guy on? and what do guys find sexy that a girl can do?? thanks so much. if you can't answer on here send me an email
jamour-tu@hotmail.co.uk
please answer quick.
thanks. X
Okay this one might sound a bit weird but hey it worked damn good. Yesterday, while I was giving my guy a handjob, he started... well reciprocating. In other words, we were both pleasuring the other at the same time, and it turned him on even more - which I didn't think was all that possible. And he even got off faster too.
Best part; pleasure for both :)
i have acne scars..how do i get rid of them?
I talked to my doctor, and he prescribed me on Minocin, it works great.
And I had horrible scars that most of them have faded to nothing.
:)
lately i've been listening to alot of country music and i like it alot. i was just wondering what are some good songs or singers besides kenny chesney and taylor swift? thankyou.
I definetly recommend Brad Paisley & Tim McGraw, Dierks Bentley, Brooks & Dunn.
You might like Keith Urban & Rascal Flatts as well.
Or Trace Adkins, The Wreckers, Rodney Adkins, Doc Walker, Chris Cagle, Aaron Pritchett, Alan Jackson, Emerson Drive, Paul Brandt, Toby Keith.
I don't know if my situation is considered really important, but lately things have been very hard for me. You see I'm a 22 year old woman who has been sort of depressed for awhile. Ok so here it goes... I'm currently in a relationship with someone I love very much for almost four years. I have recently just got engaged last December, and since then things sort of been kind of strained... for one I'm truly excited to get married, but at the same time I just want to ball out into tears. You see my Fiance has just moved down to South Carolina and unfortunately because my family is very strict and have very religious morals, I am not allowed to move down there with him until I'm married. I mean yes I understand that this is normal for most families but at the same time I feel like that things are becoming more and more strained. You see I have just recently visited my Fiance and stayed down with him for a week and just recently came home from visiting, and since then he has been very quiet, and rarely ever calls me. I have been calling him a lot more lately and he's been telling me that I've been calling him every minute and he needs his space, so now I have backed off. But now it seems like he's just not there... I know part of it is because I'm not down there with him and he's living by himself and is practically alone, but it just seems like since I left that he's a little angry or bitter with me. I ask him if there is anything wrong and tell him how i feel about how he's acting and all he does is just get angry or annoyed by the fact that I'm talking about the situation. Also when I try to talk to him about how I can't be there to live with him at the moment, he always ends up saying well you do have a choice to be down here with me but you choose not too. It's just I don't understand, he can be completely sweet and caring especially when I'm not feeling well or if something is happening to me but at the same time he can be cold and have no compassion what's so ever. It kills me every time this happens and I have no clue as to what I should do, I love him very much but every time I think about things with us I want to cry, I have been gaining weight when I'm actually am trying to loose it for our wedding. And it's sad but I don't even look forward to planning our wedding because he doesn't really want to help me plan anything. I know all this indicates that maybe I should have second thoughts about him, but the thing is I really do love him and I know it's cliche but at the same time I really hate how I'm feeling. I used to be a very outgoing, happy person but now I feel like I'm loosing me, I'm paranoid with everyone and everything and am never truly happy. My parents don't really help the situation either. It always seems like whenever my mother is talking I feel like I just want to leave the room or mute her out. I seem to have been snapping at everyone , including my Fiance over the most stupid things and I don't know why this is causing me to be this way. So anyways this is what's been happening, I'm happy, yet I'm not. I'm Satisfied and yet I'm Miserable and I don't know how to fix it. I can't talk to my mother about it because I feel like she's part of the problem, I can't talk to my Fiance about it because his only response to anything is Oh... or Ah I see, I'm just very lonely and I don't know what to do to make me feel better, and hence the reason why I'm asking for some advice. So thank you for reading this and taking the time to look through all this crazy banter of mine and I will appreciate it deeply to hear what you have to say, Thank You.
I don't have much experience with that (just started a long term relationship a bit ago), but parents really can be overwhelming. For one, I think you need to talk it over with your fiancé. I think he's probably feeling confused in why you're not living with him, and missing you may actually frustrate him, because he feels like it shouldn't have to be like how it is (the distance, living apart, etc), which could be why he doesn't really want to talk about it. He could be confused in totality; his frustrations, possibly with your family, your not being able to live with him, combined with other stresses, like work and such, he doesn't quite know how to handle it all. So, tell him how he much he means to you, and go from there. Tell him how you feel like you've drifted apart, and it's killing you, especially with the wedding approaching.
Next, I think you should speak to your family. Tell them you're going through a bit of a rough time, and that you feel like you need their support.
Another thing is, if you can't live with him, nothing is stopping you from taking a few extra specials trips. Make time for each other, and go out, have fun, do things you love, and that could help with the bonding you guys have been missing out on.
I really hope that I was at least somewhat of a help, good luck & let me know how it goes/if you need anything else!!!
Oh and one more thing:
STAY STRONG YOU ARE DOING OKAY!! Even when you feel it's all going downhill, keep fighting, cause it'll work out okay in the end. Sometimes, actually most of the time, you have to fight real hard for the things you want most.
Me and this guy have known each other for almost two years now, and we started out going out and broke up after a month, but just got alot closer. Anyway a year and a half later we are really close and we like each other. Anyway, there is something that is keeping him from me. But there is this other guy that likes me and I had feelings for him but my feelings for this other guy that I love was keeping me from saying yes to him. So I asked him (the guy who I like) what he wanted, and he told me that he didnt want me to be with the other guy because he would miss me and he wouldn't know what he would do without being as close as we are now. I told him I needed to a reason to stay, because I knew he wanted me to stay with him (even though we are not going out) And he said that he liked me but he wasn't ready to date me, because any relationship we would have would be serious and he didn't want a serious relationship. I asked him what he was ready for, and joking he said "some hoe on the street". I told him he wouldnt care about her, and he told me that was the point, he cared about me too much. He said because we are in high school breaking up would inevitable (he is one grade ahead of me) and he couldn't risk our friendship. I told him he made me happy and that I wanted to be with him, and he told me I made him happy but he couldn't give me the relationship he knows I dream about. What I need to know is if this is true, I'm not sure if this is an excuse or what makes guys not ready. And if he liked me how come he doesn't want a serious relationship. He says he cares about me. I told him I didn't really want a serious relationship but he said he didn't believe that because I get emotionally attached. At that moment we almost kissed (both of us have never kissed anyone before). But we were in his doorway to his room and I didn't want his parents to walk in on us, so I told him not now. When I texted him this morming I asked him if the feeling of kissing me had passed (because we are hanging out next weekend and I want to kiss him then) and he texted back that he told me yesterday that he wasn't ready to date me so it wouldn't be fair to me. Was that a rejection, I do want to kiss him, and I know he wants to kiss me. I just don't know what to make of this situation. I dont know whether he is bulls******* me. And I need to understand his feelings and I also need to understand what I should do next. And I need thorough advice on how to go about this. I love him, and I really think he loves me. HELP PLEASE!!!
Wow girl, this truly is a tough one, and I can only do the best I can, but I'll do my best. In my opinion, if this guy really cared about you as much as he says, he would go for it. And honestly, does not dating and straining your relationship (you wanting to date, him not wanting to) benefit you more than dating, when both of you would actually be mutually happy, taking the risks of a breakup of course. I really think that it's selfish of this guy, telling you he doesn't want to date you, but that you can't date anyone else (I'm sorry if that offends you but I'm being 100% honest).
ACtually, I've had something a little bit similar happen to me in the past, except he has been my best friend for over 4 years now. I was crazy about the kid at the start for 2 years, then he told me he didn't want to date, for one cause he wasn't interested, but 2nd cause he didn't want to wreck our friendship. Then, 2 years after that happened, he pulled me aside, telling me he liked me alot and it's always been that way. To tell you the truth, I felt the same way, but after weeks of thinking (I left on holidays the day he told me), I realized that I didn't want to lose him. He was the only guy I had ever felt so close to (and believe me there were those almost kissing moments you felt as well), and I realized AFTER i told him I was just as crazy about him that he was too special to lose. A few weeks later, I started seeing this guy from my work more & more, and at first I was worried it would bother him.
But he realized I wasn't his property and that I still deserved to be happy.
I realize I'm pretty much babbling on, and I really don't know if that helped at all, but all in all, I think you deserve to be happy. Relationships aren't supposed to be stressful, so don't worry, soon enough, something will come up, whether it's the boy who can't make up his mind, or another, but you won't need to be worrying, you'll be happy. I think you need to talk it out with the guy, find out exactly what he wants. And what YOU want, that's what matters most. YOU need to happy, because it's your life.
I don't know this guy, cause he could be truly genuine, or be screwing around with you, just wanting to be able to hook up with other girls without you knowing.
Things vary alot.
But to sum it up, think about it for awhile. Don't rush anything. And good luck.
I really hope this helped, and am horribly sorry if it didn't, but message me with how it goes, or any clarifications/other questions okay?
There is quite some history here so i tried to keep it brief but we have been through 2 MAJOR thigs so i put them down. I first met my boyfriend 3 yrs ago on the internet and he cheated on me and i let go of him for about a yr. Then we met up again on the same site and he was looking for me and i came to my senses that i truely loved him. Now (skipping all the details that dont matter) About 4 months ago i broke up with him a day before Valintine's Day (Long Long Story I will skip), but then he got together with another girl (who we later found out was a lez (no offance to anyone) none the less) and i was friends with her. I saw him every day and i still felt my love for him. He found out and after weeks of thought (very deep i mean you couldnt even talk to him or get his attention) he chose me.. I felt terrible for about a month and still do but anyway with that brieff on our past. He and I met once irl but now no one likes us together in my life but everyone does in his. We truely love eachother even he relized it (He wasn't himself at all with other people) and we plan on getting married when we are both of age and ready. How do i talk to him about how im feeling (I love himm with all my heart but i dont know how to move past all thats happened and am thinking of going back to what i used to do (i think you know a.k.a. bad childhood my lead to..). How should i start this conversation???
To start off, you sound like you've been through quite the bit. Stay strong girl, that's real important. With true love, no matter how difficult it'll be, you should be able to talk to your boy, and together you guys can figure more things out. Tell him how he means a lot to you, but sometimes you still can't help but feel hurt from the past, and you feel like you need to talk about it to help you move on (if that IS how you feel). Yes, he has obviously caused you pain that won't just disappear in thin air, but at the same time, that was more in the past. I am honestly an extremely forgiving person, and if I can see the positive out of something, I always try/do. Everyone has done things they are not proud of, and wish that they could take back, so it wouldn't be good to judge him on that event in his life (he obviously regretted it did he not?) so I really think you should just start out by telling him how much he means to you. If he's made a big impact on your life, then tell him. Wait for the right opportunity (you want to talk when you'll have time, not right before a family dinner or something). I really hope this helps, and if you need anything else I'm here ok? I hope it goes well & feel free to let me know.
i used to be obsessed with gossip girl, but when they changed the time to monday nights i couldn't watch it because i had dance at that time. now i'm so confused. is season one over? the last episode i saw was the one where blair thought she was pregnant. how many episodes were there after that? and when does the next season start? if someone who knows a lot about that show could answer all those questions that would be great. thanks!
Oh I know how you feel!! When they changed it to mondays I couldn't watch it because of sports too! So yes, season one is over. It should be starting back up September 1st and supposedly will be extra long to make up for the season 1's strike (so expect 24 episodes!). You still have a few episodes to go, but not too many.
Also, you can watch them online, check http://www.surfthechannel.com/
hope i helped =)
Hey guys!
I'm a 16 year old girl living in Minnesota and I have a hard time tanning! I'm pretty fair (due to my swedish background) but I don't really burn. I just can never really get a good solid tan that lasts, you know? I was wondering if anyone had any good tips like certain times to go outside or whatnot? Or if you've even tried a good sunless tanner? I use Jergens ever now and then..
*Please don't recommend a mystic tan! I got one for prom this year and I absolutely loved it, but it faded after a week and they're way too expensive to get weekly!
Thanks for your help :)
Same boat as the person below, but just so you know, the sun is usually at it's strongest between 11am and 2pm. That's when I tan :)
I'm 16 & on the pill, and I was just on Tri-cyclen lo, but I was majorly having breakthrough bleeding, so my doctor just switched me on Alesse. I just started it 2 nights ago, and tonight I realized I've started to spot again!!
I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months, and I was having him over friday night.
Thing is, for the past few weeks we've been fooling around, but over-top clothing. Well friday, he was gonna go under them. But I can't let him go down my pants if I'm spotting!!
And my doctor told me I'll probably spot for a 2-3 months. I DON'T WANT TO WAIT THAT LONG!!!
PLEASE HELP
Especially since you just switched to a stronger hormone-leveled pill, it should take your body about a month to adjust. But after that, the spotting should be reduced and you'll be fine :)
Is it possible to get rid of stretch marks? and if so, how???
It's not likely that they'll disappear completely, but I strongly recommend a cream with "Lanolin" in it. And put it on after a shower/bath, because then your skin with absorb it better.
since i was 13 i always shaved my pubes with a razor and soap
i no a lot of people who do and stuff
but my sister has some waxing stuff
and i was wondering which would be better...
and would waxing hurt really bad?
i prefer the easier and faster way to do it so any recommendations or comments?
thanks =]
I've done both. And let me tell you waxing sure brings along a good level of pain. One important thing while you're waxing is to make sure it's not too hot, but not too thick either. When you wax, the hair takes much longer to come back, but I found the pain to be brutal. Shaving doesn't hurt, just the way & time length it grows back differs from the waxing (it comes back faster as you've noticed)
And keep in mind that before you wax, you have to, well let yourself grow enough to wax. If you swim and such alot, that turns to be an inconvenience, but that's just my opinion.
Hope it helped :)
for how long after you get your wisdom teeth out can you not drink out of a straw? is it just for the first day or two, or the whole time the stitches are in?
I suggest waiting until the stitches are out and you're healed, because the suction can cause the wounds to open up again. Take it from someone who learned the hard way. Though maybe I just have bad luck...
you guys always say to get a new razor everytime.. and i have to shave every week.. and a new razor every week would get pricey! i want to use nair down there but it might burn so.. what should i do
I'd stick with shaving, or even wax (though a word of warning it hurts the first few times quite the bit). I don't change my razor every time I'd shave and it was fine.
i really need help. i know you probably hear this everyday but me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago, we dated for a year and a half and before we dated we were best friends for two years. so it is really a hard thing to let him go. and we had a bad bad bad break up, he cheated and i still went back and let him continually use me over and over, having sex with me while having sex with other girls, hes now trying to get back with me again and today i found out hes talking to another girl too. i know i should drop him, but i love him like i really love him and ive tryed so many things to get over him, im not ugly at all i could get another guy very easy its just its not the same and i dont want another guy. im scared because i used to love myself so much but now its like i love him more then i love myself and thats so horrible....i just want him back....
First off, I'm REALLY sorry it took so long for me to answer. But it's so important that you don't lose yourself, not just over this boy - no matter how important he is, but over anyone. I think you need time with your closest girl friends, but they don't always need to be nights out (I don't know how you are; partier/ nights out kinda girl or what) but even simple girls nights with a good movie and such does wonders. That way you can still talk, and you'll realize that others still love you, no matter what happens, and that there's an infinite number of reasons why you should love yourself.
Next off, as hard at it will be, don't take him back. Even he comes crawling back saying how much he loves you, don't give in & let him win. He hurt you unfairly, and someone who truly loves you (I'm sorry if that sounds brutal, just being honest) would never treat you like that.
Keep in mind the things you have to offer; in friendships (if you're the funny one, the listener, etc.), jobs, relationships in general (family and such not necessarily sexual) and if you think about taking him back, I'll just point out the fact that that alone is not respecting yourself, because chances are that he'll do it again are somewhat up there I hate to say.
And you should be top on your list, so taking him back would be letting him walk all over you, expecting that you'll continually forgive him hurting you.
Good luck, and let me know if you need anything.
I am going on vacation to jasper, Albeta this summer and i was wondering if anyone here has ever stayed at any hotels or Inns in Jasper. If you have, i am asking for youor recemendations for any place. even if a relative or friend you know stayed in a nice place in Edmonton or Jasper, Alberts, your thoughts and recomenations would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I live in Edmonton and go to Jasper a few times a year. Lobstick is a favorite (I've only been there during ski season though) I just really don't recommend the tonquin.
hi, this may be a weird question but is it still possible for two people to make out, even if one of them has braces? and is it any different from making out when neither of the people have braces? thanks for the help!
yes its possible. a few years back i was dating a guy, and we both had braces and it was fine
what's an acreage? Just curious.
it's kind of like a farm, just without the cows, chickens, pigs and such. And no farming. So basically I have a giant 10 acre + a forest backyard in the countryside. I love it :)
I just recieved the best news: I have a Wasp nest in my backyard and it's Just above the back door. Luckily it's jsut getting started. So how do I get rid of it while it's still small?
One more thing: do it AT NIGHT, because the hive will be less active. I live out on an acreage and that's when we get rid of ours.
i thought i had a ton of stomach hairs, and well i kind of do, but i recently noticed that they dont look noticeable really unless im out in the sunlight, so my stomach doesnt bother me unless i am outside. so...since its not that bad i think i should just shave every once in awhile based on other peoples advice. ive heard so many different things......does shaving your stomach make hairs grow back any thicker than before or not? please only answer if you know for sure!! thanks!
I wouldn't shave. Basically the shaving does as it does for say your legs: it grows more stubbly, and rough, because it grows at a new angle (I'm not saying the angle always changes, but I mean from the natural angle it grows), which is also why it's more noticeable. Honestly, I'd wax; it's really quick, and briefly painful (but just barely) for what, like a few seconds, and then you're set for a few weeks and you don't have to worry about it growing back funny.