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How do I teell my boyfriend how i feel?
There is quite some history here so i tried to keep it brief but we have been through 2 MAJOR thigs so i put them down. I first met my boyfriend 3 yrs ago on the internet and he cheated on me and i let go of him for about a yr. Then we met up again on the same site and he was looking for me and i came to my senses that i truely loved him. Now (skipping all the details that dont matter) About 4 months ago i broke up with him a day before Valintine's Day (Long Long Story I will skip), but then he got together with another girl (who we later found out was a lez (no offance to anyone) none the less) and i was friends with her. I saw him every day and i still felt my love for him. He found out and after weeks of thought (very deep i mean you couldnt even talk to him or get his attention) he chose me.. I felt terrible for about a month and still do but anyway with that brieff on our past. He and I met once irl but now no one likes us together in my life but everyone does in his. We truely love eachother even he relized it (He wasn't himself at all with other people) and we plan on getting married when we are both of age and ready. How do i talk to him about how im feeling (I love himm with all my heart but i dont know how to move past all thats happened and am thinking of going back to what i used to do (i think you know a.k.a. bad childhood my lead to..). How should i start this conversation???
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To start off, you sound like you've been through quite the bit. Stay strong girl, that's real important. With true love, no matter how difficult it'll be, you should be able to talk to your boy, and together you guys can figure more things out. Tell him how he means a lot to you, but sometimes you still can't help but feel hurt from the past, and you feel like you need to talk about it to help you move on (if that IS how you feel). Yes, he has obviously caused you pain that won't just disappear in thin air, but at the same time, that was more in the past. I am honestly an extremely forgiving person, and if I can see the positive out of something, I always try/do. Everyone has done things they are not proud of, and wish that they could take back, so it wouldn't be good to judge him on that event in his life (he obviously regretted it did he not?) so I really think you should just start out by telling him how much he means to you. If he's made a big impact on your life, then tell him. Wait for the right opportunity (you want to talk when you'll have time, not right before a family dinner or something). I really hope this helps, and if you need anything else I'm here ok? I hope it goes well & feel free to let me know.
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