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So i went on a road trip this weekend and i own a radar for my car, but since i wasnt driving i offered him my radar.

well, our roadtrips done im home, he dropped me off...and i forgot to ask for my radar back (this radar is a cobra its about 200 bucks)

well now im calling and texting him non stop to get it back... and he wont answer. he dropped me off around 9 last night. i need my radar back NOW because i cannot drive without it. i get scared without it.

this kids a fucking dick and hes selfish... and my friend said he prob wont give it back.. what should i do? my moms gunna take me to show up at his house tonight, im gunnna call his girlfriend (he lied to her saying it was some guys radar. not mine) and tell her it was mine and i need it back or he owes me 200 bucks. but if that doesnt help what do i do?

17/f

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call the police and file something i guess. thats the only way to force him to give it back.


when you make the ringer louder or softer on the iPhone that image shows up and the bars represent the loudness or sofness your phone is at, but my icon never goes away and does not let me adjust the volume it always just goes down when i push up and is really messed up.

what do i do?


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hold the top power button and the home button down at the same time until the phone shuts off to rest it. then wait a little and turn it back on using the main power button. hopefully that helps. i never had that problem with my iphone. :[


hi so i bought a red eared slider turtle from petsmart yesterday. He is really shy, and i don't know how to get him to be a little more active. Can someone give me some ideas? (link)
give him some food! hold something he might find tastey infront of him and wiggle it a little.


Everything always seems so boring to me when it really shouldn't. It's like I always feel restless and bored no matter what. I don't know how to explain it. It's driving me CRAZY! I was diagnosed with ADHD and I don't take medicine for it if that means something. Does ADD make you feel like this? Or what? (link)
i think thats a common issue with people that have ADHD/ADD. medicine can help with this, but i think it has some bad side effects. im not positive though.


It seems to me like more and more places are having earthquakes lately and I was wondering what causes earthquakes and if there was something we could do to prevent earthquakes? Are there places more vulnerable to earthquakes anyway? :\ (link)
theres no way to prevent them. its from the plates in the earth shifting. places more vulnerable are near fault lines and near the ring of fire, from califorina and west to asia.


I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago and i have a restraining order on him. because of him it's hard to trust guys. Theirs a guy that i have known for 2 months, he broke up with his gf 5 months ago but she is best friends with his sister who is really close to him. he sees her everyday but she sees other guys and he sees other girls. He keeps telling me he wants something serious but i think he only says that to get in my pants. Before him I went 8 months with out having sex but the other day me and him did it. He sleeps over my dorm all the time and he even sleeps over when im on my period just to cuddle. I dont believe anything he says becasue i have a hard time trusting people so im not taking him seriously when he says he likes me i think hes just trying to get in my pants. I dont know what to do ive been lonely for so long and i would take him seriously if he didnt always see his ex girl friend. He loves her i know that im not sure if i should stop talking to him completely so that he will realize if he ever wants a relationship with me he has to stop talking to his ex i dont want to tell him becasue he may think im controlling. I am 18 and he is 20 im in college as well. (link)
i would persue the relationship. just make sure he knows your morals and limits, if you let him know what they are and he avoids you after, then he probably did just want to use you. but i highly doubt thats the case. good luck.


So there's this guy i was talking to for about a month ,on texts.We hadn't met face to face but all my friends knew him and he lived near me so it wasn't like he was random.We finally met last night and went to the movies and He held my hand and paid for my ticket and all that cute stuff and I really liked him.You could tell he wanted to kiss me,but I didn't just because it was the first date.Later that night i texted him and he kept saying how he wanted to kiss and all but I told him next time we could and that I had a good time with him and that my friends liked him too,then he said he thought i wasn't interested in him because I didn't kiss him and i told him that it was because i was shy and because I didn't think he wanted me to be all over him,which is the real reason and that i think he's really good guy and all ,then he never texted me back.I texted him a little later asking why he stopped talking.Still no response.Then I texted him the next day ,just saying "hey : )" and still got no response.It's only been like 1 day but i'm really interested in him and I don't know if he just hasn't had his phone or just doesn't wanna talk to me anymore?Our date went good so I don't think it has anything to do with that.Should I text him again and ask what's going on or what should I do? (link)
just give him a little time. his phone might be broken or have a dead battery. it sounds like he likes you as much as you like him. try not to worry. :) x


Hello!

If someone could help me with a myspace layout code (or tell me how to accomplish this...) that would be great.

I want a *one column* profile, with only my picture at the top, the about me section,the who i'd like to meet section, and my friends and comments at the end in the scroll box they're in now. And I also want the music to play, but I don't want it to show.

All the one column codes take away stuff I want. So if anyone could please tell me how to accomplish this? (link)
try createblog.com
they have thousands of codes and layouts that youre looking for. :)


first of all, please dont lecture me. i know what im doin is wrong. but ive been smokin a pack a day for 3 years and its sad to say that my baby isnt enough motivation for me to quit. i went from smokin a pack a day to smokin 1-2 a day.

the thing is, i want/need to quit, obviously. ive tried lollipops, candy, takin deep breaths...i just cant do it.

what can i do to make me quit !? (link)
if your child's health cant motivate you to stop, what can? you need to throw out all of your cigaretts, matches, and lighters. dont buy them, dont look at them, dont think of them. keep your hands and mind occupied. and CERTAINLY dont start smoking again when your baby is born unless you want child services stepping in at some point.


I have a photoshoot this weekend for a calendar, but the photographer said along with this that if there was a specialy "LOOK" I don't have in my portfolio that Id like he would shoot that aswell, that I would just need to bring the outfitt and such.

So my question for you guys is what are some suggestions to make an amazing shoot!

I WILL RATE HIGh for thoughtful well put together respondes..

thanks this means a ton! (link)
well if i were you, i'd do something very over the top fancy. i'd go with the vouge feeling, dark/grey eyes. bright red lips, big eyelashes. maybe a poofy dress of somekind, or leggings heel booties and a tunic.


At what age should a girl be able to shave her legs? (link)
it all depends. i know my hair was more visible and grew faster as i got older. i started shaving at about age 13.


Hello all :) , school starts tomarrow for me and i never have enough time in the morning to eat a really good break fast, usually i'm eating it as i go out the door! I want to eat healthy and things that give me a LOT energy- but i dont know what i should eat! not to mention with the pressed amount of time i have X.x . So, any ideas? thanks :) ! (link)
whole grain and fiber energy bars. kashi go lean have some really tastey ones. my favorite is the almond chocolate. x


Hello,

I am trying to find a way to make my Harley Quinn costume for Halloween this year, but I cant seem to find much. It is the new Harley Quinn costume from Batman: Arkham Asylum, not the original one.

Here is a pic:

http://www.sidekickcomicsuk.com/blogs/media/blogs/sidekick//Harleyquinnnew.jpg

If you can help out, that'd be awesome. (link)
hot topic might have some similar pieces with halloween gets close. also try spirit halloween stores.

www.hottopic.com
www.spirithalloween.com


What's the best slim digital camera that's around the $100-$120 price range. I have a digital camera now, but iit doesn't even take good quality pictures in the light... much less the dark. I want the camera that has the best quality images. Thank you. (link)
well to get good quality pictures you need a camera with a high number of megapixels. the higher the number the more expensive the camera. i suggest nikon, fugifilm, and cannon cameras. they all have some slim models. :)


Hi Guys, I read an article on gastric bypass and have a really pressing qn i need to ask.

In gastric bypass surgeries, the stomach is cut into two portions and the smaller portion is usally re-connected to the small intestine, while the larger unused portion is stapled close.

What I don't understand is, wont the unused pouch be exposed to the hydrochloric acid and eventually corrode or have its lining destroyed?

I tried to google it but I can't find any answers.

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i dont think so. there is a lining in your stomach that sort of 'rebuilds' itself i think every few weeks to keep the acid from destroying it.


I got into an accident awhile ago and the police report pretty much said that it was my fault but i didnt get a ticket. Im on my provisional license right now and i was wondering if that could interfere with me getting my real license when i turn 18. That was the only accident ive ever gotten into and no one was hurt and ive never gotten another ticket or a warning or anything. (link)
i dont think so. i think the only way it could interfer is if there's points on your record.


Hey All! :D
I'm looking for oversized sweatshirts. I've been looking around, but I can't seem to find any and I was thinking maybe you guys would know where to look! I don't want a guys sweatshirt though. Thanks! :) (link)
american apparel and h&m.


what would a job called fashion merchandiser and marketing consist of? What do you do? (link)
selling & buying clothing either for your own retail or to send to businesses for retail.


Does anyone have any advice on how to curl my hair like alexa vega's on Ruby and the Rockits? Ive never watched the show, but her hair is gorgeous. Here are some pics I found on google:

http://blogs.nypost.com/music/photos/ABCF%20photo.jpg

http://www.chibola.com/_Media/ruby_rockits_sq-3.jpeg

http://entimg.msn.com/i/500/rubyandrockits_cast_500x270.jpg
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it looks like she uses a 1 inch round curling iron. you could play around with that size. the bigger you want the curls, the bigger the barrel and the smaller the iron the smaller the curls.


About eight weeks ago I had sex with my bf, and the condom slipped off. my period was supposed to be four weeks after it. About a week after it was supposed to come, i took two first response pregnancy tests and they both came out negative. I heard that First Response is one of the most accurate tests. So what are the chances that I could still be pregnant even though the two tests came out negative? (link)
it does say 99.9% accurate on the commercial doesnt it? so you have a .1% chance assuming its 99.9% accurate.




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