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hi im 14 live in newfoundland and i just like giving advice and helping out but im homest weither it nice or brutal

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well here is the deal. im am so confused about my sexuality. like i think guys are cute and i may like them when i start going out with them. but when i break up with them i feel as if i never cared about them and that they were someone just passing through my life. But when it comes to females it's a diffrent story. i actually feel something for them. and when i break up with them i really do feel sad. does this mean that a full lezbian instead of a bisexual?

i thikn your bi but your more for the girls instead of the guys yah im bi and i am more for girls and myfriend is the same way as you so i think you rjustt more for da girls

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Okay my question is long. This is something I am so confused on. Some people say demons do not exsist, but how can they not? We have reports of actual exorcisms and demon possession. Some people have their doubts and still say it's some sort of mental illness and an exocism drives thaty out of them. I believe demons are real, and if I believe demonic possession is real could a possession happen to myself? Now, I am trying to be rational in all and I know there hasn't been a possession/exorcism reported since the late 1940s. But the cases I have read throughly, they sound like real demonic possession and not just a mental illness. In the cases there was supernatural things going on such as levatation, sexual obsenities, foreign languages going on, self-mutilation, vomitting, moving of furniture, etc etc...now how can that be catagorized as a mental illness? But initially some people still believe it is. As for myself, Im really intrested in this sort of thing, I am also wondering if learning too much and sort of becomming obsessed with this sort of thing could open me up to possession? Sometime possession can occur differently for other people, people say the devil is always with you, and filling your mind with thoughts you can't control. Lately I have been having many of those thoughts, evil thoughts. Contemplating suicide, self-mutilation, alot of anger, could I be getting into this too far or could it be something else like depression etc, I know none of you can give me a straight answer but I would like input on what your beliefs are about this whole thing, it's very very hard to understand and complicated.

welllll im guessing you ahe seen emily rose? but yah sinning may open you up just pray repent and confess for that its relle simple but heres the thing people do say that you may be open to it if you are well have a third eye pysic or be open to the spirit rolm(im catholic by the way) and well you can probubly talk to your preist ofr the possien thign he could probubly help you but yah the church well as you probubly now will allow exorcisms so i believe in them and i think its okay to if god is on your side wich he probubly is were youa re his creation he will protect you if that what your scared of so go on with you rlife and the suicide go to a theripest i think that might be depression

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13/m I experienced love this summer and I hate it! No, it wasn't infatuation! I know infatuation, this is true love! Maybe I should start from the beginning:
It all started in science class. Or teacher was getting pissed so he decided to assign our seats boy/girl/boy/girl. Of course, I was paired up with the hyperactive freak, because that's just my luck. Immediately, I think to myself, "It's going to be a loooong year."
But she wasn't so bad after all. Time passed, we became friends. The teacher let us change seats, but the people in the front had to sit in the back and vice versa, and it still had to be boy/girl. For simplicity, we just sat next to each other all 3 times that happened.
Everyone made fun of me for it. I'm a geek and proud, and so obviously none of my friends had girlfriends yet either. Actually, only the jocks that girlfriends, and that was because of popularity and "Is she hot?". My parents and sisters were always having fun teasing me. One opf my best friends just liked embarassing me just for being friends with a girl: "Hey, (her name), you know what? You look like (my name)'s girlfriend!" Immediately, we both denied that and walked away. He just grinned. Immature!
As time passed, I learned to love her without knowing it. I didn't know what was happening---I was hoping really hard that I would be placed in a group with her, I was really depressed whenever she had to go... and over the summer I ultimately realized what life was like without her, and I realized that I needed her and that I loved her. So I told her how I felt.
She had recently gone through a painful breakup (I was jealous, she had already gotten a first kiss) with someone who had been one of her best friends, and didn't want to repeat that. Also, she got into a big fight with the popular kids and jocks and they'll do anything to get revenge on her or anyone close to her. And... she's still not quite sure how she feels about me. She said she was thinking about me when she was on vacation for 2 weeks... that's a good sign...
Asking her out really didn't work to well... and now not only have I been tormented by jealousy, rejection, love, and sadness, everything has started to remind me of her. It's been like that for weeks. The carnival? I took her there once. Billy Joel? His "The Longest Time" perfectly describes how I feel. Homestarrunner.com or even Monty Python? They remind me of her. I can't go through life just remembering her everything I do...
Last night I was at a friend's Bar Mitzvah party and I only knew two people there: my sister and the guy who was having the Bar Mitzvah with his brother. The guys who were having the Bar Mitzvah were surrounded by girls during the dances... from The Twist to One-Two Step, there were two girls for every guy, except for me. I wound up dragging my sister onto the dance floor for one of the slow dances... I was thinking the whole time, "Why can't this be the one I'm in love with? Why am I stuck slowdancing with my sister and doing that old making-out-with-yourself routine?" And furthermore, at one point the DJ had us play Musical Guys, where the guys were the chairs and to settle a tie on a guy, the first one to kiss the guy on the cheek gets to stay in. Two people sat on my leg. One of them just voluntarily got out because she didn't want to kiss me. Neither of them did. I can't blame them. But then I'm looking around the room, and some guys are literally smothered! Am I just doomed to be a hopeless single freak? Help me... please!

yah im wit the other missus that ansered you are in love im in the same bout wit my bffl and she knows don't worry your better of not having her you might just ruin the friendship.

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Well today was kind of weird (obviously). I was at a certain rehearsal for something and there was this one girl. She's older than me but i'm not sure how much. I'm 15/f and bi. Well i thought she was looking at me several times and i just got this weird impression. It was almost like she was looking at me in that certain way, ya know??? I swear i could just be paranoid because we didnt' even say a word to each other. But whenever i looked at her i had shivers running all down my back. I couldn't even focus. I have no clue what to do or anything. I must be paranoid but what do y'all think?!?!?! Please give me helpful answers you guys. I rate!! Thanks

i cant say for sure if she does or not add me to msn thund3rstruck_14@hotmail.com and send a e-mail so i know its you

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There's this guy from work, and I'm pretty sure he likes me and/or is somewhat attracted to me... we're going to go and see The Corpse Bride about two weeks from now.. and he kissed me.. I just want to know how I can make this not just a 'friends with benefits' type of thing. How do I get him to officially ask me out, or tell me his feelings for me (whatever the heck they are..)?

15/f. (He's 16.. if that matters..)

you could just talk to him see if he says anythign if not theres nothing you can do besides try to get him to by talking a bit more its his descion in theend if he tell you or not

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Hi, I'm 16/f and I was raised a Catholic. A really close friend of mine is like.. TOTALLY religious. He's completely devout to the point where he considered being a priest. lol, anyway.. he told me to read this chastity booklet called "pure love" a while ago (www.pureloveclub.com is the website for it) which I did. I was shocked at reading it. Apparently, not even french-kissing should be done outside marriage. I find this ridiculous in a way, and wonder whether any of this has a biblical basis.

My questions are: Should I tell my friend I read the booklet and give my opinions on chastity? Would it damage our friendship?

Secondly, and more importantly, is chastity really necessary? Is there anywhere that states that french-kissing out of marriage is sin? Why do they believe this? I realize that pre-marital sex is a sin, but kissing? Even light touching? Is this all necessary? I am against pre-marital sex (for my own reasons, not for religious reasons) but don't understand why they are so hell-bent against other things.

I hope I haven't offended anyone who is a Catholic. I respect anyone's religious belief, but I always question everything in life. :) I'd appreciate a totally unbiased answer. Thanks a bunch guys!

ok i am a catholic and in my opion pretty religious but yah your belifs are you r belifs i think that kissing is no big deal and that other stuff(ie dancing for penicostals is crazy) but its tehre not for everyone but you to take and leave some just because i dont belive that reconcilation isnt nessarcery to have your sins reconcilled doesnt mean im hell bound...and tell him if you want if he is your friend it wont and if it dowes hes not your friend

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OK my boyfriend wants to die. He says he wants to die young. I don't know how to help him. We're going to see a counselor tomorrow morning. Will that help? What do they do?

well they could put him into intensive care but him on antidepressants or just conselling everyweek
~Thund3r struck~

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do guys hate it wen gurls upses over their hair? what do you like about gurls and what do you hate about girls? please BE SPECIFIC and i'll rate high!!

well i personally don't mind when my friends spend tim eon thier hair... but if i was their boyfriend and it interfired with time together it would slowly piss me of a bit more each time...in other words have it finished before they come... hope i help :)

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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates.

ok well im 14/m and sumone i know same age female is a lot like this girl but you should ask your son about it trust me if he wants to he'll go behind your back like i did to be friends with her or even go out so i think the choice should be his or he'll become mentally unstable to like i did if thats what you wanna call it(witch is very offensive acctually)

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ok my birthday is coming up but i dont no what to do any ideas and about how much it will all cost cause i wanted to go like skating but i dont know if people will get bored for skating for about 3 hours please help its for about 7 people how long should i have it for and the people that i am inviting arent really that good of friends cause i dont no much people cuz theres only about 7 in the class i rate 5s

well yah an hour -2 hours it may cost 15-50 dollars an hour or person im not to sure but yah a few hours is enough and then go out to the mall just walk around or sumthign to top it all of

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I'm having my friends over for an Italian Night! I already know what I'm cooking I just need to know what I should do to decorate the room and tabel we are eating at. Any Ideas??

candle light for the ambiance of a italian resturant a night freah flowers use wine glasses and have non acohlic wine etc...

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well my frend told me she smokes andim not sure if i should try caus she brings trhem to skool sometimes and i dont know if i should try !!!!!!!!

no dont it will screw you up i have a friend(two acctualy ) one smokes weed the other just plain old tabacco it hurts you bably

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ok so me and my bf have been going out for 2 weeks. i really want to kiss him, but im not really sure how to. ive never kissed anyone before and im afraid that im gonna be bad. are there any tips or anything i can do. i dont want to make a fool out of myself!!

well if you go wit your tonge touch his teeth wit your toungue and slide it around his mouth gebtily untill he does the same back and always brush your teeth before going out wit him and have breath mints handy

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what do boys do when they like someone? is there anything that they do when they like a girl?

spens more time wit yah
if sumone says you like (i.e) shawna he'll say no blushs says hes just warm them bes a idiot and beats the hell out of em or just scares em a bit away
pokes annoy you
writes you notes
ims you
and the list goes on

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i was thinking about getting an ipod but i had a question. does it cost you money to get the songs or is it all inclusive when you buy it and can u put songs for like limewire on your ipod?

putting them on is free but youd stil have to pay for thee site you download it on just as if you were using any other mp3 player or cd

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I know these aren;t the best questions to ask, but im not gunna ask anyone else!! There's a guy and his name is Gil. I always thought he liked me, but was never sure! Here are some signs he shows:

-He laughs at me
-Today he poked me purposely and I said "What?" and he said sorry
-He popped my bra strap once
-He smiles at me

Thats it...Does he like me? It's starting to annoy me!!!

well ive like a friend for a while those are signs that a guy likes you if he doesnt talk around you a hole lot or when you do there ocasionally a awkward silence its deffinete but he could just be a idiot id say if he does anythign else like starts calling you a lot ims you a lot then id say yes but just watch him a bit more carefully and get back to me on that

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16 and Male, if that makes any difference.
OK. On Sunday, I played DDR. I normally don't, but I decided to. I strectched an everything before doing it. I, being so inept at DDR, selected a pre-made program of songs. Little did I know that these songs were not all Light songs.
Anyways, those 12 songs took me 22 minutes. Then, I tried getting out of the area, but I accidentally selected a 4 song program, which had me dancing anoth 10. so, 32 minutes.
I rested, re-stretched, and then just decided to play around in the light mode with a few songs. In total, I did about 8 more songs, yet that took me 28 minutes. So, an hour of DDR.
Naturally, I was sore after. But, I went to sleep that night, and woke up the next day feeling fine. Then, at Band, we added in a move where we had to squat partially down with our knees. Well, I learned then that I somehow had lost 150 degrees of mobility between the morning and then. I couldn't bend my knees below 150 degrees while standing up and my feet are together. I used to get all the way down. Apart, I could, but not without a lot of effort. And when sitting, I can get around 30 degrees.
Then, yesterday, this mobility stayed the same, if not got worse. I had a lot of difficulty walking with the limited range, but made it. And it's the same today.
However, my knee does not hurt at all. My calf is the only thing in pain. Yet, it's somehow limiting knee mobility.
What could have happened? Is it just a strain, or something worse? I have had tendinitis, FYI, but it doesn't hurt like then. I'm not looking for a diagnosis or advise on what to do, I know that, just a guess on what is wrong with me. I've heard that ligiment tears don't hurt if it's just the ligament. Could it be that?
Thanks for your help! I do rate for the first few answers I like.

yah what is ddr? but yah you probubly hurt the ligament but a shootong cream on it and rest ti for a few days iof its not back to normal then go to the doctor...

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Now I'm a columnist and I would usually look down on a question like this but I really need help!

Ok, for English class we have to write a 5 paragraph essay on a famous quote. My quote is "Insist on yourself never imitate.. Every great man is unique"

I'm having a very hard time thinking of 3 reasons why I would support this quote. Like I have ideas it's just that they are hard to explain.

So if possible can a few people please leave there interpretation of this quote. Or at least give me some sense of direction on how to have a strong argument about this essay topic.

Ok well it means never follow sumone else and that you are unique and everyone who is great is unique and doent conform with everylittle thing
1)you should alwyas be yourself
2) conformatiy is not a good thing
3) only do what you like not what others do

tehre are sum ideas thatshould help out id write a example paragraph but yah i dont have time good luck :)

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time now. I met his parents last weekend and they invited me for lunch on Sunday. I would love to go and all but I don't know what to talk about to make sure they like me.

Suggestions? Thanks so much!

dress nicely use just enough make up so that it doesnt look like a slut/hor/hooker just eyeliner lip gloss but no eyeshadow and stuff lik that be very polite and otherwise just be yourself

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I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks.

i think you should go to church a bit more but your on a very good track wit god

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