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heyy..this is vballbabe021...i made a new username, in fact a ton of new usernames lol. it's a long story why. i love to give advice so feel free to ask me whatever you want, whether it's friends, family, boys (i get those a lot haha), school, fashion, whateverr. you can also IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me if you want to. it don't care either way lol. if you add me as a friend, make sure to tell me so i'll add you back!! kk that's all i have to say?? thanks for coming ♥

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um..my friend well i IMEd her and she said im not talking to u and i think she is mad at me,do you think she is and we've been friends since pre school and im reallly sadddddd:-(what shoulkd i do to make her forgive me for whatever i did
thanks
=,(

that's kind of odd...you need to find out why she's mad at you in the first place. think about it, have you done anything that would've offended her recently?? she's been your friend forever and she can't just get mad at you for no reason right? if you can't figure it out, ask her why she's mad at you. she sure acts like she is. if she says "i'm not talking to you" or something thne it probably does mean she's mad at you =/ but maybe it came out wrong or something and she was really just busy or she wasn't *supposed* to talk to you because she was grounded or who knows what? call her, IM her, email her, ask her at school why she's mad at you because she's been kind of ignoring you lately. you can't really do anything until you figure it out. but just be nice and stuff, talk to her about it, make sure she knows that you're always there for her, etc... don't become majorly pissed off and all because that'll just make things worse. hope this helps!! good luck! ♥

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My friend gave a blow job to her boyfriend for 20 minutes, and a few days after she had a big bubble on the inside of her mouth, would that have anything to do with an std ? thanks for your help

yeah it most likely might. or maybe she just hurt her mouth and got a swollen spot in her mouth. you never know.. just see if it goes away after a few hours or so, and if it doesn't, then she should see a doctor. because STDs can be fatal, and the sooner they're treated the better, and you don't really want a dead friend or anything =/

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can you give me ideas for hollowween outfits.
i really wanna be a geek(lol)but im not sure
i wanna be something funny or scary
so help
Sorry because your so busy i will still rate U high if you dont anser this
Thanks alot
♥
Your so great at advice!!
LOL just saying becuz your so busy and you can keep up with advice!
Thanks sooo mucho
♥♥♥♥♥♥

thanks! you could be a geek if that's what you want. you could do it with a friend so you wouldn't feel so much like a "real" geek if you'd like lol. but that'll be kind of cool =]


for funny..you could be a geek of course.
a clown? clowns scare me tho =(
an oompa loompa haha
a candy, such as a tootsie roll or something
an animal of some sort?
you could be something like a half prep, half geek, and half goth, that'll look awesome
some random object, like a printer...(sorry i was just looking around the room) or a pillow or somethinggggg
a serial killers wiht cereal boxes haha. cornyyy but w/e
i'm sure you can think of more :)


for scary..you could be a vampire with fangs and fake blood, with a cool black outfit with a cape :)
a witchhhh, either scary with black ragged robs or glamourous with purple sparkling robe with a cool broom.
a monster of some sort? or a scary animal
a ghost
some bloody person with fake blood all over (that looks real of course) and longgggggg nails
some slimy creature
a clown. lol they're scaryyyy!! a killer clown
a murderer. with like weapons around them and dark eye makeup (just to make you look more evil)

hope this helps :)

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umm well this girl wants to beat me up iin school and i know that i could pretty much kill her but my mom isn't to thrilled about this, and i heard tomorrow at lunch shes gonna try and if she touched me im gonna u know beat the crap out of her and obviously get in trouble but my mom will flip so idk? but this girl is the biggest slut and everyone wants to beat her up and shes a fag.

no you shouldn't beat her up, even if she deserves. it'll just make things worse because it'll get you in trouble, your mom will be mad, and you get on the bad side of some of your classmates too...especially her. plus you might get injured pretty badly (you never know). and you COULD (i know you're like "yeah right" but w/e) regret it later on. beating her up is just going to make it worse, and getting physical isn't really good.. =/ i'd just say to ignore her or tell her to go away or somethign if she really bothers you...and she's the biggest slut so did she hook up wiht your boyfriend or something? is that why you hate her so much? and why she hates you too? then you should just ignore her and try to stay away from her, but not beat her up.. sorry. everyone else already hates her {which is really sad actually =/} so isn't that kind of enought punishment? she knows she's hated.. just try to ignore her. don't intimidate her to be an even more awful person because if you beat her up, she could become a hell lot worse than before. you don't want that. i'd just say for now just to ignore her and stuff. you don't like her, so she shouldn't be any of your business right? you shouldn't CARE about her. if you need more advice, IM me k?? hope this helps some =] kk good luck.

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ok i was just wondering what are some good ideas for halloween costumes? like i want something creative and unique. no certain price range or anything. thanks much

hm these are what i can think of..sorry some of these are kind of popular but maybe you could consider them anyway?:
queen of hearts
bunny (like regina in mean girls..but just not as slutty lol?)
prisoner
waitress
movie star/singer
prep/goth/punk/rocker/geek/hippie/etc.. or all together
fashion designer/model
beach chick
bouncer
something from the 80s or something
exotic dancer
movie character?
a killer =D
a vampire or something with fangs and fake blood..with a kinda sexy outfit :]
an animal of some sort?
cupid
upside down person with like socks on hands and pants on head, etc... lol
over-accesorized person with wayyyy too much makeup, jewelry, hairstuff, etc..
pixie
cowgirl
hooker. jkjk
musician
love doctor..with like doctor stuff and their white coat, but wiht heart stuff
devil
angel
some kind of food ahha
hmm i can't really think of any more at the moment?? IM me more if you want. hope this helps!! :]

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hey. Great advice ;) but anyways
i like someone.. she just broke up with her boyfriend. and wants to go out with me and likes me, and she said she wants to wait since its a heartbreak. idk what to do!?!?!?!

you should wait until she's ready to go out with other guys. you can't force her to go out wiht you until she's ready...or else that's not a real relationship. wait until the time is right. she just broke up with someone she cared about, give her some time. breaking up hurts :( don't rush her because that'll definitely make it less likely for her to go out with you. if you truly care about her, you'd wait.

hope this helps!! good luck! :]

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omgomgomgomgomg
you are one sexayyy thang ;)
kk i love you.

thank you sexayyy :)
i love you too ♥

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when do you answer people bak ? .. i asked you advice about a week ago!???

SORRY SORRY SORRY!! ok if you really really are serious about me answering advice, then IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me at crazygirl75@myway.com (i'd recommend emailing, but whatever you choose). sorry :( i've been sooo busy these days school is being a bitch to me. you can try asking mackenzie or or younggrandma or southernchickety or meliixmariie or whoever else. they give wayyyyyyyy good advice!! sorry again. they'll probably keep up better with questions than me anyway. ...=/

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I am 13. I am a female. I weigh 107 pounds and I am about 5 feet. Does that mean I am fat?

noo you're not fat. you're perfectly normal :) it wouldn't hurt for you to lose weight, but at the same time-it wouldn't hurt for you to gain weight either. i wouldn't worry about it. i'm 4'11 and i'm like 98 pounds i think...but i'm always something different...i gain and then lose weight like crazy lol. whatever you want to do is fine :). if you want to lose weight, just exercise daily and for snacks, try eating fruits and veggies instead of potato chips or something. if you want to gain weight...then uh just keep on eating then lol. hope this helps!! :]

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hi im 18 and i dont have my period yet. WHATS WRONG WITH ME?! i told my mom i got it when i was 13. wat should i do?

what why did you lie to her about it lol? you've been keeping a secret from her for practically 5 years then... you shouldn't have lied but i guess the past is in the past right? so whatever. well that is a little odd because girls usually get it ages 11-16..but i'm sure it's nothing serious. everyone has it at different times. but you should go tell your mom the truth because she deserves a right to know, and just tell her that you were in a hard situatin and that you're sorry about lying to her. then ask her to take you to the doctor or something, just to see what's up. i don't know what's wrong with you =/ sorry but the doctor should definitely know. that is his profession after all =). anyways good luck and i wouldn't stress out toooo much about it. hope this helps!! :]

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MY LIFE STORY:
Hi. My name is Roger. I'm a boy. I'm from Canada. Ganinocqua originally. But I wanted to be on my own at a young age. So 2 years ago, I gathered up my savings and moved to America. But nobody there liked me because I was from Canada. So I decided to buy a cat to perhaps boost my self esteem and cure my state of loneliness and depression. My cat is hot. Anyway. I drew a picture of my cat for art class. Nobody liked it, and when my cat asked me what my peers thought about the picture, and then I told my cat, and it lowered my cat's self esteem. So i baked my cat muffins. My cat loved the muffins and so did I because it was a special Canadian recipe. Since the muffins came out so wonderfully, I seized the oppprtunity to bring my muffins to my cooking class and perhaps my peers would be captivated by their deliciousness, and then they'd want me to be their friend. But, unfortunately, my classmates did not approve of the Canadian muffins, once again lowering my self esteem, which also made my cat unhappy, because when I'm unhappy, my cat is unhappy, and vice versa. So I got into the habit and hobby of hugging trees. I've already hugged every tree in my neighborhood. But when I told other people of my hobby, they beat me with sticks. Now my self esteem had dropped to an all time low. So I decided to try and fill my life with happy things like the color yellow, and I also taught myself the art of magic. So I decided to try out for a magician's job. I wore a pretty dress and everything for the interview, but once again, they beat me with sticks. So I decided to move to Argentina because that seemed to be the only solution, of course. So I packed my bags, and my cat, and I was off. On my journey to Argentina, I met Stephanie. We became best friends. She loved my Canadian muffins, and shared my love of tree hugging. She, too, agreed that my cat as hot. We lived happy ever after.

Should I make my life into a book?
Also, would you care to see a picture of my cat?

um wow lol. that's a really interesting life you've got there lol.
yeah you could make it into a book if you wanted. unlike my life, it isn't boring and is actually pretty interesting & exciting in a way. i'm sure it'll be a hit.
and sure i'll see a picture of your cat :] sounds cute!!
that's good that you found your friend stephanie who loved your canadian muffins & tree huggings instead of people beating you down with sticks. glad to hear that :)

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HEY -- UHM -- i HAVE REALLY BiG THiGHS & HiPS AND WEiGH 122 LBS.. i WANNA GET DOWN TO 110 SO BASiCALLY iS THERE ANY EXCERSIZE OR WAY i CAN LOOSE A C0UPLE P0UNDS ? THANX S0 MUCH !! X0

SOME THINGS YOU CAN DO TO LOSE A FEW POUNDS FAST (DO EVERYDAY):
jog around the neighborhood
do 30 pushups/crutches 5 times a day
swim
work out at the gym
lift weights
eat healthy: avoid fatty, sugar, and junk foods! cut down on in-between-meal snacks! drink plenty of water..cut down on soft drinks, smoothies, etc.. eat lots of fruits & vegetables!
join a sports camp or play a sport
dance
also cut back on dinner because that's like right before you sleep & when you sleep..it kind of stays there *don't ask...my friend just told me lol*
DO THESE A LOT & DO THEM EVERY SINGLE DAY OR IT WON'T WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (be determined to lose weight!!!)
MAKE SURE TO DRINK LOTS OF WATER WHEN YOU EXERCISE OR YOU COULD GET DEHYDRATED!!
hope this helps!! =)

just do those a lot k?? good luck!! :]

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my homecoming is in a little over a month and i have yet to get a date... i have been asked but i turned some people down for what i think r good reasons. I ahvea good friend who wants to ask me but i want to wait a little longer for another guy to ask me but im afraid my friend will ask someone else.

should i just go with the friend or wait on the boy i want to ask me ?

i think you should probably tell the frined "i'll think about it k?" and then see if your crush asks you. if after like 2 days or something he doesn't ask, then i'd probably just go. i know it may sound like he's using you but it's not really that bad in this case? =/ but if you feel that guilty, i'd just choose between those-is there more of a possibility that your friend will ask out another person, or that your crush WON'T choose you? think about it. i don't know any of these people (i don't think?) so i wouldn't know lol. it's really up to you, it's not my decision haha. well anyways hope this helps!! sorry i probably answered this too late =/

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hey can anyone please help me think of a good screen name? i like gymnastics and shopping, i have brown hair and brown eyes, i'm short, and i have braces. also, do you think mango tango is a good screen name? i want a funny one like bahamaramamama or one that rhymes like mangotango, or something like angelnparadise. also, i dont want one that the boys will think is too sissy or prepy or just weird or something.

heyyyy sakura :]
this is hanmei...my new username!!
you have made way way wayyy too many screen names lol!!


i think you should do something like cutexbutxsycho (not saying you're sycho, but w/e lol). i like mango tango tho!! it's pretty aya-ish but whatever. i think you should make it it's really cute!! maybe something like thinkpink, or something similar to sappyacorn possibly?? haha. maybe queenofhearts. or cutiebootie (omg that sounds good for you!!but whatever) or bahamamama...vballmall...coolblue..dreamingofyou...shortiexxx...ANGELndDEVIl...losemybreath..gymnastgirl...brownie...braceface haha...cutietoe...theres tons!! iM me if you wnat more!! hope this helps!! :]

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My friend asked this guy what he thought aboout me, and he wouldn't answer her, he just tried to get away from her.

Does this mean he doesn't like me?

honestly, it could be anything. maybe for one, he doesn't really trust your friend so he thinks that she may tell a bunch of people. or he's really shy. like he truly likes you but doesn't want to admit it... or maybe he doesn't like you and doesn't want to lie to your friend by saying he does, but doesn't want to tell the truth because it'll hurt your feelings. it could've been anything. or the guy didn't know whether he liked you or not, and felt uncomfortable in that situation. sorry it could be a lot of things, but at least it doesn't mean 100% that he doesn't like you. that's like about 1/4 or something i think? kk hope this helps!!

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12 years old..im an attractivve girl and all, but i dont rly have the right personality that goes with it. all my prettier friends do. most guys just dont see me as a good friend..i need more guy freinds!

um..well what's your personality like? are you like really mean or vain or shy or what??? you didn't really explain very much lol. maybe you're too girly for guys? i don't know, maybe you need to just talk to guys more. guys love to talk about themselves :]. so bring up a topic where they can blab about themselves. and be talkative, and NICE. not too talkative tho. don't be mean or soo flirtatious that it seems really fake or anything. you should just follow what your prettier friends do??? what? hang out with guys wiht your friends, and you may start to get guy friends. meet one and start up a conversation, then be like "hey i have to go, but if you give me your email or something, we can continue this later??" :] then you have a reason to contact him!! and maybe you guys could hang out and such. go out to the movies or somewhere with your friends and the guys. you guys should bond! remember, guys like nice REAL girls!! just be yourself. believe me, if you aren't, thye won't like you for the real you and you'll just be like acting whenever you're around them. anyways hope this helps!! :)

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can you change you're username.if you can please tell me. I'll rate 5 for real answers Cya

no sorry, unless you get a paid account, which isn't that bad since it only costs $10. but otherwise, you have to make a new username and sign up again. sorry :/

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hi,
um..
yeah.
i usualy don't ask people for help.
but i just want someone else's perspective on this.. so here it goes.

I have a friend. His name is Jack. && I'm like.. in love with him. He's one of my best friends. && I love everything about him. The way he talks, walks, acts, laughs. everything. But, he has a girl friend. && she's kinda a friend of mine.( but not that close) && I think he really likes her. But this kid.. is just.. SO amazing.
And I want to tell him how I feel. But everytime I go to do it. I get scared && back down. && I'm also afraid to tell him because of his girlfriend( I don't want to ruin anything ) && also, I don't want to ruin the good friendship we have.

&& That's my story.
I was just wondering what you think.
As in, what you would do?.
Just to get someone elses perspective.
But yeah.
Thank you for listening.
=)

OMG i'm in a pretty close situation like that too! but mine's different tho =/ but like he's one of your best friends, so he should understand. if he's a true best friend, then he won't just not be your friend anymore if you tell him you have feelings for him. maybe it'll be a little awkward for a few days after you do, but honestly he should definitely get over it. i think there might be a possibility he likes you, because you two are such good friends and heyy who knows?? but he does have a girlfriend, yes. that could be a problem. don't blame everything on the girlfriend because honestly it's not her fault. you could wait until they breka up, which you may realize may not be soon... or you could just tell him, or just not tell him. those are the only choices i can think of? sorry. if you do tell him now, yes there may be consequences but if you want to risk it... seriously guys aren't that emotional, not as emotional as girls, so it may not come as big of a deal to him as you may think it will. but on the ohter hand, you never know. you should talk to him about it but tell him he can still keep dating that girl, because you don't want to pressure him into breaking up with her right? friends just don't do that to each other. confess to him in PERSON, not on the phone or anything! it just won't sound right if it's the phone or AIM. if you need more help, IM me at sappyacorn2 because i have to do homework :O lol. kk hope this helps!! :]

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me and my friends are going to be sluts for halloween but do you have any ideas of a coustom for that? please help

um do like some sort of animal wear like they do in mean girls, you know as a bunny or cat or mouse :]. or maybe a vampire-ish costume without the long cape, and wear fishnets and fangs and have fake blood and wear dark eyemakeup. slut is basically wearing some form on lingerie i guess with some costume with it, depending on what you want to be. i think the vampire or bunny one is the best out of those. but i probably wouldn't be one for halloween tho..=/

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im 13,almost 14..this guy wants to like you know.. have sex with me and i want too but im scared it will hurt because it even hurts when i try to use a tampon so i cant use one.. and i really want to do it but i dont want it to hurt and i dont want to get pregnent or anything so what should i do?

if you think a tampon hurts, then sex will kill you. so it'll probably hurt like crazy, so i probably won't :( sorry. but losing your virginity is like a really big deal, so you don't just want to lose it to anyone so make sure you really really like this guy and trust him big time. make sure he's not after you only for this because guys tend to date girls only for this purpose, not because they truly truly like you or anything. unfortunately that's true =/. but of course there are plenty of guys out there who aren't like that. and as for not getting pregnant, your best bet is a condom. you can get them at tons of places, even randalls lol. and they're pretty good for preventing pregnancy AND STDs, but not 100% tho so there's still that slight possibility! the consequences are big, so be sure you're absolutely positive about this! you don't want to end up regretting this decision. believe me, you'll like hate yourself for the rest of your life (well not really, but for a long time..). nayways hope this helps... =/ sorry.

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