im 13,almost 14..this guy wants to like you know.. have sex with me and i want too but im scared it will hurt because it even hurts when i try to use a tampon so i cant use one.. and i really want to do it but i dont want it to hurt and i dont want to get pregnent or anything so what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? theshortonexO0x answered Monday September 19 2005, 10:23 pm: if you think a tampon hurts, then sex will kill you. so it'll probably hurt like crazy, so i probably won't :( sorry. but losing your virginity is like a really big deal, so you don't just want to lose it to anyone so make sure you really really like this guy and trust him big time. make sure he's not after you only for this because guys tend to date girls only for this purpose, not because they truly truly like you or anything. unfortunately that's true =/. but of course there are plenty of guys out there who aren't like that. and as for not getting pregnant, your best bet is a condom. you can get them at tons of places, even randalls lol. and they're pretty good for preventing pregnancy AND STDs, but not 100% tho so there's still that slight possibility! the consequences are big, so be sure you're absolutely positive about this! you don't want to end up regretting this decision. believe me, you'll like hate yourself for the rest of your life (well not really, but for a long time..). nayways hope this helps... =/ sorry. [ theshortonexO0x's advice column | Ask theshortonexO0x A Question ]
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