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hi,
um..
yeah.
i usualy don't ask people for help.
but i just want someone else's perspective on this.. so here it goes.
I have a friend. His name is Jack. && I'm like.. in love with him. He's one of my best friends. && I love everything about him. The way he talks, walks, acts, laughs. everything. But, he has a girl friend. && she's kinda a friend of mine.( but not that close) && I think he really likes her. But this kid.. is just.. SO amazing.
And I want to tell him how I feel. But everytime I go to do it. I get scared && back down. && I'm also afraid to tell him because of his girlfriend( I don't want to ruin anything ) && also, I don't want to ruin the good friendship we have.
&& That's my story.
I was just wondering what you think.
As in, what you would do?.
Just to get someone elses perspective.
But yeah.
Thank you for listening.
=)
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OMG i'm in a pretty close situation like that too! but mine's different tho =/ but like he's one of your best friends, so he should understand. if he's a true best friend, then he won't just not be your friend anymore if you tell him you have feelings for him. maybe it'll be a little awkward for a few days after you do, but honestly he should definitely get over it. i think there might be a possibility he likes you, because you two are such good friends and heyy who knows?? but he does have a girlfriend, yes. that could be a problem. don't blame everything on the girlfriend because honestly it's not her fault. you could wait until they breka up, which you may realize may not be soon... or you could just tell him, or just not tell him. those are the only choices i can think of? sorry. if you do tell him now, yes there may be consequences but if you want to risk it... seriously guys aren't that emotional, not as emotional as girls, so it may not come as big of a deal to him as you may think it will. but on the ohter hand, you never know. you should talk to him about it but tell him he can still keep dating that girl, because you don't want to pressure him into breaking up with her right? friends just don't do that to each other. confess to him in PERSON, not on the phone or anything! it just won't sound right if it's the phone or AIM. if you need more help, IM me at sappyacorn2 because i have to do homework :O lol. kk hope this helps!! :]
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