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My boyfriend and I have been having serious problems. I don't trust him AT ALL!! And that makes our relationship stressful. Although he has given me reasons not to trust him so it's not 100% my fault. Well heres my question, yesterday I went to his house and when I got there, he was asleep and his phone was on the counter. So I went through it and found all these texts to girls and theres more to the girls, but we got into a HUGE fight about it, and I'm still with him. Some of those girls are his friends (but I've heard that one of the girls have him head) and 2 of the other girls, hes either had feelings for or I have a VERY strong gut feeling her has feelings for her now. I dont know what to do!! It's been almost 2 years, and I'm sick of being unhappy, and not trusting him, yet i love him and I want to be with him.. what do I do? How should I approach this situation? (link)
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ok. I think you should tell him what you said right now. Say you are unhappy and u can't trust because and say your feelings. If you TRUELU AND LOVE HIM TOTALLY. (please, be sure you do) give it at least a yr., then see if you still want to get back together. He might change. (if he does, that means he REALLY loves you) He might not change. (means that he doesn't take your realtionship seriously) follow you heart on your final decion.
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I'm 16/f. And I weight 156 lbs, I'm about 5'8". I gained a lot of weight this year. And I want to lose about 20 lbs, the healthy way. But I need as much advice as I can. I know I need to eat healthier and exercise and what not. What should I eat and not eat? What kind of exercises can I do at home? What can I do to get toned, throughout my whole body? Thanks! (link)
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cut down on all the breads, pasta, pizza, all the big breads. Get more fuirts, meats, veggies. For energy. You might have to eat more of those because they don't have as many carbs to burn.
The rubber bands are a great way to tone. To lose a lot of calories, you should do a fast pace tredmill or olipical trainer. I do that. It works your WHOLE body. if you need more tips, please, ask me... I have plenty more.
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what does that mean when you ask God to show you a sign? i ask it to show me a sign of what should i do to understand my self. i see it as just happen just cause or maybe it was a sign....? did you ever ask for a sign and it showed and did it work? (link)
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yes i am doing that right now in my life. It really works. But don't pray for self pity. Pray for God, Jesus, and the Blessed Virgin Mary. It really works. And one prayer that is so powerful to Mary is the Rosary!!!!!!!!!! Pray it everyday and you will uinderstand your task here on earth. I am a Traditional Roman Catholic. I def. know that the Rosary is one of the most powerful prayers. And somethimes you can do novenas. Once when i asked the Virgin Mary for a sign when i was praying... I saw the most buetiful statue of her. And she had a huge Rosary in her hands! I was saying the Rosary! Try it. It will really work. And don't pray because you FEEL like it. Evern if you don't FEEL like it, REALLY TRY TO MEDITATE ON ALL THE MYTERIES OF THE ROSARY. it REALLY HELPED ME UNDERSTAND EVERYTING THAT I ASKED OR WANTED TO KNOW. If you need more info on praying, please ask me! I love to talk about it
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My BF and I have been together like 3 months (we're 25). I have to work 9-5pm but he can pretty much choose his hours and tended to work til about 10pm most nights. So after about a month of gettin together he changed his hours to start earlier so that he could finish work at a similar time to me.
Now it seems he has slipped back into gettin up really late and starting really late and has come to expect that i will go home and have a sleep after work, so that I can stay up til when HE gets tired about 2am... but i cant keep staying up til 2am when I have to be up at 7am... even if i do have a sleep before.
Should I either bring this up with him or just go to bed at 11.30pm (when i feel tired) and see how he likes it?
Or am I just jealous that he gets to sleep in when i have to wake up at 7...
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no, say it won't work for me. And i liked it better when your hrs. were before this. Please change. I have to get up at 7am. Do u? It really tires me out. In a nice way of course.
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I'm completely fed up- I made it clear to this one guy that I'd been dating that I was really busy and was going to move out soon, etc., etc. I did not ever tell him that I wanted to stop dating, but it should be clear due to these signs:
-He called 3x in one day, I didn't return his calls.
-He calls and leaves a message sometimes, asking me to go hang out with him somewhere..and again, I DON'T call back.
Today, he left a message saying something like this:
..it's a nice day, let's go to the beach after class. I'm a little worried, you haven't called me in a week.
Yes, I haven't called him in a week. When I did, it was only to say i was too busy. POINT BLANK>
HE does NOT get the point! He seems to be so desperate that he'll continuously call me, even when I never call him back. It's been this way for a while now, and I'm really getting fed up.
What to do?? (link)
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if he is doing this, he is deprete. he def. is. It seems really anyony, but the only way to get it straight with these kind of boys is to go out or even just sit down and tell him face to face. I CAN'T GO OUT WITH YOU ANYMORE! i'ma sry, but that is the only way to get him out of your hair. Just do it calm and if he starts again talking.. just kiss him softly and say good-bye, this of never worked out between us, but it will work with you with ANOTHER girl. Bye. Somethin' like that.
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I have a friend who is the closest to me but sometimes when you have one friend there are other friends who come along with the territory like this girl who has been my best friend's friend longer so she likes to be around her 24/7 soemtimes I even feel like her lips or so stuck to this other girls ** it is ridicoulus but she sometimes comes on campus on weekends and I don't see her because she goes to see her and her boyfriend never me and yes i do call her at times but i always call and is topped because i am the type of ***** that won't follow and kiss *** but for so long. And, now they treat me funny and I treat them funny am I in the wrong or are we both in the wrong. Let me know if you need more info. Thanks! (link)
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i need a little more info please. but, what i know right now, if that person, or any person doesn't give the time of day to go, forget it. it is like she is trying to ignore you.
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I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother? (link)
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first of all... if a girl and boy are not officially together, she thinks what you are doing is totally anyoning. sry, but girls think that. Just start being reallygood friends and if she says she will think about it 1 more time, that means she is trying to ignore it. Which means she probely doesn't want to go out. P.S.-never tell girls your dreams unless they ask..... it sounds kinda geeky
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today i just got birth control from my doctor called yaz and i didn't get it to prevent pregnacy i got it for irrgeluair periods.
anyways my question is before i start taking this some people have told me it will make me gain wieght is that true?
and will it make my breast bigger?
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first of all... control pills are terrible. You shouldn't of have got them. Yes it will PROBELY DO THAT
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What are some songs that aren't really that hard to play and sing? I want to play/sing something like 'Ordinary Day' by Vanessa Carlton. A happy song would be awesome! Thanks so much in advance!! (link)
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if you like phanton of the opera is nice... just get the easier version. just look at some song that you like and type... the song you like/easymusic for the piano
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I'm allowed to wear make up and I do want to but there's something like holding me back..
I always believed in natural beauty but I feel really ugly and the fact that I'm the only one in my class that doesn't wear make while all the other girls do and looks good( beautiful, not slutty) makes me want to.
But I don't know how to wear make up or select colours for my face.
Is make up when you wear EVERYTHING: eye liner, blush, those things that are the same colour of your skin and you put it all over your facem lip gloss, etc? Or just liek eye liner?
I guess I just want to wear ONLY the essentials like mascara and maybe cover up but I don't want to be dependent on it. I saw picture of girls wthout make up and it looked ABSOLUTELY scary!
Does make-up damage your face? My skin is super sesitive.
What's your opinion of this? (link)
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make up means what ever you what to put on. I think you could wear some. maybe a little eye liner and smear only the littliest bit on. a little blush if you have pale cheeks, some masscara if you HAVE thin eyelashes.a little cover up if you need it. And some shimmery lip gloss and go! Listen, it depends what KIND of makeup you put on for it to hurt you. if you have sensitive skin... always get extra sensitive make up. i do that. listen again... my parents said i can't wear make up yet and i am 13! I still put a little on without them knowing because i make it look so natrual. I wear it like that and i still get complements about how i look. sometimes people think that my skin is natrual like that. just try to stay away from eyeshadow.. it is for old people! more like 15 16 that kind of thing. if you find that perfect kind of make-up, you will shine
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Um you know the rub a lime, or was it lemon, on your skin to make it lighter, does it work for tans from the sun?
My face is getting darker and darker form the sun its really bad and I onyl stayed out there for 10 minutes!
I don't know about wearing sun screen or block because my friend said you can get tanned even easier and its really oily and I have super oily skin (link)
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that is not true. I have a similar problem and i wear like 75 skin protection or ,ore and it really helps. you will still get tan just a tiny bit though.
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It has come to the point now where, I just can't eat anymore.
For 2 days, I went without eating food. Not to diet, not to starve myself, just because, I wasn't hungry.
Now, I get real hungry, and get something big, [ like a big plate of spaghetti ] and I'll taste it and basically want to throw it up, but I don't.
This has become a problem for me, and I feel anorexic. Whats going on? (link)
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you should REALLY get to a doctor. it sounds very serious. maybe not maybe yes! Please do it. You might feel scared but, you have to. there might be something really wroung. please go!
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Please help at all. if you could help, even just a little, itd be really appreciated. Tell me if there is anyway to make these foods healthy & still tasty when i feel like ordering them at restaurants or for take-out on weekends:
-quesidillas (probably didnt spell right)with cheese& chicken
-panini's (grilled sandwiches)
-pasta
-dessert
if i think of anything out, ill add it--- (link)
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instead of cake.... have a slices apple and dip in carmel.. it really satisfies!
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what does the lyric "im telling you as fast as i can, im a trend" from the cute is what we aim for song I Put The "Metro" In Metronome mean? like the "im a trend" part.
thanks! (link)
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metro means in time or in beat. sry. i think that means that you have a lot of stuff or very fashionalble.
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14/f. My friend's birthday was the other week and me and my other friends are planning a surprise party for her. Does anybody have any ideas? We want to do something creative, not just at one of our houses. She doesn't like the mall or movies or bowling, but she likes baking cookies and watching old movies :). Theres about 6 girls to invite including her, and also about 5 boys. Thanks in advance ^^. (link)
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if she likes old movies, then do a old movie scene (lets say she likes the 50's, so then do a sence like the 50's.!!!! and have little sreamers and stuff, have a dance floor!
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