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hey well my name is Amber. i'm pretty much an average teenager. i love my friends and everything like that. but i also love to help people out. i like to give advice &i try my hardest to help people be happy. when i help someone it makes me happy :]] so don't be scared &askk. i'll answer anything!advice
CAUSE I CARE ABOUT THEM! OBVIOUSLY YOU DONT FOR ME SINCE YOU KNOW WHO THIS IS :( --AnY aDvIcE aBoUt tHaT?
mm yeah ii said that none of that was personal so uhm don`t jump to tah conclusionsz and if you want to talk to me OR 'marty' about anyy of thisz then im us or call us;; don`t do it thru this if you wannah take it all personal.
ok well i have lots of friends! but theirs this group of 4 girls..the pink lady's! theirs 2 im close w/...frenchie and rizzo.i love them *SO* much..too much to be true! but my other 2 pink ladiiez, MARTY and SANDY--im not that close with them..they seem to hate me now and always yellin at me or just plain out dont like me...yes im preppy and like..."plastic" i guess, but i used to be so close with ALL of them! ...now i feel like ive lost the other 2..wat do i do :(
well mmm.. maybe like you should try talkin to them because MAYBE yawl can work thingsz out. and POSSIBLY like you said;; they just don`t like you. ik who this isz;; and ik who yer talkin about ii mean uh...DUH buht like none of this isz PERSONAL in here ii`m jus and advice giver and this isz all frum my experience. and honestlyy if you have ALOT of friendsz then whyy do you need those two newaysz? well jus tryy talkin to them. yeah.
Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
you could be bi-sexual. yeah ii`d say you were of you liked being w// your friend buht you still like boiisz.
so hope ii helped.
my firends, family, just people that i am around always ask me if i cut myself since i have cuts down my arm. i need to give them a good reason for why i have these cuts. theyre actaully old scars from a while ago but they relly refuse to believe that. can u plez give me...escuses(i dno wut else to call them) of why i might have these marks?
plez no smart ass answers,
ill rate 5s for anything that isnt
mm well ii`ve used excuses like myy dog scratched me;; carpet burn;; got cut shavin;; briar bush;; walkin in the woodsz;; fell at school;; jus try stuff like that.
hope ii helped
im going to sleep over my friends house today..but the thing is i havent seen her in a yr and we were really friends b4 but weve been talking on the internet alot, the problem isnt lik im scared shes a creep its just that im scared it will be awkward! i can get really shy sometimes and the number 1 thing i hate is awkward silences!! is there any thing to do to make sure we'll both have fun???
p.s. i sweat alot too so is there anything i can do for that?
-awkward
awkward;;
well ii`ve come to notice that if you talk about your life like your friendsz and your love life and stuff that people never get bored;; tell storiesz about thingsz that you`ve done since you`ve last seen her just keep the talk interesting;; buht don`t talk TOO much. you can alwaysz talk about music for example: "have you heard the new song by Keith Urban?" "do you like it?" stuff like. and for your sweating problem.. well just try different deoderantsz and make sure it isz an antipersperant also and find the wun that worksz best for you. =)
hope ii helped!! ...Am
i love this guy...i mean he was so aweosome and so sweet..i broke up w/ him cus i just didnt seem happie. he always called when i was busy and wen i told him to call me back he never did. he didnt even call while i was @ the beach and he promised he would. so i broke up w/ him..i still love him and talk to him but i just found out he kinda likes one of my friends..i think i shoujld just move on for good...advice?
moving on isz a very hard thing to do. if you can do it;; then it might be the best way to solve your problem, buht if you can`t seem to let go of him;; then continue to talk to him and try to flirt a little then see if he still likesz you and if he does then yawl should go back out;; buht if he doesn`t;; then TRY your hardest to move on again and try to do fun hobbiesz and hang out w// your friendsz alot to get your mind off of him and you WILL get over him eventuallyy.
reallyy hope ii helped you!
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well ii`m havin this problem me and my friend have been BEST friends for almost a year now and i feel like i cant trust her with anything (or i thought i could) butt here`z the thing i use to tell her EVERYTHING aand one day i found out that she was going around telling people the stuff that she SWORE not to tell him or her and that caused alot of drama and then there was this time when i was going out with this guy and i told the guy i was a year older but my birthday was like a month away and she goes and tells the boy and he ends of breaking up with me because she told him that when she swore not to and she told some other lies too can you please help me out thanks
~ Signed broken child ~
you should confront her and tell her that you reallyy don`t appreciate the fact that she isz telling your secretsz and you THOUGHT you could trust her and if she doesn`t learn how to keep the secretsz SECRET then you won`t tell her anyymore. ii have a couple of best friendsz and theyy don`t tell myy secretsz. maybe you should consider finding a better friend is telling her that doesn`t work.
reallyy hope ii helped!!
im 13 and i have a problem... i get to emotional sometimes and i dont know what to do about it. i am in love with someone who could give a damn about me and my mom drinks and we fight a lot and i dont see my dad much.. ive heard about people cutting themselves sometimes b/c they say it relieves the pain, i didnt believe them at the time but one time i acually tried it, and this is at the point that i am really sad and depressed all of the time and i get really emotional over small things, and it hurt at first but i was so upset it didnt really matter... i was bleeding a lot and i didnt care i just wanted to do something with the pain. i wrote his initials in my skin and they are still there i think they will always be there but i love him so much but i dont want anyone to see.. it is on my wrist so its hard to cover it up at this time of the year. i still cut myself and i want to stop but its like im addicted to it, i have nothing to do and i hardly ever go out so it creates more alone time and time that i think about things and i just cry and sometimes i cut myself ...how can i get over this??
cutting yourself isz not the answer;; trust me ik. ii think you could use serious help, not trying to be funnyy. ii think you should tell a school counselor or a trusted adult. this problem isz serious and ii think telling an adult could help you.
ii reallyy hope ii helped
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okay i moved to a different city about a year ago. there is this guy that is like one of my best friends and everyone knows that he likes me and i like him too((but not alot)). ive gone to dances with him, but im afraid that if he asks me out things will get all weird, and i dont know if i would be able to kiss him without feeling odd.
please help me!
well if you don`t want thingsz to change at all;; then don`t take the chance if you don`t like him THAT much. alot of guysz feel awkward to their exes especially if the girl broke up w// them. if he isz a good bf to other girlsz he should be just fine towardsz you.
hope ii helped!!
I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks
mm hey i am 13 too and i can totally relate to this question. if i were you;; i would go for the 13 year old, and i would only ask him out if you think you have a chance UNLESS you don`t mind if he says no. you probly have a better chance with the boy your age because most likely the older boy has his mind set on older girlsz and they don`t tend to go for younger girls. good luck!
hope ii helped!
hey me and my boyfriend have only seen eachother once. We talk a lot but we never see eachother that much, and i really like him. All my friends say to break up with him but i really like him, i dont know what to do? I always ask him when can you hangout he says i dont know. But when my friend asks him he gives a day. We were supposed to hangout this weekend but he never called me back. He always says he loves me one day we stayed on the phone till one in the morning! Hes so sweet but i never see him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Julia xox
mmm well ii know sometimesz itsz hard to talk to guysz like seriouslyy about serious stuff buht casuallyy ask him whyy yawl never get to see eachother. tryy to get it out of him the best wayy you can like if he saysz idk then be like well ii reallyy wannah see you;; buht everyy time ii tryy go placesz w// you;; you onlyy sayy "idk".
hope it helpsz =)
hey well i have this problem and idk what to do about it. my mom likes to drink alot and it scares me. i was wondering if you knew or had an idea about what i should do about this, because it really scares me. i don't want her to get hurt or anything. so let me know asap please!
thank you!
~*scared and wondering*~
well this isz all ii can sayy;;
• try to talk to her about it;; let her know that it scaresz you and you don`t want her to get hurt.
• it`sz very possible that talking to her won`t change her mind;; if so, tell somewun else like an adult that you trust;; or tell the copsz, they can puht yer mom in a rehab place that can help make her better.
º ii`ve had familyy membersz w// drinking problemsz before and [LUCKILY for me] all ii had to do was SERIOUSLY talk to them. they still drink buht not excessivelyy and theyy onlyy do it on the weekendsz. ii`d rather them quit for good;; buht ii don`t have TOTAL control over them so improvement isz completelyy awesum!
ii hope ii helped!!