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Location: hanover mass
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Age: 13
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Member Since: July 6, 2005
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
well if u truly love him u should respect his desicons


my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
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Keeping her at your house is a bad idea you should tell her parents and talk to her and say running away isnt goin to solve any problems in the near future she wil prob thank you for it! =)


alright well there is this guy jeff who i used to date. after a bad break up we became really close friends, we told eachother everything and always laughed and had fun together. well he started talkin to my like everyday about a differant girl he liked, and honestly i didn't mind that much. i even gave him advice on rlationships, good advice. but if i said one word about a guy he always got mad and aggrivated. then one day he told me he liked me alot and would love to be my gf, so later on i asked him out. he said "i love you so much i can't stand a break up so friends with benefits???" well that was lame so i said no, just friends. then he got mad because he said i told him i liked him then asked to be just friends.... even though he did the exact same thing. well we forgave and forgot and he started talking about another girl and he asked who i would probably date because he heard that i liked some guy from my friend. i told him that i liked josh and he asked me out and i said yes.... jeff got mad and started calling me all these names and being so rude! i told him he was a selfish emotional loser... harsh but i was mad. then we forgave eachother and he said i love you i am sorry. now he is being really mean to me, always getting mad over nothing and if i get mad back he sucks up to me. so i told him that i was done with him, and we should just never talk again. after hearing him sob for a while i am beginning to think that i am the bitch? am i the mean one, or is he out of line?

p.s. im 14 f (link)
you are deff. right i mean if hes goin to treat you like that and expect you not to do the same back the its def. not worht it or iff you feel like a bitch you can be like treat others the way you want to be treated and just talk it over and tell him if you dont change than we realy shouold never talk again..hope i helped


Ok I have a really small plain room and it gets veeeery messy. the amount of space when its CLEAN to walk in is even smaller than a walk-in closet! And I can't move out any of the furniture because they're all nailed into the wall! What can I do to make it less messy and make it look nicer? It's so, well, PLAIN and I'm not even allowed to paint it. I like lava lamps and miniature desk water fountains and things like that if it helps!!!! thanx a lot, I will rate high for anyone who gives a reasonable answer (link)
bright colors help it look bigger dark makes it smaller and get it organized and ask ur mom if you take something out of the wall or something and if youn paint it use a light//bright color, and put up posters and stuff and youn get stencils and take a sharpie and the right quotes and stuff if you allowed.just keep it bright and light and it will look bigger and prob seeem bigher


Hey everyone, ok Im going to Six Flags New England ( the theme park not the water park) and wanted to know where i cna get those discount copuons, they usally slel thme at a fast food place!?

Thanks (link)
you can get themn at dunkin donuts i think and coke cans and stuff o and i think assnippi a general store


hey i really need your help! im 20 years old, i still live with my mom, and even though your younger than me i think that you can help. I have been bulimic for 7 years, because i thought i was fat (my mom would tell me i was) i started to cut..i dont know what to do. I mean i havent had a boyfriend since almost forever. All my friends left me when i told then about my addictions and problems. I cant go clubbing and meet new people because my mom got into debt because of drugs. My dad died of an OD and i dont want the same to happen to me and my mom.. what should i do???

20/F
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If you have a job you should pay for a therapists to help you out and if you dont have a job get one so that at least you can go clubbing and meet people who could possibly help you out or just be there for you and be able to listen to your addictions, also i know that you can meet people like you on the internet so you could meet someone like you and get help together..but be safe

sorry im soo late answering!!!


2 things

I like this kid but i dont know if he likes me he sometimes acts like it but he never asked me out should i tell him i like him and aks him out or should i wait


Also theres my ex who i can never keep out of my mind we have been on and off it seems like forever and now hes going out with this girl i hate and shes such a slut and i know she cheated on him should i tell him??? or should i let him find out on his own?? (link)
u should talk to him online and tell him you like him ...and for the second 1 casually start a convo with your ex and tell him you think his gf is cheating on him..

sorry i answered soo latE!


welll i kile these 2 girls ones realy smart and like a loser a clutes but this other girl is smart nice fun to be around and want to go out with one of them what shold i do (link)
well since u no more about the other girl thats shes smart nice and fun to be around u should go out with her

hope this helped!=)


ok well i like this boy and this other girl likes him but he is so cute but she isn't and she flirts with him all the time but he dosen't like her and so should i flirt with the boy becuse he flirts with me or what should i do so i don't look like a fool???? I need advice and fast !!!
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what should i do (link)
of course u should flirt with him!!!


okay when i was 12 i had sex with a 25 year old and we had a baby but he made me kill it so no one would find out.... soo he pushed me down the stairs.. then when i was 13.5 i had sex with a 30 year old and i lost that baby too.. now i have to go to a ginocologest and i dont want my parents to find out.. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! (link)
okay first calm down....I think if you told your parents it would be a lot easier and than u could sew those boys and make lots of money!! so tell your mom!


My mother has been getting on my nerves since i was 7 years old. She judges me, yells at me, swears at me, makes fun of me, and flat out makes me sick. I even started to cut myself because of her, but i eventually stopped after 1 year because my friends helped me out. But i cannot take it anymore. My dad & I are bestfriends, i tell him everything, but i dont tell him about my mother. Just because i dont want them to split up or anything. What can i do to make my mom shutup? Plus, i have many brothers, she loves them, talks to them, hugs them, and compliments them. Its just plain sick. Im sick of her act shes pulling agaisnt her ONLY DAUGHTER. Sometimes i do NOTHING and she says, oh god i wish i had another son. I havent told anyone about this, but all my friends know how she is, and i have always hated her. I see all my close friends spending time with thier moms and having close relationships. I run to my friends house to get away sometimes or just sit outside. Even this past mother's day i bought her a card & flowers, she threw the flowers away. What should i do?

Sincerely, Tired Of This. 13/F (link)
i think you should sit your mother down and have a LONG talk with her about how you feel and tell her you used to cut because of her and be honest with her.


hey okay so i like this boy but so does this other girl and its wiicked annoying because she brags to me about the gayest things ever about the boy and whatever. I think the girl is wayy prettier then me and he likes this other girl and could very well like someone else too. I asked him out and he could have said yes but said no because onee of my other friends was buggin him about it too much. Should i ask him out again over the summer so its not so awkward, should i ask him out next year, or should i just let it go and hope to god he ends up liking me next year but everynight i think about him....

help me!! (link)
if u really like him u should ask him out in the summer but first tell his friend not to bug him because it was his fault he didnt say yess...hoppe this helps!


hey, finally i can ask for advice
im 16 years old and have a situation you might beable to fixed! alright so i have liked this gorgeous guy for my whole high school years and one day he came up to me and asked if i wanted to chill sometimes so i was like yeah! so the next friday came and me and him hung out alone. He brought me into his house and then into his room! it was kinda awkward seeing that noone was home. he was more experienced then i was, seeing he was 1 year older then me! he started hitting on me but i did't like it so i left when he was in the bathroom. im scared when tomorrow comes when ill be with me and my friends hanging out and they all found out i def. chicked out big time!! Will everyone hate me? is he ever gonna talk to me again? should i be proud of my virginitey? please answer me ASAP PLEASE! thanks xtina

from, person who doesnt know what to do??? (link)
well if they are your real friends then they shouldn't hatee you just sayy you weren't readyy for anything bigg yet. If he likes you too he will talk to you again, and if he doesn't then he is an ass who should be ashamed of using girls just bc he wants stuff ( he isnt worth it ). Don't be pressured into having sex if you don't think your readyy.and yes u should be proud of your virginity cause it makes you different from any other girl and some guys like that

from xtina
and kim


hey hey hey hey
i have a HUGEEE problem, see my friend Yolanda is a girl and likes one of my other friends that is a boy named Bernard but Bernard likes Bonnie and Bonie likes me .. see the problem is that i like bonie to! what should i do that doesnt fuck our friendship up?

from, confused boy

P.S ALLLLL CODE NAMESS ! (link)
u shhould ask bonnie out but before u do that u should talk to bernard about it


what are some quick and easy ways to lose 10 pounds? (link)
excerize drinks lots of water, eat healthy and dont eat in between meals


There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me (link)
Does your mom know cause if she doesnt you need to tell her and she can get them to calm down if she does know and isnt doin ne hting about it than you need to speak up to them


i need to come up with 90 dollars in a short period of time. I need a job. But I'm only 13 so not in a store or anything like that. I can't babysit. So what could i do to get this 90 dollars? please answer ASAP (link)
well since its the summer time u can go around ur neighborhood and mow lawns..o and lemonade stands r good too =)


there is this girl.. n everytime some1 likes a guy.. she somehow takes him from the girl.. n she is doing it to me this time.. and I don't wanna let that happen! cause I realllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy like him and I have for a while.. what can I do to stop her? (link)
okay talk to her about this and tell her what she is doin is rude and disrespectful




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