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Q: im an atheist,and im considering Christianity,because someone really made me realize,that there has 2 be a God.She gave me so much proof, but i'm still not sure if i'm ready because i've been an athiest for about 2 or 3 years.what should i do?
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If you want to talk, leave one in my inbox because i can give you solid evidential proof as to why God exists and why Theism (Christian belief in one God)is right compared to others such as Deism, Polytheism, Pantheism, Panentheism, Atheists, Agnosticsm, etc. I'm not here to preach, but to give you more solid proof so you can better decide how you feel about Christianity and Atheism. Right now I'd say you're a benign agnostic.. you're not quite sure because you DONT KNOW. The other type of Agnosticsm states that you CANT KNOW; and I don't think that's you just yet. Let me know if I can help.
PEACE
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Q: I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
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I think it's great that you do what you want. A lot of girls don't shave their legs right now since it's winter. I would recommend shaving under your arms more just for hygenic reasons.. it makes you sweat more and traps odor.. anyway there are plenty of guys out there who will like you for who you are but you might not find that type of maturity level until college and I don't know if you want to wait that long. High school sucks, hippies rock. Do what you want to do, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. rock on.
PEACE
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Q: I'm 10lbs underweight, I need to gain weight. Now that I identified the problem I want to fix it, but I think I have an eating disorder. I hate to eat around other people and some days I don't eat at all. How can I gain weight? I look anorexic.
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Drinking slimfast WITH meals does the oppisite effect of what it's made for and causes you to gain weight. Eat 3 meals a day, don't over do it because you can gain weight too fast and it's unhealthy for your heart and body. Rapid weight gain also gives your stretch marks :\ so take it slow and eat healthy. You can also consider therapy. They'll set you up with an excellent nutritionist who helps A LOT.
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Q: Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
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I think you should scare the crap out of him. You should have your husband ask him questions, personal ones. Ask him things are normal for a young boy to go through (ex. wet dreams) and have your husband over react and almost make it seems like something is wrong. take him to the doctor and have him tested for Chlamydia and gonorrhea (which is very very painful), when it comes back positive tell him (whatever example you used to scare him with) is normal and that this could have been a serious situation and he needs to wait until hes older and wiser on the subject. i'm sure it will scare the shit out of him.. i know it's harsh but hey, so is life.
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Q: I have been sexually active for almost 6 months abd I want to be put on the pill. My parents dont know im having sex. I hate using condoms.. so we just make sure he pulls out. I have a few Questions.
A. How much does it cost?
B. How much do they give you at one time?
C. How can I get it without my parents knowing im gettin it? Like a place you can go without parental permission.
Thanks sooo much!
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Ok I have your answer. Get in the phone book and look up the nearest planned parenthood near you. Make an appt- you have to get the full exam before they can give you pills. When I did it last year, it cost about 90 dollars, BUT they are so good about letting you pay when you can. You can pay some then and pay some later and so on. It is VERY worth this because it is completly confidential and you're parents will never know. On the forms you fill out make sure you check the box that asks to have no mail from them so nothing comes to your house; and make sure you give them a cell number. Their birth control is about 20 dollars, maybe a little over.. but that beats the gyno who charges about 40-50. They'll give you refills if you ask and they tell you everything you need to know. Trust me, it's wonderful. please rate
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Q: Hey! As you all probably know, Valentines day Is coming soon! And I need to Know what to get my boyfriend he's 16, but he'll be 17 in April. So I would just like some of your ideas. We have been together over a year. I had alot of good ideas but I got his a lot of the stuff for our One Year Anniversary! So If I could have some good Ideas that would be great. And If you are a guy who has gotten something that you really like from a girl- tell me! Or if you are a girl who has gotten something for a guy that he really liked! thansk so much!
I'll Rate 4 or 5!
:)
God Bless You!
*KeLsA*
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I suggest something really personal. Walk through some stores and look for something that reminds you of him. Don't get him a teddy bear or candy.. you know him better than that. Pay attention to what he says while yall talk, maybe something he will want for him birthday coming up soon to get some ideas. The personal presents are always the ones that guys keep for a long time. You could make up certificates for a night when YOU take HIM out to dinner, etc.. or naughty ones ;)Good luck!
PEACE
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Q: my mom has this bf and he is at my house every night and i cant stand it last night i was asleep in my moms room and she made me get out so that her bf could sleep in there im just so mad
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You need to talk to her about it. Tell her you feel like he's getting all of her time and that isn't cool with you. Remind her that he's only a boyfriend and you're her daughter and her family should come first. Good luck sweetie
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Q: this boy went out with this semi-good friend of mine and they broke up w/each other. So he asked my bff out and she said no cuz our semi-friend said she still had feelings for him. weve been talking and he said he never wanted to go out with her (semi) in the first place. so yesterday we were hanging out and i let grab me ass a couple of times. And he kept complmenting me saying i was perfect and stuff like that. My bff said i should go out with him. Also my semi friend said i couldn't hang out with this other boy in our neighborhood cuz he "used" her and we Knew him befor they went out. iLL rate!!!1
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As long as you still have your best friend, losing your semi- good friend doesn't seem like a big deal if you don't mind it. She sounds like one of those girls who likes her exes to be off limits and sometimes that isn't fair.. especially if you guys aren't the best of friends. I would wait a little while longer, tell her yall are thinking about dating and then do it.. just as long as you tell her. Finding out from someone else can permantly ruin the friendship forever because it feels a little like back stabbing. Good luck
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Q: i lost my cellphone...my BABY! i have no frickin clue where it is...i looked everywhere!! I cn't tell my parents or I'll be shot, and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!
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keep calling it until someone picks up.
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Q: ok well i have this issue with my apperence(sp)..well its a little depressing to me because ive been made fun of for it..well my problem is that i have a witch type nose.i cant take it anymore i try to hold in my tears but i cant hold them back, can you please help me i need a way to deal with this or something...
p.s. please dont make fun of me because this is the first time i said this to someone. i have never let out my feelings and it truely wont go away its a cut thaat will never close by the way this isnt the first time ive been made fun of.i was made fun of 3 years ago and i can remeber every single detail to when that happened thats why i cant bare it anymore
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You are beautiful no matter what. Anyone that is going to make fun of you is only insecure about themselves and deserves to die. I hate my nose too, but unless you have an extra 4-6 thousands dollars handy, you can't change who you are. I almost did and now i'm glad i didn't because my fiance loves me for who i am. I promise that once high school is over, nothing will matter but what's on the inside. I hope i helped. Don't do anything drastic.. 311 and incubus are good bands to listen to when you just feel like you can't be positive. You're alive! be thankful!
Good luck beautiful.
PEACE
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Q: ok well i like this guy chris and he flirts with me in indpendent study and i really like him and i want to send him a candy gram on valentines dayand i will probly write Will You Go Out With Me?
Love Jess and hes in my home room and we have independent study that day should i send him a candy gram or just ask him out face to face? i need help pleaze ill rate high
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i think you should send him the candy gram that says something sweet on it, and then ask him out in person. It will be more personal and sincere i think.
Hope i helped
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Q: hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x
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I don't mean to be rude, but why does it matter? Let her live her life and endure the consequences. I realize you're worried about her so try sitting her down and remind her of what could happen. Other than that there isn't much you can do but support her decisions. Hope i helped
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Q: Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....
1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.
2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?
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Your boyfriend isn't going to be able to tell if you're a virgin or not. That's impossible unless the guy was over 9in.. and that's just painful to think about. Also, things change drastically after sex. You'll be closer, in a good or a bad way it's really up to ya'll. Be careful not to have sex a lot because soon the relation depends on it to function and eventually you have nothing else but that. Good luck!
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Q: Oh my goodness okay well i havent had my period in about 40 days and i thought that maybe i just skipped a month. I have my first boyfriend right now and we're really close and we were on a vacation thing together..we didnt do anything sexual AT ALL and my mom just asked me if i was pregnant!! and now im terrified because i dont know why im so late and i thought i just skipped a month but i guess not..im definetely not pregnant but my mother scared me and now im really worried! please..could someone please give me a reaosn why my period could be so late?
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don't worry. It can be irregular if you change your diet or increase your exercise.. are you stressed out about something? because that will put it off also. So if you want it to come, you need to calm down because nothing serious is wrong with you. All girls are irregular at least once in their life. If you don't get it for another month, go the gyno to make sure that you don't have an infection. (nothing that can't be fixed) Good luck sweetie, everything will be cool
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I give good advice, so hit me up.
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Gender: Female Location: Texas Age: 19 Member Since: February 2, 2005 Answers: 34 Last Update: March 2, 2006 Visitors: 3907
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