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Ok my mother is forcing me to go for a medicals check up cause i havent had one in like years and for some reason she thinks i could have diebeties cause she sees me eating too many sweets (rolls eyes) i know its rediculose but now im freaking out cause i just relized there gonna check my urine, blood, ect.. and... im just wondering if they can see that i have marijuana in my system. I dont smoke it all the time just once in a while last time was like friday nov 17 my check up is on tuesday can find anything if there not looking for it? help anyone who knows cause if they can im just gonna stale untill maybe another month if i can
any advice will be greatly appreciated
Thanks!
actually, weed stays in your system for a long time.. and im pretty sure its for months (i know people who know about this kind of stuff). but im not really sure if theyll find it in your urine if theyre not looking for it. i thought that in order to find drugs in your system that youd have to take a specific test, a drug test.
so i have this friend and she acts like im the greatset person ever when im around and talks toatal shit behind my back. last year she made my life hell. she does it to everyone. she is the most twoface person i have ever come in contact with. she makes up lies and belives them so when someone says they arent true shes conviced they are. when we became friends last year everything was fine till the end of school then she tryed to get all my friends to turn on me and told them lies and most of them belived her. she just lies so much! like this one time she told me boyfriend that i liked my ex still and that i wanted to break up with him when i would nver say that ever. and last week she told my bestfreinds boyfriend that she like this other boy and she was going to break up with him so she could gout out with this other boy. and the thing is my bestfreind doesnt even talk to this other boy at all. they're not even freind. i need to know how o depleate this freindship before it starts to get wosre but without hurting her feeling (which is very very easy) and without looking like im a bitch.
to be honest, it shouldnt even matter if you hurt her feelings from the way you describe her. yeah, she certainly sounds like a bitch who has hurt you a lot.. but if i were you, id be straight up with her. id tell her that i dont want to hang out with her anymore because of her shit talking and all of the lies she spreads. tell her that you dont want to associate with a person who is like that, that youre better than that and if she really wants to be a friend, to straighten up and stop being two faced. and you know what, if you end up lookin like a bitch, so the fuck what? because youll never be as much of a bitch as she is.
i ahve had sex and i've never bled. i havent unusualy bled other than having my period. so does this mean my boyfriend hasnt poped my cherry?
since youve had sex before, its very possible that it has popped but you just didnt realize it. however, you may have even popped it well before youve had sex. things such as sports, walking, running or using a tampon can have broken your hymen without your knowledge.
Ok well, we are about 17 and me and my girlfriend Britney have been going out for about three years now and i really love her. but i have no clue what to get her for christmas? usually i am pretty good at this stuff but this year i am clueless??? i have about like $250 to $300 to spend. Can someone please help me come up with some ideas for her? Thanks in advance !
yeah, def something from tiffanys.
i have a sidekick 2 and can i record something and make it my ringtone?
nope
ok so i was looking online for hair straightners..
and i was thinking about getting a chi.
im black and i have coarse hair and i was wondering if you guys think it would work on my hair? also if you have any other straightner suggestions.. nothing over $110 would help?
thanks much/rate 5's
yeah, my friend is black and she uses CHI. it works really well.
is it true that an ionic hair straightener doesnt burn the hair as much as a normal one? i need a new straightener and i was either going to get the chi or one called striaght for you. they sell it in the smithhaven mall and it is ionic. which one do you think would be better?
chi is the best.
13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest
He's thirteen and buying you Tiffany diamonds? That is crazy. I understand that you feel bad but let him know that you really didn't have any money. I'm sure he'd understand as well. I don't think it's a big deal. If anything, make him dinner or yes, burn a cd.. Write him a poem or a song. It's the little things that counts and you don't need to spend money to show your love.
just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
if you knew her well enough, definitely.
umm i have a louis vuitton and idk how to tell if its fake or not. it has the thing in the inside that is printed Louis Vuitton France and whatever that is...and i heard taht if it has it in the inside its real. please helppp. if u need more info im eballer13@wi.rr.com
thanks
its more than that. some fakes have that inside as well. you have to check the leather and smell if its real. second, real louis vuittons have specific insides. example, a mamo canvas will have dark brown inside. a damier canvas will have orange. inside fake ones, they are tan. thats mainly how you can tell. third, some lv bags have pins and certain kinds of zippers. in tiny letters it should say louis vuitton. basically, youll know if its a real or fake or not. real ones come in dust bags and they dont have tags, where as fake ones come with a tag.
I broke up with my boyfriend because his grandma never lets him do anything with me. A friend told me he's taking it really hard and it makes me feel bad. I want to give in and go back out but it's hard. What should I do?
i'm sorry but it isnt fair that just because his grandma doesnt allow you two to go out that you broke up with him. its not his fault and he may really really like you and you could be missing out on something good. if you really like him, you should go back with him because honestly, breaking up with him because of someone elses feelings isnt fair at all.
Ok, I've liked this guy for a long time, over 4 years, and we're good friends. I talk to him in school and everything, but I just can't tell him I like him because I'm scared he will reject me. But lately, he's been more friendly than normal, and a little while ago, when I was talking to him online, he said "Do you wanna go..." "Uh" "Nevermind." I think he was going to ask me out,but I don't know. Do you think he likes me and I should ask him if he wants to be my boyfriend? Thanks ahead of time.
i think that you should go ahead and tell him how you feel about him first, and maybe if he likes you as well, that will break the ice. from the sounds of it, it seems as though he likes you too.. so you should definitely go for it.
Well christmas is coming up and i think i know what im doing for my Girlfriend, if you have read my past questions, i'm doing this thing, i get a vase with 11 roses in it, and one glass rose in it. And a card on it that says "when the last rose dies is when i will stop loving you" Hence... a glass rose wont die. Then besides that im gonna do one of those build-a-bear things.. and a silver neckless. Sound good? anyone know a good place to get a silver neckless? like a heart emblem of what ever?
go to tiffanys.
do guys suck each other at sleep overs as dares? my boyfriend did and i dont think its normal?
guys sucking each others dick is not normsl, unless he was gay or bisexual. a straight person wouldnt suck any guys dick even if it was a dare or a million bucks.
I got my rabbit about 6 months ago. It's not trained and i dont kno how. I tried giving it treats when she does tricks but SHE NEVER DOES ANY TRICKS! How do i train her to sit, lay down, and all the basic things?
rabbits cant be trained
yah, this is kinda odd, but do brown and certain shades of pink go to gether,, and am i weird for wearing clothes that DONT match that well??
~!~*~jenna-skye~*~!~
Brown can go with, my opinion, only the lighter shades of pink. If you were to put together brown and, lets say, hot pink, I think that'd be a little tacky.
okay well ill be 16 in less than a month, and already my family and friends are asking what i want... i have no idea... so i need some help on what to get for a 16 year old girl... i really want a car... but i doubt my parents will do that, and i was thinkin a tiffanys neckalce and one of those sequin purses... but what else is there?!! please help!!
Definitely something from Tiffanys
and a Louis Vuitton bag or wallet
I was over at my friend's house today and we started fooling around and I gave him and handjob and he asked me to give him head. After a while i did but it only lasted a few seconds before he told me he was about to cum. He did so I guess he liked it but I started to worry because it didn't last long so I didn't get to do much. I'm afraid I didn't do well and he won't want to do it again. He kept touching me and stuff the rest of the day but..I dunno. advice?
They say the quicker he is to come, the better job of head you're giving.
okay so like 2 years ago me and my friend begged our moms to get our belly button peirced.. they said after i turn 16..which is in august. but i duno, am i right wen i say getting your belly button peirced is played out?
Definitely played out. Get something else done. Get something most girls wouldn't get. I got my lip and tongue pierced while other girls got their bellys done. Personally, I think they're corny.
where do you buy louis vuitton handbags?? like nordstrom?? how much do they normally cost??
I'm the queen of louis bags. They only sell them at Louis Vuitton stores and Saks fifth avenue. I see people saying Nordstroms, but I've never seen Louis bags there. Bags go from 200 to 2,000. Wallets from 100 to 600. Don't get LV bags from ebay, they're usually fake.