Hey everyone I'm Maddy and I'm 18 years old. As you can tell I like soccer and hockey. I give great advice to my friends so thats why i decided to start an advice column. Please feel free to ask questions and I will try to answer them the best I can. Thnx!!!
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This week, I'm going to the movie with a bunch of my friends. It'll be 2 of my friends & their boyfriends & me & my guyfriend. We haven't known eachother that long & everyone says we're a relationship in the making. When all my friends are making out, people say that we'll just end up doing it too because we won't be able to help ourselves. Is that true? If so, what should I do? Go along with it?
xO* fAith (link)
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dont go along with it just becasue everyone else is doing it!!!!! dont listen to what people say about you two think for yourself. do you think you like him as more of a friend?
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
P.S Today he mumbeled somthing to me (link)
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first of all do you know what he mumbled?? and i think he probably likes you but i think its odd that he stares with a serious look on his face. Maybe have one of you friends thats in the same class that you and him are in go up to him and say " Hey i always see you staring at*****, do you like her?" but have her ask it in a casual way that doesnt show that shes desperate to find out. i hope i helped! p.s. look for any signs of flirting!
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hey! Wut if i liek a guy A LOT and he has a g/f but i flirt with him?? (link)
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hi ******** i dont wanna put your name for safety purposes! Ok, I think you should tell him that you really like him but you understand he has a girlfriend, there fore it's not fair to flirt since he's probably going steady. Try to get over himm though it may be hard, move to other guys!
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today my brother held my arm so tight i have a bruise, yesterday he hit me over the head with a phone, and the day before he repeaditly hit me with a key board. other times he punches and hits me, i tell my parents and they never do anything. yet when i do something to him i get in trouble immediatly. it isnt fair and it hurts me that he practically abuses me and that my parents dont care. what should i do?
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Sit down with just you and your parents. Tell them in a calm way that your brother is hurting you and if this keeps happening it could cause damage. Discuss with them what your brother does to you and that it's not normal. Once your parents understand have your brother join the discussion. Take your turn of telling your brother that it hurts you wen he does that. Ask him how he woudl feel if you hit him with a keyboard. Have your parents set down some guidlines and possibly have him see a docter, he may have ADD, or maybe he just wants attention from you. I hope I helped! Good Luck!!!
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People in my class are spreading rumors that I am a lesbo but I'm not I love celebrity guys. (Riley Smith, Chad Michael Murray, ect..) They are saying I like a girl in my class but we are JUST friends.... help? (link)
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like i told you before these people are being idiots. go up to the grl who is spreading rumors and say " you kno wut your saying isnt true and you no it. i dotn kno why you are saying that but it has to stop." set them straight. she just wants attention. dont let her get to your head. hope i helped and good luck!!
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Maddy, I want to hang out more with bicycle boy. I know, you think its stupid or whatever. But today, he came up with his guitar and said I could come down with mine and we could play. I was like "umm, maybe a little later" and walked inside my house. How can I show that I like music and I would like to play guitar with him without coming over at a bad time>???
And what if he has a girlfriend? (link)
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! oh my god! ERIN! you DiDNT TELL ME THAT!!!!!!!! WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OK I KNO YOU DONT THINK SO BUT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE LIKES YOU!!!!! go to his house y r YOU waiting! dont play hard to get!!!! go to his house and Play guitar im soooooo happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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omg maddy I AM SOO PISSED OFF I AM SOO MAD ! I REALLY LIKED HIM !!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR (link)
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none of this is your fault. Maybe it just wasn't ment to be. there will be plenty of other guys who want to wait. plus like i sed before its not your fault it wasnt meant to be. try and get over him and start liking some other guys. okay?? take my advice. itll be okay.
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How do you put on eyeliner without the pencil going all over the place???? (link)
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its hard at first, but i everntually got the hang of it. while your putting it on, pull down like your cheek so u can see your eye better. carefully apply it close to your eye and curve the pencil so u get all under your eye
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so, it says i have to be 13 but im only 12 wut shoulod i do? (link)
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13 to do wut
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HeLlO HoW dO YoU mAkE ReGuLaR lEtTeRs? NoT lIkE tHiSSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsSsS (link)
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u jus type withou using th shift bar? is that wut ur asking? not sure but i hope i helped
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I really like this guy that I'm friends with already. He was dating my friend, but she broke up with him and said she wouldn't care if I asked him out. So I did, but he said no. I was heartbroken! Should I still be friends with him even though he broke my heart? (link)
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talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. depending on how he handles it should determine whether to stay friends or not.
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ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
sincerely,
brokenlover (link)
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hi, your problem is hard to answer but i will try! ok so maybe if it's possible to try and like some other guys. i know it sounds hard but if your friend likes this guy and he supposedly likes her, she might take it the wrong way if you talk wit her, thiugh it might help. If this a guy that you can talk to and share your feelings with, talk to him. i really hope i helped! good luck!!!
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hey .. well i got these like red things on my breast ... what are they and is it normal? thanks (link)
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tell your mom or a well trusted adult. you shoukd go tot he docter and tell him/her that you are concerned. hope i helped!
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welp, im going to ask this really hott guy out tomorrow and im so nervous...but i kno this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell people, wish me luck. *if we do start a relationship, our annaversery will be June 2nd! lol) WISH ME LUCK! i dunno why, but whoever wishes me luck, will get a rating of 5. :) (link)
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good luck!!!!!
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sorry it kind of goes under 2 categories
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Ok so i have this friend lets call him Craig. Well my good friend, lets call her Kaylee likes him. Alot of my other friedns likes him too. Anyway, she asked him out, but he said no.They are still good friends. Well "Craig" is in my gym class, and he constantly flirts with me...like all the time. and i think i am starting to like him. I think he might like me. I dont know though, because everytime i think that the guy doesnt really like me. ANYWAYS i dont know what to do. Should i tell "kaylee" that i like him? should i tell HIM i like him? HELP PLEASE! thanks i rate HIGH!(he is 14/M, and she is 14/f) (link)
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You should tell your friend that you are starting to like him. Maybe you should wait awhile and see if he really likes you back and then tell him that you like him. Hope I helped!!
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Okay, Bubushca here's my question. I'm like a 100% sure I'm getting a B+ in Religion but I really want to get an A-. How do I raise my grade with 1 week left of school>>>>????
Will rate 5 if you do not put
1. don't worry about it
2. you shouldn't be waiting till last week of school
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First go up to baker/ rivera and ask her what your current grade is. if you need to bring it up, ask if there is any EC which usually she doesn't give. Try to get an A on your next test and you should do fine.
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Me and this guy i really liked just broke up awhile ago and he said that he thought we should just be friends and stuff well it hurt but i was being a good player and put a smile on my face we talked on the fone a couple times but then when we hung out it got all weird i wanted to put my arms around him and stuff like i use to but i couldnt cuz we werent going out he just kinda chilled with everyone else..i still like him i cant get my mind off him i want to still be together i dont know if i should talk to him about it and tell him how im feeling and see if we can try again or just move on. can someone please help me! (link)
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ok u might wanna talk to him and ask if hes feeling the same way. if not, well, u shuld find another crush or just try and ferget about him. itll turn out fine hope i helped!!!:)
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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah. (link)
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i think u should talk to ur b/f and ask him how he feels. let your thoughts out, and maybe things will be better. hope this helps!!
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My boyfriend thinks I like all these guys because they like me and it's getting annoying. I think he likes other girls too but he just says some are attractive. How do I get this "thinking" to stop happening? I am a glirt but he is too. (link)
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tell him the way he thinks girs are attractive maybe u think guys are attractive. talk to him
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Ok...Here's the story. I have been friends with this guy since the 5th grade.We're both 16 and I have had a crush on him since 5th grade too. Finally, 5 years later,(2 months ago), we went out for a month. I thought "Wow, I can't believe this.It's what I've always wanted." Well it wasn't. He was always around his friends. I mean I don't see ANYTHING wrong with guy time,because I want girl time too. But he was ALWAYS with them. He barely called cause he was always with them. The funny thing was that before we went out we talked every night for like 4 hours! I adored him and I know he adored me. But being alone all the time just wasn't working. So we broke up. We THANKFULLY went back to being best friends again. Well now 2 months later we have a little problem. We went to a party and we kissed...I loved it and I know he did. Then 3 days later I asked if he liked me. His answer was "Yea but I don't see us as anything more than friends right now...but yes I do like you." I was devastated...did I read his signals wrong? Well we had a heart to heart and came to an understanding and hung up the phone with saying we loved each other! The next night we went to a basketball game, then to the pool hall. As he played pool and I sat there watching...our eyes met for the longest time,he smiled at me with the cutest smile, and my heart just melted! "Maybe he really does like me the way I like him!!" I thought. Well when it was time for me to leave he said "Bye I'll call you later" Without anything else...he usually hugs me or kisses me on the cheek!! Once again...a signal misread. My friend Beth, whom was there throughout it all, spoke to him one night about it. He said he didn't want me to like him the way I did because he didn't know what he wanted right now and that he didn't want it to end up like last time and him "hurting me". Problem was...he never hurt me! Now, almost a week later, we have yet to speak to each other. BIG CHARACTER HERE!! Morgan... a girl he is/was in love with has hurt him twice. They didn't even go out...she lead him on and then let him down. He claims he doesn't care anything for her. I believe him...but if I could just find out what it was that he loved about her I would change and just to gain AT LEAST one characteristic he loved about her! I have never been like this...I've always said I would never change for anyone! Especially not for some guy. But for him I will do anything. WHAT DO I DO!! Please don't say "Girl, don't change for anyone" or "Let him come to you"...seriously HELP ME!! (link)
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unfortunatly what i am gonna say is "girl dont change for anyone lol" but like seriously maybe u shuld talk to him and ask him if hes sending signs or what? i mean it sounds like you want to be together but he is unsure. if you r seriously like in love with him dont let him go. if you dont like him liek ALOT just forget about him. ui think he just doesnt wanna hurt you again. maybe u shuld tell hi he never did and just sit down and talk about it. i really really hope this helps!!!!!!
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