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Can someone please help me, the boy I've liked for over half a year and I lost my virginity to, is now going out with one of my best friends and they are going through a rough patch, someone said to him that I was getting over him - I'm not can someone please tell me what he means? does he want me to be over him?:
Ryan: i herd your geting over me give ya a clap is it true then :)
Ryan: not talking then fine
Madi: sorry I was cleaning my room
Ryan lol
Madi: (:
Ryan: you going to anser ym question
Ryan: guess not lmao
Madi: ryan if i did or didn't why would it make a differnce to you. (:
Ryan: i dunno just someone told me lol
It would be much apprecitated. Thankyou X (link)
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hey to the comment below me, your in no position to judge someone. you dont know what might have happened. we are here to give advice not criticize, there was no need for you to answer her question then. seriously so whats wrong with you..making her feel bad and all.
anyways sorry, to answer your question, from the way he sounds i think hes just bored since hes going through a rough patch with your best friend. he knows he could use you since you liked him and he probably knows you guys have an emotional connection. if i were you just brush him off. if he honestly is interested you would be able to tell. he sounds like a real jerk to me but i dont know the full story either. dont think anything of it and please dont tell him your arent over him..guys can be jerks so he might use that against you by playing with your head. msg me if you need more help. hope everything goes okay. =)
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hi,
i am dating this guy for about a week know
and me and him are erfect for each other at least that is want EVERYONE saids
but before me and him went out we were the bestest friends ever.....
but now when i am with him a i am so happy
and i like him alot
but
then when he lives or i have to go
i get realy sad and just wish i was his best friend again, and want to break up
but then a hour later i am soo happy to be with him
and i would do anyting for him
idk but i keep getting these mix feelings
and i have know idea to make them stop
can someone plz help me or tell me want to do!?!?!?!
thanks!
softballbabe2610 (link)
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im dating my best friend too. weve been together for 9 almost 10 months now. we are SO PERFECT for each other its amazing. TRUST MEEEE i had the same exact feelings in the beginning. its soo normalll...i thought the same thing. let me tell you one peice of advice: Time is everything. just give it some time for you relationship to grow since youve only been together for a week for now. and you said your self your really happy with him. even if you feel like you wanna go back to being best friends you still have that initial attraction for him. i think your just not used to the idea of being with him yet. so like i said, give it some time. me and my boyfriend said "i love you' for the first time after 8 months...we just wanted to be sure. and i do..with all my heart. so just keep it slow. let me know how it goes okay? =)
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Ok, i know why someone would like someone [as in you find then attractive, they have a good personality, and they are kind and caring people] that part makes sense. But ive always wondered what it is exactly that creates the feeling of liking a person?
For example there could be two guys: both are sweet, friendly, and good looking [obviously everyone has a different idea of what good looks are but physical attraction is also part of liking a person] So both these guys would be cool and fun to hang out with, but maybe a person would only be attracted to one. I wonder why, what creates this attraction to only one, when the other is just as good? There has to be something about a person that you find special, maybe like something about them inspires you. I'm not sure if there is an exact science to it but if anyone might have any ideas please let me know
thanx =D (link)
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one word.
dopamine.
its a chemical hormone released from your brain. it makes you feel good. (hence..dope) but yeah you can also be attracted to a person by the pheromones ( a scent given off by humans)
there is a lot of science behind so you may want to search it, or just ask me and ill send you some links.
good luck.
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My sister is currently in grade 8 in a public school. but shes going to a catholic high school in grade 9.
she has a 79.0% average and took all of her courses in academic. So the question is: Do/Did if any of you thought/think it was hard? if you did take/took it.
And is it true that academic is all text book work? And that you dont get help from the teacher?
thanks in advance. (link)
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hiii
no i didnt think it was hard. you just have to know your strengths and weaknesses...and nooo academic work isnt only textbook work. and YES you do get help from teachers. trust me...they just scare you in middle school. just remember to tell her to do her hmwk !! she has to stay on top of that. dont worry, it may seem scary at first but its not it really isnt. feel free to msg me in my inbox if you have any more questions okay?
good luck =)
shorty
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hii i love reading, and i want to read two books that have almost the same storyline. like i read two books on abuse against women and compared them. does anyone have any ideas on two more books i can read that are simliar but not completely the same. thanks in advance =). (link)
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please only novels not musicals or anything else. just novels...thanks =)
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I am from Philippines,can you help me how to make a class prophecy? I'm really having a bad time making it and i don't know how to make it, can you help me? (link)
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ive noticed that your question has been gone unanswered for a couple days now. i was wondering if you can make it clearer by defining what you mean by "class prophecy". is it like a legacy? because if it is then you can do a harmless class prank or something. if you want to clear it up you can msg me in my inbox. =). take care. sorry for the lack of advice, but i will do my best.
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How are fruit flies created? Do they meed a girl to make another fruit fly or can they just produce them by themselves? I don't know how but fruit flies started getting into our house. We have no visable food because we left them all in the fridge and we kill like 10 a day! Just when I think it's the end another one shows up and brings 3 friends! Is there something else i haven't tried yet?
They're driving me nuts, one kept flyign around my head while I was doing homework and I'm just a grouchy person at school these days because of it. I loose my appetite when I see one too!
Thank you so much if you answer this. And i could search up the first questions on the internet but I dont't want to take the chances of seeing pictures of those nasty things. (link)
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hii okay so, ive had this same exact problem and let me tell you...i know exactly what yout going through.
But first let me tell this-
Few Facts About Fruit Flies:
- Can lay up to 500 eggs at a time
- Their entire lifecycle is complete in about a week
- While considered mainly a pest, they have the potential to contaminate food with dangerous bacteria
So yes, they breed with other flies. but as you can see they reproduce rather quickly.
Breeding Grounds: can be spotted around fresh fruits/vegtables, rotting fruits and vegetables, drains, garbage and damp organic materials
Now to get rid of them:
1. Exclusion and Sanitation:
Sanitation is the first measure of defense, even though there are various traps and sprays that are used to kill fruit flies, it is necessary to eliminate the source in order to eliminate them.
The key to controlling these fruit fly infestations is to locate and eliminate their breeding sources.
Garbage cans and dumpsters should have tight-fitting lids and be cleaned regularly.
Drainage will often aid control, getting rid of extra moisture.
Openings of buildings should be tightly screened with screen.
2. Insecticides for Fruit Fly Control: Residual and Contract
3.Trapping : 960 Vector Fruit Fly Trap
4. Aerosols for Fruit Fly Control
Good Luck !!! let me know if you need more help.
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Well, i've been bounced around from family to family ever since 2001. I am 13, and i fell like no one in this world wants me, not my mom, dad, gramma, grampa, brother, sister, or anyone else. I feel like only my friends want me. What should i do??????? Please help me. (link)
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um well i would personally advise you not to listen to the person below me about the internet boyfriend thing. thats just not safe and something i would recommend not doing. so please dont. you ARE wanted. trust me its just your perspective to look at your life that way. your 13 its such a tender age, you still have alot of learning left to do. im SURE your familys love is shown in a different way. believe me, i went through the SAME exact thing about not feeling wanted. you may think right now that your friends are everything, and its true in your world right now they are, but thats only because at 13, the beginning of the infamous teen years, your life revolves around them. in the long run your family will always be there for you. trust me. the reason for you being bounced around so much has to be much deeper then them not wanting you. always remember to be grateful for even having family. look at the world from the perspective of people in third world countries. always consider yourself lucky. count your blessings not your problems is what i always say. and trust me i know its hard but you always have someone to talk to. msg me in my inbox or talk to your friends that you say want you if anything. i hope i helped. take care okay? let me know how it goes.
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Can you use normal nair 'down there' (link)
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nooooo donttt, the chemicals will harm you... well for the cream form. if its the wax one then yes you can =)
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hey.. I got my nose pierced like 6 weeks ago and it was fine till just the other day, i started getting a little bump around the piercing hole... how can i reduce the size of the bump and make it go away?? (link)
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heyy hunn
okay well first go buy some polysporin medication (its like a gel and you can buy it off the counter) then take a q-tip and put it in the gel and apply it to the inside of your nose on and around your bump. keep doing that as often as you can like 2...3 times a day if you want. it should go away in no time. trust me happend to me, and it worked amazing
lemme know how it goes okay? =)
take care love
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I pierced my nose just 2 days ago and I even put the needle in alcohol and cleaned it real good.
Its really sore atill and with my friend nose piercing it was never like this
I'm hoping its not an infection but
Should I wait another few days its not sore anymore or take it out? (link)
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i have my nose pierced and i got that bump too. it wont take a month to go away. just use polysporin its the BEST its over the counter. just apply it with a q-tip and itll work like magic =)
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ok so its like this. i was with my boyfriend for a year and 2ish months. we were amazing together, promised to each other and the whole shebang but for seriously long and complicated reasons not to mention the fact i wanted to breathe a little and have some 'me' time AND i started to like someone else, i said we needed a break about a month ago. we basically act the same as we did when we were together, except we realize were not together and we can date around whatever if we want to, HOWEVER we do plan on getting back together in the near-ish future when things work out. so, theres this guy at work who's basically being retarded and has been trying to kiss me for the past couple of weeks. he knows my bf situation and he doesnt 'like' me or anything its just him messing with me tryin to see if im a good girl or whatever, and ill kinda go along with it but i hadnt kissed him id always pull back. my boyfriend knows he's tried to kiss me but since we werent together officially anymore he couldnt do anything about it. well tonight, this guy was messing with me again and like we were talkin and stuff and i went to leave and he leaned in and kissed me and we made out for like a whole maybe 3 seconds. i feel NOTHING towards him and vice versa it was just a whatever thing. not happenin again. i feel bad though almost like i cheated on my boyfriend even though im technically single.. if he found out he'd probably flip. no one else was there so no one will know but if by chance someone did find out id deny it but i mean i really dont have a reason to feel guilty right? would my x-bf even have a right to be mad at me? ugh i dont know any thoughts? i just dont want to feel like im going behind his back ya know. (link)
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okay hun relax =) technically you didnt do anything wrong. you just explored to see if you had any feelings and you didnt. your boyfriend and you arent together offically so you shouldnt feel guilty. the kiss meant nothing. just dont let it happen again. and also clearly you love your boyfriend or else you wouldnt worry about cheating on him. if you didnt you woudlnt feel guilty. your ex boyfriend shouldnt be mad at you because he also agreed to see other people. but from what i know if he really likes you he'll be hurt, im not gonna lie. but just dont let him find out and dont feel guilty =) but just DONT let it happen again or else you might screw yourself over. if anything else, just msg me in my inbox k? =)
take careee
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Okay. So, in the beginning of the school year, my friends and I have formed a clique. It was really fun and it was great. Until one of my friends was really annoyed at me and everybody else agreed and they all told me one on one. And now, I don't have a clique. I tried hanging out with other people, it worked at first. But I just really didn't belong or they couldn't accept me. It's not like I want to go back to my old friends. But I just wanna stop feeling so lonely. Everyday I spend my lunchbreak all ALONE. With no one. Nil. Nada. ZIP.
Please, please help me.:)
♥Blair
Thirteen/Female (link)
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okay hun, listen dont worry. everyone at some point feels lonely, me included. i know it sucks, but it makes you appreciate the people who love/loved you. try going back to your old friends and apologizing if anything. or start chilling with other people, im sure you belong somewhere. try meeting new people any chance you get. try not to be shy, and just be yourself, people will love you no matter what. whenever i felt lonely i always thought theres someone out there that thinks about me atleast once a day. =) msg me in my inbox if you wanna talk.
take care okay? =)
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Well there is this guy.
we were like best friends for a long time and i kinda fell in love with him.
i was sneaking around with him like 2 weeks ago and we always sneak around and fool around.
we had sex.
it just happened. we never hooked up after that and we just act as if nothing ever happened.
i love him and we are still good friends but im afraid that i was a bootycall or something.
before all of this happened, we talked on the phone for hours and he was saying how he had to lose his virginity before his birthday(sunday).
was i being used?
we just had sex and acted as if we never had sex.
its great that we have no awkward moments arond each other now.
so was i a bootycall? (link)
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sorryyy but if he doesnt mention it or act like you guys had sex then...
yes.
you were a bootcall =(
i know what an a-s-sholeee. =( talk to him and be upfront to let him know how you feel and that all your respect for him is gone. dont let him walk all over you. stand up for yourself woman.
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What are some good topics i can write about my school? I CANNOT THINK OF ANYTHING!! and my paper is due friday,
its for a school newspaper (link)
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-sports teams
-greatest/worst teachers
-science area of your school
-multiculturalism
-leadership stuff
-extacurricular activities that go on
-upcoming tournaments
-spirit days
-most likely to be....students
-stories by teachers
-advice column
-the latest fashion for kids your age
-the newest technology thats popular like the ipod
-coolest hairstyles
-the history behind your school
-people that might have gone to your school and what they think about how much its changed
-why your school is so special
-the architecture
im just throwing out ideas =) hope i could be of some help.
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Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much! (link)
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nahh of course its not weird. your allowed to do whatever you feel comfortable with. its only weird if you or he thinks it is. =) dont listen to anyone else, just follow whatever you feel is the right thing. Just because you wanna date a guy year younger than you doesnt make you any different than someone going out with a person a year older. its all about personal opinion and trust it, anyone who truely cares about you will understand. just follow your heart =)
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I know i know. Go look at google. I did but i cant find it. The song goes like this.
Cause im not trying to be like everybody else, oh no, im not the one, said i need me someone thats gonna treat me right, but you just aint my type.
And its a girls voice. But im sorry i have to ask on here, but i tried google, i basically typed in the whole song, and nothing came up, but i need to know what its called and who sings it, please? (link)
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Like Everybody Else- Tynisha Keli
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What are some good songs and books to help a girl cope with the ending of a very long relationship? (link)
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It Wont be Soon Before Long
Album by Maroon 5
MOSTTtt of the songs are about breakups. ITS AMAZING. BUY ITTT i guarantee itll make you feel better.
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Okay, so You know how if a scab heals over, like even with skin over the top, it's still reddish and raised? How do you make it fade faster than normal if the scab is on your shin? (link)
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polysporin for scars..
its freaking amazing.
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Can someone help me??
I need to know a name of a song...
It goes something like "I'll be there for you when you're gone. Something something your last words."
Any ideas??
They sound a bit like escape the fate or blink 182 or something.
Thanks. (link)
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when your heart stops beating- +44
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