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i kind of want my boyfriend to finger me.. we rub eachother and stuff but thats as far as it goes..what i want to know is:
1. does it hurt the first time? if not, what does it feel like?
2. stupid question, but can you get an STD from it?
3. How long does the guy usually do it for?
thanks. (link)
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it doesnt hurt at all
you cant get stds or at least i dnt think so lol im pretty sure you cant
and the guy ususlaly doesnt for manybe a minute and stops in between it matters how logn henwats o do it for
it doesnt hurt at all dont worry
but hemmite pop ure cherry and it mite bleed dnt be scared just make sure he doesnt do it reli hard
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Hi,
Well, I'm going to one of my very good guy friend's barmitzvah next weekend, and i really want to impress him, without dressing up too too much.
So what exactly are you supposed to wear to the actual synagogue part?
Also, he's having a party afterwards..
There's gonna be a DJ and stuff, so I'm not sure how formal that's supposed to be.
I was thinking of wearing a dress I'd bought for my spring fling, it's not really really formal, but it's still pretty dressy..
Would that be alright?
Also, what's everyone's opinion on flipflops with halter style dresses. (I already know i need to cover my shoulders up, soyea..) (link)
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to the temple you should wear a skir and a cute shirt cover shoulders heals maybe to the party a casual dress not too fancy but still formal
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um me and my boyfriend both want to make out.. it's both of our first time and do you have any good places where we should do it? and if u say movie theater can u put a good movie??? (link)
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hey i would say if you want at a movie go to disturbia it was alilttle funny and scary so itll be a good one
if not at a movie then if u gusy go to achoters houses
rent amovie witha blanket cuddle and that would be a reli cute scene
good luk itll be great!
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How can you tell if you are in love with someone?
Thanks!
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when your in love you know
there is no defition that anyone can tell you
it is when you feel that feeling that is incredible
i think all i can tell you is that when you are in love you will know and itll be very evident to you
it is a great feeling but be careful because your heart is very fragile
p.s no one can tell you u dont love someone is all in ure heart and YOUR feelingss
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16/f
first of all, guys may not want to read this question.
so swimsuit season is coming and i shaved my, umm, area down under. i have before i didnt get much razor burn at all but this time it is HORRIBLE! two days since i have shaved and i just noticed the ENTIRE area is red and bumpy and i have seen it before but this time is bad! it looks like a million spider bites, it hurts and itches! how do i get rid of these bumps? it looks like a freaking disease but i know it isn't i never had sex or anything.
please answer fast this is starting to scare me! (link)
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it has happened to me millions of times dont worry a bit
i was scared to itll go down in a week or so
for future you shouild use shaving cream something like skintamite that you would put on ure legs or anything that would make it alittle soft before you shave and when shaving do it really slow and trim it first. haha hope i helped!
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OK,There is this guy, and he is dating my Ex-best friend.Ever since they have been dating, he has been calling me, and i have called him.And i do lke him, and i flirt with him, but i dont do it intentionaly,because i know not to hurt other gurls involving their hearts, but he flirts back!He tells me everything i tell him and i understand him, and he always has advice for me, so i guess we are "best friends".But he knows i like him.Hes always talking about how he wants to came over, and how he want me to make him cookies(i no random)and between me and his gf there is always drama.So the other day we had been talking and i had to get off the phone.5 minutes later my friend called me and said you need to talk t him he called me and told me he was upset, but not about what.So i call him and ask if he alright, he say sure, i say r you just tired of the drama?he say yeah i guess, so we talk, and i say i g2g because i have to take a shower, and go to bed.He says please dont hang up i said why, he said i wanna tlk to you.So i say i have to go hes like whatever, and he sunded depressed,then we hung up.Then he called my friend, and she was like are you gunna be ok?He said yeah as soon as i see katlyn,(which is me)She said oh.Then the next day he went to a game with me,and somehoow his gf showed up.then i walked away from him,and went and sat alone, i cried and cried because i felt stupid for letting myself like him,last night i told his friend to tell him i couldnt talk to him anymore, or see him as long as he was wit her(i tld him not tell em that part)And that ill always care for him.And at this point im laying in my bed Crying my eyes out.Then kevin(the guy) says im stupid for being mad.So i said well if im that stupid, i guess u wont have a problem letting me go.Then i hung up, and he has called me 2 times since yestrday(when this happened)but i refuse to talk to him.And i hate myself for it, but i now its what i had to do.I dont now if you can giv me advice on this or not, but i feel better now being able to tell some one.Oh and im only 13, hes 14, but im almost 14, and he amost15.(Thought you would like to know) (link)
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hey kaitlynn
so first thingg
its so tricky to get involved with a guy who has a girlfriend and if i were you i would have done what you did. Even though you like him it can start so mmuch shit with the ex best friend. Does he like you bak? if he does i think you should talk to him
tell him you like him and that u dotn want to loose his sfiendship becuase he means a lot to you and that you dont want to pressure him or anything but you just wanted to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt and just wants to be friends ask him if its just cause hes with hi gf thats he jus wants to be friends because he might not be going for you cause hes iwth her
which makes sense. also try not to come between them maybe just be friends get a little distant and then see if after they break up you guys can get close agin and see wat happens.
if tehrs any other informationi should kno let me kno so i could try tohelp you. i hope i helped a little
xoxox
advicenatorrr
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13/f
Ok I like this guy. But he it's really complicated. one of my best friends just broke up with him (neither of them still like each other, shes actually going out with someone else now and he doesnt care but still) and one of my other best friends also likes him (she doenst know i like him). what do I do? (link)
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o wow
well firstt
this happens all teh timee
today my friend just told me she hoked up with my ex
so u know
all i can tell you
is talk to them
please
just talkto them
before ne gets mad at you
its a horrible feelign to get betrayed and hurt so you should tell both of them you like him and see how it goes
good luk!
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Im dating this guy named seth.I Really like him and i want himm to know it.Any creative ideas or outgoing ideas.Someting he wont expect, and he wont have any doubt that hes mine and im his.Well if u do please Comment.
LOVE YA ALL!!~angel (link)
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heyy
well guys love it when you surprise them
so yous hould plan somethign with his friend and say to takehim somewhere and then you shoudl show up there
maybe for his birthday
or anniversary or just a date
also wat you coudl do it be on the phone with hima nd then tellh imt og o out side for a second and be at his door
hope i helpedd
good luk!
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its my friends birthday next week. i'm a girl he's a guy. so i don't no wut guys like. i wanna get him something like.. special because he got me something really good/expensive for my bday so i kinda wanna do the same thing. it doesn't hafta be a sentimental present or w/e because he's just a friend soo.. wut should i get him? he likes bball and um.. he's a normal guy.. please help me out thank u!! (link)
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lol ahha yea ataully i do
i used this on aprl fools one year
iy workedperfectly
so in the morming i bought a can of coke and i brought vinegar to school in another bottle
i spilled out the coke and put the vinegar inside and i was pretending to dink it and my friend was playin basket ball n hes like im reli thirsty n i gave it to him n he drank like 1 HUGE gulp n he spit it out all ver
it wahsilarious lol
and he didnt get mad so watver
is this the kind of prnak ure lookin for?
let me if i heklped?
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does anyone no some remidies to relieve the pain of a period, she has pretty severe ones, she is 13 if that helps. so yea, if anyone knows some home remidies to relieve some pain and make her feel a bit better plz tell me. much apreciated (link)
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aww thats reli sweet and she'll appreicate it umm try egting some tylenol or midol and if your with her and she isnt feelings good hold her and rub her stmach so she feels better and maube get get some tea and just talk to her about things she likes!
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I weigh 129 pounds at Five Two. I would like to weigh 125, ideally 120. What is the normal weight for this height? Fifteen btw, female. Around how much should I loose? (link)
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to start off you are NOT FATT u are 15 and 1 29 pounds taht perfectly normal. If you want to loose wait try dropping down to 120 so you aremore healthy. Are you eating healthy and excersiing?
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earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends? (link)
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ok so i totally understand what ure sayign cause iw as in that position this guy asked me out last year we broke up after 2 months lol just like you and then we got bak this year and i've been with him for 10 months. The thing is dont be so caught up on hwo it will turn out in teh future becuase if you do you wont be enjoying teh time with himnow i mean i would go for it and if it doesnt end up tahtw ell then it just wasnt meant to be. IF you are afraid of loosing your friendship with him then maybe talk about it with him and see what he says. Go for it let me kno what happens and if you need anything else.
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I've always been fat...well most of my 14 years of exsistance I've been chubby but now I'm straight pointed FAT!
I'm 190 lbs now and I'm only 14! This really sucks because as much as I try to loose I end up putting on 5 lbs. And it hurts because I feel like I can't help it and I just end up giving in to the food.
My genes aren't the problem because my mom was thin before she had my brother and fairly small when she had me and my dad's really skinny and I feel like the unwanted one. I really want to lose the weight but I can't keep up with walking 5 miles a day because I'm still in school. I can do eating healthy and maybe walking for 30 mins-45mins. Please help me manage my time into a work out plan. (link)
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hey well i see no one answered this so i'm here to help. Ok so try geting at least an hour of exercise a day. Either playing sports dancing or even just walking around your neighborhood. Eat very healthy. Dont diet liek crazy thats relli bad for your body but just dont eat junk eat fruits veggies. All that. If this doesnt work tehn get hlep from your parents ask them to get you a nutritionist and tell tehm youa re relaaly determined to do this. I hope you can do it never give up!Let me know whats happening
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OK first off i've never been on a date before. Tomarrow, I will be going on my first date and I'm extreamly nervous. I have no idea what to do. We're going to a movie and than out to eat. I hate eating in front of people, so I'm horrified. Please tell me what you do on these types of dates. For example, during the movie do you just sit there and watch it? Or what? I'm so confused, and nervous it's crazy. So please help! Also, what are some things I can do to be less nervous? I need to know before later Sunday night! PLEASE HELP!
♥ Lisa (link)
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OK so first off I'm assuming you like him cause you are reli nervous lol..Don't be Just be yourself in the movie if the arm thing is up leave it tehre if he pulls in to hold you let him and lean your head on his shoulder but if you feel uncomfortable don't hesitate to back off a littlee. IF he goes in to kiss you kiss back if that's what you feel. Don't liek make yourself do anythign you don't want to. Also, just watch the movie i know it's ahrd to do but just don't be nervous hoepfully it'll turn out great let me know what happens. O yah and also when your eating just get soemthing that's not messy lol, liek eat slow and nice and talk a lot. Well dont talk him away but tell him about yourself and get a good conversation.!
Let me know how it goes
Good luck
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hey, thanks for reading.
so i'm working at a summer camp this year and i became really great friends with this kid, josh. we started talking online and last night i hung out with him , his sister and her boyfriend, and his sisters best friend. ( i know his sister and her best friend really well .) so we went out to eat and hung out for a little and then saw a movie. we sat next to eachother , and we were both kind of leaning towards eachother on the arm rest, but we werent touching or anything. today he called me and we were talking about the movie , and he goes, so my sister was pretty convinced we were on a date last night, do you know anything about that? and i just kind of laughed and said i didnt think it was either. i am really beginning to like him, he's two years older but it seems like we click really well.
what do you think? i'd really appreciate opinions, good or bad.
thanks:) (link)
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hey.. well sometimes it could be really hard to read guys but if you really want to know if he likes you more than just a friend ask questions that will maybe imply if he likes you or not. Like do u guys talk about other girls like so are their any girls on your mind? If yes tehn you might feel liek he's ,more intersted in thema nd is coming to you as a friend. But i liekd this guy n it turned out he liked me but i wasn't sure and now i'm with someone else. I mean don't let something that could be a start of something great just go to waste so i think it's great that you like him and don't hold abck be yourself and if you start seeing that he lieks you go for it!Hope i helped. Need anything else don't hesitate to ask!
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There is this really nice guy who likes me and wants to go to the movies with me (he thinks I like him because I used to), but I don't really like him in that way, so how do I tell him I don't want to go to the movies and that I just want to be firends???
Thanks!! (link)
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ok so ive been in this situation wht u need to do is talk to him straight forward and say that you arent looking for aserious relationship right now. Thats a perfect thing to say because you arent being rude or mean but you are also getting you point across.
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im a 14/m and in march i went out with this girl and we didnt realy see each other that much because we both had alot going on and then we decided just to break up until summer but i dont know what a was thinking and was realy mean and said alot of stuff i didnt mean and this made her hate me and i realy regret it and that is the only thing i have ever regreted in my life but anyway lately i have seen her around and it has made me feel even worse and want to be with her even more but i just wanted some advice on how i can let her know how i feel and how sorry i am and that i still like her alot and would like another chance
p.s. i know its to probly to late to start over with her but i wanna givve it a chance (link)
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hey well for starters it si snevr to late to try again you did mess up but who doesn't. I 'm a girl and one thing i know about girls is taht they liek when guys come out and tell them how they feel. So tell her one day hang out in person and just take her aside and say im sorry for everything i've really realized howmuch i need you and how much you mean to me. I kno i really messed up but i want to start over. and all that just say what you feel. Let me know what happens!
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I don't know what exactly is wrong with me.
I've gotten 'There is no point in anything' stuck in my head. It gives me a sick feeling.
I can't trust many people nor do I believe what they say. I can't even really believe that my boyfriend cares for me.
And then I felt really bad one day because I felt like I would stop caring for him... like he said he wouldn't to me. But I know I don't think I would but I'm still too afraid of getting too attached to anyone as well.
I think my last relationship really affected me. But I'm pretty sure I'm over it.
But I feel depressed. And I know it's not the every day mood kind of term.
Since at times, I have no idea why I feel like shit.
What could I do about this? (link)
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i kno excatly how you feel my friends and family never udnerstand but im really sensitive i dont show it what so ever and i cry a lot for no reason and every little hing is getting to me.It's hard just think of all the good things you have those certain poeple that really make your life and care about you. Apreciate that
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ok i like this guy but i dont know if he likes me.my friends do this stupid game were the people rate what they think of the guy/girl.well jay put that im hot,nice,funny,and then said that he dosent think i like him.my friend molli is best friends with him and his cousin jonathan.she said that she went through a list of girls and he said i was cute and then said i dont know in a sad way.my friends keep telling me that the only way to know if he likes me is if i ask him out but im to chicken.i have to know if he likes me first before i can make a move.he also likes another girl and is very open about it.but if he likes me why is he not as open???HELP!!!13/f (link)
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hey! well its seems that he likes you. But i think he is that kind of guy that likes many people and some gusy don't show it as much as others. When they don't show it or tell you it makes you confused i 100 percent understand. You be the one to approach him be friendly and see how he respeonds let me know how it goes!
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OKay well...see me and my friend lianne used to be BEST FRIENDS but then we got in this fight but we made up and after that she has never talked to me i mean like we say HI and everything but she never talks to me i am always the one who has to talk to her and now shes got this new best friend who she keeps hanging out with and i told her how i was feeling but she still didnt do anything about it what should i do????? (link)
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Hey well i've totally been in that situation if u already tried talking to her and it sounds like you are being the bigger person so i mean there's nothing you can really do about it.I mean it sux wen u hav a friendship with someone and it goes to waste but there is a reason that they didn't end up in your future. Keep being nice to her and she will see how you are always there for her if she doesn't come back move on you can find better friends. Was there a big fight? Hope i helped!
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