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I Think i like my friends bf
OK,There is this guy, and he is dating my Ex-best friend.Ever since they have been dating, he has been calling me, and i have called him.And i do lke him, and i flirt with him, but i dont do it intentionaly,because i know not to hurt other gurls involving their hearts, but he flirts back!He tells me everything i tell him and i understand him, and he always has advice for me, so i guess we are "best friends".But he knows i like him.Hes always talking about how he wants to came over, and how he want me to make him cookies(i no random)and between me and his gf there is always drama.So the other day we had been talking and i had to get off the phone.5 minutes later my friend called me and said you need to talk t him he called me and told me he was upset, but not about what.So i call him and ask if he alright, he say sure, i say r you just tired of the drama?he say yeah i guess, so we talk, and i say i g2g because i have to take a shower, and go to bed.He says please dont hang up i said why, he said i wanna tlk to you.So i say i have to go hes like whatever, and he sunded depressed,then we hung up.Then he called my friend, and she was like are you gunna be ok?He said yeah as soon as i see katlyn,(which is me)She said oh.Then the next day he went to a game with me,and somehoow his gf showed up.then i walked away from him,and went and sat alone, i cried and cried because i felt stupid for letting myself like him,last night i told his friend to tell him i couldnt talk to him anymore, or see him as long as he was wit her(i tld him not tell em that part)And that ill always care for him.And at this point im laying in my bed Crying my eyes out.Then kevin(the guy) says im stupid for being mad.So i said well if im that stupid, i guess u wont have a problem letting me go.Then i hung up, and he has called me 2 times since yestrday(when this happened)but i refuse to talk to him.And i hate myself for it, but i now its what i had to do.I dont now if you can giv me advice on this or not, but i feel better now being able to tell some one.Oh and im only 13, hes 14, but im almost 14, and he amost15.(Thought you would like to know)
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hey kaitlynn
so first thingg
its so tricky to get involved with a guy who has a girlfriend and if i were you i would have done what you did. Even though you like him it can start so mmuch shit with the ex best friend. Does he like you bak? if he does i think you should talk to him
tell him you like him and that u dotn want to loose his sfiendship becuase he means a lot to you and that you dont want to pressure him or anything but you just wanted to tell him how you feel. if he doesnt and just wants to be friends ask him if its just cause hes with hi gf thats he jus wants to be friends because he might not be going for you cause hes iwth her
which makes sense. also try not to come between them maybe just be friends get a little distant and then see if after they break up you guys can get close agin and see wat happens.
if tehrs any other informationi should kno let me kno so i could try tohelp you. i hope i helped a little
xoxox
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This is very long and drawn out.
all i can say is if he likes you and you like him then you should tell him he need to make a choice and stop leading this other girl on if he doesnt like her anymore.
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