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why does he want to finger me and can you get an STD from fingering?
i kind of want my boyfriend to finger me.. we rub eachother and stuff but thats as far as it goes..what i want to know is:
1. does it hurt the first time? if not, what does it feel like?
2. stupid question, but can you get an STD from it?
3. How long does the guy usually do it for?
thanks.
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1.it should not hurt unless he does it too hard or uses too many fingers, but you could just tell him to slow down or something like that if he gets too rough
2.you cant get an STD unless he jacks off or something like(if he has an STD) that before he fingers you
3.he will probably do it as long as you want, if he starts to stop and you dont want him to, just tell him to keep going.
guys always want to please you,,just do something for him in return later ;)
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If it hurts tell him to "STOP" immediately. Why? because he's doing it wrong or is being too rough. You shouldn't feel any discomfort or at the very worst bleeding from this. If you do it's all his fault as he doesn't know what he's doing.
This is where you come in. You have to communicate with a guy before and during fingering about where you want to be touched, not to be rough etc. If you do that it will not hurt and will be pleasurable for you. Essentially, fingering is the guy doing the same things you would if you were masturbating on your own.
Must guys your age have never done this before or seen what the female body looks like. That's why they go in as if they were attacking that area of your body during fingering etc and are super rough. Talk to him before, during, after.
You cannot get an STD from this. It's exactly like masturbation and safe. As far as how long to do it for you're in control there and can tell him when to stop and that you've had enough.
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1. It can, but it's possible that it won't be too uncomfortable. It won't be horrible pain or anything, but there could be discomfort. Maybe try it on your own first just to see.
2. Not unless he touches his genitals or semen before touching your vagina.
3. Most likely until you orgasm. If you don't...I guess until he THINKS you've had an orgasm.
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it doesnt hurt at all
you cant get stds or at least i dnt think so lol im pretty sure you cant
and the guy ususlaly doesnt for manybe a minute and stops in between it matters how logn henwats o do it for
it doesnt hurt at all dont worry
but hemmite pop ure cherry and it mite bleed dnt be scared just make sure he doesnt do it reli hard
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