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Member Since: August 14, 2006
Answers: 67
Last Update: October 19, 2006
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well me and my boyfriend had sex and he had cumed,but he had a condom on and the condom broke when he was stil cuming but he pulled it out. the condom was a kind that killed the girls sperm cells. i imitadtley took a shower and a few days later i got my period. can i still be pregant? (link)
some girls still have their period up to three months after they become pregnant but chance are you aren't. if you start feeling sick you might want to take a test but i definitely wouldn't stress about it. [:


I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her? (link)
give him a chance. if he tries to pressure you into having sex then dump him. he's not worth it. stand your ground & don't give in. you'll be fine. [:


everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.

I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed? (link)
everyone masturbates. it's not a secret so don't worry about keeping it from your mom. she knows you're doing it. [:


I am 13 years old. I dont have acne except for once in a while a couple zits. You can see my pores on my nose...they arent huge but i think you can notice them I found some products i could use but im not about to spend 20 dollars on a little bottle. So if you have any at home treatments or cheaper products I could use that would be great! thanks! (link)
wash your face with witch hazel. it's a natural astringant & it's really cheap. [:


Sorry I didn't know what catagory. Well I was wondering if there was any way you can do your make up or do anything to make your nose appear smaller. I don't use foundation though. Please if anyone has any suggestions!!!THANKS!!! (link)
line your eyes or use a more intense color shadow. it'll draw the attention away from your nose. [:


My hair is really really frizzy It would be pretty straight if you minus all the frizz but magazines always have ideas for diffrent kinds of hair but not frizzy hair. Have any ideas on how i can style it without using an iron. or websites where i could get ideas. that would be great! thanks! (link)
frizz-ease styling mousse is excellent. also try buying an anti-frizz shampoo/conditioner or some kind of serum. i like garnier fructise. [:


Okay, I'm scared to tell my mom... I think I might be bisexual.I'm afraid to tell anyone but my one close friend. So what should I do because I know it's a sin. Help!?!?!? (link)
almost everyone thinks they're bisexual at one point or another. chance are you're not. girls are attracted to girls but that doesn't actually mean they're bi. could you honestly picture yourself having sex with another girl?


Sorry if this is the wrong category.

My eyelashes are extremely flat even after i use a eyelash curler. I have to use it like 6 times before i put the mascara on. And within 2 minutes they are flat again. I tried apllying mascara then curling them but then wont stay curled. Is there a certain surler or something i can use that will keep them curled longer?

thank you (link)
heat your curler up with a hair dryer. [:


i started 2 bleed a very light like light pink and not enough to even cover a corner of a tampon and it lasted about three days and i had my period about 12 days ago why is this happening
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sometimes girls "spot" in between periods which means they bleed lightly. it's no big deal. [:


okay.. im going out with this guy.
he lived in ohio and i live in colorado.
i have never met him
we met on myspace
im 13 and hes 14..
how long do you think we will last?
honestly? (link)
it's never going to be a real relationship. you're probably not going to meet each other or anything but it's okay have this boy around to talk to. maybe you should make it a friends only kind of thing. i think it'd be better that way. [:


i sweat a lot. like A LOT. even when im not hot i sweat. but i mostly sweat on my under arms a lot! how can i prevent this?

please help! (link)
botox...but that's a little outrageous. um...mitchum deodorant helps with sweat a lot but you'll have to wear another deodorant too because it doesn't protect against odor. i wear sure & it's great too. [:


im going school shopping tomorrow. i get like $100-200. but my style is like delias but they are pretty expensive so i dont want to waste half my money on one outfit. what are some stores that have those kind of clothes but are cheap? thankss. (link)
forever 21. rave (i think it's called lola now). target. 579. [:


hi im 16/f & i have mild ocd. i wouldn't say its too extreme. i have to count things, touch things a certain number of times, do rituals, fix things, etc. i'm not sure what to do exactly. my parents offered taking me to a doctor but i don't think they'd understand. i'm really not that bad, but idk i have to do certain rituals, the same every day. i feel anxious of i don't do them or worried that something will go wrong. does anyone have OCD or know anything about the doctors?? i just want extra information & what they did or just good suggestions/ideas.

thanks!! (link)
i've been diagnosed with depression, anxiety disorder, & three different types of ocd. i'm a mess. lol. anyway...i went to a psychiatrist & got counseled for three days. he did such things as described below with the desk. on the third day he prescribed me medicine for anxiety/ocd. it helps tremedously. if you're really bothered by your ocd i recommend going to a psychiatrist. they can really help a lot. [:


if you get your ear peirced at the top which one means youre gay and which one means youre straight? (link)
it doesn't matter. no one keeps up with that anymore. pierce whichever side looks best. [:


I recently got a photo contract with playboy magazine. they wanted me to be nude... with nothing on... and nothing covering me. i acceptedd... because i need the money. i told them i was 20. but i have a secret. i am only 13 =). i have DD boobs... and quite a large downstairs. do you think i will get in trouble with like the law if they find out im 13. helpp=[

the photoshoot is in 4 days. on monday (link)
what? you're rating everyone 1's because they're NOT telling you what you want to hear? that totally depleats the point of this site. i think you're lying about getting a contract with playboy. if someone actually has offered you a photoshoot they're probably not really from playboy. they're probably some rapist trying to get you alone. i just thought i'd be blunt about the whole situation. [:


ok i am really really pale. and no matter what i do i dont get tan i burn and get more freckles. i have the darkest freckles you will ever see and theyre EVERYWHERE!! on my legs, arms, face, etc. any advice on how to get more color? i dont want to use the summer glow crap cuz ive heard it makes you look orange. please help im like the palest person at my school!! (link)
you could get airbrushed tans but they can be pricey. you said you don't like self-tanners but i use jergen's & it's pretty much amazing. it's never made me look orange. [:


does anyone know where to get inflatable backpacks that look like http://www.inflateus.com/images/dsi_backpack_blue.gif thanks so much!! (link)
there's not much to choose from but you can try this site. http://www.jumperballpit.com/inflatable_backpacks.html ebay's got everything. you might want to check there too. [:


I really need to know about high school. i am soooooo scared about it. in the movies, they make high school seem like hell. i know it won't be like the movies but i think it will be bad. i go to high school in one year for the first time. is it bad? or am i making it seem this bad? thanks! (link)
high school is 1029384756 better than middle school. don't worry about being a freshman either. you won't get picked on unless you're totally obnoxious. [:


Hi, I'm fourteen/female and weigh around 180/190 pnds, what are some good clothes stores where I can find things that are stylish, but are my size? Thanks everyone [: (link)
there are a lot cute clothes for bigger girls at old navy. i have a friend that buys all her clothes there & she always looks so good. [:


Hi,

I recently bought some clothes from the Hollister at my mall. I am a 17 year old boy and think the clothes are nice.

When I got home and showed my 13 year old brother the clothes I got (a polo and a sweatshirt) he started screaming at me and said that only posers and gays were Hollister.

I know quite a few people don't like Hollister and quite a few people do.

I am wondering what people think of boys who wear Hollister? (link)
boys in hollister are hot. don't listen to your brother. [:




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