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So recently i've been upset over a guy who basically just wanted to use me for sex and we had a good friendship for a while and it died out and i wrote him a long letter telling how i felt and he didn't even respond and we basically stopped talking.I met someone new the other night on new years and we got a long good and we've been talking and he's been texting me and he is for sure interested in me.I'm slightly interested as well and he is getting my mind off of the other guy.For some reason,whenever a guy i just met shows interest in me,i always get a weird feeling.It's like a feeling that I get every time a guy gives me attention and likes me and it makes me like them less.I guess I like a hard to get guy.But I know myself and that if i were to stop talking to him,I'd like him again and he would probably end up getting over me and i'd be the one getting hurt. Don't get me wrong,I DO like him a little bit but I hate this feeling I get .Maybe it's just because he's a new guy and im still getting to know him. But i don't know what to do! help! (link)
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honey beleive me i understand did your parents not have a good relationship im the same way i always get that feeling and always push pple away i havent completely learned to deal with it yet but im getting there for example i write poems to myself bout how i feel i talk to friends ect. your i think maybe going to talk to someone would deff help you help or it could be because you have a low self esteem if you need more help on this issue than id be happy to help good luck
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1) Is DDR (on Heavy Mode) a good workout? Or am I better off just running?
2) What's a good exercise for my thighs? My thighs are HUGe and i hate them. (link)
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yes DDR is a great workout but also go for a walk witch also is a great workout for your thighs and butt and deff do SQUATS there help slim down your thighs super quick try SHAPE.com and you should find some good free workouts there just browse hope i helped
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So, I am a sophomore in high school and I want to make out with this guy who is a senior. (He is friends with my sister who is also a senior and he is best friends with my sisters boyfriend, I have talked to him at 2 parties and kind of flirted). How do I get him to make the move on me without me seeming desperate? (link)
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be foward dont be desprate be a lady remeber hes older so flirt and be uber confident and talk to him every chance you get throw little hints to him all the while keeping your cool come on gurl let him know whats up get your game up show him that your mature and know how to handle yourself and dont shy away from what you want all the while be classy and your self if you need any play by play advice just hit me up hope i helped good luck
P.S. go get your man lol
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I went on my first date with a guy a few days ago; we saw Sherlock Holmes. We made out a few times during the movie :). So this guy and I have become close because he's been (suspended) from college for the first semester, but he'll be going back in about a month (I'm in high school).
Now, he wants a second date, one at his house. I'm not sure what to expect, and I'm kind of nervous about if I went. For example, he'd prob try to have sex with me. I'm fine with doing so, because I am no virgin, but it kinda makes me nervous, like the idea of us alone at this house. I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be thinking about this, but say I did go to his house for the date... What do I expect?? And how do I act, and how do I approach the whole us hooking up situation? I neeedd helpp. Thank you loves :) (link)
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ok heres the deal he invited you over to have sex with you now if you want to have sex and just let it be a hook up than you already know what to do butt if you dont just want a hook up than dont do it go somewhere else hes moving pretty fast and to ask 4 a 2date to be at his house sweetie come on read between the lines hes in COLLEGE not high school i think you should be carefull i know you like him and all but the question is DOES he like you. sometimes its best to make him wait and feel it out be carefull and maybe your nervous for a reason girl good luck with whatever you choose the ball is in your court you want a hookup than go if you want 2 see what he wants say no theres no rush
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Hello this is my problem I have two teen boys and me and my wife are still in to love makeing but she don't like to make love because the boys are all ways around and she thinks they will hear us.I ask her all the time do you want to go to a motel she says on.Should i just go around her back and get a room at the motel and tell her i got a room i don't no what should i do? (link)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmm there maybe more to that than you think maybe she doesn't want to have sex anymore or something else is bother her BUT eighter way you need an answer HELL YEA get the motel room and surprise if she still says no than you know its not about the boys and if she enjoys it who knows you could add a little spice to your relationship hope i helped
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we would be togeather all the time it would drive my dad crazy we would wacth moves till 2.00 am we would fall asleep in the same bed holding hands he would tell me every thing but then he started going out with my bestfriend one day when we were all togeather he told me he loved me and when him and my other friend broke up i would be his next girlfriend then we started to kiss over and over but he was drunk when he told me this they broke up but me and him never happend we dont even talk any more i just dont know what to do (link)
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he probably feels stupid that he said it he could a eighter didn't feel it but said it or hes afraid of what it meant my advice is to suck up your pride and find out wtf even if he doesn't want a relationship is he willing to throw away a friendship especially one that special
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okay, [18f] ive never had sex and ive been dating the same guy for almost 2 years, hes not been rushing me about anything. but i really want to have sex with him. i have no idea what to do or anything. i read alot of questions on here that says something about the girl being on top or botton or whatever, i dont get it. who goes on top? and what do all the guys want to do when you have sex? i need tips and answers please. please dont tell me that im not ready because i think i am and i really want to so if your gonna say that then please dont answer my question(: (link)
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shit gurl let me tell you when i first did it i would let him take control the first time and honestly hun just go with flow you got this and hell help you out as well if you want 2 try sumthing do it make sure you wear protection and hes gentil the 1st time hope i helped go get him good luck
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I'm not the prettiest thing this earth has ever seen but I know i'm not the ugliest.
i just feel so down about myself.
I don't feel pretty anymore.
It makes me so depressed, and i really don't know where to go with any of it anymore,
please help.
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honey your going through what every body goes throu including me but than i think you kno what i dnt even care i do me its whatever if you dn't like what you see than dnt look and hey use what you got thats what makes you unique go get them
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I really like this guy and i already gave him head for my first time 2 days ago, but he said i skinned it a little with my teeth. But next time im just gonna tuck my lips over my teeth. But anyways whats some good tips for blowjobs. Ones that will get him going. Like what do you do with your man? Thankyou. (link)
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ok some guys like teeth and some guys dont so you could gently touch and i like to play with the tip swirl my tounge around it gently squeeze the balls and use your hands to masterbate him at the same time tease him make him want it
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Hey, i'll give you a link to my advice collumn which has my pic on it.
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Lonely_girl
usually i don't care, but i've been having boy problems lately and i want to know if im having such problems because i'm not pretty. Please don't be mean, im not fishing for compliments, please honestly tell me what you think of me. (link)
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honestly its really hard to tell the way your posing and na yu look cute i think ha ha ha dont sweat it hun hope i helped
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im a fairly good writer, actualy i am quite good at it.
i took a writing class last year and i produced some of my best work their, however, i was not the most delight to teach. i did talk to my fellow classmates, and i did hand in some things late HOWEVER i overal felt i did nice in the class.
i asked the teacher today for a recemmendation and she replied EVILY. She told me i did not improve in her class (to which i replied i got an A- on the final paper... how is that nor imprroving?!?) she just kept trying to pick at minor things i did wrong and it really got to me;so much that i cried. no thats an understatement, i SOBBED. it really hurt to have a teacher who you thought appriciated your work to reject you and in such a harsh way! i mustered up the courage to ask her, when i knew things were a tad rocky with her, the least should could say was a simple no! instead she really hurt my feelings and left a big big scar on me. she really made me question myself and it just really overall hurt.
i spoke to my advisor and she told me shell help me find a different teacher (although i told her NONE like me)
but what are your feelings on what occureD?
(my mother is FURIOUS.)
was she right? wrong?
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gurl pls shes your proffessor she should of handled herself dont ever doubt your written you obviously earned that A so whats the big deal i know she hurt you but what ever wave high to the haters! lol but dont it make you think twice before acting up or rather talking in class ha ha ha ha
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So, I'm a 13 year old, African-American, scene female. My hair is kind of short. I have the kind of hair that is too short to do something, but too long to do something else ha ha. I attached a pic of me. Any hairstyles you think would look good on me? and I know I am ugly so don't say anything ha ha!
http://i38.tinypic.com/2bears.jpg
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you are far from ugly gurl plz but short hair looks good on you maybe put some highlights to bring out your hair and face. you could do different styles with clips or ribbions whatever if you have style hun whats the problem do you. this probley didnt help i just wanted you to know that work with your style because it looks good on you
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Okay so im flirting with this guy and i have a strict rule on smoking/tobacco and all that. Well he does dip sometimes and i think thats the grossest out of all of them. I dont want to have a long relationship with this guy i kind of just want to go out with him for a week or two so other guys notice me. You all know how once you cant have them you want them more. Well that happened a couple years ago and i want guys to notice me more. Im not ugly though. Im 15; Cheer captain; Skinny; Long blonde hair and Blue eyes. Im not gonna makeout with this guy cuz that just grosses me out knowing i could have some kind of tobacco disease from him. Anyways do you think this is wrong; should go out with him at all? (link)
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honestly if he really likes you than yes you could flirt without dating and how would you feel if someone did to you what your thinking bout doing to him remeber honey what cums around goes around. and im sure they already notice you but do you act like you notice them relax there still young and so are you hope i helped
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This guy and I had been pretty close best friends for 3 years. He was leaving out of state and it was hard to say goodbye. We said our goodbyes, and then a week later i find out that he hadn't left!!! I was thinkin, what he fu**? Are you kidding me? So he had been hiding the fact that he hadn't left. I felt so used. I felt like wow, you tricked me into thinking that you liked me and having me tell you how much i liked you by saying you are leaving? that is some fkd up sht....when i confronted him about the situation, the boy was freaking out. He felt very bad about it....to the point where he was about to cry. He said that he had been planning to surprise me for my birthday, but the thing is he didn't say a word to me on my birthday!!!He forgot about it!!!! He said he had called me but my phone was off, true, there was a time when it was off...but i'm sure thats not the reason why he called...he had called to find out if my best friend's friend was still having her party with me. The thing that makes me not believe a word he says is because He felt so bad about it. I feel like he had been lying to me about so many things, and when i caught him, he felt bad. He didn't want me to see his real side so thats why he kept apologizing and trying to cover up for the shit he did. What do you guys think? am i on the right path? (link)
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hell yea i think your on the right path just like a guy and i wouldnt believe him especially because he said he "forgot on your birthday pls any way gurl i know you feel used and down but dont let him have control on that you are your own person hope i helped good luck
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Okay so last night i was pretty drunk and me and this kid were fooling around and i dont know if he actually went in me, but it was down there but for less than like two minutes, but he didnt have a condem on. Im on birthcontrol but i dont take it everyday at the same time and sometimes i miss a day or two. My question is would i feel if he came in me? I gave him head after because i didnt want him to go in me and i didnt feel anything wet on him indicating that he did. I know that sounds wicked stupid but im just paranoid. And is there a possibility I could be pregnant? (link)
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he could remember u were fucked up it is possibly but you gave him head and didn't feel anything wet so i wouldn't really worry bout it to much and remember just relax because stress can mess your cycle up just try to relax and wait and see thats really all you can do but honestly idnt think your pregnant just be more careful next time hope i helped good luck
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I am a 13 female in Florida and i have been in 2 plays and have taken 1 acting class. I practice all the time; day and night. "I am a great actress", says everyone who has seen me act and myself. I just have ONE SIMPLE QUESTION.
WHERE DO I GET MY START AND HOW? I know this question has A MILLION answers instead of 1 but i have just gotten so many answers i'm confused. Everyone says "oh well it DEPENDS." Have i mentioned how much i HATE that word! =)
I would like to do movies by the way. So if you could help that would be FANTASTIC!
luv you! (link)
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sweet you cant expect to be a over night sensation. than act hun act act act do what you love to do ok some people may tell you to go headfirst and just go for your dream and do so but remember don't cut skool out eighther you need a back up and acting is never guaranteed you have millions of people wanting to do the same thing stay focoused and in the summer or spring break look to see whats up if you have to start small so do so . you know you got to start somewhere and your still young i hope every thing works out for you and i hope ihelped good luck hun
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My best friend is a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school. We used to call each other every night and talk for an hour, but now its an occasional text and we have run out of things to talk about, and we are definitely not as close as we used to be. How can I try to fix this and make it work? (both girls) (link)
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tell her how you feel say i thought our friendship was stronger than this but both parties has to be willing to committ this happend to me and my friend so i talked to her and we decided to call at least 4x a week if not everyday and we put at least 2 days aside so we can chill like old times and than we started connecting and now were just as good as before lol you know see what happens dont invade to much just see what she wants to do boo i hope everything works out for you goodluck
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What if i get Brown "blood" and it comes 1 day and leaves the next, over and over for the past week!!!! what does that mean? :} (link)
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it could mean a few things one your getting your period or its just old blood thats it our vaginas is the cleanest parts of our body. i wouldnt worry bout it i get it all the time and im fine hun hope i helped
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Okay...Me And My Boyfriend Had A Conversation And We Both Agreed That We Think We Love Eachother Enough To Have Sex. Ive Completely Thought About The Consequences And Researched How To Prevent Them. So I'm Book Smart On This But I Just Need A Few Tips..If That Makes Any Sense. I Mean I've Never Had Sex Before, But I Know How To ((You Know, The "Speech"..Just A Graphic Version Haha)) What Should I Do? Tips On This Stuff Will Also Help
How To Arouse Him Fully
How To Become Fully Aroused
How To Relax Before
SHould I Be PLayfull Or Serious?
Anything Will Help. Thanxx :] (link)
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honestly honey its probley not going to go the way you plan it so i say dont play anything just go with the flow go with how the mood feels and take it from there your know what to do to keep him arousrd touch him play explore hell show you love him the way he loves you good luck hope i helped oh and be playfull and serious and be open and stay relaxed take deep breaths remeber you want this
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i'm not one of those wild girls in bed you would say, i get kind of shy when someone talks dirty to me but i wish i wasnt like that! i think it would be more exciting if i were more affectionate while having sex or doing anything sexual. like while having sex, moaning or talking dirty to the guy. i feel like i would sound dumb and the guy would be like .. woooah? but i know thats not how guy usually are, right? ive heard guys love it when you moan and do things like that. what are some things that are less "out there" to do while having sex? i can deal with the moaning thing, i just wont go overboard with it but i was wondering what else i could do that would be sexy!? (link)
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bite his shoulders and whispher in his ear say "I want you" or just whisper his name stratch down his back let him know your enjoying it and remeber when yu feel comfertable nothing will stop you hope i helped
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